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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>[insert humble (or otherwise) brag]
Fuck off.

>Why is there no new thread?
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Girls, as a general rule, am I allowed to date my (slightly older) sister's friend?

I know I need to ask my sister specifically but before I open that door I just want to get a feel for what the answer might be.

Personally I wouldn't have any issue with it, but I would if my lil bro was being a creep behind my back about it, make sense? So yes, as you suspect, ask your sister about it if you're uncertain about the situation.

My friend's little brothers are practically family to me at this point. I guess it depends on how close you are to the family.

I will ask her sooner rather than later.

She and my sister have been friends most of their lives, and we're only ~18 months apart in age, so I knew her when we were all kids. During my teens and early 20s I don't think I saw her at all until I saw her at my sister's birthday party last year where we connected really well, and then again at the start of this year I saw her at a couple of social events and we got into regular contact.

Effectively there was just a 10 odd year stretch where we had no contact and the way she treated me wasn't like a little brother.

Guys:
1. Why do you prefer oral sex over penis-in-vagina sex?
2. Why are so many of you "impressed" by girls swallowing your cum, rather than spitting it out?

I’m finding myself into a girl that’s unlike any other girl I’ve ever been into.

We met at a music club at my college, so we have similar taste in music for one. When I first met her I pretty much dodged her because she was like so out of my comfort zone, and spoke to people in the group who seemed more “normal”. She wears quirky thrifted clothing, and has tattoos all up her arm. She is out there for sure.

I realized a bit ago that she is beautiful. And so funny and interesting. I just feel like I have no chance with her. I’m so white bread. Like I’m probably not even the type of guy she’s into.

I wouldn’t say she’s unique, but unique among girls I’ve crushed on.

1. That's wrong
2. It's dirty and degrading

Girls what goes through your head when a very attractive guy tries hit on you, but proceeds to dump spaghetti all over you? What goes through your head when you're the one hitting on him and he spaghettis everywhere?

1. Feels better. Roughly speaking the vagina was meant to expand to accommodate the average penis, so strictly in terms of sensation it's not like this super orgasmic experience or anything. Oral on the other hand can offer a lot more sensation between tongue action and suction and the roof of your mouth and the back of your throat.

2. Because girls act like it's not part of the experience. They spit or won't let you finish in their mouth at all and emotionally it's like a huge anti-climax. It's an orgasm with a hard let-down. If she swallows the experience is just much better in a primal-brain kind of way.

Unless I'm into goofballs or awkward guys then you pretty much stop being "attractive" as soon as your pasta hits the floor.

Girls who go conspicuously out of their way to be counter-culture are often damaged goods who like to date stable guys because it tempers them a little bit.

How disappointed would you be if you went out of your way to approach a guy and ended up getting covered in noodles?

I've always found it cute and sort of flattering. It only becomes a problem and a turn off if he doesn't get his shit together within a reasonable period of time.

Girl here and I agree with both.

>like girl
>rejects me
>years later
>she lives with her bf on the other side of the country
>we still talk and meet up a few times a year
>I'm 10x more attracted to her, to the point where I think I might actually be in love

Do I try again? Odds are against me

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1. I don't, oral kinda sucks.
2. I'm not, but if a girl let's me cum in her mouth (a rarity, it's nearly impossible for me to cum from oral) then she better not spit it out on me.

There's a woman at work who often teases me in a slightly friendly way in front of others but seems frigid when me meet alone or pass each other in the hallway. I work in a small office- less than 15 people -and it seems strange to me that I get along very well with everyone else except her. The fact that she changes her behavior depending if someone is around bothers me. What can I chalk this behavior up to? Is this someone I can trust at work?
I should clarify that I am a man and have no romantic interest in this woman, I'd just like to know if someone who acts that way can be trusted.

If your superior hired her, you should trust her to do her job.

No.

what would girls think if they found out their bf was really into bbc interracial porn?

