Why does it seem like all of the attractive, well built(not really buff...

Why does it seem like all of the attractive, well built(not really buff, but not scrawny/fat either) men are either not interested in dating or relationships? This cute brown boy who is about my my height has the most attractive face I've ever seen on a a male in real life. He literally looks like a Bollywood actor. But every time I try to show interest in him it just seems like he's brushing me off. Is he gay? Or does he not understand how flirting works? It's hard to believe that he wouldn't have gotten female attention growing up, so maybe he is gay? He is a very eloquent but soft spoken person, which I love!

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Maybe he just doesn't like you.

But I am attractive and have nice curves?

That or he has a gf already.
Or autism.

Probably only dates midget stick women.
Not everyone likes curves.

He definitely doesn't have a girlfriend. It doesn't even seem like he's made actual friends with any of the guys in his class(Technical College). I never see him with anyone.

It's not the golden ticket to get love from every guy. Maybe you have an unpleasant personality, you're not his type, or you're not as pretty as you think you are.
Or even,as another user said, he has a girlfriend.

Ok this is pathetic, I am not really a girl stop replying to me so quickly. I thought I could do it but I can't.

I don't spend much time with people in my class, but have friends outside of school and have a boyfriend. You don't know shit.

Ignore him, not me.

He told he has had one male best friend since the 7th Grade(He is 18) but he goes to a community college for Biology.

It's because you like anime

I thought guys liked Anime?

Naa most don't

>nice curves?

Are those curves where they should be, or in a "healthy at any weight" kinda curves?

I know Indians get shit because of internet creep Indians, but the ones I've worked with don't play games.
A woman tried baiting them (for example, saying "Aw, I had no one to give me a valentine this year") and they will ignore that shit, or even straight up say "I don't care" and walk away.

You gotta think, some of these guys might be real traditional types, arranged marriage no giving in to temptation types. Loyal to the wife their parents picked out.

I mean, that's not all of them, but where I work, alot of them are like that. Could just be he was raised in a tradional household. From the sounds of it

> He is a very eloquent but soft spoken person

this suggest to me that he is.

It's not like I talk about anime, I just ask him how is day is going and if he learned anything interesting (he's doing Electrician course). He doesn't seem to ask much from me though :(

I am black so we are blessed with nice bodies if we take care of them. Pic related is something I posted on Instagram

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My friend's like this. It's most likely because he's shy when it comes to flirting, and probably takes relationships more seriously.
But hell do I know, haven't met the guy.

He is Trinidadian, not Indian. He only has had his mom the last 10-11 years.

This problem, like the case with male incels who are having trouble wondering why the hot girls won't give them the time of day, is usually rooted in somebody who is selling what pittance they have waaaaaaaay higher than it needs to be sold.

I honestly haven't seen him talk to any other girl than me. My friends in my class keep telling me he just isn't interested, but I don't want to give up on him. I genuinely wonder why he is the way he is. Above all, I really just want to plant my bundas on his face for 10 minutes (I know, I need to be ladylike)

Okay, he's super gay.

Loving how quick you were to post pics (didn't even need to ask). Can't blame you though, if everyone was that hot they'd all be showing off too.

I mean, he could just be real shy, it happens. I'm the same, the hotter the girl the quieter I get. Except on here but that's because no chance of us every bumping into each other so I can say whatever the fuck I want,

I just think he is shy to the bone when it comes to girls. :( Which is weird considering how attractive/masculine he looks(broad shoulders, shadowy facial hair, and a nice jawline) Also he has really big forearms and calves which are my absolute favorite muscles on men! He just seems like the perfect partner to me.

I will never understand people who think their opinions of themselves and other peoples' lives are this relevant.

There's a fair shot you're just not his type after all because you sound a bit self-obsessed, unwilling to take 'no' for an answer and unable to rationalize why people might not be grateful for your mere presence.

I love how there's this undercurrent of "I'm hot" in this thread but you still don't have the spine to ask a dude out for a coffee. Are you 16?

Well, the key to getting shy guys is persistence and time.

It takes them a while to even begin to process the idea that a hottie with a bottie might be interested in them.

Gotta let them mull it over, give it time to sink in, because the moment you quit giving him attention that nagging doubt in his head will be all like "See, knew she weren't interested in you bro she's moved on".

I am 20 he is 18. I am only talking like this because I want to emphasize that I am attractive by most men's standards. It's not like I emphasize that to him though. I just ask him normal conversational topics :( He reciprocates genuine interest sometimes and that's why I think he's just shy.

You're fucked. Welcome aboard. Listen to blues.

