ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Yeah it is. The only person you can cry in front of is your mom.

Why is my ex gf telling me about her new rebound and how he's making her depressed cause he cant get over his ex girlfriend and that her new relationship is moving too fast. She then in the same phonecall, tells me that she truly values my existence as a human being in her life. What's going on?

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girls, how did you meet your SO?

Doesn't matter what she feels, you two broke up there's no point in even talking to her. Move on and don't look back

Girls, what would be an original way of hitting on you?

I'd like to get to know this girl, we follow each other on instagram and fb, but I've seen her only one time irl (we talked for like 10 mins and we weren't alone) and I know a lot of people usually dm her on instagram, so that would be boring of me. She's younger than me (I'm 22 she's almost 20), apparently she hasn't had any great experiences (just like me lol) but she's really cute so many guys would probably try to get closer to her. A mutual friend told me that she complains about the fact that the guys she meets only want to hit on her, how can I stand out? What woud surprise you?

Was trying to start a text convo with the guy I'm dating but it never goes well cause he's a terrible texter.

Anyways I'm trying to be all playful and flirty and he responds to something I said with just "lol". Totally stopping the convo dead in its tracks. It immediately made my stomach drop and feel super annoyed with him. Am I right to feel this way? Could he possibly be so dense to not realize this comes off mega rude/insulting? I was trying to set up a date with him and now Im not sure I want to. Should I respond to him and set up the date anyway- am I overreacting?

I find it funny when men say they have romantic "love" for women. The truth is only women can experience love. All men want to do is fuck.
They don't "love" us they just do what the dumb bitch says because she's hot or at least has a vagina. That's their bare minimum that; I have a vagina. That's all they care about. The dumb pretty women who fall for the trap by spending all their time and energy on makeup and brainless fawning don't see the mutual mistake they have made until it is too late and they start making do with whatever stupid fuck has fallen into their lap.
I wish one day I could see the look on a bimbo's face when she realizes what he will inevitably do behind her back. Its hilariously naive to think he can control his instincts.
Life would be better if we accepted that "falling in love" is something to be avoided. The only exception is when we need children, but we don't.

Man here, idc about fucking and have rejected several girls who wanted to fuck me. Maybe guys only want to fuck you because your body is all you have to offer

Feminist roastie cope

Go be cool wine aunt somewhere else.
I know plenty of guys who want to have stable relationship with loyalty and actual love from both sides but these days jts just seems everything revolves around sex and physical attraction first. Or benefits that you can get by leeching (quite literally) the other person.

Its all about me Me ME.
And yes i am incel virgin

Post from last thread

Maybe he just doesnt see you in that way
I know it might be hard to admit but not everyone wants to bone you (or is willing to do anything to do it)
Or he might be just autistic like me

I had a handful of girls hitting on me that I rejected before even kissing because I didn't really like them, and because I don't want to have any intimate contact if there isn't true mutual interest and caring. And when I really like a girl I become the most vanilla creature on earth, I become interested in every aspect of their life and genuinely spend my time and energies to make them feel loved and accepted for the sole purpose that I believe they deserve it (well, IF they reciprocate, I'm not some incel nice guy). So, *tips proverbial, inevitable metaphorical fedora* not all men are like that.

Nah it was definitely already sexual (he started it), and we've already had sex. We've been seeing each other for a couple months now.

He is a little bit autistic when it comes to texting, but still I feel like it's so obvious not to do that.

I feel like my best bet is to not respond so as to not look desperate, but like I said maybe I'm overthinking considering he has such bad text game.

maybe he's genuinely not the "texty" kind of person. My ex used to be nice and warm in person but cold as a fucking icicle while texting, it hurt me a lot in the beginning, but it was just her way of being.

Or did you consider that maybe after boning you he considers you no longer worth chasing for

You dont want to look desperate yet you try to initiate sexual talk again with him and do all the work huh

Weird how it works

I didn't try to initiate sexual talk I just wanted to have a flirty nice conversation but it's always so hard with him. And he's told me he hates texting but c'mon it's not that hard.

