Can someone explain the "roastie settling down with beta male" thing?

I've seen this discussed many times on this website and elsewhere before. A girl spends her 20s single, partying and sleeping around. Then she hits her late 20s/early 30s, decides she needs to be in a relationship, so she "settles down" with a guy.

Which does kinda make sense, but her new partner is described as a "beta provider", and as someone who she is miles out of the league of.

I don't understand why someone would waste their time with someone who they're not really all that attracted to, and basically fake a relationship, especially if the girl in question is very good looking and could probably get any brodude Chad that she wanted.

Is it just out of panic, that she goes for the easy pickings rather than putting in an effort to land a top tier guy? I don't understand.

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had a girl like that. then I broke up because it felt pathetic. she was 29 at the time. she got a new bf soon after that, and "accidentally" happened to get pregnant soon after that. now they're stuck with each-other. hahaha, I dodged a bullet.

Because she has no other choice. Attractive men simply don’t settle. And women only truly want the best men. It’s not like us dudes where we are pretty much attracted to any decent looking girl.

beta's are the only ones who would have them. Alpha's have no long term need for a worn out whore.

Because that's when women generally start hitting the wall. They know their looks are dropping and eggs are drying up meaning not their window to hook a provider for life is closing. So they readjust their criteria and go for desperate men with big wallets.

meaning their*

>Attractive men simply don’t settle.

Of course they do. I know plenty of handsome guys who are in long term relationships, some even married. Everyone's different.

What if the girl is genuinely beautiful though, but just a slag? Do alphas see girls like that as hookups and nothing more?

There isn't a huge overlap between attractive men and financially stable men. Most executives are fat, ugly, or both. There's a reason larger suit sizes come with names like "Executive Cut". And that's true even for most middle class and upper middle class guys. Most of the very attractive men are younger and don't have stable jobs. They're also less likely to settle down with one woman. So if a woman wants a partner she generally needs to choose either attractive and flaky or financially stable. In her early 20s she'll go for all the attractive men, but as she gets older and her looks begin to fade, she tries to find someone that can actually provide for her and her mixed race kids because reality has sunk in and she now knows that niggers don't raise their kids and she can't afford it on her own. The people that get conned into providing for a used up whore after all the "alphas" are done with her are called "beta providers".

Who said Asian guys are beta? Be Smashgodxxx i.e handsome as fuck able to
slay girls of all races.
Get banned from Twitch for being too alpha. Proceed to make money streaming
Tinder dates on youtube.
Defying the haters saying asians have small dicks and can't get girls on
the regular.
Why aren't you doing the same?
Pro tip: Cause you can't!

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Good job sven, swedes like you are rare, was that other guy she got with a shitskin btw?

>Who said Asian guys are beta?
Literally just you in this thread.

>I don't understand why someone would waste their time with someone who they're not really all that attracted to
Because you're shitty enough that finding new people is hard, discouraging, and the idea of leaving what you have already seems way too risky. Then since you lack initiative and just let others dictate what you do, you just coast along into a passionless marriage when people get married just because, and then divorce in 4 to 14 years.

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No. She was from NH actually

Lol a leaf

they see the beta as someone that they can use to exploit to attract someone more alpha. They never give up.

Learn to use a toilet.

My take on this topic is that a woman hits her peak from 18 until late 20's. Women mostly offer looks, they are mainly sex objects, even if they are successful their looks it what matter the most when mating. For men, it's not really just looks, sure being tall, great shape, and good looking helps, but if a man is financially successful and has his shit together his chances of getting an attractive female are way higher, assuming he's confident enough to talk to her. So a guy in his mid 30s and 40s can get back in the gym, get groomed, and put on nice clothes and make some money and he will be able to fuck 18 year olds if he wants. A woman in her 30s is declining in looks and all she has is the ability to settle with a "decent" guy that will provide for her as her looks hit rock bottom.

looks fade roastie.
once hot chicks start getting passed up by chads for younger pussy that is what is known as the wall.
it means her looks are fading fast.
and because she has no marketable skills she needs to find a man who will pay for her every need and raise any kids she may have birthed.
because betas spent their early adulthood working they usually have good careers by this point.
so these selfish whores fake interest in one of these walking wallets to ensure her lifestyle.
she doesn't care that she has no physical attraction to it because thanks to sexual liberation she will find some loser with a big dick to fuck on the side.
and if the beta catches her or complains she will just divorce his ass and steal half his shit.
being a woman is life on easy mode

Guess her heritage, Jow Forums
I say white American father / Thai mother happa.

