Can you reform a woman

A woman that accepts money for sex ever in her life is eternally a no for me friendo.

I have a lot of choice tho

>Can you reform a woman
easily, if you isolate her and know what you're doing

think reward and punishment, especially in terms of attention and affection

Spoken like a guy who’s never fucked anyone

if she is obedient and loves you unconditionally then stay with her.

most women just cheat you on. not worth throwing what you have away for that

She will fall back to her old ways when things go even slightly bad

Wouldn’t have dated her if she was fat.

You and me both. I know I have options but I am at a crossroads if I can find anyone else as devoted to me

Shits hit the fan multiple times, broke up with her and went on a date. she was devastated and I know from texts she didn’t pursue anything in the interim.

She probably knows you spy and uses an alternative phone

>But imaging her negotiating with some Jew to get his dick sucked and fucked makes me sick.
>But imaging her negotiating with some Jew to get his dick sucked and fucked makes me sick.
>But imaging her negotiating with some Jew to get his dick sucked and fucked makes me sick.
>But imaging her negotiating with some Jew to get his dick sucked and fucked makes me sick.

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Imagine being a man having to ask others on what you should do within regards to your own woman. It's honestly bizarre when I come across people like you - The passiveness ya'll exude.

>Do I throw 2 years of effort away and dump the bitch?
>I’ve told her I never want to have sex with her again.
>I still care deeply for her and her love for me is unquestionable.
Sounds like you've been hoodwinked by a little bit of pussy. I'm not going to tell you what to do with your life (other than grow a fucking spine) but if I was in your situation I'd leave her. Remember she's not going to just be your woman, she'll also be the mother of your kids assuming that's route you were heading. Unless she's really done some introspection and reflected on her past behaviors and current and fixed out her shit, I wouldn't risk it.

We live together, no fuckin chance

high iq Aussie wtf

Good luck raising your girlfriend's son

Christ, what’s wrong with getting this out of my own headspace, taking a step back and reflecting on it myself.

She’s ashamed of herself and always said I could find better even before this. She knows what she did makes her worthless and is begging for a second chance. My instinct is to bolt but we have a lease together til July.

I understand now. I misread the OP - my fault.

I have a deep distrust and disgust for former sex workers so if I knew from the start it would be a nogo. But if she's grown with you and is good with you and has been for 3 years you would just be adding to her past for the next dude and punishing her for the truth coming out.
It's a hard decision m8.
I do believe in reforming the lost though, for what it's worth.

I guess I would say: Would you go to battle against the world with her at your side?
Might be worth forgetting the jew dick if the answer is yes.

why reform a woman? when you can get a fresh 18 year old every day
make yourself valuable go to a church and pick one out of a nice family, its not that hard

Infidelity is so wildly off the table right now, she knows I’d leave if I even caught a fucking wiff of it. Tells me about any guy that even tries to talk to her and wears a ring around even though we aren’t married or even engaged to dissuade any attention

>when you can get a fresh 18 year old every day
he can't

There’s no such thing as a fresh 18 year old these days, unless they have some club I don’t know about

>We have slim pickings these days. Adapt and overcome or fail and die.
>Of all the injustices of modern life I'm convinced that being stuck on having a 100% pure virgin wife is not the hill to die on.
I agree with this, fundamentally.
But she fucked someone for money is different. This is a call you have to make.

I'll add this: if you choose to stay you squash this shit now. You're eyes wide open at this point and nobody is forcing anything, so dragging it on after choosing to stay is just distasteful and weak.

>a girl who is 100% loyal but has fucked this one guy
or you can play the slots again, have kids and find out shes a roastie having fucked a dozen different niggers with mullato children

I know she would die for me. When I broke up with her last time she tried to kill herself and I’m fairly confident ending it now would likely end up the same way.

Ok you know her. How about you tell her that you post degrading things about her on the internet for the joy of other men. That way she’ll know you too, and break up with you.

