Is it really a myth?

Tbh the female orgasm is kinda a myth. Theres is very limited knowledge of it and it vary alot. Someone women cant orgasm at all while other women might orgasm from just a finger flick on the clitorial region of the vagina.

This, as well as the fact that all men can cum from penetrating and almost all women can't cum from penetration simply means we have an incompatible relation here or that women simply weren't ment to enjoy the act.

>women simply weren't ment to enjoy the act.

But they do?

Do they actually or is it just a ploy for male attention? Making me think n shit

Nah, I have seen a girl squirt before, OP.

Lmao @ all these virgins who have never made a woman orgasm

Where do you think you are. Most of us haven't even held a girl's hand, and you talk about orgasms.

Not in the same way men enjoy sex. Men likes sex because it stimulates the penis while women are by nature nurturing and caring, women enjoy sex because they find joy in giving the man pleasure

Lmao women enjoy sex physically more than men do. There's a reason they scream and moan while men just let out little grunts. The difference is, women have to actually be attracted to the man to get off, while guys are pretty happy as long as we're spreading our seed.

Yes. There's no biological reason for a female orgasm. It's basically just a rush of emotions from being bodily conquered, emotionally overpowered, and social taboos.

Hence why women most easily "orgasm" on one night stands, when cheating, when raped, or at the start of relationships when things are new+curious+exciting.

It's not complicated. Don't overthink it.

>when raped
What evidence do you have of this?

The reproductive organs start off as the same undifferentiated mess of tissues and nerves in the womb. When a hormone wash triggers female fetal development, it doesn't magically extract the potential for orgasm from those tissues. Likewise, the trigger for male development doesn't take away his nipples. This all means that the female orgasm exists as a consequence of the male orgasm, nothing more, nothing less. Stop politicizing biology, pick up a book, and leave that pseudoscience in the middle ages where it belongs.

>hormone wash triggers female fetal development
Actually, female development is the "default".
Hormones trigger the male development

>The clitoris
>The only sex organ that has no over use than orgasm/sexual stimulation
>IT DOESN'T EXIST

Jesus christ. "B-b-but Jow Forums is the n-n-normie board!"

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Woman here. We do orgasm.
But only on our own or with a good partner. Her not orgamsing is on you being selfish and terrible in bed.

>This is Jow Forums where the facts are made up and the citation doesn't matter.

>women enjoy sex because they find joy in giving the man pleasure

i dont get why anyone would say this.

is it based on being 'nurturing' like user said ?

Frankly, this whole discussion seems absurd to me in an age when one can find video footage online of women orgasming in all kinds of varied and specific circumstances.

Every study of rape ever conducted in the history of mankind. It's an absurd degree higher. Do you think it's just a coincidence that rape fantasies are the most popular sexual fantasy for women across all demographics, all races, all ages, all cultures, all generations, all levels of income, all religions, and all political affiliations?

Lint those studies then.

Bro, save some pussy for the rest of us

>Every study of rape ever conducted in the history of mankind
Link one

You're either going to get a link to an incel blog or "hurr google it".

There is always the possibility that woman fake all orgasms and always lie.

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>anons can't get a girl off

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I considered it once but then y'know masturbated and shit it looks like it's real. Maybe I'm lying to you tho, at least I've got peace of mind

I'd source facts if it was actually complicated.

>too bitter, hateful and unskilled to get any woman off
>thinks women can't orgasm
>"evidence" consists of porn and autism

lmao brb while I go bring myself to heavenly female origamic bliss, losers

What about the physical sensation of orgasm when a woman masturbates?

>so no sources then, I see

Can I come along too?

Only if you have a clit sorry

>tfw big dong but only ever made 1 girl of 12 orgasm

I hate women.

Look at this idiot that thinks vaginal stimulation alone gets women off. Get good at having sex then complain, having a big dick in sex is like having long legs in running - helpful, sure, but if you haven't got a clue what you're doing you're just going to hurt yourself and others around you

I try to strum the guitar when I'm pumping but never get any luck.

You saying I need to eat it or something?

Considering the guy who said it... I'm gonna go with a no. I can't tell if he's a troll or just autistic.

Step by step guide for anyone who needs help

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Strumming the guitar is a glorious metaphor and yes a great idea, but honestly you should focus on your technique. Just sawing in and out of a chick isn't enough, some like it had and hard, some like it slow and sensual, so a one size fits all approach is gonna get you a lot of disappointment. Pay attention to her and her reactions, follow her suggestions and understand "just like that" does NOT mean harder or faster. In regards to eating her out, yeah, some of the time, but foreplay is super important even if it isn't oral. If you whip off her panties then stick it straight in, I'd be impressed that you managed to get one woman off.

FUCK

Playing the devil's lawyer I have to say I've always wondered if any (or all perhaps?) of my past girlfriends lied to me about their orgasms.
But then again I'm slightly paranoid so...

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How can you tell the difference between pain and pleasure because thats why I never really go hard.

As for foreplay, I usually wait for her to reach for my dick before I even take it out.

Now that I think of it, I dunno why I suck so bad in bed. Maybe I just need more actual practice.

