GIOYC / Get It Off Your Chest

Let's hear it.

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I actually enjoy life.

I just don’t know what to do

Like I really want to get with this girl I just started texting but I’m scared of the idea of asking her out.

Like in the past I’ve had flops with girls when I texted them 2 times but 2 successes when I did it 3 times or more but i dunno, starting to doubt myself because the last girl I tried to go out rejected me but I got to that perfect 3 I guess my mind likes.

I’m stuck at a tug of war of wanting to ask her to do something a bit early, because I know a lot of people say it’s best to do something soon and wanting to wait it out, have patience and let it grow so I have a better chance

I’m sick of this terrifying shit I just want Someone cute to date

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That's right, we've got to communicate.


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yesterday my boyfriend told me that he’s embarrassed by how i look and now my insecurities are back and i think this time even worse and i really dont know what to do

Your reasoning is bullshit and absurd. Stop paying them.

probably should just break up but i can’t imagine my life without him, breaks my heart to even think about it. he knows what he did was very wrong but you can’t take back what you said huh

There is no accommodating a miserable life. 5 years left to make it count.

Real talk.

Maybe you don't look great. Only you know the context and how he said it to you. Sometimes we delude ourselves into thinking we look better (or worse) than we do. On the other hand, men sometimes think they are required to have women who look like models and porn stars.

But the truth is if he really loves you, he shouldn't be embarrassed. He might prefer you to love yourself more, take care of yourself more, and still love you. You should be doing that anyway.

Bottom line is that if you are taking care of your body (and I don't mean being super fit, just normal care), he should have no reason to be embarrassed. Unique faces are awesome. There's someone out there for every body type. Take care of your hygiene and happiness and if he still has an issue, leave him.

good song.

I don't wanna have to explain my life story every time something goes wrong. It's really none of your business, I had a good reason to miss the meeting. We're still completely fine.

i dont have problems with hygiene, he says i dress good, body good too. the problem is the face i was born with. i look so bad in pictures. we don’t have any good pics together although we’ve been dating for 6 months and that’s because i’m just ugly. someone even said on the street once “how is he together with her”

DUMP HIM NOW. I hope you don't live together.

I consider that abusive. Leave. Abort. Live with your parents. Go, now.

Oh and not everyone is photogenic. And often it depends on who has taken the photo. If someone makes a comment like that, they have motive or are just judgmental because they're insecure.

i know i should but i love him too much. he’s the first person i feel comfortable around and can tell mostly everything. even he told me that this is abusive relationship and that he’s manipulating me but i’m too big of a pussy and love him too much

i wish i didn’t love him so much, then would’ve broken up some time ago and wouldn’t have to go through this

I know it's hard, but you have to do it or you will continue to be in a state of pain. Once you break up, yeah, it will be hard and you'll miss him - but it will fade, I promise. I PROMISE.

You're too smart to be dating this kind of guy. You can do so much better.

Option 1:
Ongoing heartache while in an abusive relationship

Option 2:
Inintial heartache that fades over time

I've been where you are. We lived together so it was even more difficult, and everytime we 'broke up' he would try to come back in and it worked. Finally, we stopped living together. And it was really hard. And sometimes when I am lonely I think about him. But I am happier. I am not crying on a regular basis anymore. I'm not 'crazy' or 'jealous' or whatever he would call me to justify his actions. I found a loving boyfriend, and my days are much happier, even though at times I thought I was going to marry my ex, or that he was the best I could get, or if he left me I would be alone forever.

Please take my advice.

i even think he’s too good for me and i will never find someone as good as him. i don’t think i will ever find someone i can love as much as him and i will be an embarrassment to others too. also when we meet irl we dont have problems like that. it hurts so much to even think about breaking up and i think i would regret that if i did it

also my best friend is going through her first break up right now and i really don’ wanna go through what she’s going through and it’s gonna be even harder for me. i’m scared of feeling heartbroken

i can't accurately assess my personality because i lack experience and my interactions with the world are unreliable

i need to do more things

Stop. Dump him. The sooner you get it over with the sooner you will recover.

part of me knows that very well but part of me just loves him sosososo much

Awe I saw you today but I’m sad because I couldn’t say hi. Honestly I miss you

I am so fucking stressed out. I just wish things were easier

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I feel you looking over my shoulder. I love you, just be honest. If we have so much in common, why are you hiding it?

