Why would a man show interest online then get cold feet whenever we meet up? He knows what I look like online...

Why would a man show interest online then get cold feet whenever we meet up? He knows what I look like online. We video chat weekly and I actually look better in person because I'm completely unphotogenic. Because of that I highly doubt it's me being physically repulsive. I've visited him twice now and it always plays out the same. I've asked him directly but he always avoids the question.

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what? ghost his ass girl, doesn't sound like you're feeling it
i'm a heterosexual man even if i sound gay rn

How much do you weigh?

Can confirm, you sound really gay.
Have you tried sucking his dick?

He would rather be able to turn you off with the computer.

FRIENDZONED.

BMI of 23 last time I checked.
Wouldn't let me. That's a part of him getting cold feet. He kept talking up about us being together and him being my first before I came then when I initiate, nothing.

>BMI of 23
Kek. There's your answer.

He has a full on beer gut and a BMI of 27 though.

Damn, well I agree with the fag. On to the next one.

At least he has standards

23 is in the healthy range for women you clown.

How did he avoid the question Op? It could be a bunch of things, but most likely hes too autistic to make a move irl.

>Why would a man show interest online then get cold feet whenever we meet up?
Easy to have faux courage from behind a screen. He probably goes into heart palpitations at the thought of being in the same room as you.

I remember the first girl I ever asked out like it was yesterday. She wasn't even out of my league, she was a fat chick that I knew liked me, I'm glad I'm not the sweaty type because I would've been soaked like Nixon when I went to pick her up.

Anyway point being it's easy to pretend to be cool online and a different thing to execute it in person

I'm not even overweight though...? I carry most of my weight in my hips, thighs, and chest. I eat healthy, exercise, etc. I don't know what you're going on about. If my weight was an issue it wouldn't explain why he still acts attracted to me online. He knows what I look like. We've known each other for 4 years now. When we went on camera together he made comments about how he loves my body and thinks I'm beautiful. I just don't get it.

>How did he avoid the question Op?
He mostly just looked away, said he didn't want to, said we should just be friends, tried to change the subject, etc.

he lied

What would he benefit from lying? Besides, he seemed pretty... Enthusiastic.

to avoid hurting you when he turns you down

That makes no sense. He's flip-flopped 3 times now. Liked me, I visited, liked me, I visited, and now he's back to his flirty sexual self when I'm going to move to his city this summer. Wouldn't it have made sense to stop after the first time if he's just "sparing my feelings"?

It's either
1. He's gay
2. Has a micro penis
3. Lying to fuck with you
4. Or you're lying

I hope he just has a micropenis. (Not saying that I'm wishing that upon him, but out of all the possibilities that one's the one that can result in a healthy relationship.) I could work with that quite easily.

its not you its him. its all him.
he has all the confidence he needs behind the computer screen because your not there. if you still like him you are gonna have to bring him out of his self imposed coocoon. gonna take a while swap numbers and text. that way when you get him in the same room he has the phone as a icebreaker (or you do)

he is obviously intrested but everytime you leave he is probally thinking he has blown it with you. so he is utterly applogetic when you computer face time again (am i rite?)

or randomly kiss him and see what happens. those are your options if you still like him.

I may try being much more blunt with him next time I see him. Less words more action. I'm generally a very straightforward and to the point but I could see how talking about it would kill the tension. I'm just not quite convinced that it's purely a lack of confidence. He seems like an otherwise bold and confident man, but it could be the case.

>I hope he just has a micropenis
>Imagine being this desperate
Could it be that you're simply not as attractive as you think you are?

It's very hard to find a man that doesn't want kids so I tend to be clingy when I find one. What's wrong with a guy having a micropenis anyway? You can still have a healthy sex life.

It's the penis and by penis, I'm talking about yours.

I don't have a penis user, and never did.

every time he sees you its a attack of the shy. nothing new.

People are more confident online. I used to have trouble talking to people but I was a texting god.

he probably thinks your a weirdo because you need to meet guys online fir a date instead if just going out with somebody from school or somewhere not online. There's reasons why ppl only online date.

I met him through a real life friend. It's not like he was some random stranger.

Still online. But....u knew that

It should also be said that I live in an extremely small town populated entirely by rednecks and elderly people. I don't have a very large dating pool to work with here. I had a boyfriend back in highschool but things didn't work out after we graduated.