When I am masturbating my husband will cone into the room and try and “help”...

I don’t like how oral feels, it’s too wet and there’s not enough friction. For the hand stuff I’ve shown him several times, but the lack of stimuli makes it impossible for me to cum. Regular sex also doesn’t work because I guess I don’t cum from penetration.

Try to find a way to let your husband know your needs and proceed from there.

I have told him but he wishes it was different so ignores half of what I say.
I wish it was different too. I wish I was attracted to him more.

One word buddy, just one simple 4 letter word.
A N A L
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Talk to him about it.

This is why you should NEVER date a masturbator. They're the worst in bed.

Tell him to stop? For posterity, whenever I'm in the mood to get myself off and my boyfriend is around, we'll masturbate together. It's a win/win.

Obviously you're not attracted to him. Why are you even married to him in the first place? If he provides for you, and that's why you married him, for the beta bucks, then just accept your pussy will be dried up. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Either divorce him, work hard like a man, and provide for some young Chad Thundercock so he'll fuck you in return, or learn to live the life of a married roastie, and that means a very dry roast beef. You can try cheating but if your husband is not a COMPLETE cuck, it's byebye, but on the positive side, you get ALL his shit. All of it. Up to you really, you hold all the cards.

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Jerk off privately then? In the bathroom, when he's at work, when he's in the shower, etc

Tell him to not come into your room. You're a married couple not the same person. You're allowed to have your privacy too.

I have cheated on him with someone I’m more attracted to. The sex does feel good but obviously the people are flawed in other was, which is why I thought my husband was the best choice for me.

I’ve tried it once and didn’t enjoy it. How does anal solve anything?

This is starting to feel like bait. But still, why are you with him? It sounds like, at best you don't give a shit about him and you're not attracted to him and at worst you're disgusted by him.

Yeah, the only solution to this would be to just tell him you want to masturbate alone because that's the only way you can reach orgasm. Obviously this will make him feel like shit and may create even more cracks in the relationship, but that's the only thing you can do about it. Other than breaking up. Which you probably should consider. If this is not bait, seriously, ask yourself why you are with him and try to come up with an honest answer.

The honest answer is because he is stable and will make a good dad. I want kids now and I need someone who is going to be a family man. He’s also the same ethnicity/religion as me, which my family accepts.

So in that case, what do you make of the advice for "tell him to leave you alone" or "masturbate where/when he can't run into you"? It sounds like you have a hard time keeping up boundaries, since you said that he "ignores half of what you say". Keeping up boundaries involves following through with consequences. Say, if you don't want him to kiss on your feet when you're masturbating, if he ignores you, tuck your feet underneath yourself. If he still won't stop, then leave the room. If you just lay there and let him kiss your feet when you don't want him to, then you're showing him that he can get away with doing whatever he wants.

Yea I basically have just given him the image that I’m not really interested in sex (when it’s really that I’m not interested in sex with him because he doesn’t turn me on).
He told me later today he enjoyed our naked time together...we didn’t even do anything lol

You're going to have a fucked up family. I feel bad for your future kids. Pls kys and don't use someone it's fucked up.

>This is starting to feel like bait.
Gee user, what was your first clue?

I was actually going to be interviewed for a podcast and then we got this contract which said they could sell my story and my husband told me I shouldn’t do it because he thinks I should write my own autobiography and sell it.

lmao feetfags are disgusting

Shut the fucking door or do it in the bathroom bitch

That picture is dumb.
Sitting in your room all day and playing vidya is not surviving.
And it really isn't "okay". I mean it's "okay" to do it, but you don't have to congratulate yourself for it.

Your clearly addicted to masturbation, I don’t know if you also watch porn but if it is the case your dopamine level are going up. It is becoming an addiction that is why masturbation is wrong try to go on nofap for a month at least. See how it goes. If you can’t it something is wrong with you. Just take a little of responsibility of your shit, finally stop being a fuckig whore cheating on your husband you will do it again if you still this way, your kids will suffer in a broken marriage

The fuck you doing masturbating without your SO while your SO is available in the first place?

Man, this is a real shame. I see girls basing relationships on a load of "i want"s all the time and they always crash and burn in the end.

Why not have sex then?

You need to equip your husband with professional tools to get results.

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pin point down what brings you to orgasm

You’ll cheat on him, just see. You women are not capable of solving problems, you’re just seeking the easy way to avoid it. But if this is not communicated and solved, you’ll cheat on him, which wouldn’t be an issue for you anyway.

I fucking hate women.

We own one of those, doesn’t “work”

The objective of masturbation is to get off, while the objective of sex is different. I just wanted to get off.

I don’t play at all...

You're a retard and nobody should take advice from you
You're a hopeless thot that deserves to get eradicated. Get fucked
Fucking based

Did the other guy have a bigger dick than your husband? Was the size part of what made the sex better? What did you see in the other guy that turned you on?

