What is like to date a truly attractive female...

Insecurity.
I'm considered attractive I guess, but every guy I ended up dating would start to think I would stray or get extremely possessive because I've had a few unwanted comments come my way.

It's kind of turned me away from dating anyone for a long while...

>inb4 post lewds.

these.

and is there a question here?

>Sour grapes, the post. Stop deluding yourself.

These are legitimate concerns. Statistics even prove that attractive people cheat more because of more options and temptation, and attractive woman know the value of their body, which makes them more demanding of the men that they date. As the saying goes, we're only as loyal as our options.

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i know what its like to date an attractive male and yes their ego does get inflated because of the amount of times they would brag about fucking a model

Every male friend is not really a friend but trying to date her
She seems not actually realise this and continues to indulge them, and considers some guys as just "such a nice guy, he helps me so much for no reason".
Other guys are passive aggressive towards you if not outright aggressive sometimes, but it just makes them look like jerks to her.

Well that's the main thing, otherwise they're like any person in terms of personality variation.

I don't know if i should continue with her, she is the most beautiful woman im ever likely to get, she's literally a goddess, but she's like a lamp surrounded by a swarm of orbiters. Some of them are hotter guys than me and i really dont understand how i have her, but she's really into me.

Have sex

with his gf

>Statistics even prove that attractive people cheat more
Which statistics? Post them.

It's kinda annoying, and it doesn't last.
1. You bring your A game as usual to make her feel wanted, welcome, appreciated, and taken care of. She brings... herself, because you should be happy just to be with her. If you want more she gets pissed because "my exes never required me to put effort in".
2. Everyone wants to pick her up. It's fun at first to have the gf everyone wants, but it gets tiresome quickly. She likes it because she gets attention and self esteem boosts from the constant praise and flirting.
3. Her personality sucks. She never learned to be civil because no one told her to shut the fuck up when she's being a bitch. She thinks it's normal to ask for anything and everything she wants instead of doing it for herself, and she gets pissy when I don't want to spend my time or money on her whims.

All in all, don't. If you find a woman that didn't become a 10 until later in life, go for it, but otherwise no. A pampered spoiled brat does not make for a good gf, even though it seems fun at first.

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Why would an attractive woman be on Jow Forums? Doesn't add up Bert from Albuquerque.

All sorts of people are on Jow Forums and Jow Forums. Naturally there will be some attractive women too. Just like there are middle-aged CEOs. Not many of course, but not everyone here is a teenager weeaboo.

>1.5 year relationship with 5/10
>5 year relationship with 10/10

to be honest it was just the same. you start to "look" different at people. before i might have thought "oh damn look at her" but when she was my gf it was just "oh thats my girlfriend" the same way it was with the other one.

most of the time the "hottness" goes into the background and you are just as every other couple with the same old problems.

so in the end if you have a 6/10 or 10/10 does not make ANY difference most of the time. maybe its even more of a struggle with a 10 since she just gets flooded with male attention and offers.

i couldnt go to the bathroom when we went out for cocktails without 3 guys hitting on her when i was gone

young hot girls really got the world by the balls. they pretty much can get everything they want if they are willing to give there body for it.

thats often a bit scary when you are in a relationship with someone like that.

She is right, i met at least a few from Jow Forums.

I met my 10/10 gf on Jow Forums.

You were luckier than me user, since the ones i met werent interested in me. I seem to fuck up somewhere (even in online chat) but for the life of me i can't figure it out..

She cant have been that hot. Maybe im shallow but with the 10/10 im always mind blown when I see her.

Just like in real life, you just need to keep trying. Finding that gorgeous great girl who's also interested in you isn't going to be easy.

>She cant have been that hot
wont share pics so you have to believe me there

and ofc there were times when i saw it as i did before but you really get used to it and you stop seeing that hottie but start seeing your girl if you know what i mean.

this is also somewhat logical. at first you can only observe looks. when you know someone and look at them you "see" so much more which makes the outside somewhat go into the background. if i see my best buddy i dont see his looks either i see by best buddy. or with your partens. you dont look at them judging their appearance.

i am quite sure everybody can relate to that

After several attempts though sometimes i wonder if the issue is me.

It really depends on their personality.

