Vent thread

You say that as if pets are something bad. Pets are awesome, dude. I want to get a dog.

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Yes, especially compared to that good boy

Hard to give useful advice when we don't know what you want. What do you want? Do you know?

as a guy who browses /fa/ I can tell you attraction is based on a number of things, a couple im familiar with is your hairstyle and fits. If you look like post malone unironically with a genuine homless look you're fucked. I am a 7 outta 10 and when I got a decent fashion sense and a bit of courage I scored a cute gf.

what you should do is know what it is your current demographic likes and compare to what your ideal demographic likes. Find where there isn't overlaps. bam epic bf.

Yeah, dogs are great. I have a golden lab myself and I love the boy. As for your looks, maybe there’s some cosmetics or a hairstyle that will make you easier on the eyes

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Make-up is lying dude. I can't keep makeup and hairstyles on 24/7, I have neither the time nor the will not the money. A partner is bound to see my real face eventually anyway, no point if they don't like my real face.

I doubt you’re that bad looking. I got a hair cut recently and I’m more satisfied with my face then before, I don’t see it as lying but rather finding a look that suits me, and you should do the same. And every woman as far as I know wears make up. You don’t need to put on a show but you could find some cheap stuff to make yourself look a little better during your free time

I still see it as lying. If a guy likes my face, he'll like it makeup or no makeup. If he needs makeup to like my face, he doesn't really like my face, and there's no point being with him then.

Yeah but /fa/ doesn't help to look decent. It helps you look like a weirdo. There is NO good advice on that board for people who just want to look decent and presentable in public.

I hate watching myself become a bitter asshole, but I can't seem to turn the tides. My life has been on hold for over a year. I haven't advanced at all, and I came to resent the few friends that I have. I resent having to talk about myself when I literally don't have anything to say. And more than that, I resent watching them surpass me in every aspect. I used to be happy for their success, to wish them well, to genuinely celebrate with them. Sometimes I was even happier for them than they themselves were. I'd do nice things for them. Get them meaningful gifts, take them out to a new place I think they'd like and treat them, shit like that. But nowadays I can barely muster a fake smile. The truth is, their every success, no matter how minor, feels like a dagger in my chest. I've come to envy them. And worse, to devalue our relationship, or even devalue them as people. I was at my happiest in a year when my friend's business venture fell apart. I don't understand how I became so warped, but it's not subtle. They're all slowly leaving me, and instead of being angry at myself like I should, and try to correct my behavior, my crazy brain doubles down on my irrational... I don't know what it is. It's not hatred, but it's pretty fucking close. It's like I became someone else.

You don't understand how men works, every bf gets to see girls without their make-up but most of times it's not that horrible, just less bright face features. At that point men doesn't really care, but at the beginning it's really attractive and catchy.
>wants man
>doesn't want to take care of yourself to attract man

>At that point men doesn't really care
Somehow I don't believe this. If he cared in the beginning, he's going to care always. Even if he denies it.

Then have fun doing what you’ve been doing and watching it not work

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This makes sense to me. I would never approach a girl if I can easily tell she is wearing makeup.

He won’t because then he’ll potentially have gotten to know or like you

90% of girls are wearing something on their face to look better. To the point of it being thick is a no no

Not enough to like my real face though, because he never liked it in the first place.
And then he grows cold and distant and starts looking at other women.

the whole makeup thing varies wildly from male to male. However, I would imagine you would have a better chance w/ makeup since it is a social norm? Just don’t OD on the makeup I suppose— at that point most ppl would prob be turned off methinksss

You need to stop being so jealous or insecure or whatever. No one is going to like you like that

Are you fat or just ugly?

I'm not going to wear makeup to "catch" a man making him think I'm something I'm really not. Either I find someone who likes me as I am, or I'm just going to stay alone.

The world isn’t going to change for you and no one is probably going to come and rescue you from being single, but do what you want. That’s just how it is

Hence the vent thread, to vent.
I think wants attention too.

Why vent instead of fix something fairly easy to solve like what your deal is

>wants attention too.
Not necessarily, I just wanted to vent, as per the thread subject. If I wanted attention, I'd throw in a picture and an >I'm a girl btw :3

As a man who's been the recipient of unwanted affections, make sure you give off stable airs. I wouldn't go near the chick who wanted me because I had this strange feeling it would turn into a cherry situation and I'd have her hanging off me at every turn off my life for the next ten years

Post pic or fuck off if you don't actually want advice. There is a vent thread already.

