I cheated on my boyfriend

I went travelling around Europe recently and cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months. Actually I think I have fallen in love with someone else while I was travelling.

I want to break up with him but I don't know how to do it and I don't want to tell him I cheated because it would wreck him emotionally. I haven't spoken to him since it happened, I feel too guilty.

The truth is I have never really cared that much about the relationship I am in now and I felt pressured into being in a relationship more than anything.

What do I do, Jow Forums?

Feel free to call me a slut, it's the truth.

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>boyfriend of 3 months
Christ I'd be ready to encourage you. Three months is nothing. Slut though you may be, I think love is not what either of these men hold.

I think you should drop the man back home and I think you may want to do that AT home for security's sake.
Rest assured that the Euro just represents escape to you.

If this is the biggest problem in your life, then you have a good life.

drop the burger
if you want to try with the euro, try, otherwise drop him too
it's that simple

Do you think you can just move to europe?

So whoring around Europe didn't give you enough attention and you come here for more?

Let the poor dude go and get off of here.

Breaking up can be hard, but its important to not put it off for too long. You can simply text him that you you want to meet to have a serious talk. A coffee shop is ideal because it is cheap and has exit routes.

Show up early, drop the news when he arrives. I encourage you and him to spend some time reflecting on your relationship and how you want it to evolve going forward (do you want to cut contact? do you want to (try to) be friends? listen to everything he has to say.) If things go south or he is inconsolable, simply stand up and leave. If you can, pay for the bill.

best luck.

Nah breaking up in person isn't necessary for guys just phone call him.

If you're not invested in the relationship, it's not fair to keep the other person in it by misleading them. Breaking up sucks, but you just have to tell him. Be honest (though you CAN leave out the cheating thing, you're ending the relationship anyway and no one needs to be kicked while they're down). Just say that you haven't really been happy and relaxed over the last three months. That there's nothing wrong with him specifically, but that you just don't think this is right for you.

bute the bullet, basically you are taking a selfish route but hell love is hard to come by.

I agree with you. 3 months is really not very long so that's one of the ways I have justified it. It's better to break up now than to keep living a lie.

Agreed also, I have a wonderful life, but I don't know how to break up with someone. It's really hard.

I already live in Europe. I went travelling around other European countries.

Thanks, this is really the advice I was kind of looking for, I honestly have never broken up with anybody before.

Good idea. Thank you.

If you can't face your own truth then you don't deserve it from others.
Own up to being a slut. It's more likely you don't love the guy you had vacation sex with, you just enjoyed the idea.

I would not tell him you cheated, it might damage him

Just break up with him, but lie about the reason why.

Jesus women are so weak it continues to amaze me.

Tell him the truth and accept responsibility.
You can justify lying by saying you're saving his feelings, but he deserves to know what you are. He'll feel better knowing he dodged a bullet by not committing to a whore.

So how did you hook up with that guy you've cheated with?

Hypergamy strikes again

You could be right, but I'm selfish and I don't want it to affect me badly either. It's the truth that I haven't been feeling the relationship since it started.

Met him at a gig. No alcohol involved if you wondered.

Yes, funnily enough I hated the idea of hypergamy before this but it really seems to be ingrained in women.

So this is why women travel, huh?

Being selfish is a choice, as is being a cheat. Be better than that and stop being those things starting now.

It's ingrained in everyone. Up to you if you want to be a piece of shit or not. Being a piece of shit is a viable tactic, though. Own it and run with it if that's your thing.

It's not why they travel, but it's extremely often it ends in sex if the guy is not around. I hope none of you guys have attractive girfriends who traveled abroad. Best you can hope for is they used protection.

I love seeing pieces of shit get their own medicine. People like me would help you out of a bad situation if you were genuinely good, but choose to screw over other people then we'll laugh at your suffering no matter how bad. Goes for OP too, hope your new relationship blows up in your face and your life crumbles. Then realise you have no one but yourself to blame.
You're in the same camp as murderers, rapists and paedophiles to decent folk.

Let's say your boyfriends name is scotty, op

scotty doesn't know, op don't tell scotty cause scotty doesn't know

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>but lie about the reason why.
>thinks he can call other people weak

is the good advice itt

>have never really cared that much about the relationship I am in now and I felt pressured into being in a relationship more than anything.
You could have just said that you cheated on him, but you just had to go and attempt half-excusing your shitty behaviour. You're not concerned so much about hurting him as much as you're concerned about damaging his opinion of you. That's what bothers you the most, having to be responsible for your actions and accepting the consequences. You're a typical self-serving whore and it shows.

You already know what you need to do, but you made the thread anyway in a desperate attempt of seeking validation.

>MFW I banged a couple of girls during study abroad in Europe who had boyfriends
>MFW a slut is filled with guilt and posts about it on /adv
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“No, John. You are the sluts.”

And then John was a zombie.