How do I tell if a girl is interested in me? Any signs to look out for?

That can't be how it works. Or else every guy would be getting rejected a billion times and falling into deep depression

>Or else every guy would be getting rejected a billion times and falling into deep depression
If you get into a depression because some random girl rejected you you're a massive faggot. Go for it, ask her out, if she says no then you move on to the next one. ''Love'' is mostly a meme and can only start developing when you've been with her for a while.

Ask her out on a date and if she says yes then she is interested in you.

If she’s smiling making jokes with you and being friendly. Cutesy shit. Doesn’t she’s infatuated with you but she thinks you’re cute/wants you to talk to her/take more interest in her.

It's not about love. I dont give a shit on any deep meaningful level about any girl I like, I just think they're attractive and cool. But if they reject me it's an insult to my ego and a confirmation that I am not good enough for them, which would make me depressed.

Any signs before that? How do you tell if a girl will say yes before you ask?

*mean

Okay, well there are thousands of signs to look for. Do you think every girl thinks and acts the same? If they like you, you'll most likely be able to tell. In rare cases with very shy girls, you would never in a million years figure out what they want from you. They could avoid all eye contact and even go out of their way to avoid seeing you, but still be madly in love with you.

Just. Fucking. Ask.

>If she’s smiling making jokes with you and being friendly.

But plenty of girls who are just friends or acquaintances do that with me.

>If they like you, you'll most likely be able to tell

Ok. No girl I have met in the past few years has seemed interested in me. So i should surely not bother asking them out, cause by your logic they would reject me. If they liked me, I would know already.

Well if they’re none of those then she probably likes you.

But if that was the case then pretty much 75% of girls i speak to would "like me". Most girls are friendly and make jokes with me and smile, doesnt mean they want to date or fuck me

Are you retarded? Likely. Most girls make it obvious if you pay attention. But that is not the case ALL of the time. Girls usually don't make the first move either (note, usually!!!) so sitting around wondering why you haven't found love and asking how to decipher women isn't going to do anything for you.

She could show all the signs in the world to you but still not be romantically interested. This is why the only way to know for sure is to ask.

>But if they reject me it's an insult to my ego and a confirmation that I am not good enough for them, which would make me depressed
That's not how things works. I know several very attractive girls who I would reject if they asked me out, because I know them enough to know that I don't like their personality, or just because I don't feel anything for them. You can't force this stuff, if she rejects you it just means she doesn't like you that much.

>Most girls make it obvious if you pay attention

But i do pay attention. And paying attention leads me to believe most girls are friendly to me, but dont show any signs of wanting to date me. Therefore whats the point in trying if im just gonna get rejected?

>I know them enough to know that I don't like their personality, or just because I don't feel anything for them

I wasnt talking about strictly appearance. Both of the things you just stated still mean those girls "arent good enough for you". The idea of not being good enough for someone makes me depressed.

Are you trying to avoid getting rejected at all during your lifetime? Suck it up. Not everyone is going to give you a yes. You have to learn to deal with that. You will go absolutely nowhere with that mindset. If you're that worried about your ego getting "ruined" then don't ever try to earn anything and hope everything you want is handed to you on a platter.

You either ask or continue wondering. Good luck.

>Not everyone is going to give you a yes
Right now no one has given me a yes. If i ask a girl out and get rejected its 100% rejection. I ask two, three, four, five, and get rejected its still 100% rejection. Thats too much to take when you're 20something and a kissless dateless virgin.

My question isnt that unreasonable dude. I just wanna know what the signs are that a girl is interested in you, just in case I might be missing them.

Short answer: she isn't into you. Unless you're rich or very attractive, you have to make them be into you.

Well whats the point then? I might as well die if thats the case

Not at all, those girls are actually much better than me. The thing is that it doesn't matter how good a girl is, if our personalities are incompatible then I'd say no. Most of the time it's because we have different values or cultures (ex: I don't drink while this girl I know is out partying every weekend. She's more attractive than me but I would still reject her because we couldn't reconciliate our lifestyles)

But that still means she isnt good enough for you. She doesnt meet that standards. How can you not see that that is potentially upsetting?

No you don't. You're a retarded faggot who creates this same thread every day. You're completely oblivious to the world around you.

