Weight comments

My gf has been making some comments about my weight and eating happens and it’s been really bothering me. I’ve always received comments from people regarding my weight and it really bothers me that she’s said things too. My appetite is highly influence by my stress levels, which I’m often very stressed out. When I’m stressed my appetite becomes suppressed and eating can be physically difficult.

I’m skinny. But I am not skeleton skinny. I do have visible muscle. But my gf made comments today about how she eats more than I do (she is in good shape). She even said “I don’t want you to be a auschwitz victim”. That really pissed me off because I was bullied badly by people and often called a holocaust survivor...

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Get some thick skin or get some therapy. I'd rather my gf make those sorts of comments than fucking coddle me like a loser.

They're trying to help. You know your appetite suppression isn't healthy and you know the cause of it. You need to work on it.

Learn some self discipline please. You alone have influence over your thoughts an emotions. You can tell yourself, "I am stressed but I don't need to eat this stack of pancakes like a fat retard".

Also therapy if you can't pick up any number of habit management books out there.

>You can tell yourself, "I am stressed but I don't need to eat this stack of pancakes like a fat retard".
What?

Lol my God you are a dumbass

whether your girlfriend is irrational or you're irrational is dependent on how much muscle/fat you actually have.

Post a picture of your body or at least give us your height, weight and chest/hips/waist measurements

Stay fat then you degenerate cunt.

You didn’t read the OP

Honestly this

agreed

I can’t post a pic because I’m at a restaurant right now. But I’m 5ft 10in (177.8cm) and 145lbs (65.771kg).

Technically you're normal weight, unless you have a wide frame. Tell that to your girlfriend. But, if you lost a lot of weight recently her concerns are understandable and you should make it clear to her that you won't let yourself lose anymore. And then do make sure you don't lose anymore. If you really are so stressed that you can't physically eat (which I doubt) then you should try to do something about it, because those levels of stress are very unhealthy. That should probably be your main concern.

And you should also consider that your girlfriend might be losing her attraction towards you. Maybe she likes her guy a little bit more buff or something. Try to figure out whether the things she's saying come from genuine concern about your health or from her preferences in looks.

I’m not normal weight, I am below weight. I look very small.

I don’t think this has to do with anyone else. She says this because she will see that I hardly eat sometimes

I would say that's what peak performance looks like and everyone else just doesn't like it

So according to your own words you have a problem. You're underweight, look very small and hardly eat at times.

Maybe the way your wife pointed that out isn't the nicest, but she's right and you need to do something about it.

No it’s not. I am small.
Well I don’t know what to do. When I get stressed I can’t eat.

tell her to start cooking for you.

The funniest part is you don't even realize how stupid you look right now

What do you mean by "you can't"? You puke it out? You can't swallow it? Or you just kinda look at your food and be like "ehhh I'm not feeling hungry at all, I'll just go work on something instead"?

If it's not the latter, then you have a serious problem on your hands and need to start thinking what to do about it. Will the problem solve itself soon? As in, whatever is causing the stress will go away. If not you need to find a way to lower the stress. This is very unhealthy for you and not only because you can't eat. Consider talking to a doctor about it too.

I can’t swallow. as an example. A few days ago I had a major exam which I had been killing myself over studying for. The morning of the exam I made some eggs that way I would have some energy. When I put the eggs in my mouth and chewed them. I couldn’t get them to go into my throat. My body was automatically preventing me from swallowing. Like as if there was a wall in my throat. I forced myself to swallow, which caused me to gag and I almost threw up just the little bit of egg I made.

I'm vegan.

If I were you I'd go talk to a doctor.

What does that mean to me?
I have talked to a therapist. Basically just tried to give me methods to relax. But that doesn’t work in every instance.