>being a woman is life on easy mode
Being a hot woman is life on easy mode.
FIFY

The truth is that men are butthurt for not being desirable on the basis of sex alone, but only on being "dependable" and "financially secure" and whatever. Hence why they only get picked by females once the female is no longer horny.

Even if you grant that the love she feels is genuine - The most "positive" way you could interpret this relationship is "she loves you so much she doesn't care that you're a beta". But she still fucked all the chads until she got bored of it, so what what does that really mean? Not much.

>haven't talked this woman in a while
>go to her place
>she lives in a literal shed in the backyard
>before she lets me in mental health services show up
>she's unfocused crazy, like where nothing makes sense to her but it should, and all these weird things are happening
>house is a clusterfuck mess
>stupid shit happens
>she wants to fuck
>leave
>later she gets arrested, put in a mental health facility
>she used to be cool when she was on meds
>she lives with her parents now
>after another date, conclude she is autistic
>she's nearly 30
>biological clock ticking sets off car alarms
If she's reading this I don't want to go to that concert

Settle as in “this is the best I can get”. Attractive men can get whoever they want, money is a huge plus

They are over playing the hand they are dealt, they think they can land a Chad but get played for pussy and forgotten when someone younger and prettier comes along. They settle for a beta but treat him like shit because they used to bang drummers in local bands and feel settling for the beta is beneath them.

>What if the girl is genuinely beautiful though, but just a slag? Do alphas see girls like that as hookups and nothing more?
As a self proclaimed alpha, regardless of your social status a whore is a whore. Some guys don't really care, though. Quite often you see attractive guys dating pornstars. These are women who get cum dumped on them multiple times a week by different men. Some guys just don't care, and everyone has different standards.

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Youre a faggot loser with framing issues

Learn to use a toilet.

>if the girl in question is very good looking and could probably get any brodude Chad that she wanted.
'Was' and 'could have'are more like it.
The wall hits at ~30 +-5 years. There is no escaping it.
Pleasant girls move on through their journey of life while thots are left behind.

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What if the beta male isn't rich and successful?

thot dump incoming

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Coals in the engine.
CHOO-CHOO!

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kek

chuga chuga chuga
CHOOCHOO

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ugly women have to work just as hard as men

nice

>I win because I'm alone now

She has been getting train fucked by guys that are 7/10 and upwards, thinking she was on that level of attractiveness as well. When she hits 30 and wants to settle down she realizes that the Chad's won't even look at her anymore, she is not above the beta male she is stuck with, she is a beta female herself, once they realize this they get super depressed and bitter

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We need more coal boys.
I'm getting low on coal.

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It's just incel cope. The beta provider thing is only true of rich men.

>assuming things
gg

germans like to eat shit we could just feed germany

Anybody read 'The Manipulated Man' bretty good book.
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These stats are out on THOT PATROL
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Compared to men, women are less concerned about attractiveness and more concerned about ability (and willingness) to provide, especially in the short term.

Fuuggggg I wish I was a certified poonhound like da god Smashgodxxx instead of a beta male cuck loser incel like I am. I’ve been working out but it’s been a wast of time. I only look minisculey better and I have a shit personality. Being a smash god is 95% genetic.

THIS TRAIN WONT STOP
chuga chuga chuga

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at least it's not a m*cedonian

Dont go for this shit. A woman of 30 has a vastly higher likelyhood of hatching a downs baby than one on 19 or 20 when it's both acceptable socially and still biologically a good window for childbirth.

Any nice goys in this thread?
Why don't you MAN UP and get a thot already?

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Lurk more newfag

Once they go black, they ain't comin back

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>I don't understand why someone would waste their time with someone who they're not really all that attracted to, and basically fake a relationship, especially if the girl in question is very good looking and could probably get any brodude Chad that she wanted.

Okay I'm gonna explain, but disclaimer:

>THIS IS NOT A POLITICS TOPIC PER SAY...

That being said we can swing it in the direction of politics if we discuss how this effects politics.

