I don't get this. I notice other dudes in sweats and basketball shorts have a "bulge". I am self conscious as fuck in sweatpants and basketball shorts because I feel like I don't have a bulge and if I do it looks small.
My dick is 7 inches, in the past here everyone fucking insisted that's big. Ok, so what gives? The dudes around me are just 8 inches and over? The fuck?
I also have a bulge. But I think its mainly because i have large balls
you're a grower, not a shower
This
I'm a grower not a shower too, but at 6'5" I get self conscious in sweats or swim trunks too man.
It's 4.5 inches soft at the smallest though. So what, do showers not get bigger when they boner?
Yeah I'm only 6" but if I was shorter I'd be okay with it
*6ft
I’m jealous of you guys. I’m small flaccid but also small erect :( I feel small and weak when standing next to a guy with big bulge, it’s literally making me not want to pursue women.
They do but not as substantially
>tfw husband is a shower and a grower
Okay I have never heard a woman gossip about a dude not showing. Are there girls here to confirm this?
Too many variables here, and desu I don't wanna see random IRL cock unless I'm getting on it anyway.
I mean worry about this as much as you want but don't think you need to for women.
You can't imagine a girl pointing out a guy because his shorts make his dick look small?
But do they gossip about a dude showing?
This. I just want to make girls want me sexually. That would make me feel like a better man compared to other guys.
I never really look. I have never looked and have that be a spark of interest. Maybe other women are different. I haven't ever heard any friends or acquaintances gossip about it, large or small, until after sex. I just usually like someone for their personality and looks, then if there is mutually interest I think about that dick
Too many huge dick dudes are growers, this would just be stupid anyway.
>then if there is mutually interest I think about that dick
How do you think about the dick? Like, how does the dick become hot to you? Is it hotter if it’s big? What kind of dick do you fantasize when you’re masturbating?
>eat walnuts, celery and other foods that increase sperm production
>wear super tight jeans
>lose weight
>wear pants hiked all the way up and put that shit on the side
seven inches reporting in and women literally stop and stare at my package in the street
I'm going bald so it will never get me laid though
Dudes who have it will flaunt it. Stop crying.
Wear skinny jeans.
Larger does have a pleasurable pain/ submissive aspect. For me over 6 inches or so doesn't fit all the way but then I can hold the rest with my hand while fucking and that's fun. So that's what I like to think about. If they have to go slow at first, that's a huge turn on. Even if they don't have to but do... that's a huge turn on.
Average wins for oral/quickies/riding. Above average it's harder to do all of those things, and that's disappointing. No experience with smaller, but too big really, really sucks, and would be worse than too small, I think.
So, I hope that the next person I am into has a high sex drive and a moderately above average sized dick. That's what I fantasize about. It isn't about aesthetic as much as feeling. I guess I have a pretty expected response, but gspot is what does it for me. I just really like dick. Everyone is different though, I have friends who completely disagree with me.
I still stand by it being a turn off if a guy wants to brag about or show off his dick size, even subtly. I think most girls agree. Idk why I'm even posting this, it's been too long since I've seen a real dick I guess lol ;(
Holy suicide fuel...
How deep do you think the g spot is?
Why do you think this happens? What do you think women are?
Don't answer either, I just want you to mull over why it sounds so damn silly.
>Holy suicide fuel...
Yup I figured would be as much lmao. Just find a girl who is into external stimulation and get really good with your hands. Happy girl and you still get to fuck. It's not hard, and I would be happy with this myself, especially if toys are involved.
My fantasies do not equal reality, or every girl's reality. My preferences in men are truly personality first and at the end of the day I am happy to get off however I can. I would be happiest just doing that with someone i love. I've dated a girl before for 1.5 years, not having a dick is not an end all.
Tldr; if ur gonna kill urself over a Jow Forums post about dicks u got bigger problems than a small one
When I exercise everything shrivels up which is slightly embarrassing desu. It is what it is though, once I'm going I'm too busy focusing on my breathing etc to be thinking about my dick.
