>went outside
>tried to force myself to start a conversation with a cute girl
>failed to approach her because I didn't know what to say
maybe next year I'll finally succeed
Went outside
Maybe join a club or social circle, user. Aim small miss small
Try again
>Force myself to start a conversation with a cute girl
Cringe.
Join a book club, user. Or rent a gardening plot. Just do shit, and then talk to the other people doing that same shit. That's it. That's how you talk to people. By having things you do in common. Once you're there, ask other people for advice or questions.
"Hey, what did you think of this book?"
"Your garden looks great! How did you get X, Y, Z to grow so well?"
Shit like that.
As says, get a hobby. Have fun, be fun, meet people, not only girls. I bet meeting men is not easy for you either.
You went up to her like a cold comedian with no jokes?
Check out s few new movies and pay attention to the lead male actors and find their other movies. Watch 15 "chick flicks" and you will have ammo to use that could be pretty useful.
Invest in girl things. Try fucking yoga and let the milfs hit on you while they check out your package.
>have fun
how?
I don't know you. Pick something fun to do. Whatever you like. Just do it with people.
If you like reading, instead of reading alone, join a book club. That sort of thing.
I don't think most people even do that. Strike up conversations with random people, unless there is some kind of common topic that connects them - you are in the same party, in theater, library etc.
I'm a normie and I would never just walk up to someone and start talking.
Also this is terrible advice
>Check out s few new movies and pay attention to the lead male actors and find their other movies. Watch 15 "chick flicks" and you will have ammo to use that could be pretty useful.
Please, OP; don't listen to this crap. Movies are not actual life advice.
I don't remember when was the last time I had fun doing something, any recs?
Again, I don't know you. I can't pick for you.
If you really want to improve you have to put at least a tiny bit of effort into it. So pick something yourself.
The problem is I tried pretty much everything I can think of. Well, gonna keep looking something fun
Try not humping anything you can. The actual local popular activity. Check it out.
Get security approval and volunteer for kids sports. That will be fun with the parents because they won't have to volunteer instead. Next then the women notice that you like kids and will kinda make conversation themselves. Couple months investment and some actual fun. It lets you branch to other slow action sports. that is the fun we are talking about. It might lead to an invite to play pool or to go to a concert. Maybe a night club with dualling pianos. Or some hip band.
All for doing something for free.
What have you tried so far?
You dumb fucks. It isn't about the actual chick flicks. It's learning current heart throbs. Know what some women will masterbate too.
So fucking stupid and short sighted. Fuck the movies. It's the characters name that is on the fucking dildo. Get it baby boy?
How do you have fun? Bro...
Well, this is gonna look like I'm nitpicking your post apart.
The only humping action I get is with my hand, and even that is at most once a week.
>Get security approval and volunteer for kids sports. That will be fun with the parents because they won't have to volunteer instead.
You kinda lost me here, how will that be fun? I don't like watching or refereeing sports, and I don't like spending time with kids or with people in general.
>It might lead to an invite to play pool or to go to a concert.
literally played pool 2 days ago and concerts stopped being interesting after like the fifth time
>I don't like spending time with kids or with people in general.
>literally played pool 2 days ago and concerts stopped being interesting after like the fifth time
This is why we can't tell you what activities to pick. You will just whine about anything we say. So pick one yourself.
You are just as autistic or even more autistic than OP.
Rom coms are rom coms. Nothing more you delusional freak.
To think being this anti-social and giving advice on how to be social, holy shit
gym (still excercise for health reasons), gun range, building electronic circuits, going sightseeing, traveling, playing chess, playing guitar, consuming media(books, music, movies, etc...), bungee jumping
I'm pretty sure there were a couple of other things, but I can't recall them right now.
It's like a farm kid in the house. Quads and motorbikes outside. Xboxes and PS6 and smart phone apps.
" i'm bored! "
So out of boredom they eat all the food in the fridge.
What have you tried with other people?
the gun range and traveling
Great, so you tried two things. Do you think that's enough to call it a day and stop trying?
Well considering that I'm not as irritated when I'm alone, as opposed to when I'm with people, yes. That is if you were refering to doing things with other people.
Whatever buddy.
If you can talk in length about Star Wars with nerd girls then you can work with more than nerds.
I dropped hints about Hackers being my favorite movie when it wasn't. Girl on a forum asked me over to her place and and I play with her tits. Didn't like the scene and the quality of apartments in the area. Ditched her and was approached by a girl in a nude model drawing class. Ever think of something like that? Wasn't good at drawing but that didn't matter because you are there to get better. Then she might want to show you her paintings where a couple are nude.
Some artist women screw anything they can. I've drawn a dozen pussys. That would not be fun to you?
So you've decided to give up, that means we can't help you. Come back when you feel like trying.
I've given up on what exactly? trying to have fun by hanging out with people? How many groups of people do I have to hang out with for multiple months and then when I can't take it anymore just stop hanging out with that group and look for another one, before I can conclude that this is not the way to go?
Dancing lessons
Xanax
Then what the fuck kind of advice are you looking for?
>How many groups of people do I have to hang out with for multiple months and then when I can't take it anymore just stop hanging out with that group and look for another one, before I can conclude that this is not the way to go?
As many as you need. You tried two and said that's enough. Ok, then we can't help you. If you have decided that's enough, we can't help you want to try again. So this thread is useless.
I'm looking for advice on how to have fun and enjoy life.
>As many as you need. You tried two and said that's enough
Try five groups of people with zero overlap
>Try five groups of people with zero overlap
Is that enough? What have you learned from each try?
Even though I like doing some things more than others, no matter what it is, if I'm doing it for an extended period of time without it having any clear goal, I get bored of it very quickly.
Life is not about goals. Sometimes you need to enjoy the little moments, too. Friends are not a goal, for example. Neither is dating.
Sell meth half price. All the sex you need.
Sometimes being the keyword. If the little moments are all you have, then life gets incredibly dull. And when you combine it with health problems, then it feels like you're just survivng while waiting for it to end.
I'm not looking for friends, I have three who I talk with once a week, which is more than enough for me.
And I'm not looking to date someone, since I don't feel like clowning around, just to spend time with someone who I'm not even interested in.
Worst your can do is overthink it. That's why you freeze up.
Conversations need to flow naturally. Especially with women. Best of luck, op
You are able to reason ? You have a realistic outlook on how to overcome socialskills obstacles.
Excuse me, this is 4 chan,