Boyfriend wants me to delete my ig

Kinda this. He knew you were a thot. He wanted to fix you.

He wanted the good girl, but he needed the bad pussy.

Even though op stated that she enjoys showing off, I guess you thought you were clever kek

>how big is that chip on your shoulder
>could it feed a family of 5

I'll bite

Now that you have someone who cares enough about you to be in a relationship with you, you still need to confirmation of strangers about your physical appearance? What exactly is the point of your IG in the fist place?

Sort of this The thing is that it's nice to know that your girl is hot, if you have to fight all the time about her trust because there are literally thousands of dudes ready to jump her at any given moment, it's stress on you. It's one thing to be hoeing around if you are single, when you go into a relationship there are different priorities and if he feels that you should stop posting pics of you in skimpy outfits to have guys jerk of to you like a cheap pornstar, maybe you should rethink your attitude towards your boyfriend or in general your understanding of a relationship

This reeks of bait, but I've got nothing else to do for 45 minutes, so I'll bite.

I probably would have a problem with it. Which is why I wouldn't date you. We just wouldn't work out, because what we want doesn't match up. It's the same reason why it's probably not going to work with your current boyfriend.

If this is something that you really want, just go find a new boyfriend that won't have an issue with it.

he can have his opinion on it but nobody can tell you what to do. if i had a gf with a page like that i might think it's weird but i wouldnt start telling her how to live her life

Just dump him, he knew about your attention seeking habits and friendlessness. There's potential that he got into this relationship with you as a predator seeking to only benefit. The IG is his only competition. You need real friends, gurl.

Find, like me, a girl who doesn't need her body and face all over the internet.
If OP wants to post her body and show it off that's on her. If guys want to date her knowing that, that's on them.

As long as OP isn't waxing bullshit and knows what she wants, there's no admonishing to be done here. Her man knew what was up, and probably went in thinking he'd change the bad girl into his nice good girl.

Like I said. Wants the good girl, needs the bad pussy. He wanted someone who was down to get freaky, but didn't want the whole Monty with it.

Like i said... i have no friends/no life never had a personal instagram and i wanted attention/validation because i never had male attention before! I am your typical socially anxious weirdo

So what do you want more, a boyfriend or boy admirers?
If you're a weirdo there's low likelihood that you'll land a guy who's down with your exhibition.

That's irrelevant you future rape victim. You do it because you want men to desire you sexually. That's like a rich guy surrounding himself with strippers.

How am I a thot? Before him, I was a kissless virgin LOL basically female incel

there's no shortage of guys who dont try to stick their noses where they dont belong. doesnt matter how weird the exhibition is, if the dude's trying to tell her how yo live her life he aint worth it

Because you dress up in revealing clothing for male to attention. You're worse than a thot because at least a thot puts out. Attention whores deserve whatever happens to them.

I want a boyfriend but i wish my page wasn’t a big deal because it doesn’t show my face. I just did it to feel good about myself and get positive attention since i am socially removed lol

Assuming there was no link back to you, no face was being shown, and you weren't doing it as a way to gain more personal potential sex partners, I'd view it as perfectly fine.
Honestly, putting yourself out there if you can anonymously can be a pretty great way to keep your self image up.

The main issue is most people have a sense of ownership over their spouse/partners and feel they need to be protective over them. Which is all well and good, but if you've had the IG before getting together, they should know what they were getting themselves into and shouldn't seek to suddenly control it.
A lot of people might feel you're trying to put yourself out there to seek more partners, which is obviously a huge issue if you actually are, but, like I said earlier, if you're doing it anonymously for sexual validation, it's not that big of a deal and can actually help your self image a bit.

I don't see the issue. If I were him, I wouldn't be bothered, so long as we were clear as to why you had the IG up in the first place.
And hell, if I was him, and I saw your images getting spread around, I'd feel lucky to have someone that others viewed as attractive enough to repost.

You're not fully committed to him. You shouldn't be seeking male attention and admiration outside of your relationship. It's not as bad as cheating but it's very similar.

Instagram is a cancerous addiction that attention whores use to stroke their egos. Having a page like this would certainly bother me and I wouldn't date a girl that does it. It speaks to being an attention whore that seeks body validation from other men outside the relationship. Do what you want but realize this is a huge red flag for men who are looking for emotionally stable and confident women.

