My gf and I were clear that we didn't wanted children since the start of our relationship. 5 years later she said she wants a baby. I don't under any circumstance.
Should I prepare to leave her despite loving her because a woman that wants a baby will eventually left me or there's a high chance she would abandon the idea for the sake of our relationship?
What's the point of dating a woman if it's not to have kids? You're a fucking retard, OP.
Three options
>she convinces you that you DO WANT a baby
>she "accidentaly forgets" to take the pill
>she cucks you and you get fucked into paying alimony
The alimony can also apply to option two.
>5 years later she said she wants a baby
Women very very often change their mind about this as they age.
No one can blame you if you leave her, after all she had earlier agreed not to have kids.
On the other hand, no one will blame her for leaving either.
Either way you should break up. You become a shitty dad if you don't want a kid and have one.
btw kids are awesome
Incel
Leave her. This is the one thing in a relationship you can't compromise on. I've been in this exact situation. I'd been dating a guy for 4 years, only for him to suddenly change his mind. It hurts like a bitch knowing that you would otherwise be a perfect fit, but remaining together will only breed animosity towards each other.
I find that men are more likely to change their mind. They're typically not the ones who do the bulk of childrearing and they don't have to go through the horrible ordeal of pregnancy and giving birth, so it's not as much of a commitment. When they get into their early 30s they fall for the fantasy of Kodac moments and having a mini version of them. It's quite unfortunate.
Also, I forgot to mention. Don't have sex with her. It's common practice for people with baby rabies to sabotage contraceptives thinking that their partner will change their mind when a pregnancy occurs. Women can just lie about taking the pill, men can microwave a woman's pills or poke holes in their condoms, etc.
Listen to those genetic dead-ends.
This.
Unfortunately, women can't change their biology. There comes a time when our bodies will no longer be able to get pregnant. As we age, our fertility rates drop. If you don't want a child, then let her go. Like this poster said, you can't compromise. There will only be bitterness. She might be at the age where her body is ready, and it will be her only real chance to have a baby. If you don't want that, then just leave. Then both of you can pursue your goals and dreams.
Why did she change her mind after 5 years?
>Ruining your only chance at life and bringing a sapient being into the world to suffer over an arrangement of proteins
Who gives a shit? Live your best life. People who don't want to reproduce make terrible parents. Not everyone should breed.
Childhood is thinking you can just find a gf who shares your no desire to have kids ever and live happily ever after.
Adulthood is knowing that women self-destruct without children and also will compromise their values over anything, and planning accordingly.
My mom never had children and she didnt self-destruct. She was a very good mom.
>My mom never had children
Is she your step mom or are you adopted?
no shes my real mom
user...
>but remaining together will only breed animosity
among other things.
she's a woman.
I'll take the bait. If your mom never had kids what are you supposed to be?
inb4 a mistake.
>she's a woman
Not all women change their minds.
t. Getting a bilateral salpingectomy next year.
Maybe he's like Jesus and his mom just birthed him out of a clamshell or something.
COMMUNICATE. Ask her why she suddenly changed her mind, get her to sit down and sort out her own thoughts to separate true reasoned desires from temporary hormonal cravings.
t. woman who also never wants kids but at certain times of the month my hormones scream at me to get pregnant (which I obviously don't because i'm onto their game...same way I avoid shoving cake and chocolate down my throat just because hormones give me cravings for sugarjunk.)
Get a vasectomy, tell the misses you hurt your back and kick back a few days.
Nothing against him getting a vasectomy but that's really not fair to her. If she really wants kids and this isn't just a whim then he should end it. She'd find out eventually.