Whenever I'm making out/fooling around with my girlfriend my dick is rock hard, but as soon as I put on the condom or when I decide to go down on her or finger her I get "distracted" from the moment, only for my boner to either not return, or take a long ass time to do so, which creates a vicious cycle of my dick not getting hard because I feel pressured that it has to get hard. Does anyone have any tips for this?

Cock ring ez

what is this? please don't make me look it up. but since it is porn I would think if it is different from what she can offer you and it is a degenerate kind of fetish, like basically illegal or bordering on a fetish that doesn't fit with her she will be turned off. If she's into it she'll probably try to share it.

Generally I know guys watch porn. I've watched some softcore stuff myself. The issue I have is with hardcore stuff because I don't want to feel like a fetish or an object like porn portray. So it is really up to the individual.

Only the most disgusting vile white cuck boys and crazy retarded nig like Kanye watch this crap, no girls like it

She would unfriend you hopefully

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>1. Why do you prefer oral sex over penis-in-vagina sex?

That's a personal thing, not a widespread preference. Reasons why, is probably similar to why you would or would not prefer oral yourself. It potentially provides a different kind of situational that can be more varied in intensity, and also allows someone to be in a different position both mentally and physically


>2. Why are so many of you "impressed" by girls swallowing your cum, rather than spitting it out?

Somewhat reason to why "cream pies" are a thing. It evokes some kind of psychologically primal feedback to see a visual manifestation of how badly the other person wants to take it all in, or how badly they want your sex.

I realized tonight that advice, real advice on adv is truly rare. Not talking about this thread in particular but all of them. It's mostly people arguing with the OP or bring skeptics, telling them or man up or they're stupid for getting into this situation.

On diy you ask how to do something you get a pdf with blueprints. Imagine if diy was like adv.
>why do you admit to build a Fucking shed?
>OP is an idiot he doesn't need a shed just use your garage space effectively
>Thinking you'll get a shed approved by the HOA
>OP maybe if you weren't such a fucking packrat you wouldn't need a shed

1. Same question
2. Why do you dislike it when I stop all contact, pull away and act grossed out as you are about to peak instead of keep going?

>girl rejects me
>years pass
>she has a boyfriend and lives with him
>doesn't give me any indication she's into me
>should I try again?
Do it, so she cuts you off and you can move on.

I have extremely low self esteem and self doubt and therefore never have the bravery to talk to any boys I find interesting. Am I wasting my time liking a boy while never having the confidence to speak to him outside of Instagram? Is it possible to have a relationship online with someone you know in person? Is confidence in women really that important to men? I know, really, it's about me being less self-conscious and being brave enough to not care about rejection, but it almost seems impossible for me.

To girls.

why does my gf keep trying to fish out sexually history stuff out of me? Is this normal behavior? is she trying to suss something out of me cos she heard a rumor? cos I'm getting paranoid that she may have heard that I lost my virginity to my best friend and that we were kind of used to hook up a lot whenever we were both single at the same time. which also making me wonder where she could have heard this from because was far as I know we both never told anyone. it was just something we did.

anyways, am I supposed to tell my gf or is she supposed to know these things because I really don't want to lie to her. at the same time I don't want to ruin the relationship between her and my best friend as they are pretty close too. right now whenever she asks, I just do my narcolepsy gag whenever she asks me and keep doing loud snores until she changes the subject.

>I don't want to ruin the relationship between her and my best friend
You are one stupid guy to want to keep both your girls and manipulate your gf into being friends.

If you gf doesn't know she suspects strongly and wants you to admit it and if you don't watch it your girl "friend" will slip one day if it hasn't happened already.

Let me put it this way. This happened to me once. Something always seemed a little off but what infuriated me is he thought me a fool and wanted her in his life bad enough to LIE to me to get his way.

You OP are a real son of a bitch

>Is confidence in women really that important to men?
Some might have a preference for confident grils, but a large majority wont care.
I personally like both confident and shy girls.