Here's the answer to your question -- physical resources. I understand this whole theory more than most and I think a lot guys butcher it and leave us confused. So lets start with this, what is being "provided" by the "provider"? That's what she's in the relationship for. He's providing literal cash, a roof over her head, social status, SECURITY, good responsible father material, etc. She doesn't have to earn any of that if she can simply marry it.

She thinks, if this guy isn't the best looking guy, she can simply cheat with a better looking one. That's where the false dichotomy of alpha/love & beta/provider come from. She doesn't allow the beta to be seen as attractive in her mind because she's just using him, barely giving him what he needs to be convinced of her deception while focusing still on attracting other men.

A lot time the Alpha/Lover isn't good father material. Hell half the time he's a fucking criminal. She still PHYSICALLY WANTS THIS GUY but she doesn't think he's gonna provide a good home for her and the kids' shed have. So the schmuck beta guy provides that. She thinks she can go fuck the evil, immoral, asshole, other guy, get his genes and pretend it's the more responsible guys parents to get SOMEONE to take care of the kid.

It's important to understand this dynamic because it does lead to a lot of societal problems, cheating and divorce cause more homicide and suicides than any other motivation for instance, understanding why it happens can prevent it.

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This train can't run on discussion
We need memes to keep up speed
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Very nice.
>Here's the answer to your question -- physical resources
I'll add. Resources are given to woman based on their looks when they are attractive - they have to steal them afterwords
CHOO-CHOO

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They're gonna take the bats cuck to provide support and money for her, while she's gonna fuck behind her back.
That's all.

I saw this firsthand.
Story time, lads
>neighborhood girl 28 moves in next door
>never see her during day, out all hours of the night
>dozens of differnt hot men spend night. None last more the 3 weeks (ie cock carousel)
>turns out she's a headlining burlesque dancer (stripper)
>fast forward 8 years later
>club is giving her less nights to "dance"
>complains her regular studs aren't returning her calls
>on the night of her 36 birthday (the night she hit the wall) she had a one night stand with this short fat mexican gardener and claimed she got pregnant
>7 months later they were married by a gay minister
>child never born. miscarried?
>they have been married 2 years but have no kids
>the guys is a total simp
>he feels lucky to have landed this used up roastie stripper.
>he says she is Disney Princess (even though she used to strip as Disney princesses)
>she dresses him up in Hawaiian outfits so that people think he's native and not a taco nigger
>takes care of her 6 cats
I look at them and think these losers did the best they could and it's sad.
Many such cases.

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LMAO, this is great.

What's with the influx of tards? Is it the youth or liberals?

>Me want boy that nice to me

It's funny in reality it's these completing low IQ fatties who are coal burners. I'm just hoping a generation of brain dead mixed kids who no one wants to fuck, will teach women more about the Toll than anything.

Jesus dude. Good job. My philosophy for guys is marry a woman who's isnt too hot but is semi smart and genuinely likes children. With this you keep her on her toes, as you are the chased and she the chaser, if that makes sense. You will not need to spend your time working dering who shes fucking when you're at work, and she will enjoy and do manhood job raising children. Also, make sure she likes or is willing to do whatever sex shit your most into. Bam. You've cut you lifetime stress by alot right there.

Shit I curl heavy dumbells but that girl has 18" arms holy fuck.
CHOO-CHOO

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30-year old Chad -- or, for that matter, many 40-year old Chads -- can still get 20-22 year-old roasties. So why would he want to settle down with a used-up 33 year-old one? 30 year-old Beta, on the other hand, cannot.

Auto correct fd me up here but I get the idea

she can get any chad she wants only for a night, and he will never support her. she will cheat on the provider if she can.

>allowing yourself to be cucked just so you're not alone

>60%
oh well

Learn to use a toilet.

Nice pasta

They can't get a "chad" and they aren't actually settling, the dude is but he doesn't know it. The trick is that the beta dude believes he is marrying up because he went through his teens and 20s being looked down on by women like her and isn't aware of how fast his status is rising and how fast the roastie chick's status is falling. The woman has the upper hand because she is very aware of it evidenced by how much attention she used to be getting from high status guys. It's why it's up to her to ensnare the beta guy, not the other way around.