It's only upsetting if you let it upset you. Getting rejected doesn't necessarily mean you don't match some kind of standards, sometimes she just doesn't feel anything for you, even if you're the perfect guy.. It only hurts your ego if you allow it to

If she's usually shy, she might be more talkative or outgoing around you than she usually would, even if she isn't directly talking to you. That's what I would do to subtly make my presence known around the guy I liked by talking to acquaintances/friends around him even though I'm extremely shy

>That's what I would do to subtly make my presence known around the guy I liked by talking to acquaintances/friends around him even though I'm extremely shy

That is utterly and completely ridiculous. There is no possible way that any guy could notice that and realize it was a sign of interest from you. It's far more likely that the guys you spoke to directly thought you were interested in them instead

Not you again. Everyone has already given you the answer a million times. Seek professional help so you can ask girls out, you fucking sperg.

>sometimes she just doesn't feel anything for you, even if you're the perfect guy.

That makes me even more miserable. Knowing that I can do everything right and still lose... It seems like it's impossible.

I mean damn is it too much to ask for to just get a date? I'm not asking to meet the love of my life tomorrow, I'd just like the chance to go on a first date for once in my life

Sounds like you haven't lived through enough failures in your life. Yeah, sometimes you do everything right and still fail. That's part of life, you gotta learn to accept defeat.

>I mean damn is it too much to ask for to just get a date?
You'll never get a date if you don't even try because you're too afraid. Dates don't happen by themselves, you gotta try and aknowledge that it might fail

KEEP CRYING BITCH NIGGA OR MAN UP. PERIOD.

>Dates don't happen by themselves, you gotta try and aknowledge that it might fail

Okay. Yes. I understand that. I get it.

But its just a simple fact that no girls show signs of interest in me. Girls are friendly with me but never flirt, never go out of their way to initiate conversation, never message me over facebook etc, never give me longing glances of attraction.

Man every time I think about how many girls I've had an interest in and they all slipped through my fingers it makes me wanna cry. They were all friendly to me but they never showed any signs of romantic interest so I never bothered to make a move. Now it's too late, or some of them have even got boyfriends now. I don't get what I did wrong.

I feel like I'm gonna be a KDV forever man. I can't bear it.

lmao WHO THE FUCK CARES ABOUT BITCHES NIGGA MAN UP

>Girls are friendly with me but never flirt, never go out of their way to initiate conversation, never message me over facebook etc, never give me longing glances of attraction.
Well, do you do any of those ? This stuff goes both ways, maybe a girl was interested in you and thought that you weren't interested because you didn't try to flirt.

>Man every time I think about how many girls I've had an interest in and they all slipped through my fingers it makes me wanna cry
That's a good lesson that you can learn, and it applies to many things outside of dating. Want something to happen ? Make it happen, right now. Never wait for ''the right moment'', create it instead. You like this girl ? Talk to her, flirt, then ask her out straight up. It's a yes ? Good job. It's a no ? Too bad, next one. Life is too short to wait for ''signs''

I have never consciously tried to flirt with a girl. Because no girl has ever flirted with me. I have no confidence to do it because I don't get flirted with first. The way my brain views it, "if girls wanted me to flirt with them, then at some point in my life someone would have flirted with me".

Dude why can't someone just tell me what the fuck to do? How do I make girls interested in me? No girls seem romantically interested in me at all.

Stop it you retard, read my post here , this nigga makes this thread once a week for well over a year now. You can't give him attention.

When your dick accidentally falls out of her and she inserts it back in herself without you saying anything.

wet pussy/wet jeans

BUT BUT BUT BUT NO NO NO NO. The answer is you don’t fucking want her enough, looking for any and all excuse to not seem like a indecisive pussy, well I’m sorry, but these question answer themselves. Make a move or don’t. It’s that simple.

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Anons please don’t reply to this guy. He’s been making these threads for months now, and has some sort of anxiety issue that prevents him from asking out women. He will find an excuse for any piece of advice you give him. Nothing we say will help him, not even trying to get him to seek therapy.

She will grab your cock and start licking her lips while staring into your eyes.

I miss DUI guy

Just ask her out and if she's receptive she likes you (or wants a free meal). The whole they smile and laugh at your jokes don't really mean too much, I had girls do that and they were either not interested or had a bf

Is this Canada guy or that "chad" who's too much of a pussy to talk to girls?