GUIDELINES:

Yes. A violent partner is a huge red flag and turn off regardless of gender.

Girls.
My best friend came onto me and we made out and fooled around a bit then she started to blank me.
We were drinking that night but even before we drank she was very handsy.
She seemed to really enjoy being with me.
It was only the next day that she started to blank me.

I gave her some space for a week and she began snap chatting me a little bit, but it feels a bit strained still.
Even though she is still a bit distant and cold towards me.
I am wondering if I should still ask her on a date even though she is still acting awkward towards me or wait until she warms up to me a little.
We have not seen each other since that night.

Use their feet. Teasing, caressing me with their feet, footjobs...

>(inb4 goldigger thots)
But that's pretty much what they are doing.

Girls.
Do you mention other guys that you think are hot to people you have an interest in to make them jealous? Or is it something you just point out to friends?

Only to friends. I would never do it to a potential love interest. I don't like playing games though

shit

I'm not saying she's not into you, there are indeed people who do it to see your reaction. I'm just saying people who do this kind of stuff are childish.

Do most women enjoy giving head to their boyfriends? Or do they pretend to like it because he feels good?

Personally it depends on my mood. If im busy or tired i do it because it makes him happy and i like making him happy. But i definitely enjoy doing it and have more fun with it when i initiate it or when we start forplay or are taking a sex intermission.

Are there circumstances in which I should forgive cheating?

Met this girl a few months ago. Crushed on her for a while but got over it. Flirted, pretty sure it was obvious to a lot of people. She lowkey rejected me but still always said hi in passing and shit, friendly girl. I backed off, gave her space and moved on for the most part. I'm mature, still being nice to her and all, but not looking at a chance. Figured she was too social and friendly to everyone, seen her leaving and going with other guys-- don't know the context. Lost interest but still said hey in passing. Why not.

Recently she's been blatantly looking away anytime I come near her. Her eyes go straight to the floor or away, like she doesn't see me, even though she only does that when she fucking knows I'm coming.

I literally haven't said anything but hey and bye --simple greetings-- to her a few times in the past 2 months. When I say 'I backed off' I mean like a mile. Stopped sitting with her and having any conversations longer than 'how's your day?' stuff. I don't have a big problem with it, but I don't get what's going on. What did I do and what should I take from this? If she wanted nothing to do with me, you wouldn't think it'd take this long.

Yeah, if you're a faggot with no dignity (in other words, no)

Feeling entitled to you acting the same way

Idk maybe you're right, but how can you know people don't change?

Some things can't be changed. Cheating on someone means you're an animal who can't control your impulses, and that is very hard to change

Anyways it's not about the other person, it's about you. Even if she changed, you should still drop that bitch and never look back. Dignity and self-respect, bro

Guys,

are you vocal during sex?

Out of the 3 guys I've had sex with, only one would actually full on moan as well. I wish more guys would do it

If she agrees to do something degrading to make you forgive her. Tell her you'd forgive her if she shave her head, let's see how much she cares about your relationship.

I talked to this girl last night and had a nice conversation. I added her on fb, what should i send as a first message or wait till i see her again

Sorry? You think she's just doing it because I stopped talking with her? I never avoided saying hey or anything. I was completely friendly in passing, never bitter or anything. I just didn't put forth effort to meet up with her for lunches or anything like that since she stopped inviting me.

For reference we had extensive eye contact and mutual hellos a ton when we first met. She still does it with a lot of other people as she usually does, except with me it seems. It's such a little thing but for someone like her to do this, the blatantness of it is getting under my skin. What did I fucking do? She behaves like I said or did something when we've had minimal to no contact in the past months.

How do I tell the difference between girls who are potentially romantically interested in me and girls who are not?

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So a girl and I set up a date for next weekend and have been messaging most days. We've had a casual drink after work a few times too just the two of us (same building, different teams).

Out of the blue she just messages that I'm too nice and she doesn't deserve it, and I got a little annoyed and told her she does and she shouldn't be so down or herself.

