Im a swedish guy who is in a 2 year old relationship with a thai muslim woman.
She doesnt follow too many muslim practices, except not eating pork and she also like to do ramadan.
The problem is that in order to get fully accepted by her family we need to have a muslim marriage in the future.
That in itself is not a big issue for me, the big issue is that my dick needs to be cut before the cermony.
For me, this has become a big deal, almost to the point of me considering leaving this relationship altogeter or having no kids and just stay like this, unmarried.
But i dont know. Its not common for white people to be curcumcised here. But i is very common in for example america and it does not seem to be a big deal there.
But really? Should i out myself under the knife in order to please her parents, or just disregard the whole thing?
After all, her parents let her go and stay with me for now, but i don’t think they would be okay if we had chindren.
What wold you do? Disregard her family? Try to convert her? Obey your muslim overlords and surrender your human rights?
Good grief, Svante, this is the most Swedish thing I've read all year.
Luke James
Damn bro. Thats pretty deep. Just tell her you dont want your dick cut and if she loves you enough to marry you then she wont have much of a problem.
James Richardson
Fake and gay, swede 'men' don't have penises
Lucas Sanders
Circumcision doesn't sound bad. I thought they were gonna ask you to convert
Brody Martinez
Yes, but its nothing i really care much about. I will never belive in god anyway, but i can perform a ritual of it makes my gf happy.
Zachary Gray
Lie about your dick
Owen Richardson
>mutilating your dick for some ugly thai whore
Colton Butler
>Swedish guy asking people if he should chop up his dick to get married to his muslim gf.
This has to be Jow Forums bait. A real swede would sit back and kindly whimper "The balls need to go too, doc".
Nathan Jones
She doesnt have a problem, but marriage in thailand is about showing respect to her parents by asking for their daughters hand, paying a symbolic dowrey as compensation for taking away someone who would otherwise take care of them duribg their old age etc.
My gf will probably continue to respect them for the rest of her life by sending a little money every month. These people do not have pensions so i can understand why its her duty to take care of them.
Parker Bailey
Why should you do it? If it’s not something you want to do then don’t do it, if they refuse to understand that then tell them to get fucked with their pedo god. Good grief Sven, what are you doing with your life?
Don't cut your dick Kalle. Also can't you just lie about it? Does the imam have to see your junk to do the conversion?
Jason Price
Her uncle has to see my junk and inspect yes.
But maybe its just her, maybe if she would lie to them then they would belive her, but i feel like, maybe she wants me to become muslim, its her secret dream something like that.
She is very stubborn, but i’ve got her to accept a lot of things already, except pork ofcourse.
She has attended university but hardly understands anything about basic things such as that we live in a solar system. She also does not understand what is wrong with being a little racist which for me feels like a huge relief. But yeah, i think proper education would change her a lot.
William Smith
Only one solution here sven.
Get the uncle in a confined private place and give him a good kicking. . Explain to him that if he ever mentions his barbaric animalistic mutilations again that you will lop off his dick with a rusty spoon..
Never mention it again - she will either marry you, or not.. no matter either way. If she complains then she is an animal too and nothing is lost!
Colton Watson
You would have to cut the dick of any future sons. Sounds like a bad deal bro.
Dominic Wilson
Yes that is the other aspect of it. They might try to force me/us to accept that, and its not okay to do that thing to a child.
Bentley Walker
I think that that getting your dick cut is too much compromise and you may resent her for it someday.
Adrian Nguyen
a marriage, last I checked, was a 50/50 merge. You're cool with letting her be herself and embracing her religion - but that doesn't mean that YOU have to subscribe to her imaginary friend. It's your dick - it's your life. You accept her and what she wants, she should have the equal amount of respect for you and your wants too.
This includes your penis.
If she won't marry you because of your dick, then she's not willing to give you the equal amount of respect you deserve in this relationship and that should throw up a very large red flag for you.
There is pussy-a-plenty in this world and much of it doesn't come with dick-cutting requirements. There is no scientific reason to be cutting off your foreskin because we don't live like monkeys in the dessert anymore. Cutting was important when people didn't bathe as often as we do now, so the only reason to cut your skin is for religious reasons. A religion, I would like to highlight, that YOU personally don't subscribe to. Thus, there is absolutely no reason to do it.
Choose your future wisely.
Nathaniel Garcia
>What wold you do? as a swede? ask her to peg me, convert to islam and allow her to marry some muslim refugee as a normal person? never lie with the enemy
Dylan Thompson
But you're a burger Jow Forums virgin, you know nothing of this subject.
Ryan Jones
wrong on all accounts, but to be serious now, I would never start anything with a muslim
Jack Robinson
end the relationship she is a fucking muslim...for the love of god dont have kids with that invader
if this isnt bait i have a friend eho became muslim for marriage and his relationships kinda shambly. i dont know if he cut his dick but he always tells me hes not really muslim
James Long
What does “swedish” mean? So are you a native swede? Like are you white?
Just break up with her and find a swedish woman. Someone had to work hard and be successful to move out to a white country to marry a white woman, you didn’t have to, yet you chose a muslim woman.
It’s not worth it, OP.
Samuel Rivera
Dude If you don't want to do it just tell her don't want your foreskin removed. You can always fake it heard people hiring so-called doctors
Zachary Myers
Why are you talking about white women like they're a prize for men's hard work or something. Are they somehow more worthy than darker girls just because of their race? I don't understand men at all, I don't understand you at all.
Dylan Taylor
Kind reminder that the Quran makes note of a principle of Islam that basically just says "lying is okay as long as it's for the good of Islam."
They're not the kind of people I'd stand by in the same way that I don't stand by WBC, you'll just end up in a lot of shit, all for some woman.
You get cut and you'll never stop regretting it.
Kayden Morris
I'd never get married because her parents would likely marry her off anyway. I've have children outside of marriage, are you Blond OP?