Idk. Sure yeah happy girl but would be a lot happier with someone average and above average. It’s like, 70% guys out there are better than me, and that does not feel good at all.
Toys are a dealbreaker. If toys are involved, it means we’re just physically not compatible and if we continue, you’d cheat on me.
Idk. It’s not that I’m scared of being cheated on. I just feel like I’m below most guys and I’m really tired of overcompensating. Like, if I have a gf, I would feel like I don’t deserve her and a bigger guy could take her easily from me and sex wouldn’t be that hot for her. I don’t need the sex, I need the self esteem and validation.
This really sucks. Somehow nothing in life is enjoyable anymore and I feel like I want to throw up all the time.
Is this depression? Idk, I don’t even want to eat. Like, I don’t have the appetite, I don’t feel like eating anything. The only thing I can enjoy is my cigarette.
Probably.
Really jealous of big guys. I wish I know how it feels to have girls lusting over your masculine symbol.
im asian with a 4.9 inch . stfu ;-;
are you gay
No but a lot of girls like big dicks, what makes you think a straight person shouldn’t think about this? It’s normal to worry about this, to think and care about this.
wtf is up with the specific user on this board who’s obsessed with dick size and how girls feel about dicks that are bigger than his? its like he’s trying to covertly satisfy his cuck fetish or something.
How can I feel good about my masculinity without distorting my sense of truth?
You think too much about other men’s dicks for it to be just a regular insecurity
Well, either I think about it and find ways to compensate for it (music taste, fashion, etc.) or I let my wife think about it.
More than one woman in this board has admitted to like big dicks. This is starting to get worrying.
No. I‘m 30 now and i have a big circle of female friends. Most of them are close enough to the extend where we would talk about stuff like that id we wanted to.
I can not recall a single incident where this was the topic. I mean, we‘ve pointed out to each other if some dude had a boner in swim trunks, as it is fairly visible, but it wasn‘t even in a „ewwww, what a creep“ way. We just like to observe people and talk about what we see.
But a guy not having a noticeable bulge? Really not a topic, girls know about the grower/shower phenomenon.
Some guy having a huge bulge? We assume he‘s having a chubby. Which isn‘t exactly hot or worth swooning over.
Guys just don‘t understand how female sexuality/attraction works. They just assume it‘s the same as for them, namely that the mere sight of physically attractive traits is enough to get us horny. It makes sense for males who chose their mates for health, youth and beauty (which indicates superior dna). But it doesn‘t make sense for females who have to be more considerate when choosing which dna to breed. A big dick won‘t help you raise the kids that possibly happen when fucking. A responsible character has a bigger chance of doing so. Ofc if women can chose between responsible and small dick vs responsible and big dick, they‘d choose the additional big dick. Not going to lie about that. But if the choice is big dick vs responsible and the goal is to not only have a fling (which girls shouldn‘t do anyways), then the choice is clearly responsible character over big dick.
You have a wife and you’re worried about this shit? Wtf is wrong with you
>Ofc if women can chose between responsible and small dick vs responsible and big dick, they‘d choose the additional big dick. Not going to lie about that.
Could have just answered with this, no need to sugarcoat. This sums up everything.
I don’t. I meant hypothetically. And yes we should worry about this if we don’t have a big dick. They need us for father figure but they’d look for other guys for lover figure. Women have choice and that’s scary.
I don‘t know honestly. I‘ve been a virgin before i got married and my husband is pretty big. He feels amazing, but i can‘t tell you if it‘s only because of his size or because the dick is attached to the man i love.
From field reports from female friends, i‘d have to assume that at some point, small gets too small and you basically don‘t feel anything anymore.
It’s only scary if you let it. No girl has ever turned me down because I don’t have a monster cock
This. When it comes to women, you can easily outperform a small dick with an exceptional personality.