He's probably shy. Most dudes find their real balls about 25. Also thots are everywhere so any dude worth a shit avoids most girls like the plague now.

The pill made y'all whorey cock monsters.

>20
>still can't figure out how to say, "Hey, wanna grab coffee?"
Come on. If you want it, make it obvious. Stop this pussyfooting and let the guy know you want him, one-on-one, without any of the other pretense that keeps you around each other. You get his answer and you'll get yours.

I've had girls talk me out of other girls before because there's no 'apparent' chemistry. Girls will vulture that shit if you are content to sit here and shitpost on Jow Forums instead of just letting this guy know you're interested.
If the thought rejection clams you up then he's not all that great if he can put you that far on edge without even doing anything.
>but that makes no sense!
Yeah, neither does being horribly anxious around someone you apparently intend to spend extended time with but hey, I'm not a judge, I'm just a fucking Leaf. Behind every shitpost, motherfucker.

Get out and ask him for coffee you fucking cube.

He doesn't drink coffee. I asked if he wanted to grab breakfast from Dunkin Donuts but he said he was Intermittent Fasting, which would explain why his face seems sahrper every week

Height, weight, bra size?

5'5
110lbs
C-Cup

>he was fasting
Suggest something that doesn't involve consumption of food.

Lord help me you people couldn't pour water out of a boot with instructions on the heel.

Yeah, but when he first told me that I thought it was an excuse to not have to say no to me directly. Then I actually started noticing his face getting leaner, and realized he was just being genuine.

Because he probably never had female attention growing up. He might have been a late bloomer, like I was. You have to grow your personality in order to fit your physical attractiveness (if you never had any)

How is your ass 3/5 of your back

How late does the term "late bloomer" apple?

Asking because I'm 27.

I'm a good looking guy that has trouble with woman. You need to let you're feelings known. Maybe he doesn't know you like him.

Angle of the picture, here is a better one.

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Well damn. You do know that people who are traditional prefer to date within their own race. You could be j-lo and that guy would rather marry a farmers girl from india

Maybe he has an arranged marriage that went good.

>Why does it seem like all of the attractive, well built(not really buff, but not scrawny/fat either) men are either not interested in dating or relationships?

Because we're the peak of the sexual market. We can have a wide variety of partners and sexual experiences, well into our 40's. It doesnt make sense to settle down when we're still young and there's ripe puss about.

He's probably just not looking for a relationship.

I already said he's not Indian. I just don't know what other kind of famous acor genre to compare him to.

Kek roastie getting toasty

He's not Indian. He grew up in America

They are interested in relationships/dating, just not with you specifically. Stop assuming all males are attracted to you.

If only that was actually a woman, dumb incel.

This thread is obviously bait, stop pretending it isn't.

t. Incel
>no wymyns on da interwebs XD

I'm 6'3 and have been told I'm good looking, here's some perspective:

low self esteem: I always think any woman flirting with me or looking at me is doing it as part of some cruel joke to humiliate me. That means I'm pretty cold and closed off to everybody, but even more so to attractive women.

No experience with girls: My parents were not social people, I went to an all-boys catholic school and then into electrical engineering, where there are 3 girls and over 40 men, also most are very introverted with not much socialising

Bullying: Tying back to the first point, men/boys who are eloquent/soft spoken are likely to be bullied in hyper masculine environments, meaning they can either compensate by becoming cold and aggressive or else just shut down and become quiet and meek.

Everything isn't always as it seems. You never really know what is going on with someone.

>can't tell real women from men clearly trolling

Get a clue mate

The probabilites are:
1- He is not onto you.
2- His past relationships went downhill and he doesnt want it to repeat, he just wants the good parts, wich usually are before both consider it a serious thing, or in the beginning, and he knows it will be downhill if it goes official.
3- He is an incel, even if a good looking one.

Doesn't matter how attractive you are, simply you just could not be his type. Beautiful people have a lot of options so he's not going to be desperate for female attention. Sounds hurtful but true. Maybe he's already interested in someone else? another possibility

I've dated an incredibly beautiful man and it can be quite a challenge, even though I myself am considered attractive.

A career is more gratifying.

Sometimes relationships are more of hassle than they are worth, especially in a not so good place. It becomes quite difficult to not be apathetic. Giving him his space will save a lot of heartache in the long run.

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Women never fail to amaze me with how dumb they are.
At least you're attractive because holy shit, you've got a wide array of vacancies upstairs.

>He literally looks like a Bollywood actor

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You need to.stop sucking your own dick holy shit. Maybe you're ugly to him. Just because someone doesnt find you attractive doesnt mean they're gay retard.