How to stop liking a girl?

I like a girl.
I fully realise that someone like me has no business thinking of romantic stuff. I have no right to be liking this girl.
But in a moment of sheer weakness and arrogance and stupidity, I sorta asked her out. Obviously she avoided answering.
So, how do I unlike this girl?
How do I force my feelings to accept my place?

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>I fully realise that someone like me has no business thinking of romantic stuff.
Why would you think that?

Same here OP. But instead, i haven't asked her out because i fear rejection from her. I've been crushing on her for months.

Porn or find a more attractive girl

Was a hikkineet for years. Recovering.
Still rather socially awkward, at least my normie mask seems to be sorta working.
Obviously khv, no romantic experience and I'm at an age where it's incoceivable to not have any.
Overweight. Making progress here, but still overweight.
Generally, not very well accustomed to normie society yet.

So, I'm basically a fat, socially awkward, khv incel-lite who lives with mom, with not many friends, not much of a life outside the internet and at an age where I should have my shit together.
And I have the fucking audacity to not only like a girl at uni, but also ask her out.

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Dont degrade yourself. Your recovering. Get yourself a job, show that your willing to try your hardest. Maybe girls at this stage of your life isnt the most important, I just hope you can see yourself for your worth of character and what you've been through and how you've delt with it, not what you dont yet have, or come short on. Priorities user, pussy is good, but stability is better.

Im basically in the same spot. I have a huge crush on this girl I work with. We're like 1 desk apart. I cant ask her out because of the fact we work together and I really want to do something to suppress my feelings, or better yet, remove them completely. What do?

Always try to better yourself and be the best version of yourself! Like the other user said, don't be mean to yourself. You deserve love too!

If this girl doesn't like you back the only thing you can do is wait it out and be a little sad for a while but soon enough there is going to be a girl that is going to like you as much as you like her so don't feel too sad about it!

I'm in uni. I'm not ready for both at the same time yet. Maybe once I'm more used to normie life I can try to get a job at the same time. Money isn't a big issue yet.
I'm a fat khv at 26, I fucked my life up, I don't deserve shit.

None of that matters. I've always been on the socially awkward side, and I can tell you 100% that you have to fake it until you make it.
Keep working towards bettering yourself (job, exercise, etc.) for yourself because your life will be so much better if you do. But you don't have to wait until you have everything to find a girl. Just keep taking chances on girls you like and one of them will like you back eventually for who you are and not for your job/status/physical shape.

You do have to get out of your shell and pretend to be somewhat confident though. So take that rejection as just your first step towards finding the right girl, and consider it just training at being comfortable getting rejected and being comfortable taking risks.

Ultimately, the best things in life are obtained by taking risks. You just have to keep doing it until you win.

And to answer your question 'how to stop liking a girl?', either give it time, or find another girl to fancy.

Honestly, I think being a khv at such age is kinda admirable! How did you fuck up your life though?
You can still turn things around, it's never too late but I can see you're already giving up :(
Don't give up, user!

Okay my guy, this actually motivated me. Thank you.

>But you don't have to wait until you have everything to find a girl.
That's contrary to everything I've ready, been told, and experienced.
Why the hell would you think that?
Do you honestly think there's any 20-something girl out there that would want to deal with all the bs that a first ever relationship experience implicates at this age?

Well I'm a 20-something girl and I know I would,
it's an honor to be someones first everything, it feels special.
I always say; the less previous partners someone has the better
and I know a lot of girls would agree with me.

Few previous partners at my age is one thing, it might be good depending on context.
No previous partners at all at my age though, is basically 'creepy, incel, eeeeew, someone call the cops' kind of stuff.
And I very much doubt you would. This isn't about sex, it's about the relationship part.
I honestly don't believe anyone can ever like me enough to be able to tolerate how clueless I will be. I'm unlikeable anyway so the point is moot, but you get the idea.

Trust me, some girls really would prefer that.
If anyone questions why you haven't had a girlfriend yet you can always say
you've been saving yourself for that special someone and there is nothing wrong with that.

Well I know I would because that's literally what I did,
Both me and my boyfriend were khv-s in our 20s when we met (we met on r9k)
and honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way!

You just need to find the right person for you,
I bet most girls wouldn't mind it at all though.

Hmm. You remind me of... me! I could use this thread’s advice too...

Well you have now been enlightened to a different way to view the world.
Sure, some girls will think less of you if you don't have a job or aren't fit.
But some girls are looking for someone just like you. You just have to look hard enough.

I'm beginning to see that you've gone down this path of self-devaluation, though, and that you will argue against my advice because you don't want to step outside of your comfort zone and talk to people.

Which is alright. Take the time you need. I know I took a long time to do it myself, and now that I'm single again I'm taking my time again.

But you will have to eventually.

Until then, that's all the advice I have to offer. Good luck!

>and one of them will like you back eventually for who you are

inshallah..

a few more years to go.. then I'll have caught up with where I'm supposed to be

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Full send dude. There is nothing to lose. Would you rather sit around wondering how things would be or get rejected?

Owner of a lonely heart, is better than the owner of a broken heart.

What if she feels the same way about you?

user, lets be realistic here please

Liking girls is ok user
You can live with it ( I lived with it for 6
years, then we just became friends)
Another way to prevent you completely fucking over with this is to just become good friends. If she sees your evolution into a healthy normie you have more chances

He specifically said he looks like shit user

Better looking guys are coming on to her so its impossible.

No its not ok for fat, ugly people like the OP user.

True. What scares me is that we share the same friends, so idk. It just kinda sucks.