Now she won't respond to me, how bad did I fuck up?

Is there any way I can make some think of me as more mature?

Basically a girl I like told a friend that she finds me too immature, and that was like 2 months ago. The other night, I got my friend to reveal about what he makes my chances with her to be (0-5%)

Is there any real hope?

I can be dead silent when i jerk off
Idk bout sex cuz never had it

But i do grunt when i lift heavy at gym so i guess its similar

>sex is similar to lifting
Eh, nope.

Went on a date today. We had lunch. She was laughing, seemed like she was having an ok time. Then at the end she said she was tired and was gonna go home. Tells me she'll see me again. Then I text her afterwards and she says she had a good time, but she could be being nice. Feelsbadman she's not that into me right?l

Girls

1. What is the ideal partner count you’d want in a man?
2. What is your partner count?

How old are you

The strain during heavy deadlift could be very much as intense feeling as cumming

Sex itself is completely different i agree
But you dont get level of strain that is involved when you reach 99% of body capability

I make sure to make it a competition. No girl is going to moan louder than me. I'll whip out a megaphone on her if I have to.

Weekends are so sad. Not even on the internet you have company, because the normies leave us. ;_;

>I’ve even had two women ask me for my phone number. I don’t feel comfortable with this though. the girlfriend of my best friend told me once that girls value guys who are in their late twenties and thirties that don’t have a ton of experience. They like “nice guys”. So the reason I dislike this a lot is I feel like these girls are trying to take advantage of me. Which is why I never answer texts or calls from anyone who asks for my number

haha I think this is very true, I mean if you weren't good enough when you were younger why now? They actively disdained you back then but now you're good enough? Fuck that shit. To start dating women when you're older is to trade your dignity for pussy, it's not going to bring you happiness. The only way around this is if you happen to run into a woman in a similar situation who you also happen to mesh with, and the chances of that happening are astronomically low.

Guys, what does getting a rose at a strip club mean? I'm here to be gay a minute and drink.

for the first time in my life i'm in a relationship that can easily lead to kids and marriage and i'm scared shitless
how do i get over this?

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Is it a good or bad thing that the sex lasts so long with the guy I'm seeing? We usually have sex for like an hour and then he'll perhaps cum. Sometimes he doesn't and I have to finish him with a blow job. Then we'll have sex in the morning for even longer and pretty often he can't finish, but every so often he does. At first he couldn't finish at all with me, so it's an improvement, but I've never been in a relationship before so I'm not sure if this is normal. We also don't use a condom because I'm the pill/we're both clean. Could he just be super less sensitive down then? I have no idea whether I should be feeling like I need to do better or something.

My "ex" (it was an almost relationship for 3 years due to long distance), that dumped me 3 months ago in a harsh manner (he told me that he pretty much hates me, that it was only sex and that he has found someone else and it was "serious", we had a hella mad argument before this and we were both wrong), texted me out of the blue last week. He went with a simple "How are you?". We texted for a bit and at some point i ask "how come did you text me?". His response: "i saw someone that looked like you and i started wondering how were you, so i texted you."

4 days later he texts me again asking me about some shit that happened a year ago (he was selling some shit and some friend of mine needed that shit, but then it turned out it wasnt the shit he wanted.). He texted "do you still have that friend who needs this shit?".
Like, what the actual fuck is happening?
I know this is a repost, but i'm hella confused and I will admit i still have feelings for him.

Wtf??????

23 basically. (She's 27)

>still miss the past version of her
>still comparing every girl to her (they don't measure up)
>still think of her way too often
It's not fair. It has been almost two years, I'm not supposed to feel this way anymore.

That's a somewhat common problem among men. It takes forever for me to cum, and it fucking sucks. On the upside, you last way longer, so thats neat i guess.

but to actually answer your question, attraction doesn't have much to do with it, some men are just insensitive and take way longer to cum than normal. Don't worry about it.

