At what point do you begin to "love yourself"? I
People say as you age the more comfortable you are and the less fucks you give about other people’s opinions. 30 is when it starts.
When you find someone that loves you and figure out you're actually capable of being loved and worth it.
Hasn't happened to me yet.
this is the answer. people who have lots of people that love them and still whine need a bullet to the head.
When you realise your worth.
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Loving yourself is more or less a meme.
Self acceptance is something everyone should strive for, though. What said applies here, it usually happens with age.
>30 is when it starts
Oh good, I should start getting more comfortable with myself soon then. Yep, any day now.
Very true...
Up until the very moment that person cheats on you or dumps you.
I agree with that. I finally did and I don't tolerate anyone's bullshit anymore.
It took me all my life and hitting rock bottom half a year ago to get where I am now.
I am 25.
to love yourself means to stop moping over everything negative and to strive to live a better, and a more fulfilling life
Basically, it means to magically have a perfect answer to your current negative disposition.
Idk. But for me it will never happen I hate my mutilated and fucked up body
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Goddamn, the things I'd do to those butts. They're legal, right?
The one on the right is, the left one is legal in some states and European countries
having a better understanding of god and your relation to him
Why isn't anyone mentioning their butts?
In my experience, self-love is being comfortable with my flaws, but not complacent. I won't attack myself for stumbling or making a mistake, but I won't accept that I'm just perfect as is. It's a realistic idea about the self; self pity, self defeat, and narcissism are imaginary/delusional ideas. This is my opinion.
Good enough for me
When you finally break free from yourself
It’s all you know, the way you are now. You might not like yourself, but you’re comfortable. You know what to expect.
You eventually stop worrying and getting anxious about the things you used to spend so much of your time obsessing over, things you couldn’t change but couldn’t let go of.
Everything feels still, and you don’t even feel awake most of the time, but you’re contempt.
Now I live for the simple things, like enjoying the atmosphere of my quiet neighbourhood as the sun sets, or a soothing piece of music.
Life’s good
Hard to say. I think though honestly you need to just...love yourself. You shouldn't predicate it on conditions like "once I bang a girl I'll love myself" or "once I get a better job I'll love myself". You have to just think you're enough, right now. It's easier the more you accomplish things and fill your life with hobbies, activities and people you really enjoy. But it's possible to have a dream job, a dream car, a dream girl, and still not feel good enough. So just do it right now. Don't "work on yourself" to make that happen.
When you’ve endured all that life has to throw at you and reach a rock bottom. From there, the only way to go is up. Happens to some people sooner than others. But only the strong can recover from this.
I disagree. You need some degree of love and approval from outside to establish an inner sense of worth to society. It takes both parts, really.