Okay boys, new namefag here

Okay boys, new namefag here

Got girl problems? Lay 'em on me, I'll show you the way to manhood.

>no girls allowed
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish; ask a fisherman instead

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Would you help with asking for a date problems?

How to get anal from a women which does not want to try it?

Anything related to love and romance and relationship

Ease her into it. Put a finger in her bum a few times. Then two and three. See how it goes, if the reaction is positive, then you can suggest down the line. Go easy, cuz anal hurts no matter what lol.

Oh ok, she's just a crush so I guess it doesn't count as any of that.

Well, that relates to my work.

Do tell the deets so I can help you in not fucking it up.

>just realizing I like this girl
>only talked to her a few times in class about classwork, complemented her projects
>final day of class is tomorrow
I have only one chance should I just ask for digits and pray or have we not talked enough for that to be acceptable yet?

anyone know that feel when you like a girl and the girl seems to like you too but you're afraid to make a move because you're thinking that the other guys who like her are going to suffer and get jealous if you fuck her/get in a relationship with her ?

sometimes i think i prefer to suffer rather than causing other people to suffer, but by suffering i cause trouble to other people either way so there's no escaping it

it may just be a bullshit reason to stay passive, i don't know

Go up to her and ask her. Sounds like you don't have much of a rapport with her, that's fine. What do you think her attraction level is for you? If it's low your chances will be low, obviously.

But it's better to have tried that not, I always say. Shoot your shot.

I would say something along the lines of

>"Hey I think you're interesting and cool. Do you want to go for coffee at Starbucks on Saturday?

The "interesting and cool" part comes from you. I don't know what you like about her, but it has to be genuine.

Most importantly, whenever you ask someone for a date, the mindset is what matters. You have to come from a position of strength wherein you have the world to offer to her. You have to be "the catch" who's giving her the time of day.

>you're afraid to make a move because you're thinking that the other guys who like her are going to suffer and get jealous if you fuck her/get in a relationship with her ?

All's fair in love and war user.

You don't go into war "caring" if the enemy is suffering.

Besides, if that's the type of altruism you feel for your fellow man, and it overrides the love you have for her, then maybe you're not cut out for this game.

She's kind of quiet, unfortunately I don't have a reason to believe she likes me, I helped her get something from a shelf one time and she said "Thank you" in a shy way but that could mean nothing.
So you're suggesting I ask her out right away not just ask for her number?

you're right, but i don't like how whatever you do you're gonna end up fucking people over
i can't do much about it anyway

Look, when you're making a sale, you sell the big one first. Then when the sale is made, the details can be exchanged.

If she says yes to the date, you naturally ask for her number after, and it's logical that she wouldn't say no.

>I don't have a reason to believe she likes me

That's fine. You have little raporrt with her, and your attraction level to her is probably average. Try it anyway.

Such is life, life is suffering.

Do what's best for you.

Is going to see a movie a reasonable thing to ask instead of coffee? It's been 5 years since I've done this crap so sorry for the dumb questions.

>Never ask a fish how to catch a fish; ask a fisherman instead

This is probably the dumbest thing I have ever heard

>It's been 5 years since I've done this crap
It's okay dude, but don't let her know this.

If she asks, say something like, "I'm just having fun right now, everything is open"

>Movies

I mean, movies are nice, but I prefer to talk to the date rather than sit there with no way to relieve the anxiety of getting to know her.

If you're not a fan of coffee, do ice cream. I think you'll leave a stronger memory if she eats something sweet when you're with her. As opposed to sitting in a dark room, with all of her attention, likely to be on the movie.

No. You don't know her well enough to suggest a film. Letting her choose is just lame. Going to a coffe first is a good opportunity to get to know her

>Tfw I hate coffee and can't eat ice cream because lactose
I don't want to do dinner either I feel like that's too formal.

This is a matter of logistics on your end. Even a stroll in a park or the mall will be tonnes better than a movie.

Order tea you idiot. Or a fruit juice

I've been ghosted so many times.
I think it broke my confidence. I feel like every female who I come across serectly hates me.
I'm sure I'm doing something wrong but, not sure what or why.

Good points.
Alright so I'll just tell her I think she's cool/pretty or whatever then ask for the date then aquire digits.

Sorry to hear that.

But ghosting is actually a blessing in disguise. They weren't meant for you, let it be.

