Message girl on tinder

>calls you bro

It was over from the very beginning, lad.

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because she isnt just talking to you, there are others that catch her eye and some other dude simply snatched her up or after some time isnt interested in you any more.

She calls everyone bro. I looked at her insta

Girls on tinder have a gorillion thirsty fucks messaging them. She probably over scheduled and wants to go out with some more desirable option. If you want out completely just respond back with something along the lines of
>Oh shit, yeah that actually works. I completely forgot.
Usually gets them pretty pissed that suddenly they’re finding out someone they were going to bail on forgot about them entirely.

Kek, that's pretty good.
I'll start using that one once I get the balls to start using Tinder as an average guy.

Shell know you're making it up if she's at all intelligent, just how OP should know that she's making it up

Shit move to cancel on the day of, but at least you didn't get stood up.

Not a good sign, but I would give her one second chance. She at least told you. But if you have other options then go with those first.

Most girls on Tinder are juggling a LOT of options. It's just how it is. You can do this experiment yourself. Pick an average female acquaintance on FB or whatever, and make a burner Tinder. You'll be fucking blown away by how much attention it gets.

>So, if you sort of get the feeling that she's doing you a favor by agreeing to go out with you, it's not going to happen.

This so much. Get to the point you know you're attractive to women, and you'll know it when you are, trust me.

Yep, it's easy. Just be born tall and handsome

This

I know a guy who is my height that gets literally hundreds of Tinder matches and I'm only 5' 6".

I don't know exactly what it is. I know he's very sociable, has a killer smile, smooth skin and an in shape albeit sort of small framed and skinny body (as do I). Whatever he is doing, he's doing it very right unlike myself.

There is no logic to female attraction. I've known fat hairy guys who girls inexplicably go crazy for. I've known short as fuck guys (5'5 and under) who never leave a club without taking a hot girl back home to fuck.

Attracting a woman basically comes down to "are the stars aligned perfectly, does your exact combination of looks style and personality somehow trigger that magical g spot that makes her attracted". The most painful thing is you can do everything right and still attract no women, and other guys can do everything "wrong" and never be without a girl.

Sounds about right. It's usually a combination of things. I'd argue demographics play a huge role. What's hard is sometimes I remember that I used to be attractive to a fair amount of girls in HS and early college, many of them decent looking and in good shape. But somewhere along the line I lost my way, or maybe something with them changed, or probably both. I'm just trying to figure out how I fucked up. Everyone I talk to says I'm good looking, like just about everyone and even on /soc/ I average like a 7/10 rating (granted because some rate me 8 or 9, others a 5 or 6). I even asked a girl that turned me down many months ago what was wrong with me because we both got to talking about this and she admitted to also feeling lonely and unwanted by everyone. She said nothing was wrong with me, and while I realize she may have been being nice, I think there's a truth to it: it's not so much whether something about you is wrong, or good, or bad. They're attracted to you, or they're not. It's a feeling, and therefore not logical. This same girl said this much herself.

OUTTA MY FUCKING WAY DYEL SHITS IM HERE TO POUND SOME BITCHES

I mean, she asked for a reschedule.
She could've just ghosted, but here we are.

Being a girl on dating apps is fucking stressful if you're a weird introverted fuck. Like I can get no attention IRL then get absolutely slammed with virtual dick online.

Keep this in mind dude, she might actually be rescheduling because she just needs some time to herself, and is still at least somewhat interested.

I once made a Grindr profile as an experiment my gf thought of.
Long story short, I feel your pain.

Nah she didn't even try to make an excuse and if she was actually interested she would have suggested a different time herself. She just wants attention so I ended the conversation. It's so annoying how many female egos you have to go through to get a date with a decent girl nowadays

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When you're on tinder, if you've matched with a girl remember there's likely 10 other guys who swiped right on her too at any given moment, you didn't get her full attention in that brief exchange and moved on to the next option, you're expendable to tinder girls don't forget that. Aint no point in dwelling on it when the conversations run dry

>reschedule

What's the issue?

Damn, you gotta be positive with girls man.

