Im not sure what to do with my gf...

Im not sure what to do with my gf, we've been dating about 7 month's and sex has gone from twice a week average to once every 2-3 weeks . somethings not clicking and i don't know what to do.

I know she's going through stress from school and depression as she lost a ton of friends due to drama.

I think it really bugged me when we hung out for the first time in a week and at the end of the night , we got into bed and she said she doesn't want sex because I probably expect it because we haven't seen each other in a week and her ex would expect sex. i just said i don't wanna have sex with someone who doesn't want me and left it at that.

Ever since that I've felt a weird tension and I'm getting the feeling she's not ready to date or is still hung up on her ex.

Sex has become less and less frequent and it feels like a real lack of intimacy.

Dumping her would be lame but i want to be wanted.

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Don’t over think, there are plenty of reasons
Your not going to know why, her body is her body and she is a person, your going to have to cut the balogna and remind your self that.

just relax and see how things go if the problem persists talk to her about it.

Feeling pressured for sex is the single best way to lose any interest in sex. The fact you think you should have more sex is already putting your gf under pressure. Use that information as you wish.

Same shit different thread;
Talk to your significant other.
Seriously. If you feel unwanted or undesirable, talk to her about it.
If you want sex more, talk to her about it.

With how she's been feeling lately from the sounds of it, she may not be up to your needs. You two should still be able to find some middleground of some kind if you have a real good discussion about it.

Remember- you two are two different lives and beings trying to live together. You should be willing to be there for eachother. She should be willing to be there for you and your needs, and obviously you to hers.
Discussion is necessary if two people are together long enough- you're both individuals who have needs. Sit down and talk about them from time to time.

Read Robert Greens Art of Seduction and use some of the techniques in there

Yah, dump her.
It's not going to get better.
She has to many issues of her own and probably subconsciously uses you to make herself feel better.
Lack of intimacy is a real killer here.

Theres a few things to gather here. Having also just lost a ton of friends due to drama, I can relate. This would definitely cause her to want sex less.

And like others have said, bringing up wanting sex and not getting it when you think you were about to is only going to pressure her and make it worse.

That being said i've been in enough relationships to know that when the sex drops off (outside of longevity of the relationship) usually theres a bigger issue (ie loss of affection, cheating, etc)

Fair enough, then provide a possible solution ??
I feel that if I just shut up and wait for it she's just gonna have sex with somebody else after "it just happens" and I'm left with the "but I thought you weren't interested in sex" bit.

>If you want sex more, talk to her about it.
And fall into this catch-22?

> usually theres a bigger issue (ie loss of affection, cheating, etc)
Agreed. How to avoid that the dropping sex frequency turns into the cause for loss of affection/cheating in your exp ?