>I think it broke my confidence.

It only breaks if you let it. I mean, yeah, lick your wounds, take a breather. But move on, there's plenty of fish in the sees. It's just a numbers game anyway.

That's pretty generic advice. But, then again I didn't really phrase a question.
How do I get my confidence back?

Do things healthy things that you enjoy.

I like to hit the gym, learn new things, and socializing. Always strive to improve who you are from yesterday.

shut up stupid roastie

Women give terriblee advice about women

was thinking to make a post but ok.
>friend met a girl at camp he thinks shes a girl version of me
>she messages me through his messenger, we talk a bit mostly just funny argument
>she text me, friend mustve given her my num
>we talk for like a few months i was dumb and only talked about friend stuff.
>fast forward to now which is 2 years later
>i texted her out of the blue pretended it was a drunk text. she reply we joke a bit,
>she interested that im changing my name, she ask what to
>i say cant say here, add me on snap to find out,
>then i get her on snap, and she ask again
>i say add me on insta then i tell u
she add me on insta and then i reply on snap saying, i think i can only say in person
>she says, "thats an interesting idea" but also says when i ask to meet and find out "nah, but lemmi know if u ever want to say"

we both 19 btw, i never hav a gf idk abt her. she like a 6-7/10 im probs a 5/10

i thought was going right direction, like how she was just saying ok and adding me everywhere but doesnt want to meet, she hasnt read my snap asking if shes mad in a jokey way that i sent yesterday.. so im just saiting to tease her more. but idk what to do now since shes already said no. im only interested in a relationship, we get along well and did years ago i simply cant be friends with girls they too different. id like to get something out of this. i was thinking just saying ok bye lol but im pretty sure she will just be like ok and not chase me back. her snap score like 25k which is relatively low for a pretty girl.
years ago she would talk about and complain about school, her "friends" and stuff.
this time we talk its different and im being more confident and im leading our convos but im stuck...

>like how she was just saying ok and adding me everywhere but doesnt want to meet,

You have been her online friend for two years, and then you string her across three platforms before actually "asking her out".

I mean, yeah, what did you expect?

>I feel like every female who I come across serectly hates me.

How can they hate you if they don't know you?

lol she said i was smooth in using that way to get her to add me everywhere. did i mess up though... i didnt know i was this clueless........ what to do now rip me

>she said i was smooth in using that way to get her to add me everywhere.

But you didn't get what you really wanted, to go out. Because you tested her patience instead of coming right out and doing it.

Next time ask a girl out sooner, not two years later and after three online platforms.

ok waiting for dr strangelove on howto fix this

>ok waiting for dr strangelove on howto fix this

Learn, grow, don't get caught in trying to fix what has already happened.

You are 19, go talk to another girl. Don't waste time.

i dont get in contact with many. this is the second change ive had since 2017. rejected by the other.

>i dont get in contact with many.

Then you kinda need to work on that, don't you think?

my class and course has 3 girls out of like 50. its computing, not sure how else to find out of school. i was luck with this one.

So you go to class and then home? How will you have time to date?

so where to do i got and what do i do to learn what i need to learn? i was raised a onions boy by a weird single mum, this is just one of the things im so clueless about.

As long as you blame mommy you won't be an adult. Get a hobby, meet people there.

Are venues really that matters? I've tryed to get into relationship with 3 girls whom I was meet on work and got rejected. But meet one while relaxing with friends and succeeded.

>we talk for like a few months i was dumb
We only talk to girls for one reason, to get to know her and to make them ours. I bet you talked on social or phone too. Big no-no, always arrange to meet in person.

>>fast forward to now which is 2 years later
Took way too long to make a move. The initial attraction will have faded by now

>then i get her on snap, and she ask again
>i say add me on insta then i tell u
>i think i can only say in person

I don't know the point of this... seems like a silly game. Getting a girls socials should not be your goal. You should have just asked for one and then asked for a date right away.

>but idk what to do now since shes already said no
Walk away. That's the only thing you can do.

> id like to get something out of this.
Yeah, don't play around, be direct, and set dates.

>this time we talk its different and im being more confident and im leading our convos but im stuck...

And thats because the initial attraction is gone now.