I got super drunk and lost something worth $250 and I can't stop thinking about it and how stupid I was

How do you even find a guy who likes me for who I am and not as their sidekick and emotional dumster in life? I want to date my best friend. I miss my ex and he isn't even here and never will be and I can't accept it.

Little do they know, I am here lurking for her posts, but never able to talk to her.

It is a shame I will probably see you today. I wish this time apart would last forever.

And how exactly would you know your crush posts on here?

I'm just going to say it: she is not.
Any posts vaguely relating to your life with her are just that. She will never find this place or she'll just keep it quiet and away from you. 9/10 times she doesn't know or care. Fuck, I left my history uncleared and gave myself anxiety thinking she lurks here, until I realized she was more into yaoi porn on youtube than being here. Thank fucking Christ.

I know for a fact she does. I am not going to go into details because I don't want her to know I am here too.

Oh, I know.

Nothing personal, kid. Just doing my job.

i wish i could fix myself

Well the plot thickens.
If only my goddamn heartburn goes away so I can eat popcorn for this LARP.

Sadly, you are just a larper until you post concrete details and matching initials like she did in the past.

And why do you think she would be here? What makes it any different from you being here. There is never a way to know unless you actually talk to her. Which, you should. It sounds like you're invested in her. Follow your heart user

Initials, names dropped, the details in the vents. Its unmistakable it was her.

My penis is only 4 inches soft and I'm terrified of being pants'd in public because then everyone will think I have a tiny dick

how do you really know?
there's only one time I knew someone was here posting about me and that's because they wrote my effing name here along with their initial. but of course it could a weird coincidence.

If it happens just get the biggest boner you've ever had. That'll teach em.

See If it were just one of these things, it could be chalked up to coincidence. But not if its all of these things, especially the details and names they dropped.

It's weird that you know and yet still kinda stalk her and hide, posting that you know, and not telling them. Why can't you be honest?

Why are you lurking then? If she's hear talking about you, why don't you do something? If you love her, tell her. Waiting around here and watching her write her feelings, acting like you don't know, isn't fair. Is it? Tell her. What's the use of hoping it's her

Because its fun for me.

If I had the ability to get an instant boner without touching it I would, I so fucking would

Then its clear you gotta rub one out so everyone knows.

Talking to her irl wouldn't be then? I feel like you're torturing yourself doing this

Maybe, maybe not. It's not like I am deeply in love, just amused she is obsessed with me. I want to see if she breaks or not.

Ok coach, I got this!

You're pretty full of yourself lmao

Remember to look them in the eye and say "you did this" as you cover them in cum.

Yep.

Seems like you're making this up for attention kek

Nope.

So you're saying she comes here and drops everything that happens between you two and even posts names?! I've never seen in depth content like that here, unless they're mad at someone. Not in love.

You are, otherwise why would you come here to brag about it and all the attention it's getting? If you can't prove it, it's a larp. Let's watch and see.

Unless it's Rachel, she's the only one writing rants with names.

She sure did. Guess you are new here.

What's her initial then? I'm here often ranting about my shit job. I'm not new.

:)

I'm actually going through something pretty similar atm. My first girlfriend that I've been dating for four months told me recently that the reason we haven't been having sex is because I've lost too much weight and I'm too skinny and she's just so unattracted to me that she can't. Fun facts: she told me the night before how good I looked without a shirt on (even to the point of moaning out loud), and even funner fact, the last time we had sex was two days before that (twice in one day, I might add). She said that to me right before going out into town to have lunch, and walking down the street I almost started crying because I didn't want people to see my apparently disgusting body.

