My boyfriend has a hard time coming when we have sex

My boyfriend has a hard time coming when we have sex
When we have sex it seems all fine, he's so damn good he makes me orgasm 4 times in a row. He also says he loves seeing my cum face, and seems quite amused. On the other hand I can't understand if he's liking it, as he lasts A LOT (makes me really tired) and most of the times he has to get off by hand
I had previous partners and never encountered this "problem". I asked him if I'm doing something wrong but he says it's fine.
I honestly don't know what to think.

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sounds like death grip syndrome. his dick isnt as sensitive because of the intensity he would masturbate when he was younger. I would bring it up as an honest issue(he is probably frustrated about it to).

the solution is for him to take a little break from sex and masturbation for a while. just ask him to abstain for 1 to 3 weeks. he'll be extra sensitive once he's done and then he is all yours.

Is he taking medications? That happened to me for a while with some meds
Also when I drank booze, since we were always with a beer or drinking wine with my ex it made things difficult, not in getting it up, but actually getting off
Or there was one time, perhaps the first time that we ever made love I had “performance anxiety” she was older see, so I was worried I wasn’t at her level or what she was used to

Anyways it could be many things

Just talk to him and see what’s up, don’t worry, IT happens, just as you should tell him if you weren’t satisfied

I have a similar issue, boyfriend can't finish when his dick is in my mouth despite showing clear signs of enjoyment. Don't take it personally, just talk to him about it. Communication makes everything better.

I'm like this, I was never quite aware of how bad it was until my ex grabbed my dick, twisted and squeezed. The look of incredulity she gave while she asked, "doesn't that hurt?"
>no
Look up 'delayed ejaculation' if you want some more reading, in the mean time, try not to beat yourself up about it. I wouldn't describe my masturbation as 'death-grip' like - but it could still be a contributing factor.
I wouldn't say I'm "cured" by any means, but I do have some sessions with my gf in which I'm able to orgasm quickly, and other times we fuck for over an hour.
Just give it time, trying to get him to masturbate less probably can't hurt in the meantime.

I was like this until my gf got birth control. Let him fuck without a condom and he'll cum diamonds.

I have what he has.
It's literally just desensitization from too much pornography/masturbation.

If he's anything like me, he enjoys the act of closeness and pleasure he gives more than longing for his own orgasm.
I'm personally over orgasms having had 2-3 a day for 2 decades.

I had a similar issue with my current wife when we first got together. The sex was good for both of us, but well you know. In the end I simply had to adjust my technique to focus on my own pleasure when I wanted to orgasm. If your boyfriend is having this issue then just try out different things. Maybe he's focusing to much on your pleasure, or perhaps it's more of mental block. Either way talking things out and adjusting from there is the way to go.

Worst idea in the history of ideas, maybe ever.

Google "ejaculatory incompetence" - a horrible label for what is actually a fairly common problem.

>I had previous partners

fucking roasties i swear

make him take viagra

>I asked him if I'm doing something wrong but he says it's fine.
That's because it's fine.
He's so focused on you that he forgets to enjoy it himself. Don't worry about it. It will get easier for him with time. If you keep pressing him for it you'll just make it worse.

Actually, if you want to help, let him know that you are pleased with his smallest efforts. Next time, when you orgasm the first time, tell him that you can't take any more orgasms for the moment and that he should just do whatever feels nice for him and cum whenever he wants to. Let him know that he can use you however he wants. That should make it easier for him. You might have to do it several times before he believes you, but he will start coming faster.

How much of a cuck are you that you’re too afraid to fuck a girl you’re exclusively dating even when she’s on bc? I would legit kill myself, not even kidding.

Its very rare OP for a man to have all the sex cards and women have no counter. You'll have to accept you have no power over him or leave for a guy that leaves you sexually unfulfilled but in control of him.

A few things:

> he's focusing too much on your pleasure and not thinking of his own desires and journey to get off
> he needs to use visualization and internal self talk to "coach" himself into cumming
> condoms might be getting in the way

Tell him this stuff, it should help. Common in many men.

Also if you guys do it with lights off, try lights on. And if lights on, try lights off.

this 10/10

he's probably cut and is missing over 60% of the nerve endings in his dick, additionally there could be some psychological aspect to your sex that puts him off.

no i married my sex god, its better this way

Yep this. I actually have the same issue. I usually focus completely on my gf. When we first started having sex I wouldn't usually cum. But then she told me she wanted me to feel as good as I make her. So now I'll fuck her til she tells me she's completely satisfied, usually after 4 -6 orgasms, and that it's my turn to use her to make myself feel good. It really works for both of us

It’s uncommon, but normal.

My ex had this issue, even after blowing him for like 10 minutes after sex he couldn't cum. Said it was a psychological reason, like he was afraid of pregnancy or something like that and said he always had this issue

However, slowly over time it changed until it got to the point he was barely withdrawing on time and had to barely touch himself to cum. Still don't understand it fully

I'm just saying what happened with me, maybe with your boyfriend it's too much porn, gripping dick too hard, medication, some other reason in his mind... whatever the case it most probably has nothing to do with what you do during sex or how you look or his feelings towards you so don't worry about that part