Learn from this. Always be direct and tell women what you want. If they don't then simply walk away.

like what? sports or? at my school only chads and brainlets joined the few clubs there were and i tried being friends with them but the one i was with was so dumb HAHAH iswear to god i couldnt make a joke without having to explain everything about it.

there arent many other clubs in my town. i deleted my facebook but all the popular kids from my old school all started dating eachother even now. i was an outcast and ive left them all behind.
not sure where to meet people. my few friends have introduced me a couple places and ive met a few but never took off. never been invited to a party,,, this gets me real bad. at this point my brain i just thinking, lets see how it goes with this girl rn, and otherwise wait for university, itll get better there. but now im worried about that too, if it doesnt go well.
my best friend is visiting his family back in his country for the past 2 months so im alone here meeting nobody and staying at home. ive tried to go out with all my loosly connected friends in my class, even those i wouldnt really care. theyre either too busy with their job or with their other friends.

i never usually come here asking for help but id rather know what im doing rn. i just wanna meet this girl probs in our local park and see how it goes. she lives an hour away though in another town but i guess i can travel.

You mean that it's easier to meet people while having fun and not while working? You mean dating is easier when the fallout is, at most, losing a few friends instead of risking your job?

You can meet people at work, but it won't be as good a source of relationships as having fun.

Venues do matter.

Girls in public settings will havee their guards up.
Girls in clubs are usually drunk and beligerent.

Best places are small bars, art shows, galleries, weddings.

aight i think i get it. for this scenario im just gonna ask last time if she wanna do something like meet in her town or smth, if she says no imma just say bye and not message again. fuck though man i really dont get these chances often, im not white and live in a white town, there really arent many of my kind here so its extra hard for me u know. plus being 5/10 i wont give up ofc, thing is im not exactly attracted to her just that i think she and i are pretty similar and it could work out, i just wanna try. only one other girl ever has tried to ask me out but we met at my friends church and they all like family so i didnt want to make things wierd since she is also like 3 years younger but a 4/10.

so plan ask her to meet in her town. i just said meet before so this time ill be direct, if she says no ill say bye and thats the end of that.

can i ask where to learn this stuff, im completely clueless and have nobody else to ask. relationships stuff and generall life advice. is this redpill? to be honest i dont know what redpill really means so thanks i guess

>itll get better there. but now im worried about that too, if it doesnt go well.

It won't get better if you don't socialize.

Forget about this girl, pick a hobby you like and have some fun with other people.

How do I stop feeling broken and like a failure? How do I stop burning out so easily?

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Why do you feel broken? Why do you burn out?

>aight i think i get it. for this scenario im just gonna ask last time if she wanna do something like meet in her town or smth, if she says no imma just say bye and not message again.

I don't think you understand.

She's rejected you. And now you are chasing. This will drive her away more. The best thing you can do is walk away and learn from this.

>so plan ask her to meet in her town. i just said meet before so this time ill be direct, if she says no ill say bye and thats the end of that.

I won't advise this. The chances will be low. Chasing when she left is a big turn off.

>is this redpill? to be honest i dont know what redpill really means so thanks i guess

Search Doc Love, Tony Robbins, and Coach Corey Wayne.

More details. Could be plenty of reasons.

thanks guys for ur help.
im clueless and have no experience in anything like this ever.

im nepalese so a pajeet with a pinch on chink so i find it hard in a white country. south asian are my type and where i live there arent many. i will take in everything u guys said but since i dont think i was very clear the first time since it was linked to a joke im going to directly ask and that will be final. i will know for next time and will not make these mistakes again. my first crush was awful for me and this was much more relaxed so im getting there hopefully. :)

>im going to directly ask and that will be final.

Why do you ask for advice if you ignore what we say? Suit yourself.

i thought i might as well try properly this time. its not like shes going to come back to me if i dont ask. im never going to see her so why not try?

Youre free to do what you want, but it will be very low chance she will accept you.

Try and learn this lesson for yourself.

user from earlier here (asking classmate out), one more question: she usually leaves class randomly and a bit early so I'd have to follow her out early to talk to her, I don't want to come off as a weirdo or desperate but I have no opportunity to casually ask her. Would leaving with her come off as strange and hurt my chances?

Get tons of lube (Vaseline works fine). The pain will be to a lesser degree for her.

I would meet her early in class. Can you sit beside her? Build some rapport. Ask her what she’s doing for summer etc. Then pop the question.