Weeks later that shit she said still really fucking hurt, and she has a lot of other subtle ways that she's been emotionally abusive to me over the four months we've been together, and three days ago I finally decided to end it. She blew up at me and said she hated me and called me an asshole, and I've been crying a lot these past couple days. Going through it right now, I can tell you it hurts more than being abused, and the pain is sharper, and there are times when I just want to go crawling back to her, but the fact is that I know she was abusive, and ESPECIALLY the thing she said about the way that I look. There's a difference between carefully bringing up an issue about someone's appearance, and saying it in such a way that intentionally hurts them. You can't keep making excuses for him and acting like he's the best guy in the world, because what he said to you proves otherwise.

Get out of there, PLEASE. It's hard as fuck, I know, I burst into a sobbing heap not 10 minutes ago, but you can't keep letting him do this to you.

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Well, no initial. As expected. Lurkers really think everything is about them, damn. People can't just come here and let their thoughts out in peace. Fuck

If it helps, I bet this larper is another goddamned J talking to Anna again, if not just another J.

Wait, you can't be serious. The plot gets even thicker unless this was an elaborate ruse to lure her out

Also even funner fact: the girl I was with had a deformity where her upper jaw was way too small and her teeth were all crowded in together, so she had a strange shaped face and mouth. She didn't look that great in pictures either desu, but in person I always thought she looked beautiful. When you really love someone you can see past their peculiarites and see the beauty in them if you look for it. She had smooth skin and beautiful eyes and when she smiled, it didn't look normal, but it was so infectious that you couldn't help but smile too. If this guy is making those comments about your face, chances are he's a shallow prick. He could see your beauty if he was actually trying.

Literally. No initials are really dropped except for a J and Rachel's stuff. Oh, and an occasional C

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I don't think she comes here anymore, so your efforts are more than likely in vain.

And P, and V, and M. Initials are dropped all the time newfag.

If she was posting here she’d be absolutely disgusted with you dude

Oh, I don't believe that for a second.

Lol

I find it hard to believe that you're so invested in her but wouldn't care what she thought of you if she saw all this. "I'm not that interested in her" lmao. You clearly are

Well, lets see what happens.

Or a legit psychopath.

Oh sure, but she isn't the only girl in my life. She is just a little different for better or for worse. If she hates me its not like I don't have other options.

Can't y'all just rant in peace ffs

He just wants it to be her so bad. That's what he wants.

This is LARP: the thread now.
The damage is done and it is too late.

Might as well join in, pardner. Have a good ol' time actin' like Buffalo Bill on Brandy with his bolt action shotgun.

How old are you anyways? And how do you know his girl? Coworker? Girl you met one time and thought she fell in love with you?
This is so amusing to me

Lmao, if she is still here you can bet your ass she would larp the fuck out of you. We will have to wait and see.

My last three girlfriends cheated on me and have completely ruined any trust I have with women. I wanted children of my own with each of them, but obviously that will not be happening. I'll definitely be a foster parent down the line, but I'm just so sad a lot these days that I wasn't worth not cheating on. I don't really struggle with self-worth, but it's starting to really hit me: I was either boring, unattractive, I don't fucking know because they all said that it wasn't me, it was them. That might work the first time, but not the third. I'm not usually like this but it's another restless night and I'm just sad about the last five years.

I bet he is 38 and can't let go of her being a friend since what, 10 or so years ago, and they were only friends because she was friendly and cute to him to get his Yu-Gi-Oh cards.

And then he took it a step too far and drew porn of her involving OCs looking like Sonic ripoffs and then she ran the fuck away from him while he still fantasizes about her as a goddess.

How thrilling.

