I'm afraid of getting into a relationship with a girl, because I do not know what to do next, I've never dated.
I'm afraid of getting into a relationship with a girl, because I do not know what to do next, I've never dated
Samuel Cox
Hudson Johnson
Keep faping and don't concern yourself with such trivialities
Elijah Long
Have you ever had a best friend?
That's how you treat her. You hang out. You share meals. You tell each other about your day and talk shit about it and other people.
The goal is to date someone that you can also consider your bestie. Someone that really gets you and you don't need to do anything more than just be yourself around them.
Just relax. This is your friend. There's no need to over think this.
Ryder Rodriguez
fight the human nature to mate. focus on yourself
Landon Martin
Congrats theres always a first time for everything
Dating is as complicated as the relation you want, if you want to be a deadbeat dad, fuck her as soon as you like and dont use condoms, but dont give her your number even if she asks
If you want to have a perfect relationship, start by being perfct
If you want a normal rlation/ boring relation
Fall in love now, when you have kids ignore them with saying you have too much work, and almost ghost her when she asks about you
Joking aside( even tho it wasnt really a joke) , its all about knowing her and knowing yourself
Dont know how to be happy? Bam! Youre failing
Dont know how to make her happy? Bam! Youre failing!
Dont know what shes thinking? Bam youre failing!
The oh so great solution against failing is asking her, try not to guess too much, or you/ her will end up between someone elses legs because you guys " guessed" that what the other person wanted
Also, if it fails, dont be sad, you wer not a match made in heaven, just thank her for her time, try to keep being friends ( you never stop having. Enough friends)
Summary, try being close friends who can almost read each others minds( and the mushy stuff comes later)
Carson Lewis
You dont really do anything other than Fugg. Text/call her a lot. Go to dinner or vacations.
Dominic Ward
I have not had a best friend for ten years. I do not go out much of the house. This girl I know and I am interested does not have many things in common with me, my tastes are very masculine and no girl would be interested. She's interested in me at least. She has lots of friends and I do not, my social skills suck, but at least I'm very smart and attractive.
Lucas Myers
Not OP, but I need help with my best friend.
The last few months there has been much more tension between us and some time ago something was actually starting between us but she said she was still confused about the whole thing so we left if as it was.
We don't always manage to see each other alone but even Saturday we both went to a party and we stayed together for most of the time.
We had plenty of chances to bring things a bit further but in the end nothing happened between us and that made me feel pretty awful and I ended up thinking that she doesn't want us to be more than close friends.
Jeremiah Gonzalez
can't
Blake Hughes
Don't worry about it user. It will come to you when you get there. I am currently 1 month into my first relationship and I will tell you the order of our milestones.
>first date
>first kiss
>held hands
>held hands with fingers interwoven
>watched a movie and held hands
>shared some of the painful past stuff that you don't share with normal people
>watched a movie and cuddled
>invited her to my families for Easter dinner
>told her I love her
>went over to her place which was the first time we where alone in private
>whole bunch of the cuddling
That was spread across 11 dates. We both want to take it slow so no sex yet.
Jayden Torres
Talk openly and truthfully with her.
Christian Price
Bruh you've done it all wrong. It's your first tho so it's fine. For future reference:
>Kiss at end of first date
>Sex after third/fourth date, if very lucky even second
>don't be first to make relationship steps like saying "I love you"
>don't share fuck up shit from your past unless it's packaged in something upbeat/fun, definitely not in the first months of dating
Good luck bro
Jacob Perez
bump
Brandon Myers
>do next
It may surprise you to learn that you decide that with the person after getting to the dating part.
Adrian Green
>1 month
>I love you
Yikes give advice after you've graduated high school but preferably college
John Edwards
>told her I love her
Are you the girl or the guy?
Hudson Edwards
lol this is some dumbass childish shit; what are you five
Charles White
What I would expect, no one here has experience
Xavier Roberts
I've confronted her about that a couple weeks ago and it ended in a small argument, with her saying that she would prefer not to lie to me since she still was unsure about her feelings for me.
She's what I consider to be my best friend and she has helped me countless times in the past but if this doesn't work out I don't think I'd be able to stand seeing her happy with someone else.
I can't simply run away from her, she means anything to me and without her I would lose all I have.
Ethan Bennett
make your own thread, bro. don't hijack OP's.
Nicholas Jenkins
Yeah, I'm prolly gonna make one now
Christopher Sullivan
Not OP but, What if I have never had any friends?
Isaiah Hall
Isn't 11 a bit much? What if she's terrible in bed, extremely selfish, or outright refuses to do it more than once a year, and you can't leave because you're emotionally invested? Thin ice my dude, get to work.