Tl;dr gf cheated on me/lost my friends

Jesus christ I'm so mad, I need some input
Basically two stories happening side by side

>be with gf for 5 years
>she cheated on me once, take her back after we went our separate ways for a year (stupid, I know)
>get back together for about 2 years
>buy a house together
>she cheats on me again
>dump her ass, lose the house
>her brother is still in our circle of friends and stays neutral while she is just gone

>while we were dating, she constantly would not hang out with my friends saying they don't help her grow as a person
>literally have to drag her out to any social gathering
>after the final breakup they all say she's a cheating bitch
>brother eventually stabs me in the back and invites half my friends and his cunt sister to an all inclusive trip we talked about at several parties
>I make a huge fuss, the brother will literally not be physically present if I am because he's afraid of me kicking his ass
>they just say that they're going because they can't get a refund and won't be around her, which is horseshit
>trip happens
>tons of pictures of everyone together, especially the cheating ex
>me and my bestfriend drop them all

Fast forward about 3 months, and I just found out that my old bestfriend that is still in the group is now actively hanging out with my ex, and the guy she cheated on me with the first time like 5 years ago

He was vehemently anti-cheating and I've known him since I was 10

I'm so fucking mad. I know that dropping them was the right decision now, and theres some other stuff I left out about them being shitty people, but god damn.

I guess I'm just looking for insight, has anyone had something like this happen to them?

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Anger bump

Anyone?

Find a virgin or settle for cheating whores

I'm actually more mad about my old shitty friends than I am about the whore

You made the right decision. That's why no one is responding. All the other threads are people who are indecisive or made the wrong choice.

What sort of train wreck group of people.. Man I got nothing else to tell you as you've clearly dealt with more than me but buying a house with someone that cheated on you? Really dude... I don't wanna be on a high horse here but you should have known better than to do that man. You seem like an okay dude that got caught up in all this tho.

better sooner than later, honestly
all of them were cunts. i know it's hard for ya to even see it that way for now, but eventually you'll move on from this and find better people who will actually care for you.

If you have shitty friends that makes you a shithead

Oh I know. Believe me I know. To be fair I only took her back because she had mental issues that she "supposedly" fixed after lengthy therapy sessions.
Im still a dumbass though, thinking people can change

Also there's alot more I could say about this shitlords, but the OP would of been a page long

How is this fair? they slowly turned into shitheads over time, even with my telling them so. Why am I guilty by association after I've severed it?

looks like you would like to release that grief and tell us that story. If so, go ahead bro

Because you are who you hang out with.

What the fuck did you expect? did you really expect women to be loyal in the age of social media,dating apps and feminism?

Okay, here goes.

>entire group consists of 12ish people, mostly couples
>I've known them all pretty much since I was a kid
>maybe 4-5 of them i've known for 5-6 years
>i'm 28

>slowly over the last 1-2 years i've been hearing gossip of cheating between couples, numerous times
>seen one of the single girls with one of the dudes in a relationship doing sketchy shit way more than once like hanging off his arm all night and literally sleeping in the same bed at every party
>huge blow out fights that i'm never around for between couples
>I've witnessed multiple times of one specific girl trying to get other girls in the group so drunk they'll make out with her(it's not hot they're all mostly obese)
>my old roommate was one of these girls targeted, who I defended multiple times
>didn't stop her from siding with my ex after we broke up, although she always feigned ignorance that she didn't
>at one point me and my bestfriend literally tell her that if my ex's brother shows up to a party there will be blood
>she arrives to the party WITH HIM, we damn near kick his ass but instead decide to leave after blowing up the party and kicking her out of the house, permanently

Man I could go on for hours

So by dropping them i'm a better person now, right?
Again, i'm more mad about the betrayal from friends than I am from a notorious cheater

well don't hang out with men who seek validation from women. they will backstap you for pussy. hang out with people that don't need women.

Dude improve yourself and make em all super jealous and fuck hot bitches

I have been. A big issue they had was all they do is fucking have parties and drink on the weekends.

Since we've left them, I've learned snowboarding, do alot more active stuff and plan to do huge trips this summer

That's basically no one really

Bunch of assholes that are better off gone, it seems

>message bestfriend
>says im an idiot who's made for no reason

Humans, not even once

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Man this is some serious backstab. What kind of fucking shitty friend does that? You known him for fucking ages and he does you like that? I seriously don't know what I would do in your situation. Probably beat the living hell out of his ass. If your old best friend hangout with you ex girlfriend, that means he had an eye on her the whole time you where with her? Which to me if fucking disgusting and disrespectful . I really hope you find peace within this mess man, this must be hard af. Cheers.

Sadly he could take me in a fight, doesn't really change much though.
He's also not single, so he's not banging her, she's definitely banging the first guy she cheated on me with though, 100%

And yea, it's hard af

How the hell would you find that?

They weren't your friends. Move on.

Based off my final conversation with the traitor, i think i can now

It's rough at first but i know it'll be better in the long run

I hope this was a lesson to you that friend groups tend not to choose sides during breakups, no matter who cheated or what else happened. They want to stay friendly with both parties. But you had to try and force them to choose between you and your ex, and surprise, they chose your ex because she wasn’t being a shithead to them about the situation.

They literally hated eachother until way after we broke up you dumbass
How was I being a shithead

pursue success. that is the only way you can avenge yourself.

no it doesn't you fake deep retard.

Lol if that happened to me I would be on international television very soon after if you know what I mean