The modus operandi of modern dating is the guy correctly reading a girls interest in him and having the confidence to then make a move, with mistakes being increasingly costly and guys being more and more confused and scared.
So you don't have to do the task that requires most confidence, you have to git gud at sending concise and inviting, yet subtle enough (to not look like a slut) signals of romantic interest to a guy you like, have a little patience and hope he gets the hint.

If you were the guy you'd be right fucked.

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Ok so I just realized that even in sex, men have to do pretty much all the work.
>have to not cum to early
>have to stay hard and make women orgasm
>men do most of the thrusting
>men have to control where they cum

All women have to do is lay there and get fucked and get multiple orgasms, with no refectory period, oh and never mind that women have way stronger and intense orgasms.

It’s just so tiresome.

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Clearly you just been with the starfish girls... girls get down and physical too, sorry you haven’t experienced that.

Hell, if my older brother asked me for advice or help regarding dating of my few friends, I'd be happy to help. Mostly because he is still a virgin at the age of 28 due to a purity complex, and my friends are thirsty as hell for some guys who aren't disgusting manwhores.

You know what fuck all of you. Just be confident fuck you.

You know, confidence has to be based on something, right?
If I have literally every reason to fail, why should I be confident about succeeding? It's like betting on a racehorse with the lowest odds of winning, the only thing you should be confident about is losing your money.

All your greentext is correct, but the other side of the coin is that it is a LOT more common for women to not have orgasms at all during sex. The clitoris swells inwardly like a penis with arousal and this is what makes penetration feel good when putting a tampon up there doesn't give any pleasure. Most young men simply don't have the patience to stick with foreplay for long enough for her to be fully aroused, which is the equivalent of trying to shove a semi-hard dick in. It might get the job done but it won't feel great.

There's more factors of course, either way, having an orgasm during sex is not a given at all for a woman. It is also a lot more common for women to experience pain during or after sex, and some do have a refractory period.

Having said all this I applaud not putting up with a woman who just lays there while you make sex happen to her.

My older brother tried or had sex with all my friends and now they aren't my friends anymore. They somehow blame me for him being an asshole who exploited their friendship with me and easy access. Some people have no boundaries. I no longer will have any contact with my brother. Even on holidays at my parents home, I won't go if he's to be there.

>have to stay hard and make women orgasm
>All women have to do is lay there and get fucked and get multiple orgasms, with no refectory period, oh and never mind that women have way stronger and intense orgasms.
I can only imagine what it feels like, to have such an easy time getting an orgasm, that you literally have to try not to.

Here I am, barely able to cum from masturbation, and guys fucking suck at making me cum, to the point where if I cant get them to go down on me, there is no way it will actually happen.

You can sleep with whatever, and pretty much be guaranteed an orgasm, unless you have an actual physical disability, or a severe mental block.

Different reasons, she might have heard a humor or fears that you are hiding something. She might also just want to develop her own opinion on it, it's not as uncommon for women to be put off by certain sexual pasts as men often think, she might want to make sure this doesn't apply. But it is also possible that she finds it hot to discuss.

I don't know how long you've been together but if you've been together for a substantial amount of time realize that she'll probably feel very betrayed to know you were hanging out with a woman you have a sexual history with all the time and you spent time with the three of you her being the only one unaware. The other side of the coin is that if you hide it (which will mean lying, of course) and it does come out at some point your relationship is almost certainly over.

Also realize that most women would prefer to date a man who isn't close with the woman who introduced sex to him. Whatever you decide now and whether or not you'll stay with your girlfriend, if you ever date again this issue will come up again. What do YOU see as the best long term solution? To be honest I think the onus was on you to tell her before you got serious because this would be a dealbreaker for so many people.

Practice masturbating with a condom on, and experiment with different brands until you've found the one that gives you most sensation.