Also HE started the making it about sex.

This is what I'm hoping is the case, but I'm going to wait to respond just in case. I dont even know how to respond to lol without it sounding weird

>men who "love" are seen as emotionally weak
>men who slay dozens of girls are the attractive ones for most women and looked as a prize

Why you dumb bitches complain about something you cant stop being attracted to
Oh wait because women can never take responsibility for anything in their lives, and then just cry how objectified they are after blowing guy on first date

Hey gals, how do you like your titties and nipples touched??

Good plan. Always better to do it in person. But why are you doubting yourself? Go at it with confidence. If you have her number that's already a good sign

Idk, I think I was more confident a few weeks ago because she was flirting with me so I thought she was interested, but now she kinda stopped that so I'm not sure anymore. There's only one way to know I guess. Thanks

Not always, it depends on the context and relationship. Like if your dad died or something, then it shouldn’t be a big deal, or if it’s something kind of sad and you’re already friends with the girl, it really shouldn’t be an issue

Not me. I don’t really care about fucking. All I care about is being validated and liberated from all my insecurities. I want to feel like I’m good enough that she won’t find anyone more appealing than me.

currently drunk so be that as it may

i dont know how i should handle seeing my exgf with her new guy at the party of a mutual friend in a couple of days
she sent me an invitation to her theatre play a couple of day sago

Fellow guys, tips on manscaping? Never shaved my pubes, but apparently that's the thing now, and girls don't like hair as much.

Type of razor? Tips to not cut my sack?

You post this problem too much
You drink too much
You should greet them politely maybe ask how play rehearsal is going, then excuse yourself for a drink, then just have fun independent of them, neither ignoring nor going out of your way to talk to them
As to the play. If you would go were she not there, then go. If you don't like them and would only go for her I'd not go

>You post this problem too much
i guess so, it's what's been going in my head around (too much?)
>You drink too much
definately
>You should greet them politely maybe
i'll do that then
>. If you don't like them and would only go for her I'd not go
no, she has a somewhat major role and i will not go that....

Do guys think about having sex with their crush before they've done anything? What do they think about?

Don't use razor unless you want ingrown hairs that look like STDs and itching
Get electric shaver, put on short guard.
Then in a few days if you are set on bare earth you can razor with less irritating

Yes
The act, the lead up, the spooning after.
Do you not?

#2 brings all the ladies to the yard.

Well actually, it just keeps the only interested ladies from getting lost in said yard.

Lady*

Imaginary friend.**

>man is invited to event and doesn't shut up about it for weeks

Depends on the girl. If it's someone I find hot and want to fuck, yes. If it's a girl I'm emotionally interested in, then I'll have a few weeks of thinking about cuddling with her and whatnot, and it takes me a while to be able to think of her sexually, if it even happens. I remember a girl I knew, I respected and liked her so much that I wasn't able to think about having sex with her, like she was too perfect for that.

You're suppose to blow then do a little nibble

Girls or guys. I recently adopted the Charlie Chaplin moustache or as slandered by the Jews the Hitler moustache. The reaction by the store clerk's has been more than positive, but one young female bagger stared me down for more than two seconds before I looked away and usually females always break contact first. I'm twice her age if that matters.

I might give you a Look, but would probably allow it provided it wasn't too hot out or the position was comfortable.

wat

No, but certain people on Jow Forums might. I'd suggest you make sure you look nice and flirt with some of the single ladies there. Weddings are chock full of desperate ladies and, provided you've taken care to look and smell your best, they'll be more likely to take your awkward attempts as charming.

By the way, calling yourself an incel implies you've given up. Don't.

Why bother waiting until she's alone? Approach with some chocolate--flowers could be inconvenient depending on where you're at--and ask if she's free at x time and date and whether she'd like to go out with you. Don't make it into a big deal and she and whoever is with her probably won't either (especially since you already have her phone number).