When did pol become r/cuckold

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I haven’t chosen to stay she knows this. I’m stuck on a lease with her til July. Am I gonna move out and still shell out my half of the rent living elsewhere?

>When I broke up with her last time she tried to kill herself and I’m fairly confident ending it now would likely end up the same way.
This is not someone stable that you want to marry.

You will have a happier marriage if you find a girl with 2-3 previous sexual partners who never sold nudes for money or fucked producers for parts, and doesn’t have borderline personality disorder.

This is like the different between dropping a piece of food on your kitchen floor and saying 10 second rule or dropping it in a compost heap.

you must be really good looking

Slightly damaged goods.

Post some pics and we can decide whats best for you.

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I can live with the fact I shared her degrading life without any way to tie this back to her

My point is this: Does the girl you described even exist today?

she's an internet 9/10 which is an RL 4 but she'll suck his dick whenever he says and he doesn't even have to entice her with goy coupons
how old is OP since she's 21

Ya no thanks pal, you’d beat off to her pics, I don’t need advice on whether or not she’s a dime

OP, it’s not wrong that this bugs you. You’re right to feel disgusted. It’s OK if you can’t get over this.

>21, 9 sexual partners before me
When did she start to fuck?
9 partners? how many months each partner?

There are lots of girls who only had sex with serious boyfriends and never sold nudes for money

becuse you have no respect for her and don’t love her.

Just break up her so she can find a better man. I honestly just feel sorry for this chick, even if she did fuck up when she was younger

&it’s not “her degrading life” it’s your degrading way of speaking about and treating her. You sound abusive

>Just break up her so she can find a better man.
lol fuck off

>Christ, what’s wrong with getting this out of my own headspace, taking a step back and reflecting on it myself.
Not exactly sure what you mean there but I'm talking about the inability to make a decision that's found with your type - the passiveness. I'm not meaning haha fuck you, just work on that shit. Plenty of men are following your line of thinking because they want to be nice and get along (I have) but it completely comes back to bite them eventually. Women can sense the indecisiveness a mile away and it repulses them. In fact, it ends relationships and I've seen it time and time again.

>She’s ashamed of herself and always said I could find better even before this.
Hmmm not sure how I feel about this. Just think man, if say you have a daughter with her, how do you think she's going to govern her and ensure she doesn't turn into a slut or teach bad habits? I've found with damaged goods, when they have kids they project their damaged world views whether it be about relationships, how they should perceive women, men, ect. If she's barely keeping it together and has confidence issues, consider what impact that would have on your kids.

>My instinct is to bolt but we have a lease together til July.
As soon as that's done, I'd bolt.

16 so about 1 guy every 6 months

you’re defending what she did and trying to not characterize it as degrading? Go date a porn star then

you've really put a lot of thought into her fucking other guys, are you sure you're not a closet cuck?

No offence but what difference would it make??? You want a legit opinion from people who have fucked a ton of pussy or what? Leaving or fucking depends on what she looks like. Youre fucking retarded thinking youre going to get a yay or nay answer from a fiction story.

It fucking depends on what she looks like.

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You don’t care about your partners sexual past? Ya ignorance is bliss for you huh

>You want a legit opinion from people who have fucked a ton of pussy or what?
HE CAME TO THE RIGHT PLACE

Not defending what she did. Nothing really to defend or attack. She did what she did years ago, and that’s that.

Her letting this guy treat her like shit and hold this over her head is more degrading then anything she did formerly though

Lol stop thinking about that shit. She was probably taking multiple cocks at same time. Remember to X her number by 3-4.

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Cut her loose

This is less of an issue with Muslims!

>brought her to Christ
>can't forgive deeds done prior to meeting you even though she has proved to you repentance
>has to ask Jow Forums what to do

You know none of that makes sense.

Depends on if she actually hit rock bottom and has now matured past that incidence. I've found there are two types of women in the world.

One who will never change and will fall back into their life of degeneracy.

Two who will fuck up and realize the shameful thing they have done and never do it again.

