Incel advice

And that part of the problem with incels, 0 understanding of women.

I don't hate women. I'm just involuntarily celibate. I am a virgin against my own will. That's all that incel means in its origin. Why are you attaching extra baggage to it?

>5'1"
>4.5" penis (erect)
Is there hope for me

It’s cool. Ask me anything, as you know there are a lot of inter connected tendrils to life, gotta start somewhere

Women do care about height, one of the only (and main) physical attributes women do care about. Find a shorter woman if you can, but don’t let it get you down. Confidence women absolutely DO care about.

Women don’t care about dick size. It’s something gay men care about and so straight men think women care about. They don’t, like at all.

I don't even know what to ask. At this point I'm just exhausted. I tried every "self-improvement" technique you could think of. Still no interest from women. It's as if I'm cursed by god.

Something I notice incels focus a lot on constantly is their coochie-less life. All day about how they have no pussy and no gf and blah blah blah. Whining and moaning.

1.) Why do you care so much about getting a gf?
2.) Shut the fuck up no one gives a shit about your whining! I guarantee incels they will be whining for the rest of their life or until they marry some landwhale about how they have no woman. Stfu damn. Stop caring about having a gf so much and focus on yourself

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It's not that I care about getting a gf THAT much. It's that I don't understand what I'm doing wrong in life that means I cannot get a date or a kiss in my entire life. I haven't even come close to the "getting a gf" stage.

Fat guys can get dates, short guys can get gfs, autistic guys can get gfs, mentally ill guys can get gfs. Other people on Jow Forums can get dates and gfs. Why can't I? What's so wrong with me?

Stop focusing on it so much. Women can smell desperation a mile away they know you really want a GF and it turns them off. Getting a gf, is only a fraction of the shit you'll have to deal with in life anyways

About why some men can't get a good:
1.) Most Western women are spoiled goods and mentally unsound.
2.) Feminism has delt a major blow to man/woman relationships. Treat them like a totally different species when both man and woman obviously require each other.
3.) about the rejects and misfits getting dates and gf's, they could just have confidence and experience with woman, or they could be low balling it and dating some mentally unsound woman.

Well, it’s a series of steps, not one set of things. Like a game you might play, did you learn it instantly or develop skills over time, with practice? Life is no different.

One of the most important things is not if you “lift”, it’s your attitude. You should know that you deserve love, we all do. But you also need to know yourself, meaning your strengths and weaknesses.

This used to be easier in previous generations, we have lost our way a bit.

So let’s start with the basics: income/job

The problem is probably how you are attempting to date.

How are you attempting to date?

All this is dumb bullshit. Most women are NOT “feminists”.

How are you trying to find women? What are you doing for income/job?

Deny it if you want, but the picture seems pretty clear to me. Feminism isn't always pink haired girl who screams about the patriarchy. It's about what's more mainstream. Not explaining it to you though, it'll just go in one ear and out the other lmao

all women are feminist until proven otherwise

It’s because you think women are what’s in the “media”. You don’t know women at all do you. Most women are not feminists, not even in the slightest. If you knew even one woman you’d know.

That’s because you don’t know any women irl.

Man I don't even want a GF that bad. I just want a first date. I've never even had a date dude. Not even one.

Also I didn't ask for the weird Jow Forums rant about feminism.

I'm still in college, no income/job right now. But it's the same for the guys I know who do get dates. I know poor as shit dudes who have gfs that really care about them.

I'm not attempting to date because I don't even get the chance to. No first dates in my whole life.

Ok dating is a numbers game. You should date/message a LOT of women before you find one compatible.

You have to get out there and try. Message women something you have in common, but due your diligence and match with someone that can be your friend AND you find attractive. Look for both.

There are lonely women looking for you user; it’s just about matching up.

Start slow, message online, get to know each other, then meet quick for coffee, movie, dinner, etc

Being in college is perfectly fine. I was asking about income only because if you are worried about it, it would put you in a place where you’re not ready to date.

But lots of women are poor af and don’t care about $.

Why dont incels just pay for whores if they care about fucking so much? You're making up problems where there shouldn't be any. This generation is fucked up

How does paid-for sex solve the issue of not being desired by any women? Please tell me?

Paying for sex is lonely as fuck. Incels want intimacy, like we all do.

I’m sure that a woman exists that will want to be with you. Your lack of confidence becomes self perpetuating.

Try, on dating sites, a bunch of times. Small successes will give you more confidence

Not an incel but a virgin. I messed up so badly because I'm worried about my dick size. Was on a date with this girl I've been seeing for 2 weeks, we went back to her place and it was leading up to sex. I initiated by eating her out for a bit but then lied that I wasn't feeling very well so I wasn't up for anything on my part. We cuddled a bit with my underwear on and she tried to initiate twice but I stopped her then I went home saying something like that I felt sick. Now she texted me if I want to hangout next weekend again but I'm afraid to say yes because she'll prob expect sex and be so disappointed if we do anything.

For info my dick is 5 inches but above average thickness, so at least I have that. However I'm 6'3 height and that size of a dick will prob look so out of place and she's gonna be so fucking disappointed and laugh at me. I'll never lose my fucking virginity.

>Try, on dating sites, a bunch of times. Small successes will give you more confidence

What happens if I can get matches on tinder with cute girls but none of them respond to my messages, or they just respond in a really disinterested manner? I'm so tired of being an incel man. The worst thing is I'm pretty sure there's nothing wrong with my looks, it's a psychological problem which is more difficult to solve.

Like I said, women don’t care about dick size. Gay men care about dick size and so straight men ERRONEOUSLY think women do.

They don’t give a shit. You’re fine.

Just steel yourself that she doesn’t care, and watch...she won’t fucking care.

This is what every dicklet says. Sad.

Maybe because you are trying to date women you “know” you can’t get. Date women you feel are more compatible to you. Maybe they are fatter and uglier but so fucking what.

I can tell you that you will be waaaaaaaay happier in life with an ugly/fat woman that you are compatible with.

With a woman you won’t be nervous with, you can have more confidence. Hopefully over time you can see that beauty is a shit tier way to match.

Just date a woman, any woman, until you can find one compatible. It’s worth it

Do you know ANY women that care about dick size irl, or is this more dumbfuck posturing from what you read on Jow Forums? I’m guessing it’s the latter

are you a woman?

Once you see that sex isn't a big deal you'll stop being a little bitch about it, get the minimal confidence boost at least

Having no sex at all is pathetic and practice makes perfect, incels want intimacy? No, they want someone to pay attention to them. The problem with the internet is that its so vast you'll always find someone to validate your feelings, doesn't mean they should be ok with their self deprecating mental issues.

Theres people who have it way worse than them

Nope, I just am old as fuck and talked to and been with a lot of people

Have you ever been with a prostitute? They sell sex, not intimacy. Intimacy is inaccessible, that’s how they can do the job.

You can’t get intimacy online, it has to be in person.

And btw, when I was younger I found women inscrutable and frustrating. Only as I got older did I learn to understand and appreciate them.

Women are designed to be the companion of men, and men are designed to be the companion of women. We can work beautifully together.

Oh do keep finding excuses, you'll get far

Having sex with prostitutes is an empty experience my dude. Take my word for it. Or not, do it yourself and report back.

It’s just a woman spreading her legs for money, go ahead and do it and see how it makes you feel afterwards