Pretty much. Lots of us lady-folk claim to want a caring and sensitive guy, but that usually just means we want a man who understands emotions just enough that he'll listen to us, understand ours, and maybe have a little extra gift for romantic gestures. It usually doesn't mean that we want a guy who feels his emotions so strongly that he'll cry, or be needy, etc.

If you start with a base of friendship--or she's just a friend and will probably remain as much--it's not as big of a deal as crying for a girl you've only approached romantically. It's best to save crying for behind closed doors, your mom, or your closest bro-friends (depending on the kind of friendship you have with them).

She's trying to make you into her back up guy. Don't let her.

Haven't yet, and I don't plan on going out of my way to do so. I wouldn't find someone appropriate in a bar, club, and dating sites just seem so tedious and hook-up based. Have high hopes for Church, but I don't get to go as often as I like.

>Why bother waiting until she's alone?
Cause we're in the same friend group so it would be very weird. Also flowers sounds pretty weird since we just talk sometimes, we're not close or anything

>Have high hopes for Church, but I don't get to go as often as I like.
what kind of guys are you into?
how old are you?

The kind that never cry lol
Holy crap I'm glad my dad bullied that out of me

A girl this popular has probably seen pretty much everything by this point, which would leave you with the kind of approaches that are straight out of romcoms--like making a gigantic fool of yourself--or biting the "she may find my approach tedious" bullet and asking her to hang out sometime. Depending on how long it's been since you've seen her in real life, send her a message along the lines of "Hey, it was really nice hanging out with you" and ask if she wants to do x-thing with you ("there's this really cool hole-in-the-wall restaurant I think you'd like," "have you ever been to the aquarium," "have you ever hiked xyz trail?"). Don't go on about how much you really like her before you invite her, and aim for something a little more adventure related--the kind of thing you'd do with friends--and ideally in public. This girl sounds like shes starving for friends and that might be the best way to get in, just don't let your relationship settle into friendship before making a move.

Oh, I know that feel, if only because my high school bestie was just like that. She's better on the phone, or face to face, but the way she interacts through text has always made me want to punch her.

I wouldn't take it personally and just take it as a quirk he can't into texting. If that's important to you then drop him. If it's not--and I don't see why it should be--then call him and set up the date. Use texting for the most mundane conversations and try to do everything else over the phone or face to face.

>implying women are somehow morally superior to men
>implying you aren't just sexually frustrated and too lazy to take matters into your own hands
>implying you don't just have shit taste in men
>gb 2 >>>/tumblr/

Default at gentle, amp up if she seems frustrated with gentle. If she tells you how to touch her then touch her like that.

Is it smart to peek at what medications a girl is on that you're considering going out with? I like to make sure that they're not on anti psychotics or methadone because those are indicative of bad mental health or a drug addiction

I got dumped a month ago because my gf of 2.5 years said she wasn't 'in love with me' anymore. What the hell does that even mean. She said I did nothing wrong at all, even when I pressed the issue more. I know there isn't anyone else (at least I highly doubt it). We got along fine, no fights or arguments. We'd hang out all the time, but towards the end it didn't look like she was having much fun being around me. She goes through depressive episodes, so I thought it was just that, and tried to just be there for her.

Do women have this romanticized idea of love or many its because we're both really young (24)? We had the same goals and dreams, got along well, we had our differences, but really they were minor. After we broke up she told me I was a great boyfriend, and I'd find someone else who was a better fit. I don't doubt I'll find someone new, but this is killing me. I'm generally a very happy person, and this is the first time in my life I've been this sad and angry for this long.

People don't just "fall out of love" do they? I mean the butterflies pass eventually, but I've always thought that was just the case with all relationships, and having the same goals and interests while respecting each other would be enough.

I'm venting, this shit sucks.

Anyone or are y'all just Russian bots?