I am only okay with it, because I know they are looking for basically the same thing. If he was the kind of guy my friends hated, I would tell him to go fuck himself instead. As it is, they are both looking for these "pure" ideals of finding "the one" to have sex with after marriage only.

>girls can't get boners
wtf how do they know when they're aroused?
t. robot from Jow Forums

Why do some girls make really loud over-dramatic moaning sounds during sex? It's obnoxious tbqh.

We dont. We guess, and it's often wrong.

Or maybe I'm just not in tune with my sexuality.

Because we've seen porn, and thinks guys want that.
>t. Girl who thought acting like an anime girl would be pure gold for guys.
Protip: it's not.

Ladies,
You're at a pool party and suddenly realize a bloke has a raging erection. What is your reaction ?
Assuming the guy doesn't look particularly aroused, isn't being a creep and acts casual, doesn't flaunt his tent but also doesn't try to hide it in embarassment, and the erection subsides rather quickly

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Maybe get with hotter guys?

Or more likely, ones whomst am more patient.

How do you know when you're angry, or happy? You're just do. It comes from numerous signs like feeling warm/flushed, your breathing quickening, blood pooling in your crotch which makes you hyperaware of that bodypart, your thoughts going to sexual places... on rare occasions you can also physically feel that you're wet.

Porn giving the idea that this is what's normal/this is what men expect.

Well... for some it is.
Communication is key, it’s not that difficult

Reaction; ok.
If it’s a kiddie pool; find the nearest alpha male to end his life.

I'd feel a little flustered and arrange myself so that he was not in my line of sight to not do the whole dance with where to keep your eyes. Other than that I wouldn't think much of it, it happens.

take your meds, psycho cunt

When I was younger my friends and I would laugh at the guy but now I just ignore and look the the other way.

Now I have seen guys prance around expecting to get attention but when that happens I tell management because there are kids around.

>because of porn
Yet I still can't find a girl that does anal. Fuck this gay planet

Communication is key but speaking honestly about what you desire sexually and what you are feeling unsure of or insecure about is quite difficult for many (especially young) people.

>friends with these 3 guys
>pretty much childhood friends, always been around, and we've helped each other a lot throughout the years, even if we had periods of silence for various reasons
>they all married relatively early, adding their wives to my friend list (nice girls, honestly, and never had a problem with me being around, and I am just included in their girl nights as if it's the most natural thing in the world to do)
>slowly start trying to date now at the age of 26
>literally all guys bail due to my 3 male friends
Really? Is this seriously that much of a dealbreaker? Why?

It is 3 married guys, we have never had any sexual relationship, and I 100% guarantee you I would either have left them, or married to one of them, if I wanted even one of them to fuck me. How stupid do you have to be, to think I would have the slightest bit of interest in them, if I hadn't acted long before they got married? Just... wow.

I've just straight up added in my dating profile that I have myself 6 friends, 3 guys and their wives, (and that I'm a virgin, I suppose that might also affect the amount of responses I get) and that sure seems to have drastically reduced the amount of responses I get. It just seems so weird. Why are guys so insecure these days?

Honestly I do think there's more women willing to go there than if the exposure didn't exist. Especially because porn makes anal look a lot easier and less messy than is the reality.

But even in porn anal is treated as a mildly kinky thing, I think the most damning about the moaning is that it isn't presented as extra or over the top, it's just presented as what a woman does when she's getting fucked. Plus you can ask your friends if they ever did anal, you're not going to ask your friends how hard they moan as easily, and if you do the answers will be less clear cut.

I mostly don't feel anything anymore but I get the point I guess. Still sounds a bit weird to me tho because we men tend to be a lot less subtle.

Good lord no, I meant a private pool party among young adults (20-25), not a public pool with kids.
Found myself in this situation a few days ago and tried being as natural as possible. Didn't get any remarks but was worried I might be perceived as a perv.
You sort of reassured me, thanks.

