Why do girls I know keep dating fat/short/badly dressed/unkempt guys...

Im not gonna kill anyone. I don’t blame women for my problems.

Thing is all my friends (including girls) keep asking me why I don’t have a gf, and when I respond “because girls don’t like me” they laugh at me and say I’m talking bullshit. But if that’s the case then why don’t girls show any interest in me?

Why assume that I’m lying?

I’m 6 foot tall (actually measured by the doctor), most guys I know are shorter than that. A lot of guys even lie about their height. Yet they all have dates or gfs and I don’t. I dress well and girls are always complimenting my clothes. Most guys don’t give a shit about what they wear and just throw on some graphic t shirt they haven’t washed in 2 weeks, yet they have girls on their arms and I dont

You need to believe me when I tell you that women will not show signs! They we’re raised not to and they won’t.

It is your job to proposition women and try. You will be rejected, maybe even a few times. But keep trying and one will say yes and it will all be worth it.

To make me feel more confident, my mother provided me with a better car to drive in Santa Barbara, a BMW 3 series Coupe. I had always wanted this, since I cared a lot about my appearance. I had been asking my parents for a more upper-class car ever since I found out that there was a car hierarchy, and that some students at my college drove better cars than others. Now I was one of the students with a better, high-class car.
Having a nicer car than most other students my age did indeed make me feel more confident. Mother should have bought this car for me when I first moved to Santa Barbara. It made me feel better about going out more while I was there. This, coupled with my newly healed leg, gave me one last twinge of hope as the remaining months of 2013 passed.
For those last remaining months, my extreme desperation and desire for happiness took hold of me, knowing full well how my life will turn out if I don’t get what I want. I went out every single day, just to put myself out there in the world in order to see what opportunities arise. I explored the entirety of Santa Barbara and Montecito, and it fully dawned on me what a beautiful environment I had been living in. However, a beautiful environment is the darkest hell if I have to experience it all alone. That fact that I had wasted the last two years in such a beautiful place filled me with anguish. I thought about what an enjoyable life I could have had, if only girls were attracted to me.

>actually measured by the doctor
The absolute state of you.

It’s probably due to your very severe autism

>women will not show signs
They do though.

You've seen reality now, many women don't give a fuck about arbitrary things like "HEIGHTFACEFRAME" but want to be loved by someone they get along with. Hope you'll stop listening to r9kpol/adv.

The girl that gave you the compliment? Fucking ask her out for drinks, or gobig and ask her over to watch old classic movies and bake a pizza, then fuck her silly.

Post pics then OP.

Not in the way op thinks they should. He wants them to make the move like a fucking romantic comedy but that shit doesn’t work lile that.

They tend to stare at you and get clumsy around you, play with their hair a lot. Its subtle bullshit.

If women won’t show signs then how am I supposed to approach them? Every time I see another guy succeeding with women I fall into depression, I think “I will never compare to him, he is better than me, even if I look better than him he has something deep inside him that makes him inherently superior to me”

Yeah, and there’s no cure for autism

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That’s not me. I didn’t post that

>girls dont show signs of interest
They do if you're attractive, incel.

You look like a 4/10. You aren't well groomed, the least bit fashionable or attractive. You are tall though.

Ok so this belief that you have, that you’re not worthy of love and this jealousy you harbor is your worst enemy when it comes to impressing women.

You approach the women that you are interested in, stop caring what anyone thinks. That in and of itself is what’s attractive about it and why the guy who can boldly ask a girl out will usually get a yes.

The absolute worst case is a girl says no! Then you move on and ask out some other girl!

That picture isn’t me.

I’m not gonna post pics on Jow Forums ffs

So if women don’t care about looks, how am I supposed to attract them? Looks are easy to improve, personality is impossible to change...

You’re not helping... op obviously needs to start from scratch here. This isn’t normallly charted territory.

But a girl saying “no” is a horrifying concept to me. It could destroy my entire sense of self worth. At least 50% of my self esteem is derived from what women think of me. I have a deep need to be desired by women, I don’t know why

Then change what you do with your time.

Go volunteer for your local children’s hospital, you’ll be surrounded by nurses and youll make them wet because you care about sick kids.

Look OP, if you don't post pics then you aren't at all attractive. You are still a virgin at that age. You aren't hit on in public. You aren't attractive. Stop thinking you are. You aren't fashionable, that would get you attention. You are probably not 6 feet tall without shoes either. Just stop lying to yourself. You are none of these traits because you're not good looking enough to beat fat slobs.

When someone says no to me I used this a fuel to motivate myself onto the road of improvement,

Fuck off. Why would I post pics and dox myself on Jow Forums ffs? You’re probably an ugly as shit Incel trying to rub your negativity on to me

I appreciate you being honest with yourself.

Ok man, your homework is to come to terms with why you even feel that way and to shift your own self worth to yourself, you’re value lies in your own personal opinions of yourself and no one else.