You literally killed your chances here

>she might actually be rescheduling because she just needs some time to herself, and is still at least somewhat interested
L-O-L

Lol, being this desperate.

Shes just not that into you.

Stop fucking responding to bullshit texts. Don't send gay emojis like the one you sent.

Also you respond like a retard.

How the fuck is she supposed to respond to what you said?
>"Guess it's not happening"
What's she gonna say, "guess not, or yeah"

You had an opportunity to flirt by saying something like take me to LA with you/ be my sugar mama. she's not gonna suck your dick if you're not interesting and witty, unless you're hot af.

Does anyone else regularly get ghosted? Not just from tinder but sometimes i'll go on a date then message for a second and they'll just not open the message for days until I get the message.

I already knew it was over at this point, hence why i said a date months away. I mean if I put any meaningful thought into the message it would look pathetic

Post the entire conversation. I think you're fucking up from the beginning.

she's got options and you are fat. real talk though over those two days you need to keep her going

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girls this hot don't give a fuck about tinder matches

you should've preemptively canceled on her to make it seem like you're a busy guy with plenty of options and make her want you more now that you see how things work. now you know and can use this information to your advantage.

The amount of ego and bullshit on dating sites is insane. This applies to women AND men. This is why I'll never use a dating site.

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>bro
>dude
You guys sound like lab partners or something. What kind of girl uses "bro" when trying to attract? Too cringey for words

Pic of yourself? I can tell you if you had a chance or not

Here's an interesting experiment for all you guys who have questions about tinder and other dating apps
>make a new account
>find the picture of the ugliest, most hideous hamplanet you can off google and change a few things about it so it doesn't get picked up by reverse image searchs
>make the profile and add in the generic garbage about dogs and adventures that are on every girl's profile
>set the distance to your usual amount
>swipe right on everyone
Seriously, just fucking try it once. I live in a pretty busy area but I got around 150 likes in 5 minutes when I tried this, compared to my usual intake of about 5 per week on my actual profile. Many of these guys were just ugly or pajeets, but there were quite a few decent looking, Jow Forums guys in there trying to chat up this single selfie of a 30 year old blob monster that looked like she had 14 kids.

jesus you people really get triggered over the smallest things

Doesn't this prove that women's entitlement is entirely the fault of men?

If men weren't so desperate and were pickier in selecting women to seduce, then women would not be able to be so picky and hypergamous in return.

I believe this is definitely part of the problem, but it's also because feminism isn't at the point where it's acceptable for girls to ask guys out so men naturally have to stick their necks out (and are less likely to go for girls above their league than those way below).

But yes those actually decent guys pursuing ugly as fuck hambeasts can go to fucking hell.

the imbalance is real but it is exasperated as fuck on dating platforms because the problem feeds into itself

Online datings to help boost insecure girls, it’s jot easy being a girl so they need to get validation from somewhere

If you havn’t noticed even ugly girls think there above average because of this and below average girls think they’re instagram models

It’s because they want to believe what they want to, they havn’t figured out or refuse to believe that 90% of the guys hitting them up are just looking for easy sex or an easy blow job

They think these guys actually want to date them and treat them like princesses, the you see them 2 relationships down the track messed up in the head hating any guy that’s above average or turning into man hating feminists,

Internet dating ruined most girls, I use to know half average guys thinking they were pimps because they’re dating a fat 3/10 but she tells them all the guys she’s rejected to pimp his ego. None of them wanted her, it’s just free easy sex for most guys then some poor sucker’s actually putting in time and effort taking them in dates and waiting before they get to do things with them, She’s Already sucked most guys in the surrounding suburbs Dick’s while getting treated like shit from them or never being talked to again after they get what they want

only online can I not feel cripplingly scrutinized by women. With that in mind, would you consider going on a date with me?

bullseye

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If your date cancels on your date they should ask for the next date, otherwise they cancelled because they made a misstake with you not becausesomething interupted

I'm not too interested in meeting anyone atm and probably 4ch is not the first place I would start looking lol. But unironically I hope you meet a nice girl user