ENTP advice thread

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>MBTI isn't real. It's like believing in horoscopes.
worse. horoscopes dont have fake science supporting them, only basic white bitches with pumpkin lattes.

mbti is worthless.

>tfw infp
>between successful and weird tier
Embracing the world as it is, flaws and all makes it more fun experience than escapism bullshit.

It can be harmless fun, nigguh.

Infps are either depressed, weed smoking, basement dwelling cat owners, or successful modern day hippies. There is no in between.

Yeah obviously I don't take MBTI as gospel because I'm not retarded. MBTI is about archetypes, and those can be helpful to understand or play around with, but getting butthurt about MBTI is almost as sad as believing in it absolutely.

I agree that meeting INFJ type women will be difficult, especially since I don't look like other ENTPs. I compete in powerlifting, and despite being well read and educated, most INFJs are going to just see a knuckle dragging jock. The two infjs I met did NOT like me initially. It's sort of a Mr Darcy type interaction until by some miracle we are comfortable enough to be ourselves.

I'm highly doubtful online dating has any usefulness anymore

That silly site told me I'm an INTJ and that I'd find it awkward to ever find love in my life. More reason to pull the plug.

>I'm highly doubtful online dating has any usefulness anymore
It can make the whole getting to know phase a lot more efficient if it's not some dumb shit like tinder.

relationships are the least useful and interesting aspect of mbti or any other typology system
just see if you get along with somebody or not, slapping a rigid grid on top of that is stupid

That's fine for you man, I choose to give it value in my life. my best friends are ENTP and INTJ, the only girl I ever loved was INFJ, the worst relationship I ever had was ESFJ. I don't base value in people on MBTI, but I have faith that it is a decent compass for finding people whom I'm more likely to form a deeper connection with. I find that N types tend to abstract better and have more interesting conversations, beyond just what they are sensing, ie "hmm I'm hungry, I'm bored, I wanna go out", which is the S types

INFJ female here. Were I single I'd totally consider flirting with you.

but how do you even know what type people are before knowing them? that's nonsense
you don't need types to see if you're gonna click with somebody or not, unless you're a Fe dom or something

You should be more stoic user

INFJs tend to be more loyal, it's attractive

My friend suggested the library over match.com

I don't judge people that quickly, I like all kinds of people and can talk to anyone, but who I'm really close with takes time, INFJ/INTP are my ideal but they are rare and flighty. Plus, as I said, I look like a Chad douche pool, so most INFJs wouldn't look twice

tfw entj-a

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Post contact. I am an INFJ/ENFJ but on my period I am an INFP.

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If that gif were you, I'd invite you to sit on my face, even when on your period

Worse still, it puts people in personality bubbles that they think they can't escape from when your personality is exceptionally malleable.

If they are well-adjusted and self actualizing, yes

Yeah honestly I kinda always dislike ENTPs at first. They seem cocky, and a bit intense. Imo just talk to us anyway though, show us that weird ENTP side, I personally love it lol. I think someone breaking my expectations is a bit rare and is pretty intriguing, so just own it.

INTJ, ENTP and ENFPs are my ideal relationship types though. A few years ago I used to be in this huge MBTI meetup clubs and there were a ton of happily married INTJs there for some reason. I actually couldn't find an available INTJ lol. You guys just always seem to be late bloomers.

Yup, absolutely. Being a lean 230 lbs also isn't exactly the typical body type INFJs I know go for. The INFJ has to be forced to spend enough time to be able to see through it. INFJs always seem like the lady in the tower.

And the reason the INTJs are all single is that they are less slutty, if they find a partner they trust, they are unlikely to leave them for any reason.

I don't think INFJs usually have a type. I think I'm actually more open to variety/less picky about looks than most people, and I've found the same for other INFJs, esp women. You sound hot dude, don't even stress about it.

Im usually too muscly for the weird IN types I want, too weird/cerebral for the typical gym girl

Like I said before, INFJ see me and think I can't even read haha

This is because INFJs are in their heads and detached from our bodies (especially when younger) and feel uncomfortable at someone with a visible mastery over this. Also I used to get picked on as a kid by the cool athletic kids, lolol. Now I've grown beyond that shit and I'm into both the lean INTJ boys and those buff ENTPs. Once I start dating again those would be my preferences. All ENTPs I've known have been fit as fuck, so I'm not sure why you think you don't look the part.
Don't take it personally that INFJs seem standoffish at first, we're like that to everyone. Or at least I am lmao. Oops.

If that's you in the pic I think I recognize you from a few years back unrelated to 4ch.

