Pretty angry at this girl for what she did yesterday

That was what I was thinking. It felt bitchy to me. I don't think I'm gonna try talking to her again.

Also, the fact that she was flirting with him is fucked.

I had a girl do that shit to me. I met a girl and we hung out a few times. She was always putting her hands on me, giving me huge smiles and staring into my eyes. She even made sexual jokes involving both of us. One night when we parted was, she gave me a long kiss on my cheek (longer than 5 seconds). When I went to kiss her she dodged it playful, gave me a big smile, waved, and walked away. That was obviously teasing. The next day when we met again, I asked her out for a real date. Do you know what she said? “Hahah oh user we are just friends!!”

Maybe your cooking sucked so bad, it sent you directly into the friendzone, "nice guy"

Don’t. She’s not worth it. She sounds like an unappreciative bitch. Especially with all of the work you did. The least she could have done was be honest with you and say “user I appreciate everything you’ve done, but I have to be honest and say I’m just not making a connection with you”

Damn, that's fucked. Well at least you leaned in to kiss her. I didn't do that because she always acted so passive you know? She obviously liked it when I touched her but there was no chemistry.

If I had been a complete virgin this would've made me angry. But from my POV I don't see her behavior as stable, seems kinda unhinged.

I would've appreciated that

Well, pretty hard to mess up an outdoor grill, besides she complimented like every 2 seconds, I even cut her oranges for her because she couldn't do it herself

She didn't even bring her own water for the trip (we were in the mountains) so she had to drink mine, come on even for a female that's a bit too much

I was a Virgin when that girl did that to me. I also was really crushing on that girl too

What is annoying is that some other guy who was more aggressive than you probably got to do whatever he wanted with her. But there is no cure to "not being aggressive enough".

I was a leader to her, I cooked for her and made a good date and I'm proud of that. If she thought I was beta because I wasn't more sexual then that's her problem. You and me we're not like that I guess.

Just imagine being the guy who is basically what you call a fuckboy, doesn't give a fuck and in fact makes her do all the work for him. Is that better? Being a worse person but getting what you want?

no because women dont pursue men based on a physical attraction, at least sexually not.

it didnt work out
let it be user

on to next girl, let the little whore be an avarage whore somewhere else

now let's put this in context. Because you assumed that thos chick had made up her mind from the start. OP, if anything she was trying to feel something from you but in the end could not, she didnt know how she felt about you until she went through her motions. Basically she dated you and responded to you the only way she knew how and gave you and her a chance.
It's like how women shop for clothes. Let's say she is the blouse and you are the pants or skirt.
the only way to see if it really matches is to try both on and see of it they two match.
However with your problem is that it looked like you could match and she was trying the "outfit" meaning you and her dating to see if you match. Unlike clothing however you dont just try people on once and put them back on the rack, some people do this but this girl sounds like she still wasnt sure. If anything she was really Complacent about you two being together she just wasnt sure. Which is what women do and its fucking maddening. You have to be more than patient with women, you either have to not care she is wasting your time or let your time waste away while you hold this frustration in. That's what's maddening about dating.

Maybe she could just sense what a bitter child you are.

Thing is, she entertained the idea of going back to my room and gaming so I'm wondering whether I should text her to invite her to do that? She said this literally 10 minutes before the friendzoning thing.

Yeah and that happened. Like 2 weeks later she told me about some really good looking guy she met. She literally told me that they drove drunk to his house and she stayed there

>he’s reconsidering the whore
Are you serious lad? She was a bitch.

>cant handle that someone just isnt interested in him
>thinks hes owed something because he made her dinner, literally i show u my dic no repon
>she still thinks hes a decent enough guy to set him up with a friend, too self-absorbed to even understand that
>sperges out because he didnt get the girl, cries about it on the internet
You are pretty cringy, bud. Take it as an opportunity to mature a bit. Unless she's just a complete cunt, it's pretty unlikely she'd try to set you up with one of her friends if she thought you were a total loser. She just wasn't interested in you. It happens, you move on. Yes, people can be selfish. It happens, and you move on.

This situation was not worth you feeling like you need to get back at anyone. Let the cringe-lord within go.

then you are friendzoned or could be fuck buddies. Thing is you are lucky she didnt cut all ties with you. So think of it like this, this girl likes your company, the less bitter than you seem the more likely she will stick around and keep hanging.

frankly you are not giving the best advice here. It's not like he is calling her a bitch to her face, and he is at least asking people what to do rather than telling us the possible after math. What's cringy is your advice really.

>she didnt cut all ties with you
Women like positive attention. She'll keep talking to him as long as she's getting that. That's not a good thing for OPs mental health.

not positive attention from everyone. Remember most women hate the pedestal fedora tipping dude. And talking to isnt a positive or negative it's just a nuetral and thats what women want to see, your neutral self at your best. However this girl does not sound like the needy type at all.

