I'm a 21 year old college student, never been on a date or done anything with a girl. I've legit never met a girl who was interested.
I've tried a plethora of dating apps such as Bumble and OkCupid but I literally got 0 matches and replies. I've been clubbing numeorus times but the girls are always either with someone or not interested. I've also tried talking to girls at college but same story, no mutual interest.
Any helpful advice would be much appreciated.
Tell us some more about yourself OP
Well I'm a law student at university. In my free time I enjoy hanging out with mates, playing sports, a joint or two here and there and of course video games.
If you got literally 0 matches then your profile was shit.
Invite chicks to smoke weed, then sex them. One of the simplest plays in the book
Well you sound like an interesting guy at least, what do you think it is you're doing wrong?
can confirm this works
You don't. Girls are funneled into chads harem thanks to apps. They don't need you.
Nice. Initiating phase 3 will be easier than ever.
Clearly you are unattractive, either become attractive or stay gflet forever
Invite random chicks to smoke weed with a stranger? Does that really work?
Meet people. Lots of people, of all genders.
Out of all the people you meet, a smaller circle will be say-Hi-to acquaintances. Out of that circle a smaller circle will become friends. Among them will be some female-type people.
Jow Forums has an inexplicable phobia about the dreaded friendzone, but in fact the best romances grow out of friendships
I've never had a female friend in my life. In my experience guys are much more friendly and willing to have a conversation than girls. I joined clubs at Uni, like the drama club, to meet new people and make friends. Yet I came out only with Male friends. How can I meet girls who are interested in friendship?
I am starting to give up really.
I am mid 20s, only started seriously dating about a year ago, was KV before that.
It's like I am destined to be unattractive and undesirable.
I got a girl to go on 2 dates with me last year, she just lost interest and stopped messaging.
Right now, I am dating a girl and I thought things were going well, but out of the blue, she is now also starting to show signs of losing interest. I thought she was really into me from her behavior, we have been on 5 or so dates, had sex two times.
Now I think she will just toss me aside. I don't know what I did wrong that I can't even hold the attraction of some average plain Jane.
Had a first date with another girl the other day, went well, she turned her face away when I tried to kiss her, pretty sure that's done and over with.
No other prospects whatsoever.
I really thought I was gonna drag myself out of this pit of despair for once, but yeah, back to square zero. Idk what arcane magic guys are using to get with actually hot girls.
I was going to sympathise with you but it seems like you get numerous dates. I've never been on a date in my life. I'd love to be able to spend a day in your shoes
I have dated 4 girls within the last 2 years.
2 second dates. 1 more than that.
If you wanna call that frequent, then yeah, sure.
And what good is that if nothing comes of it?
Only really shows your your inadequacies.
Because in real life, women are creeped out when people pretend to be friends with them when they secretly just want to fuck.
At least you have the opportunity to learn and gain new experiences. You can figure out what you're doing wrong on dates, and try a different approach on one. You get the opportunity to show girls who you are, and they interested in knowing more about you. You're a lucky guy
women can fuck chad anywhere at any time thanks to shit like tinder, they only need to be more than 5/10, damn even 4/10 girls thinks they deserve a chad. So your only hope is to aim for the bottom of the barrel 3/10 - 4/10 girls at best
Where can I meet 3/10 girls?
It shows that you are attractive enough to get dates. Stop complaining and be glad you at least get some female validation. Eventually you'll meet someone that sticks.
Yeah, people don't like it when anyone pretends to be anything. You have to actually be their friend, retard.
you are a student.
a man is worth the money he has earned.
you do not have any money.
your socal market value is 0.
you coud either: get a job
get a house
get a car
or you could learn pickup
I'm probably slightly above you in dating. I started a tinder, since my looks are nothing special I just used comedy and have gotten some matches. Only trouble is how to talk to them.
Same desu, I try to start with something funny from their bio but even when that works, whenever I try to turn the conversation to a phone number or a meetup it feels awkward and it usually stops the conversation dead in it's tracks. I've seen that you shouldn't try to use tinder for more than a very brief exchange that ends in contact info on some other app but I can't figure out how I'm supposed to hold their interest
Yeah this doesn't mean shit when you see other guys who have been on a steady supply of girlfriends since their teens,and not even Chads, just normal guys.
Somehoe only late virgins are subject to these high standards.
>just get fit, then a haircut, then nice clothes, then a personality, then a career, then a job, then a car, then a house bro
Cute face.
>students can't get girls
What a socially retarded fucking post.
Not a total stranger. have a pleasant conversation for a few minutes first to show you're not a psycho. Then you can.
Make your replies to her unique. Say odd things with wit and humor. Don’t say shit like “Hey you’re beautiful!” Women know EXACTLY what they look like 24/7, they don’t need some cuck telling them that. Compliment her on the first thing you send her, don’t say ANYTHING about her appearance. Make it about her perceived personality from her bio or a type of feeling or a location.
Women are emotional creatures, do not reason with them and do not talk about THINGS, they will ignore you. Be confident, make short replies, tease her, and don’t fucking use emojis.
I’m 20, I’m a salesman, and I’ve fucked 21 women before the age of 21 (bet i made with my buddy) I am NOT a chad, you just need to know how women think.
Good for you dude, i was a khv until 28.
Unusual boast, but alas..
>Women know EXACTLY what they look like 24/7, they don’t need some cuck telling them that.
>don’t say ANYTHING about her appearance.
This is such bullshit.
Have an attractive body, have an attractive personality and learn how to read emotions/body language. Hang around women for a minute or two (as you would in college) and you'll eventually notice that one is 'mirin. Go start conversation with her and ask her to join you for coffee.