>How can you tell the difference
Go gently and softly, pick up pressure, stop when they tell you to. Some girls like feather light touches, some girls like getting slapped, again it's not a one size fits all thing. Just cos she's gone for your dick doesn't mean foreplay is over, let her touch you as you touch her. How hot would it be if you kept going winding her up into she basically force mounted you? Have fun with it! I think a lot of guys just go "hey this feels good for me, must feel good for her" which is understandable but wrong. Less practise, more mindfulness, cuz my best sexual partner so far was a virgin before me.

Yeah, that sounds about right.

The only girl who actively said to me "you're amazing in bed" was one I really didn't want to sleep with and therefore waited aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaages before I finally started banging.

Thanks user.

I mean, they might of, women are people and people lie. But I don't know why guys torture themselves over this because you're never going to know for certain. If a woman is dumb enough to fake an orgasm with someone then she deserves to be unfulfilled.

It's always nice to know the truth. Especially when to comes to someone you are close to.

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Yep, the anticipation is half the fun. No problem user, anyone can be a good lay if they think about it.

Aye, this is true, but my point is that you'll never truly know the truth, you dig? So instead you just think and feel like shit.

I can second this. I made the girl I was with cum the second time I had sex, and it was in part because I listened to what she wanted. I could also physically give her that, but I wouldn't have if I hadn't paid attention

>So instead you just think and feel like shit.
Well being alive and sentient does have it's disadvantages. One of them being that I personally can't stop thinking about a given problem until I reach a conclusions.
Even if it doesn't really have one.

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Well, I mean, you can stop thinking about it, that's what there's whole classes in therapy about. I'm just saying.

If you have a girlfriend right now, my suggestion to you is: Think about asking her this question and grapple with how you feel if she said "yes, I've had to fake orgasms with you before."

There will be reasons. Some are about you. Some are not. If your immediate reaction is an angry "WHY WOULD YOU LIE TO ME" - sit the fuck down because this is exactly why someone would pretend to fake an orgasm with you.

Now. if your reaction is "that's sad, I'd like to make sure you don't fake an orgasm" - that's better. Firstly, take some steps towards realising that not all sex needs to lead to orgasm. sex is sometimes just fun on its own, it's not a competition or a point-scoring thing. Secondly, you're in a place to actually have this vulnerable discussion with your girlfriend. And this is a vulnerable discussion. for you and her. so treat it with kindness and be willing to listen to what is the best thing to do to get her to enjoy sex more.

But your past girlfriends? you can't bother them with this shit, the only thing you can do is deal with now, and become a better person.

I'm pretty sure female orgasm is real.

My girlfriend gets mad if I don't make her orgasm, and when she is cumming she looks all weird, like not something a vain woman would fake.

I made a girl orgasm twice yesterday with just my hand while making out. We didn't even take our clothes off. Perks of being a guitar player I suppose.

But seriously, the girl is impossibly emotionally attached to me. The more she "loves" me the easier it's been to make her orgasm.

Are you really suggesting asking someone who has 50/50 chance of lying if she's telling the truth?

If you genuinely find it hard to believe your girlfriend and think that if you ask her a (vulnerable, i'll give you that) yes/no question, she has a 50% chance of lying... your relationship has bigger problems.

I mean, the thing is, she may lie because she's not willing to tell you the truth. This might be because she's afraid, or she's not ready to tell you the truth, but if you're in this mental position where "she's gonna fucking lie to me"

with all the kindness and earnestness in the world, you need to go to therapy. Relationships are predicated on sharing truths.

I can get my girl to orgasam from dry sex easy, I can literally just lay there and play with her ass while she grinds on me and she'll cum in a couple of minutes top. Also can get her to orgasam from head but not as consistently.

I'd love to get her off from orgasam but my premature ejaculation gets in the way so whatever.

Hypothetical discussions aren't really your thing are they?

Of course it isn't a myth, the clitoris alone is virtually a quick orgasm button. I come fairly easily and from penetration, though, so I consider myself lucky. I can easily rack up five orgasms in a row during really good sex, fingering, head, what have you. Shit's cash.

Or you could just have an actual discussion instead of waxing retard with Jow Forums of all places

I used to make my exes orgasm all the time. Most girls need clit stimulation along with a couple fingers rubbing her g spot. Best technique is to suck on her clit, and also finger her at an angle so you can touch her g spot. Make sure shes warmed up as it takes longer for girls to get turned on than guys. Before you even go down on your girl make out and touch her boobs. Every girl ive ever dated loved having their boobs squeezed, its a huge turn on for many girls. Anyway you can tell a girl is actually having an orgasm when they start to spaz out and lose control over their body. They will often be really really sensitive right after orgasm much like guys. Its hot as fuck and its a huge turn on seeing chicks lose control over their bodies.

Some girls cannot make themselves orgasm and have never experienced it through sex. They may tell you it's a myth but they just need someone to go down on them with good technique. Lol i studied and practiced different techniques because eating pussy is my fetish. Trust me its real

Why not both? On several boards at once? Why are you limiting yourself?

This isn't a hypothetical discussion. I'm giving advice. I have to take an user at their word or the advice is meaningless. Simple as.