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wtf is wrong with you?
Go on tinder/bumble/OKCupid
Make a shit profile
Have HUNDREDS of guys match with you.
get free dinners
profit

Make your own thread, that works too.

Choices in life generally boil down to either lowering your standards or dying alone. It's not ideal or fair or whatever, but thats how it is.

thats part of your problem. Your beyond helping if you don't want advice but want to whine.

Believe it or not I understand how you feel. Just don’t get close to those people, take a break and do your own thing until you feel better, whatever that may be

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>vent thread
>why don't you want my unsolicited advice
I need a vent thread about vent threads

It's not an issue that deserves a thread of its own.

Given your anger problems I think it does, don't wanna see you in the news for mass murder buddy

You’re on the advice board, no need to be such a bitch

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>anger problems
Nah, it's more of a slow burning, corrosive, resentment problem.
Yeah, thanks. That's kind of what I've been trying to do, but I have a difficult time with getting myself to feel better in general. I'm probably depressed.

Then your thread doesn't belong and it should be pruned because you don't know how boards or rules work

It's not our fault you don't like the truth, which is that not only does your personality probably suck but so does your face, and you gotta great double whammy of "abrasive, rude girl wears no makeup and has no social graces." It's a winner, ain't it? Just gotta wait for the dick to line up.

Instead of lowering your standards (although that IS gonna need to happen, at a guess), maybe try having higher standards for yourself. A vent thread? Catting it up at people who just tried to offer advice? This whole 'pity me I'm so alone' act?
Come on, you're a fuckin' right old mess-- who's going to want you? You have all the charisma, physical and social, of a cactus at this rate. Is that really what you want people to date and come to love?

You want people to love this? Starting and waging internet fights over your foolish pride?
It seems, somehow, wrong that you could settle for anything but rock bottom when you're damn nearly there.

>more of a slow burning, corrosive, resentment problem
Anger is exactly like that while you bottle it up until it explodes.

It’s envy, what she should do is distance herself from the things that make her envious and cool off
No problem. You’ll find peace eventually

>she
That's a man, baby

I am not going to wear makeup. Deal with it.

It's not about makeup, it's about being such an unlikeable person that people both on and offline dislike you.

You'll never get a guy you like acting like you're some sort of warrior against the storm. We want humility, not makeup. Most guys I know prefer a girl without makeup, as a matter of fact-- guys on Jow Forums who tell you otherwise are just other terminal singles and they don't need to be listened to

The problem is that no guy wants to go near because the ideal is "easy in, easy out." That's why fling babies get more than you despite your offerings to, surely, indulge their hobbies while also putting out. But you're not easy in, easy out; you're like dragging our dicks through a mile of broken glass only to find out that was level 1-1 and we have level 1-2 next. Fuck it nibba, we gonna quit and play League of Legends. Sure it's a new game every round, but at least that bitch don't force a full restart when I game over.

And that's you. You're the kind of woman who's going to remain more work than they're worth until they realize it's not a fucking battle or competition... People are, mostly, just looking for someone who isn't going to ADD to their stresses.

All I can do is assume but I've seen some pretty far uggos score hot dick just by being a genuinely funny, nice and interesting person. By being engaging and good-humoured, you can easily go from 4 to 6 or 7, and that's already leagues of improvement.

Where you're going, you'll be THAT cat lady. Not the one with the nice cats, either. Humility is an essential construct of an adult and if you had any significant amount, you'd not be here attacking people for suggesting that you're lacking in immediate charm and could stand to lighten up your approaches, judgements and probably hold yourself in a little bit less light.

>we want humility, not makeup
>this whole thread you've been mad because I don't want to wear makeup
Huh-huh.
Makeup is not good advice for me. If you have nothing else, please stop trying to push it on me.

I appreciate a girl letting me see her without makeup; shows she's confident in herself, comfortable with me and probably not going to throw a fit when we go for a hike somewhere muddy.

Ah, you're just bait. Well, here's your (You). Enjoy being single, since you have so far.
Nobody wants you to wear makeup, just to repeat that for like the twelfth time since you're apparently completely illiterate.

No more (You)s for you.
I don't usually make judgements on th absence, it's the presence I watch out for.
It's like girls who say "ugh I hate myself" but have literally hundreds, perhaps thousands of selfies. Eh? Man, I hate myself and I can barely be near cameras. I clam up, get tense and start thinking I'm gonna be the one who looks awful in the picture.