If not if you see her leave I would call out her name. When she stops just follow her and build rapport. Then when you’re some ways away from the classroom, stop look into her eyes and pop the question.

Asking a woman will always leave you for vulnerable but you’re showing more courage than you ever have. It means you know what you want.

No matter the outcome walk away in stride. Be happy you did such a thing. And if she ends up saying yes, great! If not, wear this as a badge of honour and walk away like a man.

Good luck buddy. Keep me updated.

I think that you should at least let her know that you’d like to stay in touch, even if she doesn’t agree to go out with you right away. She may want to get to know you better before taking a chance and going somewhere with you.

The thing is I'm working at a big facility and I usually meet girls there during some none-workable activities, during the lunch, playing table tennis or some stuff like that. My thought is: maybe my job makes me more stressful and less attractive? And then I trying to get girls, fail and feel even more miserable and less attractive. Should I quit meeting girls there?

She's always late so before is a no go.
Finals during class so most likely no chance there, it's my own fault for waiting this long.
Finding the appropriate moment has always been my biggest problem but I have to do this. If the thread is still up tomorrow I'll let you know, thanks.
If she says no I'll try for the numbers or some type of social media info. I've already looked her up just to lurk but can't find anything at all so oh well.

>Never ask a fish how to catch a fish; ask a fisherman instead

My gf left me and when I asked my girl friends why they think that happened, they told me that they think it's because I have no social status.

Is it bullshit then? Because from what I noticed, the girls I know are all crushing on guys the whole city knows about. So maybe they are really right.

How much dick do you suck daily? Like on average. I know fags like you have busy days.

Why do you believe whores? Because you are a naive incel

I wouldn't say they are whores lol.
What's your answer then?

Women will often just think of a reason to justify or rationale as to why your girl left you. Most of the time they will offer no solutions... they'll sympatize with you at most.

Godspeed!

Sounds like a plan. The other user's idea is also good. If she doesn't say yes, then ask if you can keep in touch etc.

alright i'll summarize this as clearly as i can
>be me, last year
>have online relationship with girl for a month and a half
>she gives me a shirt when we decided to meet up (which has the logo of her school on it) as a gift (which i refused at first, but she insisted a fuckton of times and i don't want her to get mad so i just took it anyway)
>ff to last january
>she gets cold, i find out she's flirting with another guy. you get the idea
>cut all contact with her immediately, throw the shirt to dump near creek in anger
>ff a few days later after shirt throwing one of her friends (which i'm not even friends with) contacts me asking for shirt
>don't reply, a few days later she asks me (via message) to check for her friend's message
should i just tell her that i don't have the shirt anymore, or just continue to ignore her? i'm not good at handling situations like these and i feel kinda bad since she's proven herself to be quite nice but very slutty at the same time.

If you want nothing to do with her, then just tell her that you don't have it anymore.

Don't be mean or anything just say the truth in a calm manner and move on.

>hang out with coworker and his friends regularly as a group
>interested in one of his friends
>never really have time alone with her
>dont want to make it awkward with friend and his group of friends if she's not interested
>dont want to regret not trying
I wouldn't even know how to ask her out, been so many years since i've asked someone out.

How do you make a good impression on a girl you meet through a mutual friend?

What if I’m a lesbian? Am I not allowed in?

What do you think her attraction level to you is?

Anyway, i always say to give it the old boy scout try

Everyone's welcome!

Be confident. Know your purpose. Treat girls like lovers, and not friends.

>Treat girls like lovers, and not friends.
Can you elaborate on that? How do you treat them like lovers right off the bat without coming off as a desperate creep?

Basically, treat them like potential love interests. Flirt with them ,even if you don't mean anything by it. Be playful and funny. Tease them.

I don't know. I always miss the clues if there are any. Boy scout?

Alright so, my ex recently dumped me for a second time, but not really. We had broken up around October last year, and then after a couple weeks, we figured we’d try again, since she still had feelings for me and let her negative thoughts brew in her head. And now, a week or so ago, she told me she just wanted to be friends, but during this time, she’s been having contact with me and calling crying and says that she misses and loves me

Do I give her another chance? I wanna take things slow and give her space to get her shit together, but I don’t want the spark to die.

Usually they look and smile.
Touch their hair. Open to dialog.