Don't shave your pubes dude, it's really not a big deal. I never gave a shit doubt most women do. Just trim it and you're good to go

I guess I shouldnt take it personally then- especially since its not a complete surprise. Its too late for me to reply now I think so trying to think how long I should wait to text him again. I want to text him tomorrow but feels too soon

She stopped flirting with you because you never made a move. Girls really appreciate men who are decisive, so get real good at faking confidence even if you aren't feeling it. If you aren't close--and I agree, flowers can be weird depending on the context, but chocolate is sure to be appreciated by 99% of women, 99% of the time (if you know her preferences then rock them)--then why should it matter if she rejects you?

And I'm not saying walk up to her in the middle of all your friends and ask her out. Approach her, even if all your friends are around, and ask to talk to her for a moment and then walk off to the side.

You handle it. Stop drinking so much and stop accepting invitations from her.

Why would you wear that stache that in the era of "let's punch a Nazi?" It just sounds like you're trolling IRL and waiting for someone to fuck with you over it (or you're stupid as fuck, hell if I know). I mean, I find it kind of funny, like the way my neighbors were telling me about a couple dudes dressed like SS officers marching down our neighborhood's equivalent of Little Mexico on the twentieth.

I seem to have a bit of a type for quiet, deep-thinking introverts. They don't always seem to be the best guys for me if only because they tend to be clingier than I'm comfortable with and don't always have the will to stand up against me.

I'm 29, so honestly a bit too old to still be single.

Tears are okay, for me, in certain contexts, but by and large I was telling that user to avoid them.

Snooping is generally a negative when you're approaching a relationship. If you've been to her place and they're in plain sight, that's one thing, but if you have to go through her purse? Don't.

Try asking.

Please tell me if this is a bad idea. I have ADD and impulse issues.
I have this inexplicable urge that has lasted all week, to send nudes to my guy friend (i would ask him before i send any). I have never done this except for my one ex boyfriend (and i only really did it for him and not because i’m into sending nudes).

I have some kind of feelings for my friend. i think he’d be down for me to send him nudes. I exercise and am in good shape so thats not the issue.
Why don’t i just ask him on a date? He lives 3 hours away from me.
Do i just tell him ‘hey would you mind if i sent you risque pics of me?’

Jow Forums. I received my complementary gf as my 10 Year Service award.

Women
Please stop watching korean shows, they all fucking suck, thank you.

Can I get an answer to?

Girls

What’s one way a guy can get you back that you once liked?

>I'm 29, so honestly a bit too old to still be single.
london?

Yes, people fall out of love with each other all the time. It happens, and it hurts and it sucks, but it is what it is. If she's broken off with you after this long--and wasn't dropping bridal magazines and trying to hint you into proposing before hand--it's definitely over. Take a deep breath. It's okay to feel angry and betrayed; take up running or some other physical activity to work through those feelings.

A lot of people--and a lot of women, especially--have an idealized view of love. You two aren't so young that she should still be hung up on the idea of a Disney Princess Happily Ever After, but young enough that she--and you, probably--have difficulties reconciling ideal with reality. Just because you agree on all the important things--same goals, dreams, etc--doesn't necessarily mean your relationship will work out; the spark and chemistry need to be there, and it can take work to keep it there.

It's a lesson for the future, learn it well.

Okay, sending a guy nudes before you've established anything other than friendship with him is just full on retarded. It's also pretty dumb, even if you trust the guy.

Go lurk the "post ex gf's nudes" threads on /b/ for awhile and see if that changes your mind.

Can you repost the question? Hovertext doesn't work for cross-thread posts on this board and I can't be bothered to check another thread. Other user's probably can't be either.

Does the American adaption of the Good Doctor count? I like that one.

>Does the American adaption of the Good Doctor count? I like that one.
Anything that isn't korean please for God's sake I fucking hate those flicks they are painful to watch, don't make your guy watch those he'd rather do ANYTHING than watch those.

Blah blah blah metoo. It's obviously getting the wammen juicy I just never had a chick stare me down before with a blank look

You didn't ask a question or for advice. What is it you're after?

