No sex is good?

I’ve noticed that if I don’t fap, don’t look at porn, don’t think about or talk to girls at all that I feel much better about myself.

Is that normal?

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Yup. Absolutely normal.

The catch is that masturbation is like a serving of oxy for an opioid addict, or a 12-pack for an alcoholic. Most of us were born addicted to the tug, and it's how we are strung along by sadistic marketeers who use sex to sell things to us.

If you fapped as an outlet for [some other subset of depressed feelings], and then realized the outlet was as vacuous as the women (or men, or gorillas) you pictured, it's natural to feel good for recognizing that you were wasting your time and generating more laundry than you needed to.

It means you don’t have a healthy relationship. Find one of those and you won’t have this issue.

Not exactly. Not masturbating and avoiding all contact with the opposite sex is a bit strange imo, but understandable if you have anxiety with women and dating

But if it not doing that stuff make you legitimately feel better, I guess keep at it

Yes it sounds normal.
The danger is you isolate yourself, so be aware that you don't let yourself go just because you are fine either way. It is very hard to claw your way back to the higher society where women travel.

no... sex is a necessity for the survival of the species. not wanting sex is an unambiguous bad. Masturbation is a kind of therapy the sex drive. masturbation can have some serious positive effects. for one, there actually is a lifespan for sperm. rubbing one out clears out the old swimmers, so your next chance with a girl will have a fresh set.

but, it can also be a coping mechanism for emotional issues. if you are depressed after fapping, it is not the fap. there is something associated with the situation that is bringing you down. do you fap to porn that involves emotional or physical abuse? do you emotionally abuse yourself with cuck porn?

maybe there is something about the conditions that bring you to masturbate. do you do it when you are trying to procrastinate? do you obsess over old girlfriends, when you do it? Do you fap to keep from thinking about the other things in life you wish you were doing, instead?

>higher society where women travel
nigga, women travel right outside my door. I don't know what sexually segregated hellhole YOU live in, but I meet women, all the time

But I feel good having no association with girls too

I’m OP. And I do not meet women. I rarely see the,

yeah

huh

Perfectly fine. Just go figure out if you're gay or just a volcel

I’m not gay tho

What will happen?

I think it's because after you cum prolactin levels are elevated for a while which causes you to feel more lethargic.

Well I haven’t fapped in a week now. Overall I feel better and healthier. Plus, my sex drive is non-existant now. Which is great because I don’t even have to think about women. It saves a lot of mental space that I can use for other things

Cuck

I was forced to do nofap for a couple of weeks now, and now i'm afraid to feel like shit if i fap.

What do? Continue with nofap?

Continue

Why do you feel that way?

Nothing wrong with masturbation as long as you do it the right way. No children involved and it must be in a room that no one is in or can get into. Also don't be open about it.

I feel better if I don’t masturbate at all though

In regards to the no fapping and no porn thing that has everything to do with rewiring your brain with less dopamine, I'm addmittidly a porn addict and the few times in my life where I was doing well was because I quit fapping and porn I only bring this up as I didn't get clean on the first try and it 100% was like that for me too I wouldn't beat off or watch porn for just 2 days and I'd feel like a completely different person, I felt smarter, was more witty and funny in conversations, had self confidence. So yeah in my experience it's hella normal idk about the whole don't think about girls thing though, if you mean sexually I could see that but just straight up don't think about a girl in any capacity is odd

do a quick google search on how porn is addictive or rewires your mind and so long as it isn't some bible thumping bs about it and actual studies there's plenty of legit sources explaining on how and why porn can be bad for you and why just taking a 1 to 2 day break can feel so reinvigorating

while alt-right neckbeards are harmlessly cringy, MAGAthots are outright repulsive

When I don’t fap, I just don’t care about sex at all. I don’t want it
What does that have to do with anything

thing is porn just acts like all media does, people get their expectation from movies and novels and yes porn. Thing is you have to be really fucked up already for the study to be of use.

Even when I used porn, I knew that it wasn’t real. I mean shit, it just seems fake the way they act

I don’t like sex, but I have it with my gf only to make her happy. She always has to initiate. Is that bad?

Yes, when you watch porn and masturbate you are being a slave to your desires

I guess it makes sense. I genuinely feel good if I avoid all penis stimulation.

The semen retention has a lot to do with it.

Also girls sort of make a man weak one way or another.

Would you recommend I keep holding it in and just maintain what I’m doing by not talking to girls?

I mean don’t avoid women because of some irrational fear. Remain indifferent but polite.

I’m working on semen retention myself and I can feel it’s benefits. The greats always advised for it.

Would I recommend it? I don’t know your goals. But if you do know that it comes with it’s own pros and cons

I feel better when I avoid being around or talking to women. I can be around them when necessary like at work. But I limit being around them as much as possible

That’s cool

Keep doing you

the problem is people keep criticizing me for it. I feel good doing this. But I have doubts because people tell me I’m wrong