I'm in my early 20's and seeing an absolute smokeshow of a woman...

I'm in my early 20's and seeing an absolute smokeshow of a woman. She has made it very clear she wants to date but I am hesitant as she has fucked like 20 guys and told me she cheated on her only boyfriend she had.

Here is the deal though, she is absolutely head over heels obsessed with me and has only had one boyfriend, every other guy she has been with has been a short like 2 week fling and onto the next excluding the one boyfriend of like a year. We have been seeing each other for a couple of months, but I can tell she is getting really insecure with the fact that we are not exclusive, so i'm going to have to pull the trigger soon or let her go. I think the reason she has been through so many guys it not because she is a whore, but she has just never really found a guy who she likes, it also sounds like all of the guys she has been with put her on a massive pedestal and she fucking hates that, she kind of likes being put in her place so to speak. The cheating on her boyfriend came from her boyfriend being an absolute bitch and letting her get away with anything and everything so she eventually cheated on him. I could be rationalizing things but I think she has just never really had a strong man who doesn't put up with bullshit in her life and that's why she likes me so much. And also why I don't think she would cheat on me.

Do you guys think its ok to date and commit to a woman like this, I really don't think she would ever cheat on me, but I feel I will have to remain in a constant state of "Alpha as fuckness" to keep her from leaving, if that makes sense.

Thoughts?

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Men are so fucking dumb

No, absolutely not.

We crave pussy in the same way women crave babies and social status. It’s just what we’re born into.

Date, but do not commit.
She has proven herself guilty, and now should be required to prove herself innocent.
There is no reason to deny yourself the pleasure of someone's company and friendship though.

What happens when op becomes attached and even worse, gets her pregnant?

What happens when we trip on our shoelaces?
People like you will never never do anything because you are scared that something will hurt.
I have nothing but compassion for you.

I’m not saying to avoid risk, but this situation in particular I do not see ending well for OP.

I believe this has two outcomes.
1. Girl finds more alpha man, leaves op and breaks his heart
2. Girl gets pregnant, tries to make the relationship work, yet cheats because that’s what cheaters do.

What positive outcome do you forsee op having?

Isnt this the second rule of dating on adv?

1. Dont date co workers
2. Cheaters will cheat on you
3. You are single because of your self loathing attitude.

OP here.

I guess what i'm saying is she cheated on a guy she clearly wasn't interested. Cheated, then broke up shortly after.

It's not like she was going out fucking guys and coming back to her bf and sticking with him.

I think there is a difference between a girl who cheats because she is manipulative/insecure being alone, and a girl who cheated because she wasn't happy in the relationship and choose to end it.
As for finding a "more alpha man" I think she is secure and comfortable and happy in our relationship and therefore won't go looking for another man, and therefore won't cheat. If she's happy she's not going to be looking and won't cheat.

Not trying to be argumentative I just want to make sure i'm seeing this from all angles.

>but I feel I will have to remain in a constant state of "Alpha as fuckness" to keep her from leaving, if that makes sense.

This is the dealbreaker for me.

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If you're good enough, just have her as your side piece but not as wife. If she can live with that, it'll work out for you both and be stable (though will narrow your field for choice of a wife).

Tell her she has to not be a whore for her to stay with you.

DO NOT COMMIT

Break it off asap and enjoy the seccs

Do not go anywhere near a cheater

t. guy who took back and cheater then got cheated on, again, fuck

She cheated.

>points out a list of cons
>but she's super hot, guys
If it wasn't for her looks you wouldn't date her.

If you love her, yes. If you don’t no.

OP here

I think you guys are right, she is a wonderful girl that I get along with better than anyone I have been with before. Not to mention great in bed and hot as shit. But at the end of the day i'm looking at it all wrong. She cheated on a guy, and was willing to potentially hurt him (if he found out) because she wasn't happy rather than just doing the right thing and letting him go when things weren't going great in the relationship for her.

She didn't have the courage to drop him before seeking out other guys which means she could very well do the same thing to me, but potentially worst by keeping me around for an extended period of time while she searches.


Thank you all for your wisdom, I will be keeping her around as a side piece until she decides she isn't ok not being exclusive or I find a girl to be exclusive with.

Regards,
OP

I mean she did it to someone else so what’s stoping her from doing it again you know what I mean she could be a 10/10 but is it worth having a broken heart over

She seems like a terrible person to invest in, but frankly so do you.
Leave her and never date again.

How am I a terrible person to invest in, I dont cheat

I would say date, but don't grow emotionally attached to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Also, she sounds like an ultra massive whore.

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