Hmm that hasn't been my experience but ENTPs are rare, maybe not as rare as female INFJ, or male INTJ, but I don't meet many. The ones I know look more like me before powerlifting, weebie hipster fuccboi.

Yeah INFJ ENTP interactions are eerie, like two halves coming together. Even if there is no romantic love, there is always at least a very gratifying friendship there.

Weird. Don't expose me bro

True, to be fair I've only met like 4. Small sample size.

I agree about the interactions. Dude at work currently talking to me is a) moving away soon and b) intimidatingly charismatic, so I am trying not to get too close to that person, but our interactions have the same aspect of eeriness and friendship seems easy. Had it happen with other ENTPs too, we always seem a little freaked out by one another. I used to think I didn't like ENTPs up until a year ago though. So maybe you just need to look for the more developed INFJ types? :')

Yeah, the only girl I loved was an INFJ, and I truly believe that it didn't work because I was young and undeveloped as a person. Wish we could still be friends, she was very smart and very funny.

Yeah that's the dynamic I've noticed, as gay as it sounds, it's similar to Elizabeth and Mr Darcy, completely repelled by one another over misconceptions of who that person is. I think the ENTP charisma is intimidating to INFJs firstly because it's a skill they don't have, secondly it may be perceived as fake, that it's a ploy for booty, which INFJs don't just give to anyone. Too bad your ENTP is moving, I met an INFJ girl recently who also moved away, but it gives me hope of finding others. ENTPs seem to have strengths for where INFJs lack, and vice versa. I've decided to stop wasting my time dating outside of that archetype

Well my experiences are only dating other INs (and one ISTP lmao), and were mostly dynamics I'm no longer interested in, aside from maybe INTJ (they make the best friends at very least). But considering how well I get along that ENTP (and lowkey the secret huge crush I keep telling myself I don't have on him) and what you're describing, I think that, once I start looking again I will look for a nice ENTP boy haha

Yeah I was never a cool athletic kid growing up. I rolled with the drama kids/comic book club. After spending most of my 20s in powerlifting/strongman, those "cool athletic kids" flock to ask how much I lift or what I'm eating, it's entertaining. Most powerlifters I know were not cool and never picked on anyone

One of my closest friends is an INTJ, and is a great catch, funny, intelligent, organized, good at implementation, disciplined, and plenty of crypto. However, INTJs have high standards, can be easily spooked/irritated, to which they will just ghost you, and are benevolent but adapt manipulators

>yeah my best friend is INTJ too. At least they will speak openly about their benevolent manipulation when asked :') I just wish INTJs had more confidence, because you're on the nose. They are usually absolute catches and just too hard on themselves as well as extremely picky. They don't have that sweet Fe.

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Seriously though, any advice for finding a cute ENTP guy someday? Maybe that's a dumb question because INFJ women are sometimes seen as desirable unicorns in MBTI, but IRL it's way too easy for me to just stay in my little bubble, or just hang out with other easy mode INs, lol.

I will ofc keep an eye out for you based on your picture OP ;) lol

Which is why they need ENTP friends like me to help them in social situations. I can schmooze anyone, my friend needs the proper setting. I can make IN types feel comfortable to open up, unless it's an INTJ/INFJ female, getting them to see me is difficult.

Autocorrect making me look like a fucking re-tard. Adapt/adept. Motherfuck.

Also like to point out that INFJ ENTP sex is fucking damn good

not sure really, give him clear signs his advances are wanted, especially in post metoo America, an ENTP likes a chase but not being accused of harassment. I know you INFJs LOOOVE the chase, love hard to get, just a little, but make sure you give the ENTP enough of an indication that you like him pursuing you.

I've taken the test a couple times and got INTP, then INFP, and just now I got INFJ. I never really thought these were very helpful but I actually relate extremely to the INFJ personality type.

Where does it tell you what personality types you should match up with?

Also this is just a thought experiment bc mbti is complete bs.

And yeah I hope you find me, but I'm unwilling to risk getting my life raped by anons should I dox myself.

Then why would I waste my time helping you?

