Im 28 years old. at the end of next year I will turn 30.
its killing me. I have no gf and no job. still trying to get my fucking bachelors degree.
all the girls I seem to like already have a bf or are not interested in me.
I dont want to sound like someone who keeps repeating the meme that "all the good girls already have a bf". but I kind of feel that this is true.
I had a girl being interested in me lately but she really was not my type and I did not like her at all. I cant lower my standards for someone I dont like.
how do you deal with the fact to be single when you are closing in on your 30s?
I never cared about it when I was 20 because I kept telling myself it will happen someday.
had my last and only gf at the age of 19.
this life feels so lonely
Too old
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I met one. Think I've fucked things up already but I still met her. Don't give up.
I dont know. Im just not a very interesting person. especially not to girls. and my looks are not that great either.
I know I cant expect to marry a super model, but just a normal and sweet girl would be enough for me
>i rejected a girl which basically askes me out
>how can i stop being single?
Three words: lower your standards
>never had a job
One link
restaurantjobs.mcdonalds.com
Im not able to fix all of those things. this world just makes it too easy to forget about the real life and my will is too weak to change
ive only ever had one girl clearly interested in me (past middle school) and she was just awful so i rejected her. the worst part is that a lot of girls liked me because i had young sprouse twins charm but instead of growing up to be handsome, i got cystic acne, mediocre face and the body of a girly little twink.
>my will is too weak
If you have enough will to solve capcha, you have all what it takes to change
Hm well I'm 27 years old woman and I'm equally alone. It really has started to shred my soul realizing that the one genuine person I thought I met is just gone and there's no one even in the same page as me.
I guess just don't feel alone in feeling alone. Many people are alone.
I dont wanna be mean, but you know the world doesnt work like this.
there are a lot of people that have it worse to me. who are probably suicidal and dont have anyone at all.
this doesnt change the fact that I also have problems and I wont feel better thinking about other people having bigger problems than me
Well I'm not really in the mood to deal with your whining... if you don't want advice then screw off and get a journal or go to a rant thread. You have no question either and we aren't doctors or psych who can treat you or fix your problems.
And honestly this is probably why you have problems to begin with, the world doesn't wait around for you to try.
advice is pretty much about whining. also what kind of advice did you give me?
other people are lonely too? so dont feel lonely. wow thanks
Fucking Reddit nigger, fuck you and your 'starterpack'
some people are just meant to be alone, learn to love it
Yeah, post more pepe images and stay online today for 18 hours. It didnt help last year, but surely this year it will finally have results.
A 'normal and sweet girl' is far above and beyond your grade.
With the way the sexual market is right now, the only attainable female for a lonely person at that age is either a bellow average looking single mom, or one of the lower tiers of landhwales.
and this is why I want to die. you are right. I dont deserve better but Im not going to accept it. just gonna jerk off to pretty girls for the rest of my life
There's more to life than females user. Sex is overrated as fuck and females in general have little to offer.
Strive for a nice career, get a nice sports car and enjoy yourself. You don't need females to be happy.
If you can't lowet your standards improve yourself. This is not a movie were a manic pixie dreamgirl will appear and start sucking your cock because of yOur GrEat peRsoNaliTY
how can I improve myself when all that matters in this world are looks?
Stop eating garbage, lift, wash your penis and dress nice. If you got some abnormalities save for a surgeon
my body is fine. Im not obese or skinny. just a normal guy. my clothes are fine as well but I have a big nose and Im already balding. I dont believe in plastic surgery. its a bad thing
stop giving this whiny bitch attention
there is nothing wrong with whining mister reddit
life IS lonely
relationships are just mutual exploitation of the other for mostly entertainment
no one is happy even those "taken good girls"
you have low ambitions and aren't doing anything productive
you are psychologically damaged if you are this obsessed with women
there's no solution. life is crap. good luck
>life IS lonely
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>relationships are just mutual exploitation of the other for mostly entertainment
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>no one is happy even those "taken good girls"
if you think everyones life is shit then I feel truly sorry for you
Shit son. 37yo phoneposting boomer here. I was once in a similar circumstance except i wasn't even working toward a degree just working a fairly shit job.
Then i met my wife at 27. I couldn't make a relationship work past 6 months before her. We've been together since 08 and married since 11.
Now we're on the verge of divorce, lol.
Basically, it doesn't matter. Most of my friends I had before are on their second or third marriages. The one that seems happy didn't meet his wife until his mid 30s.
I know it seems like shit now, you're probably the last single friend and you're seeing all your friends in happy relationships and you wonder what's wrong with you. There's nothing wrong with you, the world is fucked up and gender dynamics are fucked. It makes relationships nearly impossible to maintain.
I know it sounds cliche but get through school, get your life in order and remember that it's okay to date younger women, it's actually a better idea. Find a good early 20s girl and mold her to your needs.
This is the dumbest fucking thing ever. Anyone who says sex is overrated is insane. Sex is amazing. Go a while without sex and you start getting fucking crazy.
I haven't been laid in four years user, by my iwn decision. I'm not crazy, I'm just "voluntarily celebate". Yeah I get horny as fuck some days but I haven't raped a woman, and once you stop chasing it you get to call women out on their shit anytime you want.
>28
>still working on bachelors
>I cant lower my standards for someone I dont like.
I'm in the same boat OP. You sound as if you would love a woman very deeply if you met one you like. Try to realize that women are not the source of happiness for you. Happiness is something you can find in yourself. If you do, it'll be easier to meet that woman and you'll enjoy it much more.
Dude, you can still call then on their shit even if you're balls deep.
I applaud your self imposed celibacy but 99% of men would go nuts.
Chasing power and prestige is common for men who have been scorned by women.
LMAO
>le stop chasing meme
I can tell you that's pure bullshit. I stopped chasing women on my freshmen and sophomore year of college and it didn't get me shit. I was concentrating on my studies and was an a student. I ignored girls left and right except for some occasional smiles. I ate slept and drank school for those first years. Not one fucking bitch approached me. It's only until I got to junior and senior year where I started talking to girls and actually went on dates and got a few girlfriends..
don't believe the stop chasing meme. It won't get you anywhere. I fucking promise..