A big part of what shapes their response is their upbringing and deepest convictions.

Like I said 9/10, I’ve been advanced by better looking women admittedly. You have to think I’m retarded to post actual pictures of her, I respect her at least that much.

She has more options then he ever will. That’s the simple truth. Dude can’t even pay rent on his own

Her upbringing was fucked, not going into details but major daddy issues. I think she’s reformed but how can I lay next to this woman knowing what she did. It’s raw because I found out 2 days ago

Trying to get this out of my head without giving details to friends or family to spare her further shame

>can't forgive deeds done prior to meeting you even though she has proved to you repentance
>207583127
it's lazy trolling but I can't fall asleep
>muh 9/10 heeb whore

Thats fucking retarded ive fucked 9/10 black, indian maori etc. IT DOESNT MEAN SHIT. Show pics or youll get retarded fucking answers.

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You won’t be able to forgive her. It’s evident from your post that this shit cuts deep. 2 years isn’t long, move on and find a girl that doesn’t sell herself for money. Your gf is an ex prositute, offering sexual favours for money.
Definitely not marriage material.

can't turn a ho into a housewife
hoes don't act right
it's hoes on a mission
it's hoes on a crackpipe
Hey ho how you doin
prolly doin ho stuff
cause there you ho again
~Ludacris

Shes not reformed until YOU fix her and actually live with the bitch for a few years.

>It’s raw because I found out 2 days ago
Take a few weeks to mull it over. It’s OK that it bugs you. It’s OK to forgive a repentsnt whore, but only if you want to.
She has way more options for hookups - how many for marriage that she would find acceptable in her mind?

stop being so god damn autistic.

all of y'all men nitpicky ass guys looking for a tradwife are out of your god damn minds.

>"she had 1 nonwhite ex, i have to break up with her."
>"she has a tattoo that she got in college, she's disgusting to me now."
>"there's this one rap song she really likes, I know she's been blacked, i have to break up with her."
>"she believes that women should have jobs, it's not going to work."
>"she doesn't like it when i talk about jewish tricks for an hour, i broke it off."
>etc...

you're autism is the problem, these girls are fine.

If you stay with this whore, you're a cuck . Show some integrity OP

OP WANTS TO BE A TRANNY

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>y'all
>god damn

Definitely a hillbilly who prefers incest.

You are literally dating an ex prostitute. Time to move on user.

100% agree. Except OP has a lot more than just a promiscous tart. Looks like borderline prostitute material.

next time she runs into a God fearing Christian like OP she'll leave that part out, but she's so hot they won't care anyway.
I DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE JERKING OFF OVER HER is Sonic the Hedgehog levels of autistic.

negro

This. If she changed her beliefs for you, there is a high chance she will relapse when you aren't around to keep her in line. Her beliefs aren't organic, they are forced. Not worth ever dating someone like this. You can wait your whole life for some to finally come to make the faith their own. Or you can find someone who is already spiritually mature who believes using their own volition.

Cut your losses, faggot.

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Bro, NINE sexual partners. Do you really love her, or are you horny? Nine.

>next time she runs into a God fearing Christian like OP she'll leave that part out, but she's so hot they won't care anyway.
I think the wisest thing for women in a situation like hers to do is omit their sexual histories.

I love how any guys on here pretend they date anything other than second pickings.

Usually hoes that use them well. God, thank you.

You the kind of guy that would drive a car thats been fucked by several keys that unlock every sandwich
C U C K

Block out her face for privacy. Her body type, genetics, self control, discipline, ability to delay gratification, etc. are all crucial factors for weighing if this woman is worth keeping as your partner and mother of your children or not. It would take 300+ pages of detailed history and behaviors and patterns to describe these factors, OR a single picture with no personally identifying information will answer all of them immediately. Fatties can't hide their lack of discipline when the camera comes out. It also proves you're not a LARP and actually worthwhile to spend time discussing serious advice or not.

based norge metaphor

Getting fucked four times in two years is better than most, and probably also a lie. Sugar relationships cost a lot of money and homeboy was probably nutting in her on the reg. Still, she's not exactly a whore. Sugar baby logic dictates that ordinary girlfriends usually have similar arrangements but without acknowledging it honestly and without being paid fairly. It doesn't necessarily matter whether or not this is objectively true. The question is how did this relationship compare with her previous relationships and whatever other prospects she had at the time.