I just had to break up with a girl who had three guys cheat on her as well. After four months of being with her and her being abusive, I realised they may have had their reasons (no excuse for cheating, but she was probably the reason those relationships ended poorly). Maybe take a look at yourself and really figure some shit out. Are you actually as good a person as you think you are? Are you not very considerate or compassionate? Not very assertive or masculine? Maybe you're straight up just shit in bed? None of these issues are unfixable by any means, but you gotta be able to admit them to yourself first. And also remember, even if you're the cause of these relationships going south, there's still no excuse for cheating and they're all still bitches for doing that.

Oddly specific
You ok, user?

Yes, I'm just unamused by this LARP and remember the guy that made Sonichu and his current backstory, or 'Saga' as it's called.

Sonichu is more amusing than Mr. McMysteryMeatMan the 4th professing and stalking some girl on an anonymous website when she's clearly not interested or she's having fun like I kind of am.

>but i can’t imagine my life without him
said every girl every and went on living like nothing weeks after

Well alright then.

>exgf invites me to her birthday party
>been 3 weeks since i ended us seeing each other again because she had to fuck someone else
>me and a buddy were asked months ago to dj
>he didn't state if he's going either
nice

she could've just texted me and asked if i'm coming but no, had to invite me through facebook

Somebody talked about fucking somebody named Ray yesterday. Maybe the LARP is Ray

Nope.

I guess this means Everybody Loves Raymond is getting a reboot on Netflix.
HurrRay, I guess.

>Are you actually as good a person as you think you are?
Is anybody? I go to work, I take care of my aging parents, I walk the dog, I squeeze in me time with music, hiking, video games, photography, then I do it all again.
>Are you not very considerate or compassionate?
I always put down anything I was doing whenever the need arose for them.
>Not very assertive or masculine?
>Maybe you're straight up just shit in bed?
These were nonissues, I can assure you without tooting my own horn.
>but you gotta be able to admit them to yourself first
I'm not perfect, but I don't fucking know how to follow this logic. I do what I'm supposed to do, and I do what I want to do. I finally stepped out into the dating world last week after 6 months of brooding over my last relationship, and I got ghosted the day of the date. I just feel like giving up on the prospect. I don't even know why I'm whining here, I got shit to do. Thanks for reaching out though.

Why are you playing mind games I love you but come on
You say you miss me when I’m at work and you ask me to open up
I say I’m lonely
You ask me why
I say I want a girlfriend or something
You just ignore it
Come on

Uh, that means she ain't interested.
Just find some good porn and go ham.

People always try hard to prove their worth by asserting their intelligence, but they are never on my level. While everybody seems to dislike people focused only on being beautiful, I like them. Their self-worth relies on their beauty, they don’t want to be smart. It’s nice to be around them. I’m tired of not being understood, it’s always a waste of time. They’re so self-centered they don’t even care about really knowing me and it’s the same for me. Don’t ever change, I love you!

I've been married for a year(been together with her since 2015) but I've always had deep feelings for my female best friend.

Both are unaware of the feelings and I plan on keeping it that way. When me and my best friend got to know eachother early in 2012 I asked her out and she respectfully declined. Didnt stop the friendship at all though. Went through some drama with her in 2014 and we stopped talking for a year. During that time frame she went through a promiscuous phase after a really bad breakup, once we started talking again in mid 2015 she told me we probably would have slept together if we were talking during that time. (Me and my wife actually got together as bf/gf shortly after that conversation)

The thoughts really never leave my mind, she does her thing and I do my thing.

Am i a bad person for this? Has anyone else been in this boat? I cant say anything cause it would quite possibly ruin the marriage and an almost 10 year friendship. I'm not feeling inclined at all to mention anything so I'm not worried on that part, but my mind always does wonder "what if" if i did tell her my feelings if me and my wife ever split up

Itsa me, Punkio !

Just some suggestions for questions to ask yourself, I don't know you. Juust think on it for a while; maybe you've got some big personal issues that are manifesting in your relationships, or maybe there's something about you that just isn't attractive at the moment.

Plus, there's always the chance that you seriously did just get that unlucky. In which case, go find another girl. You've already eliminated three bitches from the dating pool, so your chances will be even better this time around.