How should you react when guys come up and hit on your girlfriend infront of you?

How should you react when guys come up and hit on your girlfriend infront of you?

I'm dating an absolute babe right now and we go out to the bars and shit with friends a lot and guys are constantly coming up and hitting on her.

She's very loyal and always denies giving out her snap/phone number etc, but its annoying as fuck. The annoying part is when I try to be friendly and engage these guys in conversation they just try to ignore me and keep hitting on my girlfriend. I just ignore them and stand there until my girl politely exits the conversation but I feel like I should be telling these guys to fuck off when they don't have the decency to respond to me trying to talk to them.

What do you guys think?

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And what if she actually gives out her number one day, I don't think she ever would but do I have to dump her over that, like its a never ending swarm of guys.

If you're constantly going there and seems to like the attention. Might aswell get rid of the condoms and tie her down.

Being chill and unfazed is the best possible look you can have here. If she looks nervous or the guy won't leave then casually head over but constantly hovering or getting pissed at her won't help anything when she's already being loyal.

Sauce on pic

Look up "hot girl" on google images and it comes up, I think she is in some youtube prank videos or some shit.

This is easy. You 'mark' her as yours in front of them. Have her hold your hand or give her a peck on the cheek and wander off.

This is a trick women use all the time if they feel threatened by another girl talking to you.

It comes with the territory, OP. Thirsty guys lusting after your girl is part of the package of dating a beautiful woman.

She needs to deal with them and let them know she's not interested. In clear, short sentences. You can step in if she calls on you by involving you, or if the guy becomes nasty, but otherwise no. Fucking obviously the guy has no interest in fraternizing with you, you're in the way of pussy in his eyes, he wants to pretend you aren't there. And being too bold about "owning" your girl is just going to make it look like you indeed are the only thing in the way of something happening. She needs to communicate, straight up, a lack of interest.

If the issue is that they don't overtly hit on her but obviously only have eyes for her, it's also her task to either wave them off or involve you in the conversation. A sly "oh yeah my boyfriend here also likes..." will discourage many too.

That's most likely going to come across as insecure.

Why not just ask her?

Only if you look like a try hard weenie. Or you can tell these simps to get lost because you're in the middle of something.

This is basically what she does but like, a lot of guys will hang around for a minute, she doesn't just tell a guy to fuck off the minute he comes up, usually the guy comes up, she realizes what's going on after like 30 seconds, politely tries to exit the conversation, takes the guy another 30 seconds to get the fucking hint.

But this shit will happen 20 fucking times in a night and I almost wish she would just tell any guy that walks up to fuck off upon speaking, but I know that's not really fair.

And I feel like asking her to do so is very insecure looking, but its not really from a place of insecurity more like, I just want to be able to go out to a bar and drink and hang with friends and enjoy a conversation with some randos without every single one trying to stick their dick in my girl. And I have no idea how to bridge that conversation without coming off needy as fuck since she already is very loyal

Like should I just grab her tit and slap her ass every few minutes throughout the night so people know she's taken lmao

Act like an adult, basically.

Just don't worry about it.
Behaving in any way that is insecure is the worst response.
She came there with you, she's gonna leave with you.
If it turns out she's the type of woman that cheats, then you know you made a bad call ever getting with her in the first place, and you should be thankful that she revealed the quality of her character so that you can find someone worth your time.

I though this was at the mall or something.
>going to a hookup spot when you're already a couple and getting mad people try to hookup
Luh
MAO

Remember Morphys law. If there is a low probability something will go wrong, it absolutely will given enough time or people trying it.

Yeah I feel you man, this sucks but I'm afraid this is just part of your good fortune. No you can't ask your girlfriend to tell someone to get fucked the moment they walk up to her. If she shuts them down within a minute that's about the best you can hope for and the only other thing you can do is trying to focus on letting it get to you less.

>The annoying part is when I try to be friendly and engage these guys in conversation they just try to ignore me and keep hitting on my girlfriend.

lol no one wants to talk to you you stupid fuck, of course they're gonna ignore you and hit on your girlfriend

are you retarded?

Uh, what do you expect when your hot gf is in a bar? If a guy doesn't know she's taken, he's obviously going to try for her. If you're both in it for the long term, and maybe eventual marriage, get her a promise ring if you have money to burn. Otherwise, maybe you guys should stick with your friends so single guys are less likely to approach her.

Why the hell are you going to bars with your girlfriend in the first place? What are you doing there?

Anyways, just say "Are you trying to hit on my girlfriend mate? Fuck off." every time it happens. Why is this hard?

Just stand there with a smug smirk on your face or laugh right after she says no.

Fucking this lmao. OP is talking like he's never been a single guy or like the guys are gonna decide to try and make friends with him when the first person they approached is his gf, not him.

OP, bro, that's the consequence of having a hot gf. If she's loyal, you just need to suck it up. Of course you're probably never going to get over it, but that's just how it is. If she's not flirting back, you don't need to get involved b/c you're gonna fuck it up and show off how insecure you are.

Yeah, I think you guys are right. Im probably just going to stop bringing my girl to the bars with me and my friends despite how much that pisses her off. A lot of my bros are single and I still like to go out so I bring my girlfriend because she enjoys coming out with us, but probably better for me to just do it alone and make it friend time without her so I don't have to deal with it.

Your energy should prevent this. If you were chad enough to hold your chick down other men would pick up on it and not constantly punk your ass out right in front of her. The fact that this happens at all is a you problem doggy

This is autistic af

>going out to bars with your girlfriend

Literally why? You are a fucking idiot. Find a girl that doesnt need to constantly go out and drink because she is a neurotic cunt. Stop wasting your time.

That's not the right path if it pisses her off. She's needs to not be alone at those bars. Guys are less likely to go for her if she's with guy/girl friends. Also, why not just hang around her more often when you're at bars? I doubt your single friends want you there when they're trying to hit on girls, so just stick with your gf.

Do you not come off as her boyfriend?

Guys hit on me all the time but the moment I'm with a guy, especially a boyfriend they will not even dare to do anything.