That's why he is made fun of, he isn't aware of how much better he could be doing because she has blinded him by being the first to temporarily give him the attention and respect he deserved only to take it away after she has him hooked. The success of the relationship hinges entirely on her ability to fool him and preventing him from seeing what is going on.

because they are stupid short-sighted sluts who wasted their glow and money shot on stupid vain bullshit, and must then ultimately adjust to a hard crashing reality when it comes full circle on them. ergo, they acquire a beta provider at the trade-off of losing a chance at ever having a based alpha husband, but also being able to be normal and not well, die off essentially

but most these dumb whores ruin even that for themselves with cheating and divorce, whereas girls with intelligence and loyalty just spend their 20s trying to find a Chad, and then they find Chad, and then they marry Chad, and then sire two children with Chad, and then it's happily ever after

%
>oh well
That's 95% if not a thot
Many other benefits as well
Running out of memes boys, this trains puttering out
CHoo-choo

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Hey lads.

My girlfriend is Japanese. She's really old school. Like the dynamic of our relationship is honestly really nice. Traditional man and woman. She recently expressed her desire to marry. I hate to say it but ever ywoman I've ever dated doesn't even come close to the genuine feeling I get from her actions and what not.


Recently I've found out about their marriage culture. If a wife cheats on you, they literally gotta pay you for damages. Why can't we in the west do that?

(No I'm not white. So don't flip your shit)

CHoo-choo

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>t. repetition npc

incredible. Story of my life!

What about it? Then she'll be stuck with an unsuccessful poor beta male, when she could have settled earlier when she was prettier for a single guy instead of whoring out. It usually means she already has a kid from someone else or she just hit the wall particularly hard.

uhg what a story...brace yourself for this one

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so why is it so shamefull for a male to stay a virgin if he cant find a decent wife I cant really understand? Marrying roasties just makes this cycle to continue, if they stayed unmarried, it would serve as a warning, but nooooo muf 14 lets marry a non-virgin. you can be a nobel man even if you dont marry. idiots

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We have the prenuptial agreement if your worried about losing assets. Better than a cultural custom, it holds up in court.

>>I win because I'm alone now

you have to be willing to risk it and look it in the eye

Based Japan
>No I'm not white. So don't flip your shit
Asian-white(non-jew) happas are a-okay. Only betabux and roasties think otherwise.
Many asian women even if westernized are loyal, compared to the majority of roasties.

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Hypergamous pieces of shit

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Melania is a roastie that married beta trump after she hit the wall

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>I'll add. Resources are given to woman based on their looks when they are attractive - they have to steal them afterwords
>CHOO-CHOO

Yup. They get spoiled young, they get so used to getting everything for free and easy that when adulthood tries to be fair and demand a fair share from them, they flee into the arms of whoever has the highest status and biggest checkbook around them, to continue living in that ease and COMFORT.

After college I watched literally every single hot girl I keep track of, who all rejected me in college for Frat Chad... DUMP Frat Chad as soon as she graduates and hooks up with.... Her fat, balding, boss at the new job!

Why? Because after college Mommy and Daddy said they weren't going to pay her bills anymore since she's grown up and graduated now. She can't handle that so she immediately get's a new person to mooch off of. The pattern holds every time, if you want to look for it look at women graduating college, you'll see the shift in the next year or two.

It pisses me off personally because I feel like they lower their shallow shields down but not when we were in college and I was around her. And I might be more on the same level of looks as these new guys she actually marries but everyone of them looks like they have money. It's the money. She didn't suddenly wake up and realizing chasing the hottest guys was counter productive. She woke up broke and needed more alcohol and make up money.

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bretty good on the bants desu, fine form

>especially if the girl in question is very good looking and could probably get any brodude Chad that she wanted.

This is what you are missing, once roastie hits thirty something she stops being "very good looking" and able to "get any chad". That is when she "settles"

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Were picking up speed lads!
Keep shovelling that coal!
CHOO-CHOO!

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This bio has more contradictions than a Jewish bible studies teacher

be careful user, in some states a bullshit judge wont acknowledge a prenup.. atleast not fully.

>Looking for a decent guy to take care of other man's children
The absolute state of coal burners

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You're a better man for it.
Now they can't fool you and you are helping others, worth it.

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>shift manager at kfc
fucking kek

we seriously need to range-ban these moronic street shitters. It is bad enough in have to see them when I buy gasoline.

Any BETA MALES ITT don't even deserve a voluptuous goddess.

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