I used to be a porn addict when I was younger and touched my sister a couple times when she was asleep. I feel guilty as fuck but also dont want to bring it up to her now because we are pretty close and It could ruin my relationship w/ my family and her. Apologizing for something she doesnt remember would only bring despair
Molested my sister, now feel guilty
If you felt guilty than you wouldn't post something so shameful, for everybody to see and speculate upon.
Guilt is the shame that eats your soul away, not a topic of conversation for faggot to seek comfort from strangers. Talk to a professional.
I don't think I'd tell her about it if she doesn't remember anything. It could just create a wound for her that isn't needed in her life. I'd go talk to God for forgiveness.
You only want to tell her and apologise to make yourself feel better, she'll be devestated that you did that and you'll ruin your relationship.
Be a man and live with your actions.
this is an anonymous board you retard there's no shame
Yep. Suck it up and forever keep your mouth shut. You ain't that person anymore. You can always talk to us if you need to.
This. It would be absolutely fucking stupid if you confessed such a thing. Just live with it, and don't tell it to anyone you know. I've done things as a kid i take to the grave as well.
I was molested by multiple people who thought I was asleep. I wish I was so I wouldn’t have to live with all of my fucking issues. You disgust me, don’t tell her jack shit and just live with yourself and rot.
You probably liked it or you would've said something.
^ human trash
MULTIPLE people? how? at the same time?
why would you pretend to be asleep
Find your own way of apologizing to her for your sake. Its a huge offense which means it will need a huge apology. Buy her a really nice gift she will like. Nothing like a car though
>they don't realise they're also human trash
This is why church conveniently create a confession booth for you faggots.
Just go confess and everything will be forgiven.
simple as that.
Who were they and what do you mean by molested? What did they do to you?
Don't. Happens a lot.
Only apologize if you did something wrong. But if you were just a kid curious and exploring then you have nothing to apologize for.
And if you flat out raped her or something, and you believe it's wrong, then it's your parents for not protecting you. You're not responsible for anything that happens when you're a kid.
Stop shouldering your parent's blame. Let them do it.
Meh who cares she doesn't remember it, just don't do it or anything like it again and maybe be extra nice to your sister
Carrying guilt will not change what happened, you may as well just go on with your life and forget it, if god exists let him be your judge.
Get therapy
the shame is a placebo since to feel actual shame you have to answer for that shame to some party.
and here, you only answer as far as a thread's contents(and yourself).
>to feel actual shame you have to answer for that shame
Nah
I don't think you feel guilt, or at least you don't need to, since it isn't hurting her. I think you're ashamed of yourself because you did something that, to your older, wiser mind, earns you the label of 'predator' or 'pervert.'
And don't worry about that. We have literally all done things in the past that clash heavily with how we see ourselves now. It's similar to all of us who cringe at our early teenage internet presence, just more intense because it's something more shameful.
Don't worry, OP. Forgive yourself. You know better and you won't do something like that again.
greentext story plox
worst fucking advice on this planet. Even the just be yourself advice is better than this trash. Fuck off.
Happened to me once. I was shocked and a retarded virgin underage at the time so I just waited for it to end.
Don't apologize. That's a scarlet letter from which you'll never return, all based on a "what if" and the romanticized hopes you have about forgiveness for outing yourself as an incestual pedo.
If she ever brings this to you, however, apologize and get all the "therapy" demanded by your surrounding environment. Whatever it fucking takes to earn forgiveness, even if the end result is ECT. Or prison.
If she ever has kids, don't you dare be alone with them.
If she doesn't know and you've never done this to anyone else or her, best to just let it lie and keep yourself in check. FOREVER. If you were able to overrule internal moral coding to let this happen before, it can happen again.
Your debt to society will not be discharged here, or through preemptive apologies.
I think you get the wrong idea, I dont romanticize a fantastical forgiveness that clearly wont happen and expressed that in the OP.
Im just venting...
>Im just venting..
If that keeps you from touching another child, I'm here for you, you brain-broke pedo you.
This. You gotta carry that weight user.