Social media has made women 10x worse. They don't even have to leave their bed to get male attention and admiration. At least in the 90s and before women had to go outside giving men a chance to build attraction and possibly fuck her.

Now women are vapid narcissists even worse than before. Feminism fucked them up, social media ruined them even more. Entitled vapid little brats who pretend they're helpless victims, yet some how just as good and even superior to men. Double think and double speak are real.

What's funny is that when these females youth fades it'll all come crashing down. Especially if she drinks, does drugs or smokes. No man of value would ever be in a committed relationship with a woman who was promiscuous or has faded youth. These women will never have a relationship with the men they find most attractive.

Right, well, why should a boyfriend be comfortable with other guys eye fucking you?

Like don't get me wrong. Slut up all you wanna, I'm kind of a slut myself, I get it. Sluttiness has its payouts.
But I'd never date someone who didn't understand that.

No way is it for sex partners haha
My boyfriend is my first and I don’t want casual sex!
It’s simply for validation which sounds pathetic ik
I am committed to him. Anyone with an instagram is looking for outside validation. My page just cuts out the bs and I don’t pretend to be a philosopher while posting my body for ppl to see. I think i have an exhibition kink

I hope you get brutally raped. I really mean it.

You should just break up since you aren't compatible with each other

You're just going to get angry incel answers from those that think you should delete it.

If my woman was going to act like a whore online I’d have to be getting benefits from it. You want to post a picture a day? Come tell me, suck my dick and swallow. Then you can. Two pictures? Guess you’re doing anal before you click send. Etc.

KYS incel
However, needing to post lewd pics on Instagram for validation is indeed pathetic and your boyfriend is right to judge you for doing it, especially while you're in a relationship.

Not wanting to date an instagram attention whore doesn't mean the guy is an incel. Doing something like this is definitely a violation of the spirit of monogamy in a relationship. Not everyone is interested in an open relationship like you.

She’s got a fetish. Just use it to bust a nut on this freaky bitch. If it really gives her a sexual thrill you’ll be able to talk her into all kinds of shit.

seconding this

I don’t see how this is hoe behavior? I am not touching or speaking to anyone or posting nudes? Who am I hurting? Nobody. I’m not a bad girl. I was a virgin until 21 years old and

Link your ig for science

You’re a whore. You’re getting paid in attention instead of money but that doesn’t make you less of a whore. Offer him whatever kinky stuff you’re willing to do in return for letting you keep Instagram. Ask his permission, suck his dick, let him fuck your ass. If this is a fetish you might as well both benefit.

you're a whore without pay. Ditch the dude if you're even questioning it, he deserves better.

you kind of devalue yourself when everyone already knows what you look like under clothes
>inb4 no face
doesn't matter, it's the principle of keeping that hidden for your bf.

This is a case by case thing. Some guys will love it, others will hate it.

Personally I would never pursue a relationship with a woman who did something like this.

It says she likes sexual attention from men which tells me she is not responsible, reliable, or trustworthy. Likely to cheat.

>Would u have a problem if u had a gf with this kinda page?
I wouldn't, but men are diverse. You can't hold up one man to another and be like "SEE... All these other men believe ____, why don't you?"

Because that line of thinking only word on women. Men on the other hand, have their own personal morals and honor. It's really hard to women to understand. But it's what enables men to swim against the crowd and go their own way.

So even if you could prove that 99% of men out there wouldn't care, then he still wouldn't change at all. You would feel better. I'm sure you would feel much better actually. But for him, it would not improve anything. So if you want to appeal to him, you have to first start with listening to him and valuing his feelings.

But given the distance between you two, it's like you're both standing on the other sides of a really big river. You can't just step over this, one of you will have to build a boat.

So don't expect a compromise. You probably won't get one. Expect him to have a broken heart, or you to feel controlled. Unfortunately one of you will need to make a sacrifice.

I am not the type to recommend breaking up. But in your case, you guys sound fundamentally incompatible. It's not like you should break up, it's like you should realize you guys were not made for one another.

But to answer your question no, I wouldn't care at all. Personally I wouldn't care if you put your name on it. I dated (and fell in love with) a girl this year who had a SUPER sexy blog starting from when she was 16 years old. She's 26 years old now, so that's her body all over the internet for a solid decade, and didn't bother me in the slightest. Actually I was super impressed with her. She was vert talented and artistic.

So if that's what you're asking, then yeah, there are guys out there who won't care, should you choose to break up. Just don't expect him to change.