Dick size is a lot more important in male dominance hierarchy. Meaning that you could worry more about being the one with the biggest dick in the gym shower.
You don’t need to have a monster cock. At least you don’t have a 4incher like me.
>at some point, small gets too small and you basically don‘t feel anything anymore.
Wtf does this even mean? Fuck. So like, through time, after 10 years, the below average dick will feel smaller? Fuck, fuck. I think I’m gonna throw up. This is stressful.
Measure out 4 inches between your hands and hold it up to your face. It’s bigger that you think.
Not that guy but I’m curious, is there such thing as the a-spot? When he penetrates deep, does it feel better than the g-spot? (G-spot is not that deep, right?)
Yes exactly right. Your worst fears are realized. Now stop shitting up the board and go away.
The anterior fornix is like 6 inches deep. It’s the good spot that 70% guys out there can reach, except me. So my future wife would probably make the wrong decision.
In the comparison method of valuation, it is of very low value.
It’s hopeless. It’s like, I can’t hope for anything anymore. Anyone who would accept me in the future, would at some point see big bulge guys as appealing. Fuck. Life really sucks. This is really depressing. I feel like I have no value for being a man. What’s the use of being confident, strong, capable, successful etc if my wife believes that other guys are sexually superior to me anyway?
Yeah okay this is some weird cuck shit. Good luck getting off my dude.
I’ve jerked off actually. I jerked off fantasizing a scenario where my crush is comforting me saying that I’m good enough for her. You’re right, I’m weird. I don’t get turned on looking at boobs or ass, I get turned on by sympathetic scenarios like what I mentioned.
Oh well, that’s why I fantasized about it, cus it’s unlikely. We fantasize unlikely things.
No, i meant there‘s small dicks and then there‘s too small dicks.
Obviosuly, the orher variant is also an option if you get to thw age where you don‘t have very strong erections anymore and where your partner‘s vagina isn‘t so tight anymore from maybe childbirth or not doing her kegels and simply old age.
I can‘t answer this 100%. I can surely feel it when he enters the cervix in positions that allow for very deep penetration. It depends on my cycle and how horny i am if it hurts or feels good.
I‘m not a girl that can orgasm from penetration, so it‘s really not like seeing stars and hearing unicorns sing. In fact, if it hurts, it hurts badly. If it feels good, it‘s just a bit of a tight feeling. That‘s all there is to it. Maybe some other girls magically cum from cervix penetration, but i might be a bit too stuck up for that kind of letting go.
Ok. Yeah btw I’m like 4.5”. It’s bad, it’s not good enough. I can patch it up with foreplay/techniques etc but so does bigger guys, so what’s the point?
I’m tired. It’s 01:38 AM and I have to get up at 05:00 AM to work. I don’t feel like working, I’m always tired recently.
> I don’t feel like working, I’m always tired recently.
That‘s no wonder. You seem hopeless. It would be weird to wake up energetic if you see your future as dark as you do.
It seems to me that you‘re stuck very deeply in a negatively biased feedback loop. Meaning that you have some believes about how the world works and how you fit into those mechanisms and you‘re finding ways to reinforce those mindsets every day, pushing you down more and more. Everybody has those biases. We all basically want to only get confirmation for what we already believe to be true. But if you‘re aware of that mechanism, you can at least try to play devil‘s advocate and see new informations in a light that might reinforce more positive biases.
For example: if you think people shun you, you‘ll interpret wvery social interaction in that light. But if you think that people enjoy talking to you, you‘ll find situations to strengthen that believe at the end of every day. That‘s like the phenomenon of suddenly seeing a lot of a specific geoup of people once you became aware of them. When i‘m not pregnant, i could swear i only see one pr two pregnant women put in public. When i‘m pregnant, i see them at every corner, multiple times a day. It‘s really a matter of what you‘re focusing on.
