Shit Jow Forums, how do I get a spine? There's this bipolar chick (I know, already promising), we had a fling with her, but I had to cut her off, because I had a wife. It was surprisingly hard, since I honestly fell in love with her. Now I'm divorced and life is good. I still missed her daily and everything, but our break up was horrible. So here I am, free and loving it for a year after the bipo break up and half a year after my divorce. All of a sudden, the bipo chick writes me, that she's on a psych ward and that she misses me. I almost dropped everything and went to her, wiggling my tail, but luckily I have some self control left. The problem is, I can feel it evaporating with every minute passing. I almost replied to her texts and occasionally I have an urge just embrace my weak will. Do you have any advice on how to ignore thots?
Shit Jow Forums, how do I get a spine? There's this bipolar chick (I know, already promising), we had a fling with her...
Cheaters don't deserve advice.
Kill yourself you selfish prick.
Get the psycho pregnant and have an ugly, fat, ginger-child with her. Then you're fucked up life will be complete.
let me name a few things you will never know:
you will never know:
what its like to have multiple 10/10s calling you every night to get fucked.
what its like to score a game winning touchdown
what its like to have the balls/abililty to knock someone out at a bar when they try to punk you
(lol @ you having to walk away like a bitch)
what it is like to workout and actually see results
what it is like to NOT immediately jizz yourself the first time a girl touches you because you have
no experience with women
what it is like to enjoy the company of true friends and brother who will take bullets for you,
outside of CoD.
what it is like to have an aura of success, confidence, and talent that commands respect from
real people who are successful and worthwhile. and attractive.
what its like to be yourself and still make friends.
to not make excuses why your life sucks, because you make your own life and NEVER play the
victim
what it is like to wake up in the morning and be truly happy with your life
these are all things you will never know. go ahead and take out your credit card so you can begin to order the noose of the internet, cause you're too much of a bitch to buy one in real life, because you and me both know that the cashier will know what youre buying it for.
Implying your dumb ass has any worthwhile advice to give anyway. OP, you might as well go for it, I think it's clear to you by now that things will never end up well between women and you
Imagine how insecure a bitter lanklet virgin has to be to make that shoop.
Shit happens, such is life
How am I selfish?
Well, I still like to imagine that I can find someone
I had a vasectomy after my second kid
Stay strong bro. It will be difficult to find them because of how they operate, but if you look at the lives of families with bipolar wives, you'll be too disturbed and angry to feel any positive feeling for the chick.
Why are bipo grills such a drug? I've dated quite a few and the first two to four months are always euphoric. Bipolar girls are literally succubi
Kek that image tho
Rude.
Bipolar girl here. We think you’re pawns. I find it humiliating how men are willing to sink so low and fetishize a legal insanity. As a matter of fact, I find the entire compulsion of men to have a quick fuck as laughable. No better than cockroaches or mice. You’re just here as a punching bag and as an ego boost, we are full aware of what we do to you.
Well, at least you crazy broads fuck amazingly.
How is that rude?
That's ok, I used to hit my bipolar gf
Hope you forced yourself on he as well
I did, she really liked it. She'd yell for me to stop and fight it at first but once I got her clothes off and my dick in, she yielded very quickly and we had amazing sex
Did the whole bus clapped afterwards?
Op here, thanks. This message gave me a willpower boost, enough to ignore the thot
That's pretty funny since it's obviously some incel larping
Still, he's right. Bipolar bitches use men as an emotional drain and validation tools, since daddy never loved them, or hugged them a little bit to tightly, with hands on ass
I had/sorta still have a oneitis who is bipolar, and we've been an on/off thing for a few years, so I can share a few personal experiences.
On "good days" she is shining so brightly she is literally competing with the sun and winning. But while you know the sun will be back tomorrow, you don't know when you will see HER again. She kinda just comes and goes as she pleases, and usually only wants to see you when she NEEDS to see you.
The confusing part for me is that she has a lot of red flags that I know of and recognize, but I also sometimes catch myself thinking "are they really that big a deal? They sorta seems normal for a lot of women". You see past so much shit because it seems like a small price to pay for someone who is both princess and pornstar.
Red flags like:
>constantly double-booking herself or forgets about/changes plans all the time.
>spontaneous spending-habits. 29 and doesn't have a dime in savings, but is constantly going on vacations both in and out of country.
>doesn't handle being alone, so she needs people and/or something happening around her at all times. This isn't a bad thing ofc, but I think she does it mostly to avoid all the bad stuff in her head rather than actual interest in the things she does.
>has poor emotional defense-mechanisms, and doesn't really see that certain people and patterns are not really good for her. It's actually a little stunning that after being involved with so many toxic people she doesn't have better skills of recognizing them.
>the biggest one for me though, is "the shift". She can one day almost present herself to you on a silver platter with you being "every single thing she needs in her life" (savior-fantasy anyone?), and then next week she will leave you on 'read'.
Actually "the shift" was exactly how we broke up. She was literally crying on my shoulder not to ever leave her one evening and the same time next day, she was telling me that she made a decision to break up, since I'll never be with her,.because I have kids and wife. Then I tried to get her to talk to me, just to make sure that she's sure about it and finally I just blocked her everywhere, just to cut off the prolonged end. The change was so.sudden, it left me stunned
cont.
I get a bit angry at myself because just when I've sorta managed to "get over her" for the XX-th time, she then decides to text out of the blue because she has suddenly regained interest again, and then rinse and repeat baby.
It hurts because you think you've realized that there is no fruitful future in pursuing her, but then when you loose interest she suddenly starts pursuing you. And then when you want to turn around and meet her halfway, she decides to go back the other way again, or towards something/someone new. Making you think "does she love me, or does she just love me today?"
Despite this I still think about her almost daily, and while I know it will most likely never "be us", I still wonder "but what if it could?".
Typing this actually made me feel better and a bit more 'aware' about the whole thing.
Also just want to clarify that a diagnosis doesn't make the person, but if people have questions I'd be glad to answer.
It definitely feels like a drug, and that's also why it hurts so much when they stop being 'your' drug.
Does bipolar symptoms worsen with age?
Her mom is also bipolar but she looks like she belongs on the Shivering Isles.
One day she can make plans for inviting the whole family over for dinner, and the next she just sits in her room accusing the very same family of conspiring against her.
>One day she can make plans for inviting the whole family over for dinner, and the next she just sits in her room accusing the very same family of conspiring against her.
Sounds more like a schizophrenia. Is she diagnosed with anything else
Ooops, I actually mixed different mom-stories up! My bad.
But I definitely can confirm that the girl is always emotionally drained after visiting her mom.
She wants to be there for her ofc, and that's sweet and thoughtful, but she also dreads visiting because she knows she's in for a rollercoaster every time.
And according to her it's only getting worse, unfortunately.
Not even OP but this comment was cringe af .sure OP is a piece of shit so just tell him that not that drama filled comment
Are you a girl by any chance?
homeboy needs to grow a beard
and get an axe
Seriously, don't give attention whores attention, it's like internet 101. Also, why am I such a shithead? You guys sure are all holier than thou, when it comes to cheaters here
Fuck, I broke down and wrote back. Well, guess I just not strong enough
you had to jump every time you typed a letter didn't you