It also matters if she actually cared about the guy. It's common among sugar babies to view the sugar daddy the same way you might about any business relationship you've grown personally fond of and have a good rapport with. This also figures into the honesty thing: At least no one is pretending to be in love or stringing anybody along. In a way they sort of view themselves as caregivers. I have read posts on sugar baby forums from girls who were concerned about their men's erectile problems, their marriage drama, and so forth. It might seem paradoxical but if she speaks ill of this guy and views the relationship is a mistake, that makes her more of a problem than if she liked him and misses him.

What you really need to find out is how many men spunked in this girl (remember the rule: it's three times whatever she admits). How many dicks she rode is a psychological matter for you, but how much sperm went into her and stayed there affects her fitness as a mother. To get an honest answer out of her, pretend the thought of it turns you on.

>It fucking depends on what she looks like.

Not gonna lie though, this also and mostly. Bonus points if she eats pussy.

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>flips his plate of tendies
NOOOOOOO ONLY I CAN JERK OFF TO HER!

Try to understand her circumstances, if you think that you could do the same thing in her place than forgive her, if not try to understand has she changed or if she were to revert to the same conditions she was in she would have done the same even now. Depending on her personality you can either talk about it straightfowardly or try to get the answers by poking her with different situations/tests. One thing is for sure, you need to make sure you trust her. Following her 24/7 and reading her messages will make you miserable, so just dumb her, if you cant bring yourself to trust her.

>accepts money for sex
>daddy issues
>threatens suicide if OP tries to leave her

Sounds like a well balanced woman op. Knock her up and start a family, I don’t see what could possibly go wrong.

>it's raw
like the jew dick she took for money. Trad AF, put a ring on it. don't discriminate against the person you should be most discriminatory against, goyim, just settle.

disgusting.
Sure shes retarded but posting about your personal problems on here and telling everyone about private shit between you and your girlfriend? fuck off nobody cares you're equally if not more disgusting then your roastie whore girlfriend. again fuck off.

>Sure shes retarded but posting about your personal problems on here and telling everyone about private shit between you and your girlfriend
He wants to be able to talk about his private pain without actully humiliating her. With people he trusts - unlike most therapists who are liberal faggots

Just post a pic of someone who looks at her.
Pic related, meet Mrs. Zazp0iFw everybody.

I missed this one though. What exactly did she do? It's almost better that she actually tried it rather than threatening you with it, depending on how she views the attempt now. The trick here might be to not dump her but float the idea that the relationship is no good in the long run, she can do better, you're sterile, you're going broke. Yell at her over household crap, go through her phone beyond what the situation calls for, give her a reason to feel she's getting ahead in life by leaving you rather than losing the man of her dreams by getting dumped.

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That’s at least 15 partners. And I’m being incredibly optimistic with you. Still, as previous poster said, slim pickings these days and even if it were triple that number, that’d be average for girls her age now who are that attractive and in a populous area. I think the only way to find a decent girl is finding some super introvert at a library.

I would read Hosea. He had to marry a prostitute as well.

But I'm also kind of torn OP. If we practice empathy and we put ourselves in her shoes, what if we ourselves really wanted to change? The fact that she told you is proof enough that she felt guilty enough to come clean to you so that there would be no secrets. I fear that by only letting her go would confirm that christians do not truly forgive. And all she would do is hide her actions from any future spouses due to the consequences. I would be honest with her about how you are feeling and see what she says.

>with people he trusts
>Jow Forums
What drugs are you taking?