Pretty much yeah. That I will not live a happy life, neither does my family etc etc.
Well, how does your husband feel amazing then? Did it feel good at the first 4 inches from the surface? Or did it feel good when he’s all in and touching the deepest part? Or did it feel good simply cause of the width?
why is it important to have a bulge? it is not attractive to women and says nothing about you, as a person.
always nice to hear from the target audience. it is frustrating reading posts from guys explaining what girls like.
they don't, really... I have literally never heard a girl drool over big cocks. Literally never. Even my girlfriends, who you would expect to just say whatever stupid, cruddy, embarrassing thing. I have dated some fucking shameless women, too, so I doubt they were holding back to protect my feelings.
date an asian girl. they have short vaginas.
>dated an asian girl
>she had a short vagina. couldn't do certain positions or would bang her cervix
confidence is more important than truth. Up until the point where you become a douchebag, that is. Being happy with yourself, and having the chutzpa to chat up cute girls is a million times better than being humble about your dick. especially when the clitoris is on the *outside*. you can rock a girl's world without even taking her pants off.
I like how you gloss over all the encouraging stuff to pick out the one thing to get mad over.
>Larger does have a pleasurable pain/ submissive aspect.
>that's a huge turn on.
I'm white with 4.5 inches. As an asian no girl goes in expecting you to be large so you're fine.
It’s the truth that I needed to hear.
what gets me is that some guys like big tits, some guys like small tits, guys can like any variety of any trait associated with women. I have never heard a woman express preference for small dicks.
It’s still an ugly truth though. Makes me wish I was born something else.
Does penis extender work? Does Jelqing? I think I’ll start jelqing again.
you write shit like this and wonder why no one takes your concerns seriously
I'm always worried that if I ever do get a date, if she had a previous partner with a bigger dick than mine I'm obsolete out the gate, or even if she has a toy at home bigger than me. this something to be actively concerned about like a visible bulge?
Why, exactly?
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Tfw 8.5 inches
Feels good
That's the only reason I ever reveal grill lol
4.5 is solidly in the average range though? Dudes this is not this difficult
Also since many small dicks triggered, I prefer over average sized dick but I'm also tall af and well above average female height. I am positive that shit is proportional. Just date a short girl if you are so worried.
>mostly just work on attitude, mental health and low self esteem though. too many anons vibing controlling and jealous
Try this. Wear sweats with your dick and balls pulled over the underwear. Forces a mega bulge.
Tell me more
How long has it been?
>4.5 is solidly in the average range though?
literally an inch below average. I know that sounds like not a lot penis size ties strongly into feeling masculine. A guy with a smaller one will always feel insecure about it, the best you can hope to do is manage that insecurity in the best way possible.
Maybe they're all popping semi's when you're around because of your sexy ass.
I'm 6 inches, I know that it's average and ok, I've had some experience (never had sex but had bjs and hjs), enough to suppose that when you care about each other all goes smoothly... but still, I feel small. Maybe I watch too much MONSTER RAPE HENTAI and such
>Okay I have never heard a woman gossip about a dude not showing.
Because it doesnt happen. And only the worst kind of degenerates make positive gossip about guys showing bulges. Literally all but 1 girl I know has done a "wonder what kind of guy he is trying to impress" joke when a guy is visibly showing bulge. It's a gay thing to compare dick size.
Nobody would bat at eye at you "not showing", on the contrary, that's a good thing.
>my first guy was literal micro penis at less than an inch at first, and grew to a 6,5 incher
That was absolutely terrifying to me at the time. I legitimately thought I would break and get actually wounded if he put it into me, because it just seemed so insane how much it grew, and I remember thinking it probably would grow even more after putting it in.
I still get worried when I get naked with a guy and he is 6+. That first guy just made me mortally afraid of that size.
Idk. Not your fault but I still feel bad about myself, and I still feel inferior to bigger guys. Like, I feel like a little boy next to you.
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