>Girl broke up with me >3 weeks now, given her no contact for a week now, >check my site last night, she still uses my website that i built for her >want her back
Should I take the site down? My goal is to get her back. I'm torn between giving her the full break-up (no benefits from me, shut site down) or leaving her a good memory that I did have some use for her life.
I worry that if I close it that it might send the message I am done when in reality I'm hoping I could mend things
What's best move here? (to get her back)
What's the alpha-est move? Cuz I know girls dont like weak beta men
So long as you arent paying for the site dont mess with it. If she didnt offer you payment for the site and you didnt gift it to her and explicitly said you wanted payment in return dont mess with the site.
Michael Sanchez
it was a gift at the time
so im gonna leave it alone then
i do pay for it but its not really an issue ($5 a year)
Nicholas Cruz
Do you expect her to give you back every gift you ever gave her, repay you for every meal you bought? The website was given in good faith. Don't try to retroactively deny your feelings back then by counteracting them now
Jace Ross
>paying for things for your ex to enjoy Fuck off.
Tell her to pay the fee or you're shutting it down, OP.
Lincoln Hernandez
she blocked me everywhere lol
this is my thinking actually
generosity generates good karma as well
Juan Wilson
Lol wtf shes dumping you aside Shut down the site
Brandon Jenkins
There's a difference between continuing to pay a recurring fee and asking for gifts back. Take the fucking site down.
Brayden Wood
u should tell her to pay for the site, shows u care and do not intent to bring it down and leaves her thinking u moved on
Justin Gutierrez
No wonder she dumped you. Youre a soft beta she knows she can takr advantage of
No. The opposite is true if anything. You think one day she's going to wake up and think "he must be a really great guy if he's still paying for this website, I better get back with him"? Fucking delusional.
Thomas Rivera
I lied to her But nothing major like cheating or anything
it was my fault for sure but ive said sorry, begged even
Brandon Ramirez
Just leave the site up until the sub runs out and when she asks why it's down just say the sub ran out. The site is a terrible idea to get her back.
If you want to stay with her, talk to her and sort out your differences, if not talk to her and sort out your differences. fag
Cooper Martinez
Message her or something and post pics, but don't get your hopes up too high.
Christian Thompson
Stop paying for it thats all if it requires continued payment you just need to stop you dont need to let her know that is all.
Kevin Nguyen
she's offline
and what do you think im trying to do? she's blocked me evefrywhere but on steeam
Dominic Carter
>I lied to her >But nothing major like cheating or anything your judgement is clearly a bit shitty, so you saying that it's "nothing major" doesn't mean jack shit here
she saw a pamhplet in my jacket from the casino, i tried to lie eveen more but i just fessed up, she got mad
Brandon Williams
GUYS SHES ONLINE
Jeremiah Hughes
guys shes in VR CHAT DO I GO TO HER??!
Eli Mitchell
we're talking but it slow
its gonna be hard to get back to the way things use to be
Parker Harris
Continue as casual friends, but try not to pull any romantic shit. Meanwhile, try to get your gambling addictions sorted out, such as finding harmless substitutes. Vidya is a good one, as long as you're not wasting money on cosmetics or some other shit.
Once you're in a position of where you can convince her and yourself that you're no longer gambling, try to reestablish that relationship again.
That's how I would do it anyway. I never actually been in a relationship before lmao
Robert Bell
we had a little catch up, but generally im just being light and playful
we'r played a few overwatch games, but shes just left now and she said, "but user, this is gonna work out for now, just for now..."
"
Andrew Smith
this is not** gonna work out
Ayden Watson
If you want her no contact is not the way. I no contacted my ex for a month in a last fotch attempt. It made things worse. I havent talked to her in 2 years.
Daniel Wilson
it works but only if u didnt beg and u had a good relationship otherwise its not effective
Kayden Ward
lol this bitch is crazy
so i was hosting a game room right, she comes in and whispers to my character, "wanna help me fix this room?"
I was in a gamee, and i told her, "what do i get out of it?" jokingly,
and she said "i have all the stuff"
i said, "yea lateer"
she said nvm bye, deleetees mee from steam?? wtf
Colton Evans
bump
Xavier White
Don't go out of your way to mess with her.
Stop paying for the site. Whenever the time left it has is up it'll shut down and that'll be that.
Your not being spiteful but your also not doing her any favors.