She was being a bitch but the idea to send her a text saying I wanna fuck your friend is not great

1. She already said your cringy so why would she set you up
2. it wouldnt be a fuck you after saying she was the one youre after
3.As someone whos done this, it doesnt feel all that swell

this is just my take on it tho, you do you

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Needy has nothing to do with it, and fedora tipping attention is not positive, it's creepy and uncomfortable.

>fuckbuddies

I'll just do what you say

the problem with your thinking is that you assume that just because I'm a man then I expect things in return for doing something nice

When two people go on a hike, they both should contribute in some way, no? Either with food or conversation, she did neither and then wanted to hook me up with her friend.

If you don't see how this is exploitative, you're retarded

yeah it is, that's positive reinforcement that simply isnt nessesary. You are going to a relm where you are making yourself angrier by saying anything and everything you did was positive and questioning why it didnt work. Frankly you could very well have done everything right but every girl is different and really, she just didnt feel anything for you. But she could very much later down the line if you are more patient. Women dont realize how exhausting they can be because they dont notice what we do for them and we roll our eyes and move on.
In the end she could have been testing yourtemperament? meaning she wanted to see how you react to what she said. Just ignore the comment and try to have fun with her as a friend, if she is willing, if not then move on. You are just gonna spiral and be pissy over women in general if you keep this shit up and you are going nowhere.

>she did neither and then wanted to hook me up with her friend.
well technically she could just ghost you. But she maybe saying that not to hurt your feeling so much or letting you down as easy as she can. But In the end when it comes to dating women logic like I scratch your back you scratch mine, doesnt apply. You have to understand that women see things differently than you and especially not in a logical sense when it comes to things like love.

You clearly did expect something in return as you keep complaining she continued nothing. You also think what you did was "nice."

Did you plan the whole date? Did you invite her? If you went out of your way to do all this shit and she didn't ask for or necessarily want any of it then that's on you dude. This sounds like a date that would have been better if you had been together longer and were both involved in the planning. But if you come up with the idea that you're doing such a great romantic thing by planning and providing everything and then act indignant when you don't get the response you were looking for it's not her fault. Don't be childish because you didn't get your way. And don't let any one girl that you barely know take so much of your attention that you forget to look out for yourself. You could take her recommending her friend as a compliment instead just being bitter that she doesn't see the two of you going anywhere. Clinging to her in hopes of being a fuckbuddy isn't going to go well for you either.

[Exaggerated eye rolling intensifies]

is this advice or just an outlet for your ego? Because this guy hasnt done anything yet and him feeling angry is normal for any guy.
Though she hasnt done anything wrong niether has he.

you literally had to type that? who fucking does that?

You are obviously stupid. Your neediness is godlike. I'm embarrassed for you.
Learn some PUA stuff or get to MGTOW. You deserved what you get.

Never treat a woman as a queen.

Ego?

> Am I the only one who thinks she was being rude?
She was and you are an idiot for inviting her for a free meal when she didn't even bring a bottle of wine.

>Would you do it?
It will just make you look pathetic. Better move on and learn to look if there is anything coming back from a girl. You either cook toghether oder she is at least supposed to bring a good bottle of wine or a desert.

Let's pretend you are the girl and are not interested in OP or at least aren't sure. If you were a decent person you would either deny the invitation to a full meal or bring at least some wine or ask to cook together. People don't invite you to a meal like this just because you are super good friends (you weren't at the time).

>Never treat a woman as a queen.

Only women that deserves it should be treated like a queen

She probably was still interested. He said there was physical attraction, so she was still trying to get to know his personality. We don't know exactly how the set up to this date went, but I'm imagining OP asked her, said something about a hike and a picnic, and told her he had it all planned out. Maybe she asked if she needed to bring something and he said no, maybe he left out details when he invited her.

I'm not saying the dude can't fell his feels, but now it's time to get over it and move on. This was a learning experience. No need to plot some sort of revenge. No need to act like a bitter incel or turn into a PUA. Just don't go full Prince Charming on date 3. Can't hurt to ask about the friend and why she thinks they'd like each other though.

I didn't get that notion from his post and personally I would still bought something if I knew he was cooking a real meal.

But I agree to the second part. In the end it doesn't matter and it's better to learn his leason and move on. Becoming bitter and dealing out petty revenge is just wasting time and wouldn't get him a gf.

She was shit testing you.

>she didn't even bring a bottle of wine.
Grandpa? Is that you?

Dear god, I hope this is bait.

She wasn't being a bitch. She was trying to get out of an uncomfortable date with a try hard without hurting his feelings or getting him angry. Chicks have to do this because if they just say they're not interested there's an even higher chance that he's going to get angry. And as usual OP is bitter. She didn't take advantage of him, he more likely than not did all this on his own without being asked. It's not endearing on what I'm assuming was a first date, it's just awkward. Anyone enabling OP in thinking this chick was in anyway rude in leaving early is delusional.

>girl gets invites on a date
>quickly realizes she's not into it
>plays along to save face and give him a fair chance
>doesn't work
>tries to let him down gently
>man gets salty and blames her
Every single time.

I'm pretty sure after OP sperged like that out she's not gonna recommend him to her friend unless she secretly hates her or is playing a cruel joke.