I'm male and one of my friends who claims to be a lesbian (and says she has a girlfriend) constantly touches me and acts affectionate towards me. She makes it very clear that she has a close female friend that she really likes but she will constantly feel my arms and back up in a weird way. She also likes to hold my hand sometimes and rests her head on my shoulder when I'm at the office at my computer, and will bury her face in it quite often. She never really talks about liking me or any other guy other than to comment on how she likes my biceps. Normally I would just chalk this up to her being weird, except that this happened.
The other day, I went over to her house for dinner and to study for a test we had. At some point during the studying, she laid down next to me and we basically started spooning with her as the little spoon. She grabbed my hand and started playing with it, setting it down just above her boob. We just kind of sat like this for about 20 minutes, with me trying to stay focused on studying because I'm a retarded virgin and she didn't really say anything the whole time. I don't know what to do or how to talk to her to figure out what the fuck she wants or what is going on.
Please help, because I'm very confused about how to move forward.
Sounds like you shou say "what do you wanna do?" Next time that shit happens. Nobody's completely gay.
Henry Stewart
Sucks to be too scared to open your mouth and speak. You can just sit there and hope that she makes all the moves and decisions for you.
Hudson Ortiz
you're a trans woman and don't know it yet, lesbians can sense it
Jaxon Perez
This.
Austin Williams
degenerate.
Evan Reyes
Maybe she just likes being close to you, not anything more?
Julian Carter
seems like every fucking college lesbian. She isnt one she just experimenting and now she is tired of the same thing.
Jayden Sanchez
Say that you up for a threesome desu
Andrew Fisher
She isn't a thot though, she's very sheltered and went to an all girls' college before coming here (in grad school). My guess is that she didn't like high school boys and thought she was gay because of that.
Jace Perez
This is what I thought for the longest time, but I feel that when you just get into the small spoon position and force someone to touch you that you've crossed the line of being just "close"
hmm, it is possible, but still very strange even for her to go this far. Another thing of note is that before laying down on me, she said that I could tell her to get off if I wanted and I said nothing.
Austin Wilson
That's not a thot girls experimenting is a real thing in college. They explore their options and society doesnt mind that much. It's just how some girls are.
Alexander Harris
I see, that's what some of my friends who know us have said. It's just that nobody we know has been put in a situation like this before and I'm trying to get advice on how to approach the situation.
Michael Jackson
if no one has been put in the situation before then sit back and see where it goes. Make mental notes along the way, dont make brash decisions and be gentle. One of the main reason girls become lesbians is how gentle they are to eachother another is because they are gay. None the just be accepting and ride the tide.
Eli Martin
Has she said she's a lesbian? I wonder if you're just assuming because she's only dated women? It also sounds like she's never really had a chance to experiment with a guy. You sound nice and you're obviously a "safe" person to be around. I really don't think she would be doing these things if she wasn't turned on by you a bit. If you keep getting into these situations, something will probably happen between you two. If you want things to be more clear, ask something. Or, ask if you can do something like "can I play with your hair" and see how she responds.
Jackson Perez
She has stated that she only started dating in her last year of undergrad which happened to be a woman that she calls her girlfriend now. I definitely can believe that this is what's going on, but I have moral problems with trying to go out with someone who calls themselves gay. This is probably why I've been hesitant to show any sort of affection towards her advances because believe me I wanted to.
Jaxson Nelson
Ur just gonna have to play it by ear my guy. Good luck
Julian Mitchell
Thanks user, hope I can figure this stuff out.
Mason Cox
This is uncomfortably accurate
Jayden Thompson
Lesibans can still have cock lust
I have some lesbian friends who are married and every so often they go on tinder to find a guy to fuck them.
Logan Rodriguez
She is really into superheroes, so I dont doubt that she at least is interested in men. It's more the fact that she has a girlfriend and I have issues with potentially breaking up a relationship or trying to convert someone from being gay.
