>Never been asked out by a girl
>Never been flirted with
Is it time to give up and accept being a kissless virgin forever?
>Never been asked out by a girl
>Never been flirted with
Is it time to give up and accept being a kissless virgin forever?
Stop making this thread.
Yes because you can make these threads all the time. Are (You)s really that important to you?
No, what's important to me is discovering why no girls will ask me out or flirt with me. I tried self-improvement for many years, everything you could think of.
>Never been asked out by a girl
>Never been flirted with
>Ask a girl out myself
>She says yes
>Tuesday is our 1 month anniversary
Because girls don't ask guys out. Girls won't ask even a chad out. You have to do it.
I'm no chad and I got approached by cute girls in the past though
Just ask them you humongous faggot. Nigga self improvement ain't worth shit if you don't do anything, have you heard "you can fill a car's gas tank but it won't work unless you drive it"
Make up your mind, faggot. Either A) They approach you or B) They don't.
That wasn't me.
But the fact that and many other men throughout the world have been approached by girls proves that girls DO approach and flirt with guys they find attractive... That's never happened to me.
my first gf asked me out...
just gotta go out there in the world and seek out the women that will seek you out. gotta be proactive in your search for the woman that will want to get close to you.
otherwise, stay put and enjoy being virgin forever.
good luck user.
You clearly want to be a virgin forever. You don't want a gf. You actively avoid it.
Yup. Now fuck off.
I am not chad and I have been approached by several girls
none had a penis so pointless for me
thats life son .jpeg
Explain?
I'm waiting for a girl to show she's interested in me, like a green light you know
okay chad. you don't understand that some of us get absolutely zero attention from females through no fault of our own.
Ask her out on a date. Then you will know if she's interested. Only the weakest of the weakest of the weak, like you, are too scared to ask a girl out.
"eww no i have a boyfriend" sounds like fun.
There you go. You're too chickenshit to ever do it. You make up all these excuses and scenarios in your head so you wouldn't have to try. You have been told this hundreds of times on Jow Forums already but seek a therapist. You have mental issues. Your fear of girls is just one small part of it.
Then go to another girl?
Why would a woman be interested in taking her clothes off and getting fucked by a guy who is such a coward that he can't even ask her for her company? How is she supposed to think that you could fuck and please her when you're so mentally disordered that it's impossible to get the words "You wanna go out?" come out of your mouth?
and of course the responses
>HURR DURR BUT GIRLS APPROACHED MEEEEE
stop
stop fucking with incels on this board
you know as well as I do what the girls that approach guys look like
they do it because they have to
fake news. girls approach all the time or have their friends approach for them. if they like a guy they will let the guy know
I've had both of those things happen and desu it's only the thots/whores who do that.
Only have had one girl I dated though
If you want to live in misery and regret, then sure continue being a coward and never fight for a single thing in your life
Or... you could let go of your ego and actually talk to a girl and ask her out. Rejection hurts but it's certainly not the end of the fucking world and if anything maybe it will teach you something
You have to ask girls out.
But my whole life people and culture in general seemed to make it clear that when a girl likes a guy, she sends signals to entice him into approaching her. I dont get those signals.
Try a dating app, women are on there to date. You need to make the first move, spam the fuck out of everyone
Why are you so desperately clinging onto this lie?
it's not a lie hombre. women are either find you attractive right off the bat or they don't find you attractive at all. if they're attracted to you they will send signals. if not, there's not much you can do except maybe flash your money.
Well I tried tinder but I'm too scared to message my matches. Last time i tried i got ignored even though i tried hard to come up with short, semi-witty comments referencing something in their profile or interests
The thing i struggle with is that being matched with on tinder doesn't necessarily mean they want to date with you. Girls might match a guy on tinder for an ego boost, or with no intention of actually going on a date with him, or they could do it for a joke. So its not a clear and indisputable sign of interest
You have never even kissed a girl, why do you think you know more about girls than those who have actually dated them?