For example, I know a girl from work who is a literal 10/10. Blonde hair, fit body, just overall really great genes. But, she actually had an introvert personality. She has no interest in clubbing or bars. She doesn’t even have a boyfriend. She has told me before the reason she doesn’t have a boyfriend is because guys stress her out. She said all guys want to just fuck her, which she doesn’t want. So she’s avoiding dating all together.

Girls like her are rare, but looks can be deceiving sometimes

ofc the issue is you. but thats not to be taken in such a negative way.

you need someone who fits to your persona or otherwise you will be quite miserable

this whole partner game is a game of chance and thus a game of numbers. the more people you get to know the higher the cance you meet the one who is into you. and dont think there is only one person who fits you. that would be a rather stupid assumption. possible but highly unlikely

ever wondered why so many people have issues with relationships? probably because they forced something which wasnt ment to be

dont lie to yourself. follow your interests and look out for someone for whom you dont have to change. also fap before you judge if you are into a certain person. being horny makes you quite irrational.

that being said dont take the "be yourself" too literal resulting in you being a lazy sad fuck.

Just some random attractive woman you share little in common with? Boring after awhile. Only thing that keeps you interested is the ego boost and sex. An attractive woman who clicks with you on every level? Magical.

the thing being a hot girl is like being a filthy rich guy.

its so hard to judge who has good intentions, who is your friend who is just after your body/money/...

always two sides

Yeah it makes sense. This girl genuinely seems like a nice girl too. She was just blessed with perfect genetics. It’s just interesting because you wouldn’t think that someone with her looks would have her type of personality.

But yeah, she has said how she’s been on dates before with guys who she thought were nice, but they all tried to fuck her on the first date. She said she’s suspicious of practically every guy who speaks to her now, unless they have a relevant reason to talk to her

The most beautiful woman I dated and married was a fucking mess, the most insecure, jealous nut and made my life a living hell. She had men trying to fuck her constantly and she never shut anything down and would act an innocent victim when something happened. Like everywhere she worked she filed sexual harassment charges, that were dismissed so she couldn't keep a job. Meanwhile I couldn't go to the store without her flipping out I was fucking around. DIVORCE was a gift from god.

So what’s your plan now? So you only date plain women?

It's common sense. Hot women are approached and desired more so they can cheat. Women do shit because they can and they don't have compassion for men because they've been taught that men oppressed them. How would got treat your oppressor if they were basically in your lap?

Even women who are closer to average gets this kind of treatment. Most women are like this.

I am an insecure person, dating someone like that is a little too much for me. I did it before and I got so worked up over everything and it ended up not being so enjoyable, so I broke it off.

My girlfriend now is perfect. I love her, and I think shes beautiful, but I know she isnt that way to everyone. She doesnt get swarmed by dudes if I walk away, and she doesnt entertain them when they do. I dont have any insecurity with her and she feels the same about me.

So yeah man it can happen. But beautiful people find love too, they just date more.

I have a question

I’m in my first relationship. and, my girlfriend is really fucking cute. Anyways, I’ve noticed when we go out to eat, if we have a male waiter our age he always acts special toward her. Not like how I’m used to. It kind of makes me mad. I get this feeling like they like my gf.

Most men are beta nice guys and treat women like they're special. It's called beyond a white knight and it ruins women and makes them entitled. It's a bigger issue than rape. Significantly worse because it inflates the egos of already vapid women and they become even more narcissistic which is not good.

but the thing is these guys will be good looking guys. Like they are probably chads.

I just don’t understand why they can’t just treat both of us the same.

Hell no. Dating another beautiful woman but she so far is nothing like the former. Well maybe she is but with this one and any future beautiful women I will never fall in love. Thats what causes the hell. If you don't give a shit you aren't bothered.

Just imagine what goes on when you aren't there

Exactly. I bet she doesn't shut them down.

And did you actually believed her? LMAO

Waiting staff always treats the opposite sex better hoping they will get a bigger tip from them. Or the partner that looks more open and friendly. So deffinetly not you bro.

>male waiter
>chads.
nice b8

depends on if she likes you
and if you like her
so in most senses it's the exact same as with other women
you just look much much better in front of everyone you meet and superficial or not, that just makes you feel good

>statistics prove...
>Okay, show those statistics.
>it's common sense
So you were talking out of your ass. In other words, you made shit up, and when caught, backpedal.

>Calling women female
But you've never been in a relationship to know how a relationship normally functions.

fpbp

I’ve seen her reject chads before desu