Too real user. Too real.

Sometimes you don't want to have sex, but you want to get off. Penetration isn't always what you want.

Except penetration with other dudes, I guess.

Yes the other person physically has a larger penis.
Also more muscular, less hairy, a different race, which I am more attracted too.

What?

I don’t get off from penetration ever, which is probably part of the issue here.

Was the size part of what made the sex feel good?

If your husband was more muscular and was born with better penis (bigger etc.), would it make him sexually appealing to you?

If yes, you need to divorce him. Cus you’ll cheat on him again and I’m sick and tired of seeing poor guys getting cheated on. It feels like having myself getting cheated on.

You’re probably a size queen. You have preference for big dicks and muscular guys.

You’ve cheated on your husband, right?

>You’ve cheated on your husband, right?
What? When did I say in my original post that I'm married and/or cheated? Can you not read and follow the post chain?

Stop hijacking my post. This is getting old.

Nigga what? Can you not take the two seconds to figure out that I am not the same person? Were you dropped on your that hard when you were born?

>Was the size part of what made the sex feel good?
It’s part of it. I think what really makes it feel better is that it’s new and that I feel desired.

>If your husband was more muscular and was born with better penis (bigger etc.), would it make him sexually appealing to you?
No it wouldn’t, this isn’t really about penis size, that was more a coincidence.

>If yes, you need to divorce him. Cus you’ll cheat on him again and I’m sick and tired of seeing poor guys getting cheated on. It feels like having myself getting cheated on.
Okay, well it’s not about penis size, it’s about being desired.

>You’re probably a size queen. You have preference for big dicks and muscular guys.
Sort of, but not too big

This post # was not written by me, but I will assume you were just confused as the person is trolling for some reason, so I’ll respond
>You’ve cheated on your husband, right?
Yes I have.

When you found out that the guy had a bigger penis, did that excite you?

This is obviously bait.

Let me illuminate. In the beginning of the thread, I responded to OP . Much later, someone responded to me, asking a question . I responded , but this moron didn't take the time to read anything.

Also don't feed him, he's a frequent flyer around Jow Forums, I recognize his obsession and typing style.

Why would people care if you were cheating on someone, this isn’t your thread.
You also said something to the effect of “what I said in the OP” but that isn’t possible because I am OP and I wrote the OP obviously.
Hence, this is getting old.

Why won’t you talk about it? Don’t warn people about me, I just want to talk to as many women as I can gather, about this thing.

I mean sure, but it’s not a deal breaker unless the person is so big they hit my cervix or so small that I can’t feel them at all.

To warn you further OP, he's a cuck that gets off on women cheating on men due to dick size. He used to make frequent threads until he couldn't get enough (You)'s, don't waste your time with him.

Now I am confused AF because I thought both of these people were the same person

Please read . I'm just a passerby that posted in your thread early on, he's the weird cuck trying to use your thread to get off. Just ignore him like the rest of this board.

Ok.

I’ve made conclusion about the women’s nature that I’ve been trying to understand. Even the wise and smart ones will always be excited for the bigger ones. Sorry to turn this thread to be about me. I’m just devastated and I can’t stop thinking about this. To the point where I’m unable to form a relationship with women.

Unless you have a micropenis, there is really nothing to worry about. Sex is about desire and skill, having a big penis doesn’t guarantee success.

No it’s not micro. But it probably can only give the basic pleasure that 70% guys out there can outcompete. I’m nothing compared to them. It’s like, I could be confident and strong and capable and successful but I’m gonna be below them forever. Sex and love is stressful, I’m jealous that most people can enjoy themselves.

This really doesn’t all make sense. As I just said, having a bigger penis doesn’t guarantee that people are enjoying things.

It’s still a nice bonus though. And I’m not having it. I’m even smaller than 70% guys perhaps. There are many guys out there. The whole world is a threat to me. I’m lonely but I feel like if I don’t have anyone to love, I would have nothing for anyone to steal.

>”look bro, I have a bigger dick than you!”
>yeah well good thing I’m not in a relationship.

I’ve never insisted on a picture of someone’s penis before meeting them. The inferiority complex is all from within.

I once slept with an asian guy who was probably in the 30th percentile and I had a great time. He was really strong and sexy and he knew how to use what he had. I still identify that as the most pleasurable sex, as he was able to hit my g-spot with every thrust.

But what if we’re in a fight? Wouldn’t bigger guys suddenly seem more appealing to you? Imagine being in a relationship with a people pleaser guy who always avoid fighting with you by being too agreeable on anything, even at his expense.

I don’t think I would be in a relationship with a guy like that in general.

I also do not cheat due to fights...it’s due to physical desire (and desire to be desired).