You can gage it by asking her about her day (if you know her), and if she gives a short and business like answer, her interest is usually low. If she's interested you can tell from her tone of voice or her smile when she talks to you.

I have a tricky one for you dude, and don’t worry if you can’t answer this because it’s fucking weird and seemingly unheard of:

I’m super anxious, it’s even worse with women because I’m also insecure and embarrassed about the anxiety as well as my limited experience with dating. Can barely talk to them unless they’re selling me something/ a cashier and even that’s a nightmare. Eye contact is, well it’s bad when it even occurs.

My question is how do I stop being so painfully aware of female presence. It is so bad I stare out the corner of my eye and just can’t stop no matter how hard I try. It’s like I FEEL their presence and can’t stop thinking about it. It makes me feel like a creep. I was seated next to a chick in a stats class before I dropped out and creeped her the fuck out because I couldn’t stop it.

Maybe I just need to fix the general social anxiety first and then this stuff will follow. While I’m at it, your thoughts on antidepressants for this shit?

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>And now, a week or so ago, she told me she just wanted to be friends, but during this time, she’s been having contact with me and calling crying and says that she misses and loves me

She sounds unsure of herself. I think you need to give her space to sort her feelings out.

>I wanna take things slow and give her space to get her shit together

You're absolutely correct. If the space kills the spark then so be it. But as of now, she's clearly unsure and your relationship is suffering to the point of her dumping you.

Say Something like, "You seem like you have a lot of things to think about (acknowledgement of problem). You know I'll always be here for you (reassurance ). I think that you should take a week to sort these feelings out. To do things that you enjoy and to get yourself back on track. And when you're ready to try again, just give me call. (state your intent)."

This shows 2 things:

1. You care and respect for her.
Giving her the time and space that she needs for her own sake indicates that you care for her. And that you can remove yourself for her sake. And after all, she did dump you. You are just helping her become stronger by doing this. Because as of now, she seems like she's trying to heal but she's being weak and keeps coming back to you.

2. You can walk away from her for her sake.
This is manly as fuck. You are walking away for her benefit. Most people would be dying to hold on and desperately rekindle. To give the time and space she requires to heal and find out what she really wants.

When shee does call back, make no mention of the ordeal. Be playful and fun. And just take her to do fun things. Cuz right now, its very heavy and emotional.

>I’m super anxious, it’s even worse with women because I’m also insecure and embarrassed about the anxiety as well as my limited experience with dating.

Sounds like you are not centered and relaxed. You cannot pursue women in this state as it seen as weak. Imagine, would our ancestors rely on a man to protect them if he displayed these traits? No way.

>My question is how do I stop being so painfully aware of female presence.

Sort out the anxiety.

And start practicing on every person, not just girls, to have a default behaviour of kindness. Not a "I'm doormat, I'm a pushover" kind, but reasonably kind. Receptive to social interaction instead of being averse to it.

>I was seated next to a chick in a stats class before I dropped out and creeped her the fuck out because I couldn’t stop it.

Sounds like hyper vigilance. This is your energy going into things that are unskilful and detrimental such as worrying. And percieving the worst of uncertainty.

>Maybe I just need to fix the general social anxiety first and then this stuff will follow.

You got it. When interacting with women, you want to be at peace, confident, relaxed. The opposite of what you just described to me.

>While I’m at it, your thoughts on antidepressants for this shit?

Not a psychotherapist by any means. But looking at our ancestral past, shit like this didn't exist. There's something in the modern habit or situation that cause such anxiety. We had the faculty of anxiety and fear for survival reasons... but we live in a fairly safe society, so something tells me it's purely a mental thing.

Antidepressants or not, anxiety is all from the mind.

My advice is to look up "experiential learning". Just be in your senses, that is, instead of being in your head, you are just experiencing what's happening to the world without the ego or your mind interpreting and creating narratives about it.

In short, stop analyzing and just enjoy life as it unfolds!

I have been encouraging of her talking out her emotions and how she’s feeling, regardless if it hurts my feelings, but she tells me that she doesn’t know, and when she does give me answers, it’s something like this, where we break up, or I have to pull them out of her.