Work on this and get back to us in a few days

Goodnight.

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Alri OP, you gotta look at your female friends and decide which one you're closest to/most likely to actually be able to date and ask her out. If she turns you down, pay attention to how. No woman on friendly terms will ever give you a straight answer (You're Ugly/You're a Sperg/You're a loser) but if she gives you some bullshit non-committal answer then you know you're fucked.
If this happens, you've got two real options; MGTOW (find a way to self actualize and develop worth without relying on pussy like a retarded caveman) or unironically kys

I don't need to rub anything on you. You act uglier than the fat slobs girls go for. You aren't confident in your looks. You are ugly and it's obvious that you don't want to confront the truth by calling anyone who suggests you are ugly to be incel. I also notice you didn't refute anything. Stop lying to yourself.

You are ugly.
If you were attractive you wouldn't be in your situation.

I can’t do that. I feel like shit all the time cause I’m a kissless dateless virgin. Nothing I do, say or think can make me feel better about that. It’s impossible

I don’t have the courage to ask out girls or even express interest in them. I’ve never even flirted with a girl or admitted to a friend about having a crush on anyone. I’m worried everyone might think I’m gay or asexual...

Just Bee yourself and develop a meaningful life.
If you establish yourself and have things, you'll find some woman who will want to take all your shit away from you and ruin your life and that's what a relationship is.
Like every other 18yo virgin on this site you need to stop focusing on the fucking pussy and start focusing on shit that's actually important.

Brandon...

Virtue signaling doesn't work. I can donate plasma for free daily and girls will prefer the hot guy.

OP, have you ever been hit on in public? If not you're considered average or unattractive. What makes you call yourself attractive? If girls you know say that, they're probably just saying it to be nice.

Elliot had an interesting personality though

This has got to be an autistic incel. OP uses incel terms and he's obviously incel.
He's deffo a narcissist too, he doesn't want a girl to treat her nice, all he acts is entitled and wants to use her to look non gay or asexual for the hotter girl that will take notice. His attitude is disgusting and he definitely looks like how he acts. Hot guys aren't left on the table.

>volunteer at children's hospital
>donate plasma

Its rather concerning that you don't know the difference between these two things.

Nobody donates plasma free either. Are you that autistic?

You focus on your life, and try to see women as friends foremost. You'll eventually meet one who is more similar to you. I know it's hard tho, I'm mildly sperg too.

It is all about perspective. Your view is that women want a good looking guy??? that is a one night stand concept. reality is they want someone with a secure future showing a woman you can feed her and help raise a child goes a lot longer than looking like a metro-sexual-dufus. .. Take this advice from someone who has a 3inch cock 2ft belly and unpleasant smell.. but i know how to cook and keep a job and do random fun activities. Married several years and before i was married had sever sexual partners regardless of the fact i look and smell like a walrus. ps i do not make a lot of money either im a highschool drop out. the people who say you need to be self centered are full of it! But if you take care of yourself it shows and helps still not necessary.

interesting only in the sense that it was atypical. there were seemingly no positive qualities to it.

just thought i should add this food for thought having a 3 inch cock is not easy but with my collection of fake dicks i can pleasure even the loosest sluts....

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If you want a quick fuck,sure looks are great. But looks are definitely not everything in a relationship.

You need to get over your fears and try it, there's no advice we could give you to make it easier. Fear is not a rational emotion that you can eliminate arguing with your subconscious.

If I can say something that will help, it's this: imagine yourself 20 years from now lamenting over how you were so scared if being rejected you never even tried when you were younger. You're going to want to slap your younger self out of regret.

Two sufferings

1. You suffer rejection to get to glory.
2. You suffer regret for the rest of your life.

“Why cant i get a date says man who has never asked a woman out on a date.”

>first post in the thread is putting dudes down on superficial traits, exhibiting one of the least desirable traits you can as a man: oblivious arrogance

Holy shit, I thought you killed yourself, Elliot!

If you make any attempt to talk to a girl you know that has some self esteem issues, you will make her day.

Maybe the reason women arent asking you out is because they know you're... you know... a little...eh...

I mean, how do you even know you like vajeen if you've never had it?

You know how some animals like dogs can sense when a tsunamis coming and they run for the hills? Well, as a perfect analogy, the women are the dogs. And the tsunami is... well..actually, the tsunami is yet to come. But dont worry its comin! But no. Where was i. Oh yeah. So women are the bitches, and your dwindling manhood is the congruent to the prefacing red flag of the receding tide that retreats away from the beach, away from the bikinis, and sun parched artificial mammories, to reveal the dark and uninhabitable subterranean underbelly that is your latent homosexuality...

So, you see, what im sayin is...

ur gay.

And everbody knows it.

You're welcome.

>low self esteem
>good shape, tall, fashionable and meticulously groomed?
Pick one

Geez, you tried really hard to sound smart there, dummy.

Not mutually exclusive, retard.