Do girls actually like BDSM and being submissive?
Do girls actually like BDSM and being submissive?
Only if they're mentally ill
I thought I'd be the submissive type but in reality it's quite equal with me and my partner. Maybe it's a bit lame from me but I don't see sex as a thing that should have great imbalance in power. I definitely see the appeal in it but idk I guess I'm not into it
Of course women are individual and you'll see a lot of variety. However, more women are submissive than they are dominant.
>does x group like y thing
Some do, some don't.
>OP just wants us to admit to being a subby little bitch
>Bdsm
Sometimes
>submissive
95% of the time yes, sex is mental for them so you have to know what you're doing.
To the extend that the properties of an alpha male is attractive. Read the top sellers of sexual fiction direct at women.
Or look up DomesticDisciplineRelationships. 95% of them are allegedly introduced by women.
Hot. Are you a submissive little puppy?
Raves are fucking based, bring them back, 2019. Anyway, how about submissiveness in the bedroom? Submission is hot.
Dont know about BDSM, but i am pretty sure about the submissive part
Nervous how? Like, dominant men make you nervous, or what?
Be honest, are you an inexperienced virgin?
Woah-ho-ho, we've got a fresh one here, boys. Do you have a petticoat I can look up? How do you feel about sexual bullying? If I gave you a catholic schoolgirl skirt and lifted it up for a peek, would you get flustered and voiceless, or would you get angry and thrash around in indignant fury?
You watch too much anime
I didn't know they made online sexual harassment into an anime
>BDSM
some
>being submissive
almost every single one
t. never had a gf that didn't specifically require me to be brutish to the point I started hating myself for it
I understand they are biologically programmed to be like this and the current society makes this shit a norm but holy hell this shit right here is the major reason why I'm currently single and not looking for anyone.
> BDSM
Only a small percent. Assuming you talk about proper BDSM and not "slightly kinky vanilla" or "50 shades of gray"
> being submissive
Yes. Or at least women are less iffy about showing it. Keep in mind the majority of population can be classed as 'submissive', but males try to appear more dominant then they are.
Why?
The pleasure is a defense mechanism for past trauma in most cases. Do you think a desire to pass out from being choked is positive and a healthy sign of one's state of mind?
If most women are submissive, how can having a submissive fetish (like feet) work in a relationship?
You 'force' her to do it. Arms tied shibari style , a collar around her neck. Leash in one hand, belt/whip/paddle in the other
It doesn’t
The submissive thing really stems from being sexually lazy desu. It's easier to be acted upon than put effort in. Sure, you can make socio-evolutionary arguments all you like but really it's the path of least resistance. Women -- talking generally-- can be really sexually entitled and unempathetic when it comes to the actual act itself.
Based and redpilled. "Submissive" chicks are always lazy trendy "goth" sheep/thots
Domme here.
>BDSM
Too vague. What kind of BDSM? Entry level being rough, hair pulling, and chintzy handcuffs from the sex store? Or something more involved and serious, like designated roles and/or long scenes?
>submissive
Most women tend to be submissive, yes.