Frustrating them even more. They are 20 to 50 year old roasties

I've never considered getting back together with someone I've broken up with. Generally speaking, grand romantic gestures seem to be the way to go, and begging is definitely the top way to kill any lingering interest she may have had in you.

States, sorry.

How close are you to gouging your eyes out with a rusty spork? And this is why you make her watch sports with you as revenge.

So you're trolling, got it.

Nevermind what I'm doing is working on every female I encounter. Even getting delish hookups at my local food truck. I just want to arouse them as they have cooties

>She stopped flirting with you because you never made a move
Yup that's exactly what I was thinking. I've been getting my shit together these past few months, I think I'm ready to go for it now. I might try chocolate if she's down for a date.

>Approach her, even if all your friends are around, and ask to talk to her for a moment and then walk off to the side.
I was thinking about doing that, but it feels too obvious. I've had a few intimate moments with her where I could've asker her out smoothly, so I guess I'm trying to recreate one of those. I don't have much time left tho, so I might try that. Thanks

This is the question from last thread
>Thanks again, all I need to do is have guts. I've seen a really cute girl at school waiting for class but I was scared to approach her and looking weird. Haven't seen her since
and felt like shit for not approaching. So it's okay to tap on a girl's shoulder while she's sitting and using her phone to try to start a conversation? Do I start the convo by asking her name and how's her day?

nearly 100 percent of the time yes. If you like a girl and want her to like you back, never ever cry in front of her. The reason you cry doesn't matter either, it's always a turnoff to a girl to see a guy she sees as strong and a protector break down and cry.

Generally speaking just approach and talk to her. Avoid touching her. If she's engrossed in her phone or has headphones in--both are pretty clear "stay away from me" signs--then try again later or pass her a note in class.

Men are biologically wired to fuck first ask questions later but when they find a woman they love, it's real, it's unconditional, there's a reason the whole gold digger phenomena is almost universally a female phenomena, yeah the opposite happens but it's extremely rare. The only time a woman experiences unconditional love is for her child.

Thanks, i’ve thought about it some more. I know about those ‘ex gf nude’ threads and while i may be stupid, i’m not stupid enough to send nudes with my face. For my ex i always sent it chin down/scrubbed my face out. I wouldnt care if those nudes of me went out since nobody could tell its me and also i’m just not ashamed in general.
I will wait on it some more. I am not hoping to be his gf by sending him nudes, its for sexual gratification. Cuz i’m horny and not having sex with anyone.
Fuck i just want to think clearly. I will sleep on it.

When are optimal times to approach a girl while cold approaching? I'm speaking about girls who I have no classes with or see in public places. I'm okay with talking to girl from class or work, but ones that I have no classes with or see in public scare me.

There is no optimal time. Cold approaching is a waste of your time. It might work for a few people, or on rare occasions, but it's not an effective use of time or effort.

So what is the best method to talk to girls I have no classes with?

How do guys choose which pant leg to put their dick in? One of my guy friends says he prefers a side and I’m bewildered

Well first of all, I'd ask why you're so dead-set on talking to girls you don't know at all. That's really the wrong way to do things if you aren't already comfortable with chatting up random people in public. It's just something that extroverted men are more capable of, and observing one in action—and I don't mean in picking up women, but in interacting with people in public—might be a good way to learn what to do.

If you're avoiding women you have a connection with because you want to get practice in a low-risk environment before you try working on them, then your best bet is Tinder or another online dating platform. It's both low-risk and provides enough throughput of opportunities that you can actually learn what to do at a decent pace.

for me, it's not wearing such tight jeans that my dick is a problem.

Thanks for the advice. I want to try to talk to girls I have nothing in common with because theres a few cute girls I see when I wait for my next class. I already asked out girls from my classes, but they either had a bf or weren't interested, so there aren't any left to ask out.

I knew a guy who got his gf by cold approaching her from church and asking for her number. I don't see him anymore but he told me just try to walk up to a girl and talk to her, but this kinda scares me. That's why I want to know how to do it.