I want more than anything to have a boyfriend to be in love and enjoy our youth together. But instead every relationship feels fake and forced and then they fall apart quickly because we don't match. And the one guy I connected to was a few years older and dumped me to marry someone else older than him. I feel ugly and pathetic. Even many guys are attracted to me it just isn't enough. What is wrong with me?

Is a relationship bound to fail if one partner wants sex more than the other?

Girls:
23 years boy here. Always been really socially awkward but I’ve somehow managed to find a lot of success with girls cause I’m really good looking. They’ll even tell me half of the time “if you weren’t pretty I couldn’t ever go out with you” but I always shrug it off as I’m decent at making conversation and can be witty every now and then

But lately and as I get older I realize that I have no idea what the fuck I’m doing when it comes to flirting and dating

That being said I pretty much just use tinder for dating. My small problem is that no matter how many matches I get I always end up fucking an opportunity up by saying some dumb shit. I seriously have no idea what the fuck I’m doing and I really just wanna figure my shit out

Is there anyway I can express this in my bio without sounding like a pathetic loser? I am really really good looking but my personality is so comparably dull

Wait for marriage

How do you expect a second date to be different from a first date? If a guy doesn't make a move on you on the second date would you drop his ass?

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Forget about her, and on to the next. She is not interested and she is making it clear. Sorry user.

I would like her to stay a virgin until marriage and then consummate our marriage. I wouldn't want her to do anything she sees out of porn or hentai or whatever. Give me vanilla honestly.

This succubus looking girl is always online on the dating site. What gives?

On her pictures, her face always express "I'll suck your cock."

If it was only for sex, it is probably in your best interest to move on. He is just trying to see if your available and can still get you even though he gave up on you. He put you on hold and is hoping to pick up where he left off, which is pretty screwed up in the scheme of an intimate relationship.

I sort of require more information to really make a proper assessment but I think you might be one of those people who feels like they need to be in a relationship and hasn't been single enough to really reflect on oneself. It might just be low self-esteem as well. If you know for a fact that there are many men that are attracted to you then I feel like you should feel pretty lucky compared to other people.

Not her but
>havent been single enough to understand relationship
Going strong for 26 years now haha

Same, what are the chances haha

Ask them if they want to meet up with you.

Set up a second date you moron.

I was the same age as you dating a girl who is the same age. Basically it is hit or miss because at that age they are thinking about careers and buying homes, having kids. You have to show interest in that too. Showing ambition is a turn on.

Call him on his bluff.

I matched with a girl on tinder and we started talking and I might even say we hit it off. I asked if she wanted to meet and she said "potentially yes" and she's shy and wants to talk more before meeting in person. After that we've had a few good discussions and she seems interested on some level.

Is it my responsibility to ask her out again or should I wait for her to do it? I don't want to seem too pushy but I would really like to meet her for a coffee.

Something low, like 0-3, similar to me basically since I think I'd feel self conscious if my partner had a much higher count. I also think a high count is a red flag for me so eh.
I was at 1 when I met my current boyfriend and he was a virgin.

>I was at 1 when I met my current boyfriend and he was a virgin.
I wonder how jealous he gets when he realizes you've fucked another guy while he's only fucked you.

try once again and if she's still not ready, tell her to inform you once she gets there

Girls, why the fuck does height matter so much?

didn't have boyfriend until 21 and then dated a lot so you're right there. but been single for the past 2 years. was okay for a while but now feeling lonely.

thanks for the advice, I'll do that!

I'm not looking for a chat buddy though so unless she says she's ready I'll just move on. We've been talking nearly two weeks already.

maybe you're looking in the wrong places. try for people with the same likings as you?
and as the otherv user said, more info required, mostly on breakup details

Hug for you from me :)
We're gonna be okay lol

Apparently not because i keep bombing any possible good thing that could happen to me

Just now laying in bed and thinking about that one girl that i cannot forget about and its been looong time already

Guys, if a one-night stand you had told you she was pregnant and was 100% certain the baby was yours, how likely is it you would demand she get an abortion?

I wouldnt get laid to begin with
So id assume shes joking and wish good day.

