What do girls get turned on by? how can you make them want you via text?

So talk dirty and ask for nudes, just be straightforward and don't overthink it.

It's really hard for me to get turned on solely through texting.

The only time I have been turned on was when it was texting from guy who I already had a sexual relationship with

it's an art. i want to know how it feels for a girl so i can get it right

idk man, it's hard for me to explain but with my first gf I would write out long texts about the exact ways I wanted to fuck her passionately in places like the shower and on the beach and she loved it. But she was already a GF, if she's not your GF and you haven't established attraction and emotional connection yet you have to begin with light flirting, i.e. a dirty comment that could double as a dirty joke between "friends", so you can fall back on the latter if it goes south

This dude has it right. Women care about looks too, which is not to say that you need to look like Chad, but put more effort into your appearance. Most guys only do the bare minimum with themselves and it sucks.

>established attraction

how do i do that?

When I say that I don't mean you "make her attracted to you", what I mean is that you get to know her and find out if she's into you (and more importantly, if you yourself are into her). And that "connection" happens when you get to talking more and more and find a desire to be with one another, not just physically but emotionally. Again, it's a little hard to explain, but you just know it when it happens and when she gives positive signs like not flaking on dates and allowing you to court her or enticing you to push for more.

I'm a little disconnected from society. not very conscious of any interaction i'm very chill and its a detriment so that's why im asking. for awareness. i guess i should just talk to them more

You don't have to obsess too much with what the other person is feeling. It doesn't matter that much. It does, but it's mostly their issue, what you're supposed to be concerned with is how you think and feel, and learn how to communicate that in the most honest and effective way possible. It's at that point that rejection is no more than a screening process, a method of filtering women who don't like you for who you really are, leaving only the ones that do.

Honestly, when I find out I like a woman, I make it a point to just tell her I like her and want to date her. If she says no, I politely accept rejection and move on with my life. If she's into me too though, then I'm free to express interest, but that's because I view sex/sexting/etc. as a side effect of an intimate romantic relationship between two people, not the one and only point of being in a relationship or some kind of 'method' for making a woman want me. I know there's a notion that being honest about sexual feelings make women want you more, but IMO a woman wants to be with you that way or not, and the only point in showing interest is to find out which one it is.

I go days / weeks without talking to anyone. i'm not as social as i was, barely leave the house too so i'm not very good at know what to talk about and knowing how to spark emotions into people.

should i just be 'natural' and not think or worry about a method?

Yes be natural, your first step is getting out of the house and socializing at all. You could be getting rusty and it's making you "introverted" in the worst way, the way in which you're basically closed off and unable to communicate or be comfortable around others.

I don't really know what people talk about. I just be as natural as I can. I notice a lot of people stress out in social situations and 'game' out what they should do whereas I'm very unaware when it comes to that so it worries me incase i'm so unaware i fuck up.

desu I just share what's on my mind, tell jokes etc. more or less. If someone is clearly bored or something I just leave them alone. Not every interaction with be buttery smooth and you won't charm the pants off of every last person, although the more light-hearted and easy going you are, the easier it will feel for YOU, which is what really matters.

Women value attention from high-status men

You can charm a girl all you want and can via text but when you meet irl you can easily wash all that hard work away in th3 blink of an eye if you're a gross weird idiot.

If she already likes you, you're largely in the clear. you can get away with way more when a girl likes you vs when she doesn't; you're basically fighting a downhill battle, it'll be ez. what this other user said is what i'd recommend. say things under the guise of a joke/double etendre so you can fall back on the humorous part of it if it fails. or another thing to try is to say very explicit things in the context of something that's not serious at all. this just happened to me: i was playing one of those imessage games with a girl and she said "we should place a bet on our game" and i just responded with "i'll bet you anal". she accepted under the frame of a joke but the next time her and i hung out, we fucked since i acted like i was serious. you can just work your way up in the extremity of the jokes once you start until you just have a straight up convo about sex in which the noodZ will follow soon after.
texting is kind of hard and snap has been way easier ime, if that is an option for you

how do i get her to like me? i think she already does

if you think she does, then i don't understand your worries

i want to make sure. how do i make her like me even more too?

i'm assuming you know her irl from something so try to set up a date. this will work in your favor regardless because you can simply:

1: get your confirmation on the date

2: start with the jokes on the date and then extend it to texting.

3: get close enough on the date so you can start making the jokes later

4: just have sex on the date.

i believe your inclination is correct so if you think she already likes you/is into you, you're probably right. don't stress about if she does, just assume she does and work on escalating things

it's long distance so its mostly texting for now but shes not that far from me

Good looks

Be good looking

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Goddamn. OKCupid research data are probably the most redpilling material on the internet.

Women get turned on by a chad having overwhelming desire toward them.

Read some shitty romance novels.

Yeah this. Female 'attraction' is a misnomer, for women men aren't objects of attraction, rather sexual arousal is based on feeling desirable and sought-after.

>If she's only got an emotional connection, you're friendzoned.
This is wrong, the friendzoned dude doesn't have an emotional connection, he's just a blank slate that buys her food and listens to her whine sometimes. He doesn't make her feel anything.

>What do girls get turned on by?
"Bad boys" mainly. Also good financial situation & income

> how can you make them want you via text?
You can't, use texts only to invite them to go out

can be both. theres simps who are just farmed by girls for free shit, but theres also guys they do care about (but not like that teehee)

When I was a teen, I did a dumb thing and destroyed someone's property for nationalist reasons. I told a SJW-ish girl I knew about it, expecting a big nagging lesson from her, and while she did call what I did stupid, she also said that it was hot that I got so worked up and violent over something. We had sex soon after. Honestly, trying to figure out women is a waste of time, try finding out what a good man is, from the words of other good men, and strive towards that. Women will come along the way. Focusing your life on women is the worst thing you can do.

When it comes to texting, they're often entertaining by bold and risky flirting attempts, but they're a double-edged sword.

fairly typical, women like strength

With Chad

> Honestly, trying to figure out women is a waste of time

Not really, all this shows is that women are women's opinions are basically just fluff.

SJW, Traditional etc. They're all turned on by the same thing.

Dumb girls and smart girls are different. All women like confidence and “manly” guys/masculinity, it’s just a matter of degree. Dumb girls only care for masculinity/ “bad boys”, smart girls will have learned it’s unfulfilling and look for other traits.

But always: height, guys having an intense desire for them (a lot of female desire is reactive), having $ OR being accomplished in some way, especially art/music, a bit wild but can be “tamed” by them

This is factually incorrect. I forget the name of the study, but it’s out there on the Internet and you can find it. What they found is that the more educated a woman was, the MORE likely she was to prefer physically attractive, hyper masculine “bad boys”.

seek sunlight

Sunlight does make one morr attractive.
The vitamin D aids in preventing baldness

Well first off man dont fucking even try when it comes to texting. I dont mean avoid it entirely though I mean dont put EFFORT into it with crazy ass jokes and innuendos just be straightforward and always say what you want and what is possible for you. If a girl gets all flaky and shit in the face of that then straight up she is a joke and has no intention of doing anything with you ever

As for them being attracted to you just he desirable. Have what they dont have. Money,friends you can bounce shit off and take pics with, your own place, health, actual sexual skills, a car. You dont quite have to be an alpha but being able to present yourself as a complete human being with a purpose and a sense of what's enjoyable is what does it for girls for them to want you.

Sexual emotions stupid, you're asking how to turn her on, bond over finding each-other sexy AKA flirt.

how ??? without looking like a white knight