Insecure about my penis

I go from being accepting of my penis size to being very insecure about it. This happens even when I don't watch porn. I'm getting frustrated with it because I can break away from it but always seem to come back to insecurity. Help?

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I looking to talk, though, not cam

How come user?

Don't watch porn dude, porn only skews your view on reality, sex and people included. I've heard as long as you got at least 5 in in length and 5 in girth you shouldn't be worried at all. I think even smaller sized penises can work if you have the technique.

>at least 5 in in length and 5 in girth

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Haha, what's that supposed to mean? Is that you OP? What, you're smaller than that? Like I said, as long as you don't have what some call the pencil penis you should be ok. Even those in the 4 in range can work with technique.

Mine's 5.5" girth and I wish it was thicker. 6" seems like the lower limit for good girth.

I'll answer you both at the same time. My dick is kinda long but not very thick. It bothers me because it doesn't seem like a desireable combination of dimensions.
And I've been telling people on here for months to stop watching porn. I did have a bit of a binge over the past week and it feels like shit. I broke because I felt I had to compare myself to other penises. I've been lonely and understimulated/undervalidated

That girth is about perfect, really. A lot of women complain about really thick penises over 6 in hurting them. You'd need lube and foreplay to overcome that problem.

Don't compare yourself to a bigger penis, just know the statistics and you'll get an idea where you stand.

I'm a hair below average in girth. What bothers me is that I've always heard that thick penises are more enjoyable, and my fear is that any girl I date would have been woth a guy previously who had a thicker dick, and I wouldn't be able to satisfy her quite the same. I know there's nothing I can do to account for that, and I hate that.

I have a 8 incher ama

What's it like?

Idk yet I'm a virgin

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Not OP but 5.6×4. Is not good.

Me too bra. 8x5.5
I used to think it was 6.5 to 7" I guess I've lost enough fat that it's a solid 8 inches now.
It's nice having a dong that hangs soft at 5" and having people notice it through my pants. People do notice, it's gotten at least one girl to proposition me for sex.
Sex is good. Ive never heard any complaints about being too big.

I'm not enough of a degenerate to measure the girth lol
But my dick is like 2 or 3 when it's soft then it chubs up to 8 it's pretty incredible actually

Alright thanks

Bump

>tfw you have good dick but your anxiety makes it unreliable

It sucks.

I got married to the first girl I fucked and later found out that my shit is pretty goddamn big. I wasted It. Tfw indeed.

I kinda feel your worry, I'm a virgin and I missed a giant chance due to penis insecurity and not having a condom on hand at the time. It always goes through my head though "if she's had bigger, or even has a bigger toy at home, am I obsolete out the gate?"
It's stupid but it gets to me

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>tfw 4.5 inches

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Long and not girthy is perfect for anal user, find yourself a girl into that and you're golden.

As an user who's had lots of sexual, the only time penis size alone has been an issue is if it's a literal microdick. I've had plenty of fun with people who have had short dicks, long dicks, pencil dicks, and log dicks. I know everyone says it, but the way you use it makes all the difference. Learn to live what you've been given, and how to make the best of it.

lots of sexual partners*

I don't know either. I feel like my 5.5inch/14cm penis is tiny, but my ex (who had never been with another guy) sometimes said that even that was too big for comfort, and she needed lots of foreplay or lube.

Yeah that's pretty much my worry there

But I'm not into anal. I wanna hear that pussy slosh

This is what I hear, but it's hard to believe sometimes. A friend once said "thicker dicks feel better, but all dicks are good" which is kind of comforting but makes me feel second rate

mfw i'm only average length,
so i don't feel inferior nor superior.
Just... feeling average.

You're pretty average. The porn that you see are often the nine extensions or even a fake penis over the normal penis it's possible. Understand that your average woman also has an average body as well so all those pornstars with those pornstar bodies women don't generally have. So don't worry about it you'll be fine.

But it's not even the pornstars. I've heard from a couple of female friends that thicker penises are more enjoyable

Are you retarded?

Work angles

Everything is relative. And if you know what you're doing you can make her feel just as good or better than any other dick.

But even with technique, if she had a previous lover with good technique and a bigger dick, I'd be relatively inferior. One very big fear I have is finding a nice, compatible girl who I just can't quite satisfy in bed compared to someone she's already been with

They don't exist anymore. They don't matter. Just be as good as you can be. Focus on what she responds to. Enjoy yourself; you matter too.

I could argue further, but you know what? I'm not going to. You're offering good, sincere advice, so I'm just gonna listen. Thanks

makes sense, I guess its just an insecurity I have to get over or come to terms with, and get far enough into a relationship for a girl to even see my willy again but that's been like 7 years now. Advice aside I'd still probably fucking isolate myself if I got with a girl and she said something like "my ex was bigger" or had some mondo vibrator in her dresser

First of all porn stars tend to be depressed, so they get body enlargements to feel better.
Or they’re naturally big and have no real trade skills. They have to do gay shit all the time to pay bills, it’s not that great of a life for them. If pussy was all men needed prostitution would be more common than marriage.

If you’re too big it’s painful for her to go as hard as you want.
If you’re too small there’s other kinds of sex but I doubt it’s that bad.
I get it man, I think most guys are weird about their size in young adulthood.
Life is nothing like porn anyway, that’s why people can obsess about crazy stuff that isn’t normal. For me it’s a great looking ass and legs, fairly normal but not to some women’s minds.
Stop worrying about your dick, one piece of advice is if you edge too much while fapping it’ll be harder to cum during sex.

If a woman says “my ex is bigger” she’s not your girlfriend. You’re fucking a whore who probably has an abortion clinic punch card.

No, why do you say that?

5"x 4", why did God do this to me?

>tfw 6.5 inches
>girth of a fucking cashew

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A cashew? Sounds impossible, what's the actual measurement?

The problem I've had is that my dick is long enough that it may poke a cervix, but isn't at least also thick enough to be extra filling. I've come around some since making this thread though

>inb4 5.5 inches

5.5 inches is on the high end of the pencil dick range, 6.5" or greater qualifies as girthy.

Wew good one

my 6.5x6 feels small

Lesbian literally deal with no penis at all.

There will always be someone bigger than you. Big fucking deal. Learn to use your dick properly and you have nothing to worry about. Remember, it's not sexy to constantly question yourself. Also, porn is ok sometimes but if you're watching enough that it is giving you a complex over your pecker then maybe you should drop it for a while.

>My dick is kinda long
Fuck you kek