Hey Jow Forums how to pick up girls at club / partys ?

What to do if the conversation dies?
If the girl is with a friend should I get a friend to talk to one girl while I go to the other?
What to do if the girl starts talking about boring stuff like politcs?

Its against the rules

It isn't, that's only on r9k

I've always wondered this.
What's a good starter for just flirt talk in general without it sounding like I'm cringe?

Good question

>conversation dies
Then it’s up to you to keep it going. You can co trol a conversation by talking about things you like or asker her questions. The questions could be about something you like “hey what do you think about X...have you seen X...?” etc.

>2 woman
This situation is very contextual. Where are you? In any case, Pick one. If the one you choose likes you the other friend should get the hint but understand they are together(possible wingman type situation) so you might have to deal with both, doesnt mean threesome.
At this point you should probably find someone else to talk to.

>boring stuff
If you want poon, seem interested and keep up the conversation till you can shift it about something you both like. We all like things someone else probably hates or is apathetic towards, but remember that woman are people to so just talk to her like a regular person. If you’re charming enough you could get away with jokingly say “this is boring lets talk about something else”, or you can literally just shift the conversation. Sometimes people just talk about random shit. Not every part of the conversation is going to be a high point.

Go on Tinder, set your search radius to 1 mile and see if you match with any of them.

cocky and funny approach it's the easiest way to get something at a party?

Depends, most of the time you have to draw conversation out of them. Constantly asking questions is boring, once you know a bit start up a conversation around one of the topics (girls love it when you know obscure things they also know). Also suggest things (“I bet you’re like this”) rather than asking what she’s like/into as it’s more interesting.

good advice at a party, horrible advice at a club. All most all girls think your a creepy rapist if you talk to them at a club if you dont know them.

its sounds like it wouldn't work but ive actually done this quite afew times. Its fucking nerve wracking though, your basically rolling the dice on getting slapped and kicked out by a bouncer each time you try it.

Cool tips I'll use them

Not OP,
but if i had been spam swiping right for a few days and couldn't get any matches at all.
Does that mean the app put me in a shadow black list?
Or am i truly that fucked in my face?

>What to do if the conversation dies?
talk about random things that everyone agrees on, so say "i just saw a guy get kicked out and thrown on the ground, arent these bouncers pricks; you got any bouncer stories" or like ask them what they do and make a exaggerated joke about it " you study business? Ok money maker you looking for a toy boy" . Shit like this playful exagerated comments that are abit random.

>If the girl is with a friend should I get a friend >to talk to one girl while I go to the other?
if your not confident you can do that yeah otherwise its not bad if the other girl is bored, remeber your only after the one your focusing on. If she likes you she will stay with you and her friend can go.

>What to do if the girl starts talking about >boring stuff like politcs?
politics is abit of a mine field. In most cases the girl will be a left wing identitarian(so your feminist sjw type people), in this case give generic answers and change the subject. You gain nothing from this convo, almost everyone she interacts with holds her views so agreeing with her is nothing special; but becuase of the way this relegion is set out, one wrong oppinion can maker her see you as a bigot. If she isnt one of those types then you can talk about poltics but the return isnt super great and there arent a lot of jokes you can make that will get her to a laugh so its probably best to move on. Actually if she is a conservative and you are aswell that is a good convo to have. As there arent that many younbg people who hold those ideas.

use the free boost and take a shirtless pic if your in shape

HAha you’re named Apu

unfortunately, i'm out of shape.
5'8 (average in asia country anyway)
with 191lbs (which is definitely not average in asia country)
So guess i have to give up tinder for now.

>You gain nothing from this convo, almost everyone she interacts with holds her views so agreeing with her is nothing special;
i never thought about that before, I have always agreed with them and tried to add more thinking it was necessary, but it's a waste of time

yeah man agreeing with modern young left wing women about left wing politics, is like agreeing the sky is blue. No one is going to give you praise for it, and people will think you are a madman at best if you dont. its a no win scenario.

you dont have to give up on it, you can keep it in the background but id only use it if you have a match. Instead id say get in shape, even if you dont end up like arnie going regularly will put you ahead of most.

>Hey Jow Forums how to pick up girls at club / partys ?
Make banter about something random/stupid/funny that just happened and get a feel for the chick if she's interested or not.
Basically you can probably tell within the first ten seconds of her noticing you and responding whether or not she will fuck you.

At the risk of being obtuse: If she smiles/laughs/moves closer/ or other positive small cues you have a good shot and should continue.

But if she kind of crunches her face up for a second before responding, or she briefly looks at her friends and then looks back, or opens her mouth exposing her teeth. Or - to the point of absurdity - takes a step back or puts her hands and wrists up pointing towards you: abort abort abort. She is not interested and you are creeping her out. Continue at your own peril, good chances are she gets her other girl friends for protection, or even one of her orbiters, or a Chad who is dating one of her friends will "Blocks Your Path". And it's a bust

And I have to say clubs are NOT good places to find a decent irl waifu. AKA a gf. Parties are generally not good places either, but I did meet one pure and decent gf at a party, so I can't discount them entirely. So sometimes paries can be alright for meeting potential gfs. There are much better places tho

Are you really defending club thots? Why? You didn't meet your gf at a club did you?

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>much better places

not him, but can you name a few?