What does it mean if you're 28 and never had a girlfriend?

What does it mean if you're 28 and never had a girlfriend?

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you would be me

Kinda quirky, though.
Prolly means you’ve never tried, and assumed that everything should just be handed to you.

It means you never will.

It means you are 28 and never had a girlfriend.

Do you want it to change? That's up to you.

Okay okay. Let’s not get carried away.

Don't try to find deeper meaning on stuff, don't try to make a big deal of things that are not.

It clearly bothers, you, or you wouldn't be here asking about it.

Probably that you don't have a sense of humor. Pretty much every guy who can make a girl laugh can get dates

Yeah I'd like it to change. I've tried but it's hard for me. I'm on tinder and okcupid and it's hard to find someone who will go out on a date with me. I've landed a few dates over the last few years but then they go nowhere...

I just don't know what's wrong with me or what to change. Am I just ugly? Something about my personality I need to fix? Lack of enough sex drive (medical/hormonal problem)?

My life is pretty good otherwise and I like myself well enough- but girls do not.

>I've landed a few dates over the last few years but then they go nowhere...

Why? Do you ask them out and they say "no"? Do you never ask them out?

90+% of girls on okc/tinder won't even reply to me when I send a message, even when I make it specific and fun and not a generic 'hi'.

if I get one to talk to me, the conversation usually dies pretty quickly. If not then I get their number and switch to texting. If that doesn't die off then I ask them out to meet up after a week or two. Usually I'm ghosted before it gets to that stage.

I haven't made it to the getting her number phase in months now.

>90+% of girls on okc/tinder won't even reply to me when I send a message

Those don't matter. If they don't reply, what can you do? That's out of your control.

Assuming you have nice pics and you didn't send creepy lines, it's just that they were not interested. Don't waste energy on them.

> I ask them out to meet up after a week or two.

That's the problem, people can't get to know you over text. Ask them out sooner.

it means you are too Alpha to have a gf.

how soon?

Within 2-3 days at most. I have the same problem as you but I realized that between tinder and direct text you shouldn't talk more than a week. The point is to meet up and decide if you actually have chemistry.

its a sign fro God that you're too good to slave away in the breeding factory, and that you should reform and wed your life to science and piety in the hopes of bettering the human condition.

Just do it, dude, people don't go to Tinder to make friends.

That you've failed at life.

It means whatever you think it does. Are you asking us to confirm whatever you already believe or are you seeking meaning from the opinions of others because you don't have confidence in your own discretion?

It means you're probably gay and deeply closeted.

You got a better track record than me, if you are getting to talk to 10 women out of 100, you can at least improve what happens with the women you talk to.
Online dating is rough, but you just have to disconnect from all the failures and make an effort with the ones who want to talk to you.
I know you probably think you deserve something better than a 40 year old homeless single mother, but online dating made all romance superficial and people are now getting paired up with what the robot overlords have deemed you worthy of. Sorry.

It means you were too scared to ask for what you wanted.

Life is too short to not at least try.

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