hey Jow Forums I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and she gets these really bad panic and ptsd attacks after sex, when she's stressed and she even gets nightmares of her being raped repeatedly every night when she sleeps. It's so bad that she cannot sleep without having at least 4-5 nightmares. i used to be able to calm her down but i feel like its just getting worse for her. What the hell do i do to help her?
How to deal with side effects of rape
Adam Scott
Ryder Peterson
Have you tried letting her lead?
Brody Gomez
was she raped?
Colton Hernandez
The best you can do is not have sex with her. She is troubled and hasn't given herself time to process her trauma. She wants to have sex but it's clear her psyche isn't ready for it.
You can help her by breaking up with her; she isn't ready to have a healthy sexual relationship.
Robert Wood
yes but when she does she ends up triggering it.
many times during highschool
Liam Butler
Sounds like it's therapy time.
Landon Garcia
>many times during highschool.
Does she remember who it was or who they were?
Bentley Foster
she's been going to therapy but she feels like its not working. Hell she's even on pills too
Yes. one of the guys showed up to her work and started harassing her even though he was there with his wife.
Jackson Nguyen
>hey Jow Forums I've been dating this girl for 4 months now
Figure out quickly what your threshold is. You could easily exhaust yourself "loving" her, especially if you think you can help her with this at all. She must help herself, and until she can, she is a boat anchor. She might be the nicest boat anchor you've ever met, but at 4 months, there's still time to act in self-preservation.
How will you feel after 2 years of this? 5 years? A lifetime?
You can't fix her, so don't try; it's a trap even if she's unaware of it.
Michael Martin
ok, now the rape she dealt with it was forced sex right?
Carter Hernandez
How else is rape done user? its impossible to rape the willing now isn't it.
Anthony Parker
the reason I ask is often then not a lot of young women often misunderstand what rape really is and think that even after consensual sex they could feel like you used them for sex in the end and say its rape. It's a fine line but she has proof she should go to the police. it's obvious she hasnt had any closure
Elijah Lewis
therapy, she must go to therapy.
Alexander Foster
Maybe let her reenact the rape scenario with you?
It could be really hot and it lets her have control over a situation that she didn't before. Bonus points for crying and grand prize if you hit her.
Henry Carter
I second that madtfully said, but in reality just keep fucking her she'll get over it sooner or later. But keep your options open. She might be a low key freak and start fucking around on you. It's real early she might just break it off for her mental health. Stay cool keep your options open and keep getting that pussy
Adrian Baker
Masterfully
Easton Phillips
Dont acknowledge it, fuck her rotten and when she starts to freak out just be like "love you, night babe" then go to sleep
Jack Watson
This is something beyond your ability, she needs to see a therapist. You can support her but you can't fix her
Connor Russell
>many times during highschool
Who raped her? How did she end up getting raped "many times"?
Robert Wood
Find girl without mental issues. She needs time alone to deal with that shit.
Christian Parker
You need to rape her right.
Elijah Watson
Have really rough sex with her and start fucking her doggy style, start pinning her down and calling her a worthless slut who's only value in life is to be a fuck toy, tell her you don't care if she wants it or not and her ass is yours now, tell her to take it like the bitch she is, if she tries to protest pin her down harder and really LARP like your raping her, if she wants to stop do it for real
Break her.
Aiden Green
As helpful femanon this image is pretty good
Angel Brooks
We'd want to believe it's not buyer's remorse but a dude showing up to rub a crime in her face seems both unlikely and melodramatically convenient
Less than lying, we're suggesting there may be more depth to this problem.
Cameron Cooper
yeah she needs to heal herself mentally before engaging in any activities related to her incidents. It takes time and i doubt you'll have the patients
Ayden Cook
We're jelly, bro. Get it? Are you good at the supernatural shit, bro? Do you have that shit down cold, bro? Do you like us that much, bro? When you finally stop raping her, are you going to be aching for our demon pussy too, bro? Is it ever gonna wash out, bro? Are you going to keep coming back like the other one, bro? We don't like it when you fuck our bitch, bro. It's kind of her job, but we don't like it. We jelly, and we don't like you. That's kind of our job. Come at us, bro. Big white knight. Oh yeah. You can do it. Come at us. Hire a psychologist.Get a professional. We love that one. That's fuckin' funny.
Gavin Murphy
I don't know how/if people even get cured from these panic attacks. My FWB has had almost daily panic attacks for the last 4-5 years. If I wasn't socially retarded I would have ditched that heap of emotional trouble long ago since it's not worth it at all.