I've had 4 gfs in my life. i know what women like and i know what they don't like. from my observations. women fall in love with your looks immediately when they see you or they never do. its bitter pill to swallow but thats whats life son.
this is 100% true. this is how female/male interactions work.
You fucking idiot. Do you take everything that's said to you as an absolute? Girls do you let guys know that they're interested, but not all of them are going to be upfront about it and even fewer are going to directly approach the guy.
You're also a fucking idiot. Attraction changes upon actually talking to people. You say this like guys aren't the same way.
You have one million excuses for everything. That's why you're lonely and sad. That's why people in general probably don't approach you. Stop being a little bitch. Who cares if other guys have girls approaching them? YOU approach the girls and people you're interested in, you dumb little piece of shit.
Neither of the posts you responded to were OP (me)
Im both those. No i dont believe attraction changes much at all from talking. Girls make up their minds about you by looking at you. Your looks are what determine attraction by and large.
Then you don't know what attraction is because it's not solely physical. Your physical appearance is of course important, but if you're looking to be in a relationship with someone that's worth something, then your personality, status, etc. are all important.
It's not solely physical just like 80% physical. Let's not understate how absolutely HUGE physical appearance is when it comes to attraction.
Most guys have to ask girls out, not the other way around
Um no? You have to think of the fact that even when girls do send signs, a lot of guys are very oblivious
Like it or not you gotta do the work if you want something. This is not exclusive to things like dating and relationships.
perhaps, but in the end it's the women choosing the men. the average woman has much more options than the average man.
guys are not oblivious per se. its just that most are so used to rejection it's better for them to assume all signals are false signals.
>the average woman has much more options than the average man.
No one's talking about that and that's not what OP's problem is. Just because some guys have girls approaching them doesn't mean he should expect the same. It's a fact that most girls will not approach guys that they like; the guys have to approach them. They may do shit like "coincidentally" running into you at an event or out shopping, but you have to ask them out.
Physical attraction varies, however and those other aspects have an affect on how attractive a person is. People can make themselves physically attractive but still fail to attract a partner. It's not 80%.
One night stands or incredibly shallow people? Sure, then it's probably 80% or higher. No one wants a long meaningful relationship with a person that's a whiny bitch or constantly depressed and talking down about their self even if they look like a Greek god.
>tfw all the girls who flirt with me are already in relationships
>Physical attraction varies
no not really. women can almost unanimously confirm whether a guy is attractive or not.
>It's a fact that most girls will not approach guys that they like
this is not a fact. girls approach GOOD LOOKING guys all the time or at least give them constant hints.
>this is not a fact. girls approach GOOD LOOKING guys all the time or at least give them constant hints.
I meant approach as in come to them and ask them out. and women give all men they're interested in hints. More often than not, they're not going to ask out you, though. Also, in regards to physical attraction, a lot of people's issues are with how they carry themselves. Being well groomed and presenting yourself as confident does wonders for physical attraction.
>>Never been asked out by a girl
>>Never been flirted with
then move your fat ass and do it
You need to have some balls and ask out the girl, not being passive and wait to her to give the first step
If girls havent taken interest in you ever. Its pretty futile. Youre going to be part of the 60% of men who historically never reproduced.
Yes. LDAR
Stop trying to help incels you fucking do gooder
You are not a chad. You are in fact a onions boy.
Girls have done both of those things to me ironically does that count?
You neglect to mention the fact that all girls have different tastes. Some will find a certain guy attractive, some will not. There is no universal attractiveness scale.
they may very well been flirting user, you just dont notice because females dont often flirt so obviously as they think. They worry about being embarrassed.
>Never been asked out by a girl
Girls rarely if ever ask guys out you fool.
You can be the biggest chad in the world and you'll likely still be the one who has to make the move.
This.