On serious note? Depends.
If i see we can somehow make it work and she isnt just offering her vagina and nothing else potentially then maybe not.

Im against abortion

I understand that feeling of loneliness but moments like those are meant for better understanding what you really desire in a partner as well as straightening out your faults. There is not a day that doesn't go by when I don't feel the brutal force of being single but I have found immense joys in friendship and the numerous people I talk to. If you are lucky, you will find a partner in a good friend who feels the same about you. Don't force anything and enjoy the connections you make.

quite likely, though i aim for more than onses to begin with

What could I say to call him on his bluff?

You're supposed to make a move on your first date.

What are the best sex positions to help the guy last longer? Cowgirl is the best we've tried so far but as the guy I want to be able to put some physical effort in without blowing my load in 30 seconds.

just go for another load,bthis is bound to last you longer. then third, maybe fourth

Women, what would your feelings be if a man displayed psychological issues in public? I was drinking at a friend's apartment and someone said or did something that "triggered" me in the real, psychological sense. Everyone was drunk enough that they didn't notice me having an emotional 'Nam moment, but I went out for a walk without a word and it worried a few people - including a girl I'm into. She has her issues, so she should be sympathetic, but I feel like a fool.

(For the record, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for three years. I'm perfectly calm and collected when discussing it directly, but three or four times in the years since I've been brought back to that emotional state by seemingly unrelated things.)

I would be more worried than weirded out or anything like that. Everyone has their own issues, user. But your described situation would never make me think of you as a 'fool'.

Write "probably more awkward than you" and they'll all go "awww" when they read your bio (assuming you are indeed somewhat attractive).
Also, just try to be friendly and find out if you guys mesh. Flirting helps. It's just banter with a bit of sexual tension; that can be achieved with just the looks you give her.

Just talk less in general

No, absolutely not.

Absolutely not. Best you can get out of me is heavy breaths, or a breathy "fuck".

How do I stop my friends from thinking i'm gay? Even if I had sex they would think i'm bi
Is hitting the gym the only way?

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Fuck them up the ass.

Yes it is weird. Women not having female friends is a red flag

Volunteer
Beef up your resume
Geek out on your hobbies
Do what you usually cant/miss out on during the semester

Pls be in london

This is a tough question: how do I flirt with a woman who's been sexually assaulted? She's been sort of flirty with me, but I don't want to overstep any boundaries because she's been through something (what it is isn't clear). btw I'm not oblivious to red flags.

Also I have no fucking clue how to flirt.

Treat her like she hasn't been sexually assaulted. That's what everyone who's ever been molested, raped, or otherwise, wants.

Eh there's nothing to get jealous of. I had sex two times before I met him and I was like 17, both times were awkward and terrible and it was so quick I genuinely don't remember it.

>Pls be in london
Sorry, I live in a crazy place that using the imperial system.

This is a sex question fueled only by curiosity aimed at either a short fit petite woman or a tall bulky muscular man. Have you ever had sex with the other and what was that like? My brain can’t visualize how that works, like a chihuahua with a big fat dog (i suck at dog breeds)

>ask friend on a date
>says she's looking forward to it
>ugh actually I'm pretty busy. Can I just come by your place for coffee?
>I agree
>I don't make a move
>she asks me when we'll see each other again and starts rattling off her schedule
>tell her I'll have to check and that we should work something out later

>try asking her out again multiple times
>always busy, never offers alternative time
>stop texting her and hear nothing from her in return

If I run into her at a party, worth a shot or just avoid? Should I even talk to her at all when running into her?

I am 5’2, 45kg. My boyfriend is 6’, 95kg, can lift me with one arm. We've had sex a couple times, it wouldn't really work if I wasn't as flexible as I am. It's pretty good yeah.

Guy here, usually not a problem.
This one time though I had a very short girl, and she would not arch her back in doggy. It was impossible for me to stick it in if she didn't tilt her pussy upwards and she wasn't into missionary.
Worst sex of my life.

doesn't matter if it was good or not because some other dude got to take your virginity