Okay.. i'm the guy from yesterday who asked his crush out and got ignored. She replied today...

The only reason i'm keep trying is because i think it is exactly the case and also i believe she is into me... i known her for 4 years. she is a very shy girl and i think i was too direct just out of nowhere asking her out yet we didn't even really talk before.

That's exactly why i reformed the sentences that way and didn't call it a date... we both know it is .. jesus fucking christ people on this board...

And thank you user for giving me hope.

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I understand how you feel user, but it'll destroy you if it doesnt come to fruition. You are hoping and praying and becoming dependent on that hope. It destroyed me, hoping and praying that my ex would come back to me, and she told me she still loved me, but she clearly didnt have her bearings and was incomplete.

Considering her answer, it seems like she could be interested in you, but thats not the point. She's not interested in you now, and no matter what people say, trying everything within your power doesn't guarentee success. You are resting your contentment with someone who is clearly not seeing you the way you see her.

Get your mind ready for perpetually heartbreak, user. If she weren't clear with her words, then she'll continue to be vague. She'll lead you on and on and on, you'll keep reaffirming that she's not ready yet, meanwhile by the time you are aware of it, she already were or have gotten in a relationship. Truthfully, she likely just want to stay as friends because of the chance taking that next step can ruin what you already had. Shy girls are just that, shy. Too introverted to even express how they feel or act. If you haven't gotten her out her shell then maybe there's no chance.

So you are saying even if i love her and there are chance that she could love me too i should accept defeat, not making any efforts, just sit back and find an easier way, find someone else..

If she completely ignored me i'd have moved on 100% but i don't wanna look back 10 years later thinking about what coul've happaned if wasnt such a pussy. running away from the first problem occured before me. (Sorry for possible grammar mistakes btw)

If you didn't hear yes, what you heard was a 'no.'

Yes. I am where you are right now, and you are leading yourself down a path of heartbreak and agony.

You need to find someone who is complete, and she is clearly not complete. She was vague with her words, she took her time to answer you, not to mention she told you she isn't looking for a relationship, and that will hang over you like a 500lb weight, and will crush you if this doesn't work.

Get out before it hurts, you'll only grow moe attached to her, but the idea of a relationship with her.

You are the most masculine member of the millennial generation and yet still a massive faggot

She said: (i'm trying to translate it correctly)

"So be it, but you know im not the best 'chatting-partner' * :'DD"

I take it as a win.

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>"I'm far too polite to tell you to leave me alone, much less to fuck off."
>counts it a win

Why do you guys relentlessly pursue girls who demonstrably do not care to have you around, and then lament how soulless women are?
I waited til I found the one who wanted me around instead of the one who wanted me to want to be around. The difference is the level of work she expects to put in, ideally, if she wants to see you then she'll gladly put in the hard work and effort.

If a girl isn't putting in the effort, she doesn't care. Sound reasonable? If she wanted it to work, she'd make it work.

Or maybe she doesn't know how to make it work and expects me to make it work..

sorry but you won’t get anything out of her. don’t waste time on her, she’s made her point clear. gtfo there and move on to someone else.

>im not the best chatting partner

= dont talk to me

Have a glass of water, sir

Sorry user, but thats both her insecurities coming out, and her polietly trying to get you to not chat with her.

She doesnt see you romantically, so its not a win. Get out before its too late.

Excuses. If she wanted to she'd do SOMEthing about it.
The Chad they want, the cool guy they wanna hang around-- they always seem to manage to make time for them, to be hangout people for them, to be sociable for them.

Either you can build yourself up to another failure or you can admit what happened here and move on to newer pursuits.

I think you’re a fucking fool to continue talking to her.

Why do you think that way? What's the worst thing that can happen? I'll try my best and if it works it works if it's not i'll move on...

The thing is that women rarely put in any effort

Holy shit why did you make this thread? Every answer telling you it's a bad idea you just do mental gymnastics as to why your going ahead with it anyway

Yes maybe i shouldn't have made this thread... since every single fucking person here telling me that it's a bad idea to even try just because there are problems and a high chance of failing even though there are clearly chance to win aswell..

All i hear is "fuck it dude... you would actually have to make effort to make this work... and even if you do it's not 100% that you win.. just move on and look for someone else..."

yea she's prolly not going to text you back or say some regular bullshit like 'oh i did not see the message' and just ignore you for the rest of your life.

Here's what you do: You ask her honest opinion on what exactly it is that makes you undateable and urge her to be as brutally honest as possible. Your hair, your clothing style, anything really that needs to get fixed, maybe personality wise or something that you can work with. That way you'l improve yourself for the next girl.