My pants have enough balls and dick room.

Looking for general sex advice from men to women about stuff that women wouldn't know, especially in regards to inexperienced guys. I've got the basics (don't lay there like a dead fish) but I want to be a good lay, not a mediocre one.

You're both retarded

If we give you advice, do you promise not to become a slut?

Well yeah I'm only interested in one dude and this should hopefully be for life now so...

Guys; How degenerate is this so I can figure out if I shouldn't feed it any more.
> see cuck porn whilst masturbating
> captioned "you can't make her him like her ex could"
> kek a little because that's the opposite situation I'm in (ex not as good as current)
> out of nowhere imagine being in cuck relationship with ex and new bf being the bull
> cum hard, feel unsure and kinda ashamed
> feels like I got off to cheating even though it was current bf
Thoughts?

*you can't make her cum

Post em to soc then link here so we can advise you better

Alright, I'm bored and awake.
Find more emotional women.
I compliment on my nonphysical self that isn't weird/offputting.
Just ask, some like rough, some like soft licks/suckling.
Yeah, why would you style it A la hitler stache in the timeline of where nazi fucks get their shit wrecked for being in public? You might have hit a conservatard female factory though, be sure to pass them around to your fellow virgin incel mates.
Who on earth honestly finds that attractive?
Das pretty degenerate.

Degenerate enough to rightly feel ashamed / guilty?

Yeah, that shame was rightly warranted. You warped a piece of your own reality to get off because you're bored of porn. That was your warning to cut back a bit until it's not boring.

Girls, under what circumstances would you willingly suck a man's dick without being compelled?

Girls,
If you openly admit to a guy you have a crush on another guy is that basically friendzoning or some kind of jelousy test?
Some context:
>went on a date
>was pretty good, both of us had fun
>exchange facebooks and continue to talk for like 4 weeks now
>she meets up with some other tinder date
>openly talked about what they did together on the date, how he was etc.
>still says she has doubts about him being some fuckboy
>says she got a crush on him
>even though we both agreed on another date in the near future

Am i basically that cuck guy friend now who's there for some dumb emotional support?

If he asked nicely, or were particularly being attractive, nude and erect around me. I top from the bottom that way, pinning against a wall or starting off with a pushy handie. Sometimes sneak in a nibble or neck kisses as I amuse myself in their buckling.

the slippery slope between friend and lover, never understood how to make it work.. but ok, I'll try! maybe I should wait to see her at least one moe time before texting her, since we have a couple of frienda in common it's possible that we'll meet at a concert next week. Thanks!

With my ex I used to take as much tiddy as I could in my mouth, suck hard and then slowly release, finishing by vibrate-biting on her areola and nips. but she made it clear to me in the beginning that she liked bites, and in the moment I was following her reactions. Intimacy Is all about communication, verbal and physical

Both genders: How do you guys deal with breakups?

I am dealing things mostly fine as it was mutual and things were on the decline. We live/work very to close to one another and have the same friends. Because of this I'm considering moving/making new friends, etc.

>I knew a guy who got his gf by cold approaching her from church and asking for her number. I don't see him anymore but he told me just try to walk up to a girl and talk to her, but this kinda scares me. That's why I want to know how to do it.
Yeah, it's bullshit. First of all, you're hearing it from the guy's own mouth rather than from the girl. For all you know she'd had a crush on him for years. They went to the same church and probably knew each other on some level.

Like I said in my post above, cold approaching is not an effective method of meeting women. Your bringing up a counterexample doesn't change that. The mere fact that one guy won the lottery once by picking his and his wife's birthdays as numbers doesn't mean that using birthdays is a cost-effective or efficient means of winning the lottery.

Honestly the fact that you're arguing this point on the basis of the evidence you cite suggests to me that you don't really understand how dating works at all. I honestly suspect that you quite literally went around your classes and asked girls if they wanted to date you.

Sure, lots of people move after a major relationship ends. My cousin did it after breaking up with her boyfriend of several years.