Bc im an "INFJ" and like entertaining fantasy

I think I'll pass on stroking that troll boner

I have never even touched an ENTP (aside from handshakes and other common social things ofc) but they get me going with those mind games. Also 'schmoozing' and general social ease is so foreign and attractive. From the small experience I have, making ENTPs "chase" me is fun, I'll admit. They read as many little cues as I do. I get to use all these little looks and words most men would never pick up on. Also you guys have this eye contact thing where it's like you're trying to read me when that's normally my thing. But that stare is also one that seems like you're used to being able to charm (in my eyes, borderline control through your devilishly good social skills) people easily but it isn't working on me and that makes you curious and damn it just makes me feel naked and too aware of this mutually attempted mind reading lol. I'm never sure who is reading the other better, or who has the upper hand. So I usually convince myself to steer away from these people (bc of that and other typical ENTP traits like bluntness that I used to undervalue) but damn, it's just a little hot to even talk to ENTPs. I can imagine other things are better. but yeah, no doxing for either of us pls

Mad at you for winning me over to entps on Jow Forums lmao.

Since this fag wont give deets I gotta do it for him

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Yeah it is frustrating when you meet someone who is truly your equal like an INFJ, suddenly you no longer have super powers. It's a good balance for INFJs to date/marry ENTP, the passion and attraction is obvious, the natural friendship makes for strong long-term partners. I also feel that INFJs help soften ENTPs when they need to, we can be brash, headstrong, and stubborn, as well as encouraging us to be less wasteful with our creativity and ideas. INFJs have a superior work ethic. ENTPs reinforce INFJ weaknesses, we are socially adaptable, uninhibited, bold, we are curators of ideas and information, and we are exciting to INFJs. With us, INFJs can safely try new things and be exposed to new ideas. ENTPs are great orators, so as long as we remember to share the floor, having good conversations will never be short of supply. We balance each other, cover each other's weaknesses while fostering and appreciating the others strengths.
I hope you find your ENTP when you're ready. Finding someone who can read those little clues, the eye contact, is exhilarating. We ENTPs are great at reading people, but you INFJs throw us for a loop. I lose my charm and composure around cute INFJs. I'll stutter and act like a dildo

I'm not sure what that is. Someone claimed they recognized me, so maybe you can find me one day. I might risk it all and post my Steam account, then you would all see the hours I've wasted playing Mount and Blade

Aw I'm glad to know my suspicions were right and we throw you through as much of a loop. You sound like a big cute nerd (lolol mount and blade) but it might not be worth posting your info since you're unlikely to be in range of any INFJ in this thread anyway.

I really hope you can find an INFJ in your life soon too!

Instead of paying them $300 for a shitty dating profile, I will buy $300 of XLM, and go to the library for INFJs, as my BFF suggested.

Aye, the PNW tis a silly place. But you're right, I have as likely a chance to find an INFJ here as I have of ever playing Bannerlord. Yes, ENTPs, even the buff ones, are big fucking nerds. Find a mature one, suck his dick often and never let him go, that's my advice. Until I find my INFJ, I'll focus on gaining financial freedom as well as sucking less at CSGO.

I'll toast a dab to you tonight femanon

>tfw INFJ and extremely lazy

I don't have the energy to find anyone or do anything for that matter. If that's how we all are, then your chances of finding us is pretty slim.

Could be, but if fucked/dated enough people to know it's either INFJ wife, or becoming a monk. I have many goals. Like totalling over 1500. If I do that, even if I never father children, I can die with some honor

To answer your OG question I do think libraries are good but that is also my quiet place to go to avoid people so if you're gonna approach here you're gonna have to do it skillfully and carefully. I might be receptive if someone asked me about the book I was reading as an opener. Gentle environment requires gentle approach. Catch me in the philosophy/psychology/futurism sections haha
I'll do my best :D enjoy your night user

I have a degree in history, I'm fairly well-read, so as long as she reads beyond the level of Harry Potter, I'll have an in. I could try the anime route. If they like NGE, we will get along. I understand that aspect of INFJs, and I don't like making people feel uncomfortable. ENTPs are the introverted extraverts, vice versa for INFJs, so I understand not wanting to be bothered.

Goodnight user, look for a tattooed 6'1" 230 man with resting bitch face, it may be me

Philosophy/psychology, my INTJ bud would approve.

Still lurking your thread sigh. I like NGE and am secretly a big dumb weeb lol. Damn.

I am here to bring hope that you can find an ENTP who isn't a manlet. I train with an elite powerlifter who reads attack on Titan, and I follow another famous strongman who quotes Gurrenn Lagann, so maybe I'm not so rare.

Haha maybe AoT is a little too much weeb for me, but the hope still stands :') ty user!

The only one I'll actually read is Berserk. Goodnight user

Last thing, just be on the lookout for 5'7, black hair, blue eyes, 120lbs ^^
Officially gnight

That sounds sexy. You bitch, why must Jow Forums be so toxic