Girls with tons of makeup strike me as the type with something to hide, or an image to sell. They want me to buy something and as it goes with telemarketers or door to door salesmen, their being there already alarms me. Shouldn't their shit be good enough to sell like... Oh, I don't know, literally everything else in the world that doesn't require you to walk your ass to my door?
Likewise, if you're so worth my time to date, shouldn't you be willing to show your face without paint all over it?

Eh, just me. My standards for ladies are weird as I live by the old Roald Dahl quote. I won't claim it's a perfect way to be, but I've never stopped believing it since I read it and it seems to hold fairly true in my experience. YMMV!

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>nobody wants you to wear makeup
>this whole thread you literally have no other advice than "wear makeup lol"

>o my gawd I hate being unattractive
>why don’t you just make yourself look nice
>o my gawd fuck off
You’re complaining about a situation without having tried all your options, mind you these people are trying to help

Makeup is lying. It's not an option and it's not help. If a man doesn't like my real face, he doesn't like me. If he likes my real face, why didn't he like it from the beginning? I want a man who likes my real face from the beginning.

keep living in your little bubble then.

Well, sorry to break it to you roastie. But those men who won't date you, they feel that exact same way about you... Disgust. They also don't want to lower their standards. So yes. You will die lonely.

Oh well.

I never had a bf before, but I'm not even this bitter. Just don't date men you don't find attractive, simple. But don't make standards into this long list of ridiculous requirements decide on 3 that are a must have for you when it comes to looks and 5 for personality and interests.

I have standards when it comes to looks and personality and I'm not willing to lower them too. I know what I want and if it does not work out then it doesn't work out and it's not the end of the world. You just have a terrible attitude when it comes to dating and you are disregarding the advice given here.

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I am disregarding the "wear makeup" advice because it's not advice. I don't want to wear makeup. A guy sees my face without makeup and he's not interested, then he sees my face with makeup and suddenly he's interested, and I'm supposed to buy he's really interested in me and not in some fake that is not me? Please.

All you need when it comes to makeup is mascara, an eyelash curler, and a natural lip color. It's the bare minimum and it's more natural than a full face of it. Invest in skin care and/or go to a dermatologist.

Man this bitch is one neurotic mess. Lmao. Pic related is how you act.

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>All you need when it comes to makeup is mascara, an eyelash curler, and a natural lip color
That still changes one's face radically. It's not my face anymore. I don't like it.

Wow, it doesn't even change the face all that much. It just enhances your lips and makes your lashes a bit more visible.

>it doesn't even change the face all that much
Yes it does. I've showed family and friends pictures of myself with makeup and without makeup, and they've all said I look like a completely different person with makeup. And it was basic natural makeup mind you, nothing heavy or anything.

Is "wear makeup" literally the only advice you have?

You only want what you can't have or guys way above your value. You must be overweight.

How unnatractive was the guy, like was he fat? depressive? bipolar, a 4/10 face or what?

>Is "wear makeup" literally the only advice you have?
It looks like you didn't see "Invest in skin care and/or go to a dermatologist" I said earlier? You're great at mental gymnastics, it's no wonder no guy wants you.

I don't need to wear makeup to get compliments. All I do is trim my brows. Hehe hehe.

>no man I want shows interest in me
Tell me, what is the man you want like?

I saw it; you're the one that keeps pushing for something already rejected.

>I am disregarding the "wear makeup" advice because it's not advice. I don't want to wear makeup. A guy sees my face without makeup and he's not interested, then he sees my face with makeup and suddenly he's interested, and I'm supposed to buy he's really interested in me and not in some fake that is not me? Please.

I bet some neckbeard is saying the same thing right now about showering and wearing nice clothes.

But if a female really loved me, she wouldn't care how I lived my life. She would love me for me and not because I do those extraneous activities.

If someone really loves you they absolutely care about how you're living your life. Being a functioning person isn't "extraneous activities".

You don't need makeup to be a functioning person. A clean face is a face without makeup in fact, makeup accumulates dirt and bacteria which is unhealthy while showers and clean clothes keep it away. Would a neckbeard date a woman who never washes makeup off?

78 replies and we still haven't just told her her personality is abhorrent and she'll be lucky to bag neckbeards acting like this?

See
That guy pretty much did that

>itt
>look at this board again
>99% bawwww women don't like me

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It's been almost eight years since i have had sex or been in a relationship and I have never desired companionship of another aside from in my dreams. Many tell me that I am crazy for wanting to be alone but it is all that I desire

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