>hotter guys?
I've started aiming lower, actually. The hot guys are easily the worst, because they are so delusional that they think a girl will explode into a series of orgasms by the mere sight of their dick.

Even spoke to a friend who had been sleeping with this popular "hunk", mostly because they were dance partners, but she outright admitted that she had to fake her orgasms because he was so terrible at it.

The hot guys are shit at sex. The better looking they are, the more like it is they are either severely overestimating their prowess, doesn't care, or are overcompensating hard.

Really? Anal has become pretty standard, girls learn to get into it early because of porn. Are you from an older generation?

Because it hurts, and can lead to a lot of complications, and doesn't give the same kick when he comes inside you.

seems completely outlandish to me that people would care about that ...
it seems to me like you've been talking to egotistic retards that can't stand the idea of not being the only male in your life

Well the throbbing feeling is still there. Obviously I don't know what it feels like to have a boner but I think the difference in experience is less stark than you imagine, it's mostly less external/visual.

It's definitely something you have to be in touch with though, I was really late with discovering masturbation/sexual pleasure (almost eighteen) and before I realized what that felt like I did not recognize my arousal for what it was. I was aware that it felt "good" if a guy I was fond of touched my leg or something but it was good in a general, vague way, and at the time I attributed it to affection/cuddles feeling good.

Now that I am in touch with the feeling it is hard to even imagine that it used to be like this, but it was. They say when you buy a red car suddenly you see red cars all around you because you pay more attention. It was like that. A feeling you have no name for, that you cannot describe, is as fleeting as a scent. With this experience it does not surprise me that especially in older generations women could go decades without knowing how to orgasm.

On the flip side, girls who have experimented since childhood absolutely exist, it's hard for me to say how common my development was but it's definitely not how it is for women, period. And some guys are late bloomers to, my first boyfriend only masturbated for the first time at fourteen, he'd even had a girlfriend before then.

For girls:

Why am I not attractive enough for dating sites? This is me, I’m 26 in nyc. I even pay for these apps. I’ve never had a date and since I moved I really don’t hve a social life. It’s hard to make new friends as an adult...

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>hot guys are shit at sex
and the ugly ones don't get to show their skills ...

Because they believe those 3 guys are competition.

Not sure why. Girl myself, so I have no way to understand that line of logic. I'd be the same as your friends wives. You are that pathetic girl who stuck around and got completely and utterly friendzoned, and I gave the guy attention for 5 minutes and instantly had him in my hands. Legit 0 reasons to ever be afraid of you.

To a guy, those 3 friend should be the same. Those beta orbiters that finally grew balls to go elsewhere, and now she latched on to you instead. You are the Alpha Male fucking the girl those 3 betas couldn't get with, even with a lifetime to land it. And you did it in a few dates.

Guys are so fucking weird sometimes. And then they claim women are illogical and emotional...

>You are that pathetic girl who stuck around and got completely and utterly friendzoned, and I gave the guy attention for 5 minutes and instantly had him in my hands.
Wut ? You're crazy, girl

>pool party with bikini clad girls
>getting an erection
It was embarrassing and giggle worthy when I was 13.

Adults dont make a big deal over this. It's kinda expected to happen for some.

I broke up with my ex. We had pretty bad arguments, were she would get irrational and say things without thinking. I broke up with her in a harsh manner, i almost called her names and told her that the last time we had sex it was only sex (i was really angry and wanted to hurt her).
I still love the girl, but can't take her behaviour any longer
After a few weeks about our break up, she sent me a text where she explained why she acted the way she did. She told me that she had hard times trusting me, that i never told her how i actually felt about her and so on, how she saw something more in me but she couldnt act upont it.
Wtf should I say? How should i take this?

Why? It's true, and you know it.

If you had wanted them, you failed to get them. If you never wanted them in the first place, you still aren't getting them. Either way, you are clearly not their piece of toast, so why would I care about your presence?

It should be the same for the guys.