I think she’s genuinely afraid of hurting my feelings, and I don’t want that. I just want her to be safe and feel happy with herself, even if it means it’s not with me

Do you think she might be hiding how she’s feeling from me? Lately she’s been giving me a lot of static answers like “mmhmm” whenever I try to be fun or have a conversation, serious or not. I’m afraid that she’s avoiding me

>I have been encouraging of her talking out her emotions and how she’s feeling, regardless if it hurts my feelings, but she tells me that she doesn’t know, and when she does give me answers, it’s something like this, where we break up, or I have to pull them out of her.

You've obviously tried to communicate with her. And she doesn't or can't say it. This is something that she needs to sort out on her own. What you did was fine, shows you care. But honestly, women are so insecure and unsure of themselves... that;s just how it goes. You have to let her come to her senses on her own.

>Do you think she might be hiding how she’s feeling from me?

Maybe. How long has it been since you've taken time off? She may not even know how she feels, or maybe shee just can't express them. Don't take it personally.

> Lately she’s been giving me a lot of static answers like “mmhmm” whenever I try to be fun or have a conversation, serious or not.

Sounds like a good time to pull away. Let her sort them out herself, because you can't. You can only listen.

>I’m afraid that she’s avoiding me

And if a woman is avoiding you, you give them what they want. Pull away (but in your case, since you want her back, read what I wrote what I think you should say in the previous post).

How do I meet girls on Jow Forums?
>No girls allowed
Man fuck off

>>No girls allowed
tongue in cheek comment there. Anyone is welcome.

so i was talking to a girl on ig and she asked me for a shoutout (due to her having few because she recently made her acc) and i said "i dont do that on my main lol" and i posted her on my spam saying "follow this cutie" and i deleted the post thinking she wouldnt see it and she did so then she texted me saying i have to make it up to her by posting her on my main and i didnt so she blocked me and ive been trying to get a hold of her since but shes been curving since then

>i deleted the post thinking she wouldnt see it and she did
Why didnt you follow through as asked? Very odd.

>and i didnt so she blocked me and ive been trying to get a hold of her since but shes been curving since then

When a woman backs off, blocks, or leaves you. You never chase. As you can see first hand, chasing them usually makes them flee.

"Follow love and it will flee, flee love and it will follow thee. "

i did it but it felt weird having just a random ass picture of her just there on my fun page you know? and i texted her on my spam and thats when she started curving me

So you should have said no from the beginning instead of saying you're gonna do it then flake.

>nd i texted her on my spam and thats when she started curving me

Just stop now. If it's salvageable, she will come back.

nah too late my guy she blcoked on my spam too , well plenty more fish in the sea my friend

I get your name reference :]

You got that right

Yep it's a great moviee

yo but something else real quick lets say i see this girl and she sees me and we both sorta stare at each other and smirk or smile or maybe when there is no smile what does that mean?

It’s weird, considering I am one, I don’t feel fickle or insecure. I know what I want and how to achieve it and I’m willing to go through heartbreak for this girl.

It’s been about 2 weeks or so. We’ve had small chats, and some serious talks where I try to have a genuine talk about my feelings and her feelings. We agreed to keep our distance, but lately it’s been worse, where she won’t answer me even if it’s something silly or minimal, for hours. I know she gets busy, but it feels like she won’t take time aside for me unless i call her and essentially make her.

>It’s weird, considering I am one, I don’t feel fickle or insecure. I know what I want and how to achieve it and I’m willing to go through heartbreak for this girl.

Sounds like you are in your masculine energy.

>We agreed to keep our distance, but lately it’s been worse, where she won’t answer me even if it’s something silly or minimal, for hours. I know she gets busy, but it feels like she won’t take time aside for me unless i call her and essentially make her.

She's pulling away. Just back off from pursuing for awhile.

>be me
>break off a terrible relationship
>been single for a year
>work out and do well in school
>been called attractive by many of my friends
> ghosted after every date
Any idea why this happens?

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Explain more on what you do on your dates.

>> ghosted after every date

Good riddance. Plenty of fish the sea.

Yeah, I’ve always been more masculine in my approaches. I’m no fat dyke, but that energy makes it harder for me to approach normal girls, and my ex was like a star, absolutely perfect for me.

I will take your advice. Lately I’ve been the one initiating contact, and her and I wanted to hang out as friends later this week, but we’ll see if it happens. I’ll wait for her to approach me, and I figure she will, considering the times where I’ve been pulling back, she calls me or interacts with me. There’s clearly a spark still there since the last time we hung out, she kissed me. Hoping for the best.

Thanks doc