My gf has depression and childhood traumas...

My gf has depression and childhood traumas, she had told me that she doesn't has reason to live and wil kill herself when she get 23, she drinks and used to smoke cigarretes also weed but she left it when I got in a trouble selling drugs.
I just want to help and I know that she depends emotionally on me, I also think that she is stagnant in a life stage

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Why 23?

Actually, the arbitrariness of that number suggests she isn't really serious. Why 23 and not 24 or 22 or right now?

I used to say I'd off myself before 25. My 25th came and went. I was pretty depressed but if anything it motivated me to finally sort my shit out... try anyway.

I think that she only want to finish her career

Again, the clue that she's not really suicidal is there. If she's just going to kill herself at the end, why bother completing her studies?

>codependent past 20
They're dead people walking. Unironically just walking fucking corpses attached to YOUR life support.

Either unhook them or be very prepared to go down with them, because they WILL bring you with them REGARDLESS of what they say. That's how it works.

She needs a professional, not you enabling her childish outbursts and tantrums and leverage.

Get her to therapy.

It sounds logical but what happens if she cut herself???

>codependent
How is she?

Do u have lived that? How do I know that Im going down with she

Could it be the part where you mention she's emotionally dependent on you and is suicidal?
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She always is telling me that feels ugly but also is eminently manipulative with everyone. She is authentic with our relationship becausase always she is giving me gifts and drawing myself. She hates go to school and used to meets lot of people and go out every weekend with her bfs. She also get drunk almost every week

>believe a manipulative person's 'genuine' behavior
This is like the anime character who sees the deadass villain with his pencil stache and everything and goes like, "But Antagonistic Bastard was such a good guy! Why did he betray us?"

You aren't helping her, you're enabling her because you're patently retarded. Are you from Europe? Western Europe perhaps?

>she doesn't has reason to live and wil kill herself when she get 23
HAH. I had a similar mindset, but at 25. I'm now 29.

A lot of people into drugs/partying think or hope they'll OD, get murdered, or just kill themselves at a certain age (a lot of incels too, kek). They rarely ever do. It's really just an excuse for them to not try to change, and keep living the way they are. They don't want to think about the fact that they're going to get older and be held accountable for their actions by society (no skills, no money, no experience, no education, possibly a criminal history) and their own bodies (poor health, bad teeth, ashen complexion, maybe even chronic illness like hep C), so repeating to themselves "I'll be dead before then" easily whisks the thought away for a moment. And as they learned in their first rehab stay, if you string together enough moments, you'll make it through the day.

I wouldn't worry too much about her OP. She's going to live a lot longer than she thought, in all likelihood. She's not going to go anywhere in life, but she'll live. I'd honestly dump her and get a better person to share your life with.

What do you think if I have Oedipus Complex and my mom understand she, sometimes saying she is no bad at all. Anyway should I break up her?

Isn't Oedipus wanting to fuck your mom? Does your mom threaten suicide and pump drugs? Anyway, break up with her yes, you're just enabling her idiocy at this point and if she's gonna do it, you may as well at least wash your hands of the business.

I've lived it. I've been the enabler and the codependent one. I'm proud that you want to help. The only thing you can do is urge her to get therapy. Check your state resources, they should have free therapy and help programs if you can't afford it or don't have health insurance. Get her in to see a doctor. You may have to accompany her to her appointments at first, but bring a book to wait in the lobby and eventually she may need able to go on her own. But listen user, if she goes through with all of this and finds herself and her individuality there is a possibility she will leave you. Because she will no longer need you to carry her existence.

Hope this helps.

Thank you user, this helps af

Leave, you can't save her, and you're just enabling her by staying

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Have you tried pimping her out?

What do you mean?

I mean, if she has no future, why ot make some money sell her to dirty old guys or mexicans or incels or just kv's