Move on. She is confused, don't add to the mix by indulging her confusion. Own up to your actions and make a clean break, otherwise it's going to stretch for months and it'll make both your lives hell.

First, I'm not the woman you're talking to.
Second, how fucked in the head are you to consider that the only possible relationship between men and women is sexual and that regular friendship is somehow a failure?

Seems to be the vast majority of most people on dating apps, unless virginity is such a huge turnoff to guys that it would also impact their desire to text me.

It just certainly seems like this insecurity is very common these days. Like, even if I hide my friends, guys realize I work with men as well, right...? It's not like someone would ever be the one and only guy in my life.

>I'd be the same as your friends wives. You are that pathetic girl who stuck around and got completely and utterly friendzoned, and I gave the guy attention for 5 minutes and instantly had him in my hands. Legit 0 reasons to ever be afraid of you.
...ouch. I mean, I have never wanted to date them, but... that hurt more than it should have... probably because I'm now imagining them thinking exactly that.

Fuck you.

(You're right though, I am not competition for them, though I never wanted to be, either.)

Girls

Why is it such a huge deal if someone is a Virgin? Anytime a Virgin is discovered it’s like this huge event. I saw on the TV this morning some guy was being interviewed and he told a story where he had his first kiss at 24 and the woman who was the host was all shocked and said “wow you are really a late bloomer!! You need to get busy!”

Can I not be ignored please?

>Second, how fucked in the head are you to consider that the only possible relationship between men and women is sexual and that regular friendship is somehow a failure?
Oh no, not at all. Dont misunderstand me here, I said I would be like her friends wives, and befriend her. After all, she is a good friend to my hypothetical husband, so why not include her? A big social circle is great, and she would be an opportunity to broaden it. I'd be happy for her friendship, and equally happy about being part of it.

But regarding her as competition? Nah. If she *was* competition, she would have been an insane failure, and not worth my worries.

I'm not so insecure that I am afraid of friends of a guy I am interested in. If that girl was a threat, she wouldn't be a friend to him.

Not a girl, but dude I hate to say it but you’re fucked if you’re trying to use apps.

Why? All my friends and my sisters female friends use these apps. Why am I fucked? What’s so fucked up about my looks??

Because it is a big deal to be a virgin at that age. People act the same with a girl who is a virgin at that age. It's becoming less rare than previously, but it is still rare for someone around 25+ to be a virgin.

You just have to realize it isnt all bad being a virgin. There are definitely plenty of girls looking for a relationship with a guy who hasn't been busy catching STDs and illegitimate children for the past 10 years.

Sure, you won't get with Stacey, but you have plenty of chances with the less experienced girls, who actually want a relationship, and not a fuckbuddy.

This is not something I recognize from my own life at all. I don't recall any shock or even gossip about a male virgin. That's not to say it doesn't exist but I do think the extent to which it's a movie/comedy trope is exaggerated compared to real life.

Having said that, a lot of people have a hard time imagining life having gone differently than it did. If you lost your virginity at fourteen and all your friends were seventeen at most, there can be this disbelief about how it didn't "just happen" at some point. This applies all the more to not very (emotionally) intelligent women who don't really realize that men don't stumble upon sex as often as women do, they think you were sixteen and doused in hormones with other sixteen year olds doused in hormones, how hard can it be? Even envisioning how you can spend your puberty with very very limited social interaction without being a complete sperg is challenging to many.

Before anyone wishes to make fun of this, think of how hard it is for many conservative guys on here to picture a girl who's been sexually active with different guys for a decade but is not a vapid slut focused on attention and sex. Many people don't have especially great empathy and it takes actually getting to know a person who lived a life like that for their image to become more nuanced and lifelike.

I’m a virgin and I’m 26. I’m gravely insecure about it. And I ask for advice here a fucking lot and women won’t reply. Can you please take a look at my post and say something?