Unless you're hideous looking, you've probably gotten some IOI's in your life. But OP is one of those dudes who thinks a woman is only interested in you if she's already down on her knees sucking your cock.
He is not used to minor signs. and often times the signs come from girls he may not want.
Why do women ask men out and get naked for them?
Listen OP, you keep putting your own logic into women's heads. It's like putting words in peoples mouths. Here is the thing though women are looking for an emotional connection that makes them happy. They are trying really hard to fall in love while guys like you just feel like kissing someone and fucking them is going to change your life for the long term, it wont.
Girls do however gravitate towards good looking men, and it's not a crime to do so. But they are more susceptible to being talked to like nothing is worrying you or scared or believe something is wrong. Just be nuetral not feeling you are bad or good but you are looking like you are in the moment. Girls will talk to you more when you dont try hard and feel you need to say something all the time. Dont ever expect anything from women, that line of thinking will be a let down. Be happy when you make a connection and be even happier if she comes back after you parted the first time. Matters of dating is more than give and take, it's a matter of trust and acceptance of both faults of character and compliments of character.
cougars? OP is living in a porn fantasy that only a very few get to have, he isnt the very few.
Not even then. OP is such a huge retard that he would find a way to use mental gymnastics as to why that girl sucking his cock isn't interested in him.
OP here. I think that girl giving me oral sex wouldn't necessary be interested in me. Maybe she would be just very polite.
See some of the responses in yhis thread actually confuse me. I understand everybodies life is different and everybody have preferences but i heard
>if she flirts with you she is interested
>people casually flirt without being serious
I mean we live in societies that actually have a concept of friends with benefits, so this is amazing to me that people have so many different standrts. Even going out on a date is apparently not neccessarily shows interest? They might just be thrying to know you and can casually date several people at the same time? Just how?
t. 28 year old who is just trying to start to date who is very very confused..
How else are you going to figure out if you are interested in someone than going on a date?
Why go out on a date if you arent interested in the first place?
There must be some level of sth there right? Look i dont mean to be cynical but it feels like i am autisticly confused about this all section of human life.
>can casually date several people at the same time?
Bothers me too but it's the way of things now. Just play your hand and hope for the best desu.
If you're looking for something long term then you can't just fall in to a relationship with everyone you have an initial attraction to.
Okay, you know what? Just decide no girl will ever be interested in you, period. You are a special snowflake. The only man in history who will never have a single girl interested in him. Congratulations, now you can stop making these threads and get off Jow Forums.
But people really do do that though. My best friend dealt with depression because people enjoyed him as a funny guy but he was so... unattractive that it was girls would laugh in his face.
He didnt do anything to deserve this, some people truely are just unfortunate.
I am not OP dude, and i literally dont want to cycnical about this. I simple am confused about whole this
>Unless you're hideous looking, you've probably gotten some IOI's in your life.
DELET NOW
But you have to be interested in someone to go on a date with, thus the date is to know each other more and know if the interest is mutual. You cannot be uninterested in someone and go on a date.
>t. not the user you were responding to but an Autist also.
Not OP, but I once had a girl lie down in front of me, tell me that she's cold and I should lie on top of her to warm her up. I didn't realise at the time that it was a form of flirting, I just thought it was genuinely cold so we went inside to get her jacket.
>be an absolute tard talking to girls IRL
>for some reason am confident, charming and funny talking to girls over the phone / microphone online
I don't know if it's the physical aspect that ruins me or I just click a lot better with people online.
Everything is not for everyone.
Life isn't all about girls and relationships and sex, those things are only meant for some people and some never get them.
There's nothing wrong with that, this is how life works.
Find something else to strive for.
things that never happened
Ok thanks i guess, i just have the idea in mind that date = relationship. I mean platonic dates are not really a thing from where i am from so i just dont really know howto act.
Like being in your bed trying to make out with you?
I understand that, i just never did casual dating neither other kind of dating too actually. So i have like question marks about the whole process thats all.