>Can I not be ignored please?
You are being ignored, because pretty much every girl here has already given you feedback several times. You keep spamming your mugshot, and your advice hasn't changed.

You look fine. Either lower the standard of girls you go out with, or mingle with people and get out of your shell. Your issue is guaranteed your personality, not your appearance. That is only a problem with girls who aren't looking for a relationship, and just want a short fling.

I would still like a short fling for experiences. All of my friends get that from time to time. The girls I know irl do that too. What is preventing me from getting something just to lose my virginity, or a relationship idc. At the end of the day I want a girl who mutually finds me attractive physically as I find her. My standards aren’t insane.... they just aren’t low.

most guys are bombarded with porn and contradictory ideas of masculinity that are all toxic, whether virilist or the opposite
and since they're never taught to express these feelings, they end up fucked in the head and looking for outlandish things in a girl, without even realising that their ideal partner is impossible at best, and a living hell to deal with at worst
doesn't help that guys on dating apps are likely to have difficulty dating irl (sometimes because they have these weird standards, and sometimes the lack of contact and the use of those apps crates the same weird standards)
also, you have no idea how many "straights" are actually gay and don't love women, but the idea of women that's being sold to them (doesn't just apply to closet cases, though)
and fuck the hag calling you an orbiter, prime example of someone that's been so brainwashed by gender propaganda they can't fathom a man and a woman being friends
wish you the best of luck, though
and don't start hiding your male friends, disclosing it is actually a pretty good cunt filter

average men are fucked on those apps. Especially since you’re in NYC. You look like an average dude

I've responded to you twice before, and I'll give you the quick tl:dr, because you ignored my advice the last 2 times:
>7/10, kinda have that Keanu Reeves look
>you look sad and depressed, which is a turnoff. Nobody wants to deal with a strangers obvious issues.
>you are likely just in general a very depressing person to be around. Smile more, be happy. Confidence isnt everything, just dont look like life is miserable, even if it is.

And just for the record, and for everybody else here, since most of us probably come here for same mental reasons:
I am not a happy person. I'm an orphan with no parents, and no friends. I have no reasons to be happy, but a little smile goes MILES towards being a much more approachable and likeable person.

>You just have to realize it isnt all bad being a virgin. There are definitely plenty of girls looking for a relationship with a guy who hasn't been busy catching STDs and illegitimate children for the past 10 years.
I feel like this is false. I’ve had girls who I started dating ghost me because they found out. I’m also 28 and “less experienced” girls don’t exist

I wonder, is the Brandonposting legit ? Is it really the same autist for all those years, or just trolling ?

What you gotta do is find a perverted MILF that's into deflowering and initiating virgins
You wouldn't believe how many of them have a fetish for it

Other user but one of my friends is still a virgin, I am not if you count oral sex but have not done penetration and have been with two men, we are both turning twenty six in the spring. And this is just myself and some person I happen to know. Less experienced women are rarer than men but they are also often not open about it. Most people around me don't know and if you met me you'd never think I wasn't quite experienced.

Maybe it’s actually really me and I’m not autistic at all but fucking extremely frustrated that no women will like me enough to give me the chance to talk to them..

But she’s probably a whore, and I don’t want to lose it to a whore or slut
I don’t understand

>less experienced” girls don’t exist
They dont have to be less experienced. Just equally inexperienced or somewhere close.

There are plenty of girls who has had 1 or 2 partners at most at that age.

>There are plenty of girls who has had 1 or 2 partners at most at that age.
I have a hard time believing this. I have a female friend who is 25 and she told me the average girl has 7-9 partners by this age.

Your female friend, like anyone else, only has her own life experience and the people she's known to base this info on. Just because she's a woman doesn't mean she has access to the private details of hundreds of women.

>retarded incel
Forget prior advice, kill yourself, you waste of good carbon

Yeah but the average female ain't a real thing. You have to pick one. One that might be miles off from average. Its luck of the draw man, that's all life is.